Proud To Be Fat?

[black cat]

Ideally speaking, I agree with what you posted missmanners.. but that's not what's happening in the real world (writer ka nga.. bagay ka pumalit kay Hans Christian Andersen.. bravo! :cool: ). Please also refer to Lord Zagato's post.

 

By the way, I'm not stupid not to notice that your post was dripping with sarcasm.. no matter how you mask it with niceties (tupperware yata tawag dun in layman's term ).. since from the start up till the end that you called for a truce, you have judged what kind of person I am though you don't really know me. Coming from a person who's advocating for equal opportunities.. that doesn't seem to fit the equation. Have you ever tried practicing what you preach? I could go on and slap you with all my achievements (well, that's aside from having a great body... hehehe), but as you have indicated, I'm sitting comfortably my pretty ass (take note, my pretty ass ) on a high horse to ever stoop down to your level. Hey, at least the horse can take on my weight!

 

Uh oh.. sorry that you do not have a monopoly on sarcasm, my sexy friend. And you know what... you don't have to be so smart just to learn how to be civilized. Have a nice day mis.. errr... missmanners.

[black cat]

Read: I am not proud that I am fat but I am proud that I can make myself  successful even if I am fat.

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That's good. Of course, all we need is pure determination and hard work to get what we want. Cheers to you sistah! :cool:

 

By the way, if I may suggest, pinaka-effective pa rin yun eat at least 6 times a day.. in small quantities ha. If you could avoid eating fatty foods (anything fried tska taba ng pork) and non-complex carbos (sweets).. better. After 6 also works. Kung di mo kaya hindi kumain after 6, at least wag ka na mag-rice. Mas mabagal ang pag-lose mo ng weight, mas matagal to bumalik. So, slow but surely dapat. Learn to eat sensibly and exercise (kahit twice a week lang)... concentrate ka muna sa cardio till ma-reach mo yun desirable body weight mo tska ka mag-body toning (weights). If you want to learn more, may topic na "diet" dito rin sa health and fitness section. Goodluck!

[missmanners]

Ideally speaking, I agree with what you posted missmanners.. but that's not what's happening in the real world (writer ka nga.. bagay ka pumalit kay Hans Christian Andersen.. bravo!  :cool: ).  Please also refer to Lord Zagato's post.

 

By the way, I'm not stupid not to notice that your post was dripping with sarcasm.. no matter how you mask it with niceties (tupperware yata tawag dun in layman's term   ).. since from the start up till the end that you called for a truce, you have judged what kind of person I am though you don't really know me.  Coming from a person who's advocating for equal opportunities..  that doesn't seem to fit the equation.  Have you ever tried practicing what you preach? I could go on and slap you with all my achievements (well, that's aside from having a great body... hehehe), but as you have indicated, I'm sitting comfortably my pretty ass (take note, my pretty ass ) on a high horse to ever stoop down to your level.  Hey, at least the horse can take on my weight! 

 

Uh oh.. sorry that you do not have a monopoly on sarcasm, my sexy friend. And you know what... you don't have to be so smart just to learn how to be civilized. Have a nice day mis.. errr... missmanners. 

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oh i can write wonderful fiction as well, miss black cat. you'd be happy to know that.

 

and i have no doubt either that you have a brain that is capable of sarcasm. you proved that many times over. just obviously not a brain capable of understanding.

 

but hey, you seem to have everything worked out for you. as you said, you have many achievements you want to slap me with... a husband that's overweight but who puts up with you anyway... and a sexy body that i'm sure is worthy of an fhm centerfold. good for you!

 

i don't have to know you, miss black cat. i pride myself in knowing some of the most brilliant and wonderful people on this earth. people who don't just accept conventions and choose to swim. people who are brave enough to say we will fight for our ideals because that's what the world needs now.

 

there is nothing wrong with idealism. i'm happy viewing the world through my rose-colored glasses. so i don't have to know you, miss black cat. my judgement of you was sealed as soon as you opened your mouth in this thread. and i also won't apologize for whatever it is you think i called you. i do practice what i preach. i treat people with respect and consideration, no matter how they look. but when people are proud of their dumb opinions, i just feel the need to slap them silly. as i said, i don't mind stupidity. but when people are proud of it, that is just plain wrong.

 

which makes me think i am doubly stupid for having replied to you as often as i have.

 

enjoy your wonderful life, miss black cat.

 

and that is the end of that.

 

btw, lord zagato, i don't think equal opportunity is a law here yet. obviously our society is not sophisticated enough to be as accepting of each other as some countries are. this online community is evidence of that.

 

but i am glad to hear that this is catching on. those in the job market need to know that it is their abilities and talents that matter.

 

mr. hotrod, i write for several magazines and newspapers. suffice it to say that my thoughts and opinions were judged intelligent enough to appear on our major dailies and high-profile glossies.

