chelly Posted October 6, 2007 Share Posted October 6, 2007 "fling(s)" as the word connotes is the act of throwing away so at the end of the day...bye bye. sad but true and only a fool will think otherwise. it's possible to fall in love with a fling...or at least be extremely attached to one...but it's not for the soft hearted. brace yourself for a lot of pain. how do i know? with experience comes great wisdom. Quote Link to comment
DonImus Posted October 10, 2007 Share Posted October 10, 2007 Pang-tawid kalungkutan... Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 no. seryoso akong tao pagdating sa relationship...walang fling sa ken...black and white lang, walang grey area.it's either ayaw ko o mahal ko...ganun lang...di pwedeng dahil lang gusto ko. Quote Link to comment
staringatdsun Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 fling--by definition is a physical bond so i wont go for that Quote Link to comment
reimond Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 (edited) hmmm..F -uckL -oveIN the endG -one?!! was that it meant??i'll go for thatCOOOOOL... Edited October 11, 2007 by reimond Quote Link to comment
LawKo Posted October 12, 2007 Share Posted October 12, 2007 kung fling lang, sigurado di yan magtatagal... cguro depende na lang kung madedevelop kayo sa isa't isa... Quote Link to comment
TX Posted October 12, 2007 Share Posted October 12, 2007 ako kung fling e di fling munapero dpat clear ang contract sa both parties na fling lang talaga keopag nagkadevelopan at okey e di GO!pero pag ayaw na bye bye Quote Link to comment
reimond Posted October 13, 2007 Share Posted October 13, 2007 Sa dami ng indecent proposals sa akin, net and in real life (ewan ko ba siguro mukha akong bastusin ).. minsan, naiisip ko to give in lalo na whenever I feel lonely.. kaso di ko pa rin talaga maatim. Parang nakakawala ng respeto sa sarili. Hay, ang manang ko talaga. :hypocritesmiley: hmmmm lapitin ka..doesn't mean bastusin ka..got qualities of a goddess lang siguro...that's cool!!! :cool: Quote Link to comment
kikiluwag Posted November 20, 2007 Share Posted November 20, 2007 fling should always stay 6 mos. pag beyond na, di na maganda. Quote Link to comment
wyette Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 ok lang. as long as malinaw ang role nyo sa isa't isa. and totoo lang kayo sa sarili. pag plastikan na, di na makatao yun. Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 i changed my mind ganun pala yun...pwede pala yun? kaya pala...labo talaga pag greyd wan lang ang naabot mo Quote Link to comment
karen26 Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 kanya kanyang trip siguro yan, i won't settle for flings if ever....just simple, hindi ako pang-ganung tipo ng samahan. i go for serious relationships wherein i can commit myself kahit ano pang status ng guy. kung di nya mai-commit sarili nya atleast ok to have mutual understanding, there should also be rules to follow. flings i cannot see myself doing it with someone i didn't have any relationship with, that's why people have different points of view. Quote Link to comment
yobajnag Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 i think it's quite healthy to have flings at on point in your life.. lalo na pag lonely ka.hehehe.. do what you have to do. just dont hurt her feelings. kaya mahirap din pagkumapit na.. of course, there should always be mutual understanding.. hmmm.. matagal talgal na ko wlang neto ah. Quote Link to comment
Guest JEP0Y Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 i think i'll go on with the fling....specially now that i'm married. Quote Link to comment
b0tlogz Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 aq may mga naka fling..ones nga nakipag break aq sa gf ko dahil sa ka fling ko eh. Quote Link to comment
don26112 Posted December 12, 2007 Share Posted December 12, 2007 had a lot of flings but the problem is if the "feelings" starts out of "flings"... sakit sa ulo. hehehe! :goatee: Quote Link to comment
mysogynist1020 Posted December 12, 2007 Share Posted December 12, 2007 mahirap ang flings...bat di pa kasi totohain na lang para menos hassle Quote Link to comment
yellowmoon Posted December 12, 2007 Share Posted December 12, 2007 nope... :thumbsdownsmiley: mahirap mag-feeling.. mahirap umasa... tapos lagi kang walang karapatan... kasi nga fling lang. Quote Link to comment
castertroy101 Posted December 13, 2007 Share Posted December 13, 2007 I wouldn't mind, but still you run the risk of having a emotions taking over and it becomes serious. Quote Link to comment
knightrm Posted December 13, 2007 Share Posted December 13, 2007 I had this fling relationship 6 months ago.She is a nursing stud. Actually,she has a current bf andi was here f#&king fling. If i wanted to meet her she will text me by telling im still with my bf.Can you text me at this hour?We always do the deed after her bf left her at the boardingf haus.We did it in 3 diffrent occasions. After the 3rd sexual bout she said that she is beginning to fall in love on me.I said that ours wasjust a pure sexual, fling relationship but we ended up still as frends... Two weeks ago i saw her holding hands with her bf at a mall here in our place. I was introducedto her bf.I just smiled and shake her bfs hands but at the back of my mind...i was saying...."poor guy your gf is cheating on you"....lolz.. :goatee: Quote Link to comment
pla2nicguy Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Fling ????? it's the most exciting part but when it involves person you may hurt in the process....think twice for the consequences..... :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
jojobata Posted January 13, 2008 Share Posted January 13, 2008 I was once involved with a girl that we had both agreed to have a good time since we had both just gotten out of serious relationships. After a while she had brought up the possibility of pursuing something serious....I knew I didn't have it in me and she wanted to know right there and then...I told her that I couldn't do it....she asked whether I could just try and I knew in my heart of hearts that I just didn't have it in me at the time. I told her no. Flings could work if you are both in the right mind set otherwise it would just be a game of catch up. I was with also with another girl that we were sexually involved for years but a serious relationship we were not. I told her that I couldn't and later in life tried to finish what she had started to find that she had already moved on.....poor timing on my part......but you can't fight the way you feel and doing the right thing and being honest is not always the easiest thing. It sucks actually.....but I'm told it builds character. Does it? Quote Link to comment
Dodong Schumacher Posted May 16, 2008 Share Posted May 16, 2008 ok lang kasi from highschool to college puro fling lang relationship ko eh... kaya ngayon nahihirapan ako maghanap ng serious relationship Quote Link to comment
aniloz Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 tried it.. pero hirap din kse. magulo. di kse straight relationship e. hirap! Quote Link to comment
chocoboy83 Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 yes :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
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