xeanxyza Posted October 16, 2006 Share Posted October 16, 2006 flings gives spicies to the relationship... you can look at it this way: it'll give you an idea or reasons why you're still with the person you're with or you'll see what other factors youv'e been looking for that's missing in your current partner... just my 2¢... Quote Link to comment
Timon Posted October 16, 2006 Share Posted October 16, 2006 Flings are fine for as long as both parties agree that it IS just a fling. At the first sign of seriousness...STOP! Quote Link to comment
kobeshaq Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Fling?... It depends on how you see it. If it's "fling", you lack "ee" to involve "feeling". If you involve feeling, then you might probably be "falling". Hmmn... just looking around guys!!! Quote Link to comment
cadbury007 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 :flowers: FLING - concealed definition for FuBu (kaipokritohan na lang kung inde yun ang intention ng Fling..) Ok lang ang fling as long as both party knows the limits.. pag meron na feelings.. inde na fling yon... especially me asawa ka... dun na pumapasok ang extra-marital illicit affair. at dun talo ang babae.. Quote Link to comment
Candice Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 ive done making fling so many times na...minsan di maiiwasan na mainlove ka mahirap pag fling fling lang kasi u ask more and more pa Quote Link to comment
tencute Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 fling relationship?it depends but i never wanted to have a fling relationship.,fling cguro pag not worth it ung person,. specially pag playboy xa or playgirl..e di fling!but if the person is sincere and honest to have have a serious relationship,ofcourse.,xmpre hndi dpat fling Quote Link to comment
sweetmind14 Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 No-No for me if you're serious... but if your plan is to play only... go for it... :evil: Quote Link to comment
TNT Hsia Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 I declare publicly ... Never Again! Quote Link to comment
big-poppa-pimp Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 fling spices up ur life...and make things complicated as well...hehehehe but u know if u cannot avoid it it will happen Quote Link to comment
Leonardo007 Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 on certain conditions: 1. the feeling should be mutual (you both wanna be flings) 2. the emotional direction should be the same (whether it be towards serious, stagnant, or drifting apart) flings are still relationships and therefore requires a constant and open communication between the people involved. i think the problem will arise if either one decides to keep things to him/herself... most especially emotions Quote Link to comment
beach_bunny Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 i had one before, he already had a gf that time but na-develop siya sa'kin because lagi kami magkasama (classes, extracurricular activities). in the end i had to end whatever it was because it's unfair both for me and his gf, anyway i didn't want him to choose between the two of us, because for me it was just simply a fling (eh he was becoming too attached) Quote Link to comment
unusual_suspect Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 I would not entertain it.. OUCH! Quote Link to comment
CHINITALOVER Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 Nopes...waste of my time, enery, and money... Quote Link to comment
joggernaut Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 having a fling is not okay, fubu is better than fling hehehe. Quote Link to comment
tedaks Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 siguro fling to and I regret doing it....I received a business card sa phone, hindi ko naman kilala pero sinave ko baka may nagpadala at may message after. Walang dumating na message a few minutes after nag miss call yung number. tinext ko kung sino sya and we started texting. Two days after I challenged her na magpakita sa akin, the next day she did. We talked for had some great conversations. We agreed to see each other on the weekend. On friday night nagtetext kami, tinatanong nya ako kung ano gagawin namin pag nagkita kami. Sabi ko kahit ano.. sabay tanong kung ano ba gusto nyang gawin. Sabi nya stay lang daw kami sa bahay at magkwentuhan. Parang alam ko na kung saan pupunta yung meeting namin the next day. Basta ganun, the next day we met, bumili ng pagkain sa fastfood and then pumunta sa bahay nila. Walang tao sa kanila, had a little conversation and then had sex. Hindi ko naman gawain talaga yun kaya nakonsyensya ako after, although it was exciting, naawa rin ako sa girl. nung gabi she was already asking me sa text kung mahal ko na ba daw sya... of course hindi ko sya masagot, anong aasahan nya sa isang lalake na nakasex nya after meeting him twice? After that nawala yung phone ko and I haven't had contact with her since. Ngayon ni hindi ko na maalala ano name nya... Quote Link to comment
beach_bunny Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 alam mo tedaks may topak yung girl na yun who in their right mind would ask another person kung mahal mo siya after spending only 2 days? are you sure you haven't seen her before? baka mamya may long-time crush pala sa'yo yung girl na yun, hindi mo lang siya napapansin dati^_^ Quote Link to comment
badgurl06 Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 since im single...YES FLING IS FUN...NO COMMITMENT! Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 I've always been the playful but serious type. Guess Quote Link to comment
Mobius Stripper Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 I played as I worked ... to excel but that's all in the past now. Quote Link to comment
erata84 Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 I beleive this type of relationship might be the start... swertihan lang tlga and if super compatible kayo... Quote Link to comment
jaguar_18 Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 I am not into flings pro seems I had one. Initially I wanted him to be my man. Something happened na bigla na lang na-disillusion siya. Right now we're friends, still have connected through text. I'm just tired with the 'play'. What I'm waiting for is for my lifetime partner to come...sana di na siya matagalan pa. Quote Link to comment
the messiah Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 flings add spice to ur life Quote Link to comment
denimhead Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 its like whatever .... Quote Link to comment
denimhead Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 :flowers: FLING - concealed definition for FuBu (kaipokritohan na lang kung inde yun ang intention ng Fling..) Ok lang ang fling as long as both party knows the limits.. pag meron na feelings.. inde na fling yon... especially me asawa ka... dun na pumapasok ang extra-marital illicit affair. at dun talo ang babae.. fubu implies a more regular pattern while a fling is at most a two time thing ... flings lead to fubus .. affairs happen to married people ... so no theyre not all the same thing... Quote Link to comment
quality_checked Posted December 23, 2006 Share Posted December 23, 2006 a fling that turned into something serious and it feels great! Quote Link to comment
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