[black cat]

oh i can write wonderful fiction as well, miss black cat. you'd be happy to know that.

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HAHAHAHAHA! You didn't even have to indicate that my sexy friend.. it was soooo obvious that you are really very imaginative.

 

Huy teka, I'll give you a tip sistah.... try to trim your oversized belly este ego pala (sabagay, pareho na rin yun) so you can find a real boyfriend (instead na imaginary lang).. bakasakali mabawasan ang pagiging cranky mo.

 

Good day ill... errrrr miss manners!

 

Going back to the topic... who says life is fair? It isn't... so, why fight it? Instead, just go with the flow and maximize the benefits of being attractive coupled with having a good brain and a good heart. Ang good brain and heart kse di naman kagad nakikita yan.. kung baga, kung pwede rin lang pakyawin lahat para mas "liyamado" ka sa bakbakan sa buhay... bakit hinde? Hindi ba okey na game plan yun? Kailangan naman kse MAPANSIN ka muna bago mo maipakita na meron kang good brain at good heart eh.

 

So... stay fit and healthy! May bonus pa na mas attractive kang tingnan... usually, yun "iba" na di ganong attractive (hindi ko nilalahat ha.. ang mag-react, guilty! ), pansin ko galit sila sa mundo kse sinisisi nila ang genes nila bakit sila less attractive. Bakit naman isisisi mo sa genes mo.. gawan mo na lang ng paraan! At least, di mo kailangan gumastos para sa mga hindi mo kakilala para lang mapansin ka at mapakita mo ang good brain and heart mo... hindi mo kailangan ipagpilitan ang sarili mo sa isang grupo maski nire-reject ka... and lastly, di mo kailangan i-offer ang bahay mo sa mga strangers para lang ma-accept ka sa isang grupo at magkaron ka ng mga kaibigan (how pathetic).

 

Who says life is fair again?

[missmanners]

this whole experience has come to a point where it's become painful. insinuations have been posted as truths here. insinuations which are completely baseless and untrue.

 

and others have joined in as well in the name calling...

 

when i started posting here, it was never about me. i was never defending me. like i said, i'm happy with my life, including how i look. i was raised well and was taught to not only respect others but myself. i came in here in behalf of those people who couldn't speak for themselves... those people who have been perennially misunderstood and mistreated.

 

i don't know when this mudslinging start having heat-seeking missiles aimed directly at the core of my person or miss black cat's but if it was me who initiated it or caused it, i am sorry.

 

but i stand by my word. there is nothing wrong with idealism. there is nothing wrong with fighting against convention. strength of character is proven when we deal with ordinary situations extraordinarily. what is wrong with going the extra mile and fighting against the common misconception that life isn't fair anyway? what is wrong in saying that everyone deserves the same chances in life whatever they look like?

 

but as it is, i have only proven to myself yet again, that some people are by nature mean-spirited... and will even come up with lies and rub them in everyone's face as truth.

 

i don't have to explain myself to anyone here. those who know me know the truth. so believe what you want to believe.

 

this thread has lost its relevance. i will notify a mod or an admin at once to rectify the situation.

[black cat]

but i stand by my word. there is nothing wrong with idealism. there is nothing wrong with fighting against convention. strength of character is proven when we deal with ordinary situations extraordinarily. what is wrong with going the extra mile and fighting against the common misconception that life isn't fair anyway? what is wrong in saying that everyone deserves the same chances in life whatever they look like?

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Oh... welcome back missmanners!

 

Of course there is nothing wrong with idealism. We all have our own way of living our life.. to each his own lang yan. Problem with you, you're too intelligent to accept the fact that people don't think alike. There's a way to post your views without having to insult those whose views differ from yours.

 

Why would you want this topic closed? This is one good example how two people with different body type handle agitation. Let them decide which path to take.

 

Cheer up.. this is only a board/forum.. there is life outside this board.

 

 

Sound Body, Sound Mind.

[missmanners]

Oh... welcome back missmanners!

 

Of course there is nothing wrong with idealism.  We all have our own way of living our life.. to each his own lang yan.  Problem with you, you're too intelligent to accept the fact that people don't think alike.  There's a way to post your views without having to insult those whose views differ from yours. 

 

Why would you want this topic closed? This is one good example how two people with different body type handle agitation.  Let them decide which path to take.

 

Cheer up.. this is only a board/forum.. there is life outside this board. 

Sound Body, Sound Mind.

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exactly what is my body type, miss black cat? did i ever give any indication of which type i fall in?

 

body type does not dictate what kind of brain you're going to have. is this even medically explainable?

 

i never said i wanted this topic closed. i just said it's lost its relevance... names are being called left and right... "pathetic"... "stupid"... "fat"... do these things have anything to do with the topic at hand?

 

i am not agitated. i am hurt. because everything you implied about me was deliberately hurtful and insulting and most of all untrue.

 

even if it's not true, the fact remains that it brought pain.

