What Is The Hardest Thing For You To Say...

[gig0l0]

how would you know exactly if your partner is just taking advantage of you?

 

....but it's hard to let go...

 

[innocentbaby23]

for me let them go they doesnt deserve the love you are giving them and besides its easy to say sorry but its hard to fight temptation rigth so if he/she does it to you once she/he could do it again im sure... think of it this way even if you loved them its their lost not yours... cheer up he/she is not the only girl or guy in this world youll fing better one, better than that b***h or b*****d.

[Guest monsterbutt]

"what you dont know wont hurt you.."

 

if my partner found out that i'm cheating on her ass.. then that's my biggest mistake!

[gig0l0]

for me let them go they doesnt deserve the love you are giving them and besides its easy to say sorry but its hard to fight temptation rigth so if he/she does it to you once she/he could do it again im sure... think of it this way even if you loved them its their lost not yours... cheer up he/she is not the only girl or guy in this world youll fing better one, better than that b***h or b*****d.

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tao lang tayo and very capable of making mistakes. that includes you. i'm not saying that you've cheated in any way before, but sooner or later you may...sabi ko nga, tao lang.

 

as said many times, case to case basis siguro. depends on the gravity of the offense. usually naman, if he has done it just once in million years, don't put him down on that single mistake. di ba? meron din naman talagang ibang boys or girls na players... no matter what you do.

 

if you have chosen him to be your guy....then there must be something in him worth keeping. hindi naman siya siguro "just another guy" na madaling palitan.

 

peace po tayo!

[best_X_girlfriend]

"what you dont know wont hurt you.."

 

if my partner found out that i'm cheating on her ass.. then that's my biggest mistake!

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i believe you've quoted my post

 

ako, i found out something and it really cut me so deep.

 

better tell your girl about your extra-co, the earlier, the better. that is, if you really love her.

 

 

tao lang tayo and very capable of making mistakes. that includes you. i'm not saying that you've cheated in any way before, but sooner or later you may...sabi ko nga, tao lang.

 

as said many times, case to case basis siguro. depends on the gravity of the offense. usually naman, if he has done it just once in million years, don't put him down on that single mistake. di ba? meron din naman talagang ibang boys or girls na players... no matter what you do.

 

if you have chosen him to be your guy....then there must be something in him worth keeping. hindi naman siya siguro "just another guy" na madaling palitan.

 

peace po tayo!

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honga, there are people na eventhough how many times they'd hurt you, you'd still want to stay with them. hindi dahil martyr ka, stupid, pathetic, or whatsoever.

 

and if ever that will happen and if i decided to stay, that is because i want to prove something to myself. and the friendship we've built is worth keeping and worth giving chances.

Edited November 8, 2005 by best_X_girlfriend

[Tanya08]

Mas ok pa rin talaga ung wag kang aamin kahit na on the spot e nahuli ka na...

hindi naman sa gusto mong magsinungaling sa girl, pero ayaw mo lang saktan

lalo ung feelings niya.

 

Kasi kapag hindi mo aaminin, ire-retain mo pa rin ung "feeling of doubt" sa girl

na baka nga hindi tutuo na niloloko ka niya, at kahit paano mas okey na ung

feeling na ganyan, kesa kapag totally inamin ng guy, mabubuo na talaga sa

girl ung notion na niloko mo talaga siya, and mas masakit sa girl yun.

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ei, girls are not that stupid.. so dnt make us one. for me mas gusto ko yung aaminin nia saken yung totoo, i dnt care kung gaano pa un kasakit, i jst dnt want him to lie to me.. mas hahanga pko sa knya kse he has the balls to tell the truth..

 

as for me, u dnt have to make me look stupid, nde n kailangang magsinungaling kse ako n mismo ang magpapakatanga para sayo.. kung tlagang mahal kita.. nde kta iiwan khit gaano pa kalaki ung kasalanan mo (nobodys perfect nman in this world, we do make mistakes) basta as long as we still do love each other and still wanted to be together as long as u still wanted to keep the relationship bkt nde dba. ang taong nagmamahal ng totoo nde basta basta gumi-give up. well unless he tells u na ayaw n nia and hes not happy anymore.. then thats the time i'll let him go.. so be honest.

