lonelyhubby Posted January 21, 2016 Share Posted January 21, 2016 past is past hehe, what is important is the present Quote Link to comment
goose101 Posted January 22, 2016 Share Posted January 22, 2016 As long as they don't have any std its not important at all Quote Link to comment
SpaceGrey Posted January 22, 2016 Share Posted January 22, 2016 cleanliness, basehan dn yun pra makilala partner Quote Link to comment
t3sla Posted January 22, 2016 Share Posted January 22, 2016 Napanuod nyo ba yung ex with benefits? yung character ni coleen, she sleeps around to reach her target quota. Malaman nyo na ganun, okay pa din sa inyo? Thoughts Quote Link to comment
filibustero Posted January 22, 2016 Share Posted January 22, 2016 Napanuod nyo ba yung ex with benefits? yung character ni coleen, she sleeps around to reach her target quota. Malaman nyo na ganun, okay pa din sa inyo? ThoughtsKung kamukha ni Coleen yung girl, would you even mind? Quote Link to comment
j Posted January 22, 2016 Author Share Posted January 22, 2016 As long as they don't have any std its not important at allnice!Napanuod nyo ba yung ex with benefits? yung character ni coleen, she sleeps around to reach her target quota. Malaman nyo na ganun, okay pa din sa inyo? Thoughtswould the type of relationship matter? Quote Link to comment
happybloke Posted January 23, 2016 Share Posted January 23, 2016 Before you ask your partner that question, review your past first Quote Link to comment
j Posted January 23, 2016 Author Share Posted January 23, 2016 Not really. But if it's more than the fingers can count, you gotta have second thoughts.on one hand or two? Quote Link to comment
j Posted January 23, 2016 Author Share Posted January 23, 2016 cleanliness, basehan dn yun pra makilala partnerphysical cleanliness? Quote Link to comment
j Posted January 23, 2016 Author Share Posted January 23, 2016 past may be past, but are we not interested in how that affects the present? Quote Link to comment
j Posted January 23, 2016 Author Share Posted January 23, 2016 (edited) Before you ask your partner that question, review your past firstdoes this mean if you have a checkered past you should not ask about your partners' past? what if you present your past or are willing to, can you ask your partner to do the same? what if your past is "clean" can you ask about your partner's? what if your partner asks first? Edited January 23, 2016 by j Quote Link to comment
happybloke Posted January 24, 2016 Share Posted January 24, 2016 does this mean if you have a checkered past you should not ask about your partners' past? what if you present your past or are willing to, can you ask your partner to do the same? what if your past is "clean" can you ask about your partner's? what if your partner asks first?It means that you should be able to come clean when that time comes or if you know you have a shady past why ask for her history? In the end, if you really love her, her past shouldn't really matter and whatever it may be(past), you should accept her regardless of any negatives Quote Link to comment
j Posted January 25, 2016 Author Share Posted January 25, 2016 pragmatism vs idealism Quote Link to comment
t3sla Posted January 25, 2016 Share Posted January 25, 2016 Another question specially to the gentlemen here,I know it's easy for people to say na "kapag mahal mo wala ka ng pakialam sa past nya" but of course, you can't help but get affected a bit knowing na your sweet girlfriend or girlfriend-to-be had a history. (Ex. one night stand, did it inside the car with an ex boyfriend etc.) How do you guys cope up with this or how do you fully accept her past?Kung kamukha ni Coleen yung girl, would you even mind? Haha sabagay sir! On the serious note, most likely mag w-wonder ka pa din kung gano kadami yung na "ice cream technique" nya haha.. Quote Link to comment
jgc813 Posted January 25, 2016 Share Posted January 25, 2016 I am somewhat appalled by those who say that the past sexual history doesn't matter. 1. We are talking about SEXUAL HISTORY, and we're not passing any judgments whether it refers to being shady, slutty, polygamous, cheating, etc. The judgment will depend on the each one, and I suppose the conclusion will be based on "an informed choice," and not "a blind one." Besides, how can there be "an acceptance" if there is no prior knowledge. One can only claim "the past is not important as long as there is love" when there is knowledge of the past. Acceptance is taking-in the person despite one's past. Is there such a thing as "blind acceptance?" Isn't that foolish? 2. Many have been saying the past is not a problem as long as "one is clean." I assume being 'clean' means free from any STI at the very least. So how can you know for sure not unless you would know the history? And knowing one's past sexual history is not even a guarantee that one is 'clean.' Then, again, doesn't a person who has had several sexual partners be more of a risk than one who has had just one? It boils down to making an informed choice, not a blind one. 3. There is a difference if someone just came from a monogamous sexual relationship from another who has had simultaneous multiple sexual relationships. Likewise, even if the sexual relationship was monogamous, there is a difference between one who has had a long-term sexual relationship compared to someone who has had several continuous short-termed sexual relationships. 4. One doesn't need to go through a check-list of questions in order to know the past sexual relationships. There are many ways of knowing. You don't have to be an investigator for you to know something. Unless you just want to throw caution to the wind, then, go ahead. Jump into bed with just anyone without knowing his/her past sexual history. Quote Link to comment
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