 

which is why i wish to end my participation in this now.

 

there is indeed life outside the board, miss black cat. mine is full and rewarding and blessed. i wish the same for you. and this time, i mean it.

[black cat]

mine is full and rewarding and blessed.

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Hahaha!

 

Trying to convince yourself again missmanners?

 

Alam mo ba yun "bato bato sa langit"? Pag tinamaan ka, natural aaray ka.

 

Pathetic.. tinamaan ka rin? tsk tsk tsk.. now I wonder pano ka naging happy.

[black cat]

exactly what is my body type, miss black cat? did i ever give any indication of which type i fall in?

 

body type does not dictate what kind of brain you're going to have. is this even medically explainable?

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You're fat? Well, that's how your so-called brilliant-minded friends describe you.

 

Oo pag mataba ka, di marami kang cholesterol.. di madali ka rin uminit ang ulo. Yan.. medically explainable yan. Magpa-BP ka kaya.

Edited February 24, 2005 by black cat

[missmanners]

Hahaha!

 

Trying to convince yourself again missmanners? 

 

Alam mo ba yun "bato bato sa langit"?  Pag tinamaan ka, natural aaray ka. 

 

Pathetic.. tinamaan ka rin? tsk tsk tsk.. now I wonder pano ka naging happy. 

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i really don't care to continue this.

 

convince yourslef how pathetic i am, miss black cat.

 

i wave my white flag in defeat. i simply have no time or energy to devote to this kind of mental disturbance.

 

i took the initiative to say let's end this, and even wished you well.

 

and what did you do but laugh at it and throw it back to me?

 

oh well. ikaw na rin nagsabi, to each his own. it's evident you're happy the way you are. who am i to say that you shouldn't be di ba?

 

and who are you to say that i am not?

 

so like i said, i don't care to continue this.

 

think what you want.

[missmanners]

You're fat? Well, that's what your so-called brilliant-minded friends describe you.

 

Oo pag mataba ka, di marami kang cholesterol.. di madali ka rin uminit ang ulo.   Yan.. medically explainable yan.  Magpa-BP ka kaya.

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btw, thanks for taking time out to check up on me. i never thought i'd be worthy of your time... to even talk about me beyond this thread.

 

and thanks for bringing to my attention the behavior of these so-called friends of mine.

 

the doors of my house are open to whomever wants to come inside. i never forced people to go in. now, apparently, some unwanted characters were able to infiltrate and convince me of their friendship. thank you, miss black cat. for now i will exercise precaution with whom i choose to let inside my house.

[sweetmia]

i dont get this thread..

 

who gave anyone the authority to decide what one should or should not be proud of?

 

[black cat]

i took the initiative to say let's end this, and even wished you well.

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Come on missmanners.. you make it seem like inaapi kita. Ikaw naman nag-umpisa eh.. I even said I'm sorry if I have offended you but you wouldn't stop. Now, I'm giving you what you want.. umaatras ka? At panay pa ang paalam mo.. pero andito ka pa rin.

 

Kung pintasan ka sa physical attribute mo, wala kang magagawa.. sa yun ang tingin sa yo eh.. iba iba naman kse ang tingin ng tao (beauty is relative nga di ba)... but to pre-judge one's character.. that is absolutely uncalled for.

 

Dati pa kita pinagtanong.. sa flirt thread pa lang.. I was curious kse how you look like.. kse the manner by which you post, parang maganda ka eh. Kaya ayun, noon ko pa nalaman na mataba ka.

[Guest chunky]

hahaha maybe we should ask the audience!!!

a fat in a hat?

 

or a  hot cat ?

 

  :evil: 

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Maybe instead of goading and egging the two to fight, us gentlemen can ask them to tone it down a wee bit?

 

May we all continue discussing the TOPIC: PROUD TO BE FAT.

 

Black Cat, I haven't met you, so I'm not really sure of your weight stature, but contrary to what you've said, WEIGHT is not an indication of one's cholesterol level and predisposition to hotheadedness.

 

You have said what you wanted to say, and I think it's high time you let the discussion flow on its own, without your sarcasm. If you are not fat, what are you doing here?

 

No, it's a rhetorical question, you need not answer it.

 

 

MissManners, It's better I think that you lay back for a while.

 

 

On that note, may I request the personal attacks to cease? {puts on mod hat}

 

Any off-topic posts after this note shall be deleted.

[Guest chunky]

Since I'm here anyway....

 

Not all Fat people are unhealthy.

 

Not all Slim and trim people are healthy.

 

Not all diets ensure that one can be healthy.

 

Some people eat heavily (like myself and a few others I know), but remain slim without the <benefits> of debilitating conditions such as anorexia nervosa and bohemia.

 

Some people ARE genetically predisposed to being on the broadside, and some are not.

 

As such, WEIGHT is not a clear indication of one's health, and eating a healthy is a double-edge sword.