[Tanya08]

ang daming martyr dito ah!  personally, i  have too much pride to forgive a partner who cheated on me.  i dont think i can ever do it.  shed have to be able to move mountains to prove herself worthy of my forgiveness... and when i say move mountains i mean it!  kelangan nya ko ligawan at iyakan.  it will take several months or even years of her courting me while she sees me dating other women... and she better not date anyone while trying to win me back either.  kelangan talaga nya patunayan na she really wants me.  ang lupit ko noh!  well, if they dont want to go through that then they better not cheat on me.

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hi! o0 nga ang lupit mo nga, ako rin ganyan ako dati.. taas ng pride. well i guess cguro nde ka pa tlga nai-inlove ng totoo... kse if you do.. kakainin mo yang cnabe mo.. har har har.

[rdy]

honestly, i will keep the relationship basta mahal ko. tama di muna agad mababalik ang tiwala pero time and years of course babalik din un. and wag mo ng pagusapan ang past.

 

last masakit talaga sa guys pag ang girls ang nagloko di mo matangap **TAMA**. pero pag tayong guys ang nagloko di ba proud pa yabang pa minsan )). un nga lang pag nagkamamali ka na wag mo ng ulitin ulit.

 

peace!!!!

[best_X_girlfriend]

ei, girls are not that stupid.. so dnt make us one. for me mas gusto ko yung aaminin nia saken yung totoo, i dnt care kung gaano pa un kasakit, i jst dnt want him to lie to me.. mas hahanga pko sa knya kse he has the balls to tell the truth..

 

as for me, u dnt have to make me look stupid, nde n kailangang magsinungaling kse ako n mismo ang magpapakatanga para sayo.. kung tlagang mahal kita.. nde kta iiwan khit gaano pa kalaki ung kasalanan mo (nobodys perfect nman in this world, we do make mistakes) basta as long as we still do love each other and still wanted to be together as long as u still wanted to keep the relationship bkt nde dba. ang taong nagmamahal ng totoo nde basta basta gumi-give up. well unless he tells u na ayaw n nia and hes not happy anymore.. then thats the time i'll let him go.. so be honest.

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amen to you, sis

 

people being cheated on wants nothing but honesty and not [lame] alibis. mahuhuli at mahuhuli rin. so aminin nalang kung ikaw yung me kasalanan. di rin maayos kung itatago lang, diba?

 

hi! o0 nga ang lupit mo nga, ako rin ganyan ako dati.. taas ng pride. well i guess cguro nde ka pa tlga nai-inlove ng totoo... kse if you do.. kakainin mo yang cnabe mo.. har har har.

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di naman sa kakainin yung sinabi. siguro, mas mag-iisip ka rin para sa inyong dalawa kaya di mo magagawa yung mga nasabi mo na gagawin mo once you caught him cheating. ako, i was so ready to burn the crowning glory of that ugly ogre. but i realized, cheap na nga yung magpagamit sya sa bf ko, lalabas na mas cheap ako kung papatulan ko sya. i can, but i chose not to do it. in that way, i still proved to her that she messed with the wrong person. at mas malakas pa sa sampal yung ginawa ko na pamukha sa kanya na, she doesnt have any right to act that way, since pinagparausan lang naman sya.

 

keeping the person who cheated is not stupidity, i believe. it only proves that you [can] enhance your capablity to understand this kind of mistake. bilib ako sa mga taong ganon, so brave.

 

 

honestly, i will keep the relationship basta mahal ko. tama di  muna agad mababalik ang tiwala pero time and years of course babalik din un. and wag mo ng pagusapan ang past.

 

last masakit talaga sa guys pag ang girls ang nagloko di mo matangap **TAMA**. pero pag tayong guys ang nagloko di ba proud pa yabang pa minsan )). un nga lang pag nagkamamali ka na wag mo ng ulitin ulit.

 

peace!!!!

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wag lang talaga mauulit. hanggang dun nalang yung kaya ng pasensya e

[gig0l0]

ei, girls are not that stupid.. so dnt make us one. for me mas gusto ko yung aaminin nia saken yung totoo, i dnt care kung gaano pa un kasakit, i jst dnt want him to lie to me.. mas hahanga pko sa knya kse he has the balls to tell the truth..

 

as for me, u dnt have to make me look stupid, nde n kailangang magsinungaling kse ako n mismo ang magpapakatanga para sayo.. kung tlagang mahal kita.. nde kta iiwan khit gaano pa kalaki ung kasalanan mo (nobodys perfect nman in this world, we do make mistakes) basta as long as we still do love each other and still wanted to be together as long as u still wanted to keep the relationship bkt nde dba. ang taong nagmamahal ng totoo nde basta basta gumi-give up. well unless he tells u na ayaw n nia and hes not happy anymore.. then thats the time i'll let him go.. so be honest.

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we're not making you look stupid. ang amin lang, we're trying to manage the situation. for me, it's a case to case basis. sometimes, it's better to admit that you're cheating. pero meron namang times na in order to save your relationship, itago mo na lang. someone here said, "what you dont know, wont hurt you." for me it's true, both for men and women. basta for me, whether to admit my mistake or not, depends on the situation and my partner.

 

i agree 100% that if you love someone, you can accept him, as in the total person, including all the mistakes and not so good past. part of loving is getting hurt. if you've never been hurt, you probably are not genuinely in love.

 

i've been cheated before. depite what my partner did, i loved her back.

 

[gig0l0]

ei, girls are not that stupid.. so dnt make us one. for me mas gusto ko yung aaminin nia saken yung totoo, i dnt care kung gaano pa un kasakit, i jst dnt want him to lie to me.. mas hahanga pko sa knya kse he has the balls to tell the truth..

 

as for me, u dnt have to make me look stupid, nde n kailangang magsinungaling kse ako n mismo ang magpapakatanga para sayo.. kung tlagang mahal kita.. nde kta iiwan khit gaano pa kalaki ung kasalanan mo (nobodys perfect nman in this world, we do make mistakes) basta as long as we still do love each other and still wanted to be together as long as u still wanted to keep the relationship bkt nde dba. ang taong nagmamahal ng totoo nde basta basta gumi-give up. well unless he tells u na ayaw n nia and hes not happy anymore.. then thats the time i'll let him go.. so be honest.

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we're not making you look stupid. ang amin lang, we're trying to manage the situation. for me, it's a case to case basis. sometimes, it's better to admit that you're cheating. pero meron namang times na in order to save your relationship, itago mo na lang. someone here said, "what you dont know, wont hurt you." for me it's true, both for men and women. basta for me, whether to admit my mistake or not, depends on the situation and my partner.

 

i agree 100% that if you love someone, you can accept him, as in the total person, including all the mistakes and not so good past. part of loving is getting hurt. if you've never been hurt, you probably are not genuinely in love. or if you are truly in love, expect to get hurt....

 

i've been cheated before. depite what my partner did, i loved her back.

 

[Tanya08]

we're not making you look stupid. ang amin lang, we're trying to manage the situation. for me, it's a case to case basis. sometimes, it's better to admit that you're cheating. pero meron namang times na in order to save your relationship, itago mo na lang. someone here said, "what you dont know, wont hurt you." for me it's true, both for men and women. basta for me, whether to admit my mistake or not, depends on the situation and my partner.

 

i agree 100% that if you love someone, you can accept him, as in the total person, including all the mistakes and not so good past. part of loving is getting hurt. if you've never been hurt, you probably are not genuinely in love.

 

i've been cheated before. depite what my partner did, i loved her back.

 

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im saying pag nabuking na at tinatanong na eh umamin na.. pero kung nde nman, tama ka wag n lng sabihin on my point of view ayoko n ring alamin, kung nde ko alam at nde rin lng maganda e wag n lng sabihin.. tama ka its a case to case basis...

[boy popoy]

hi! o0 nga ang lupit mo nga, ako rin ganyan ako dati.. taas ng pride. well i guess cguro nde ka pa tlga nai-inlove ng totoo... kse if you do.. kakainin mo yang cnabe mo.. har har har.

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maybe your right, kinda like what switlass said in an earlier post, maybe i havent met anyone who i loved more than myself. i dont think ill ever let that happen though. i dont agree with those who say you should love with all your heart. i think you should love with all your heart and a bit of your mind too. if your being taken for granted, then you should realize that even if you love the person, it might be better for you in the long run to let go.

[boy popoy]

i also dont agree with some people here saying things like "lahat naman ng tao NAGKAKAMALI..."

 

cheating is not a mistake, its a choice.

[gig0l0]

im saying pag nabuking na at tinatanong na eh umamin na.. pero kung nde nman, tama ka wag n lng sabihin on my point of view ayoko n ring alamin, kung nde ko alam at nde rin lng maganda e wag n lng sabihin.. tama ka its a case to case basis...

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amen...

 

let's just hope and pray that this doesnt happen to one of us.