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Nasa ganitong sitwasyon din ako sir. Pero sa ngayon medyo nakahinga ako ng maluwag kasi temporarily wala na siya sa work niya. Ang pinoproblema ko ngayon baka pag nagigipit siya e magpa-walk siya kaya pag nangyayari yung ganun e ako na lang sumasalo ng pangangailangan niya wag niya lang gagawin yon. Hindi ko nga lang alam kung anong ginagawa niya pag hindi kami nagkikita... Pero may tiwala naman ako sa kanya. At talagang sinusubukan kong habaan ang aking pasensya. Ngayon medyo nasa-sacrifice ang lifestyle ko, financial stability, dagdagan mo pa ng stress, anxiety, etc. Ilang beses na kong naghahanap ng trabaho para sa kanya pero ang hirap maghanap dahil sa qualifications, kahit small business inaalukan ko siya pero baka hindi niya daw kaya. Kulang na lang siguro paaralin ko siya. Medyo nakakabaliw talaga pag na in-love. Ilang beses na kong sinasabihan ng pamilya ko na hindi madali yung pinapasok ko pero pinagpipilitan ko pa rin ang gusto ko. Sana magbunga itong sinasakripisyo ko ngayon.

Buti ka pa sir at kayo pa rin. Kami recently lang wala na dahil nahuli ko siya with someone lumabas ng apartelle. Though I still try to communicate with her pa rin kahit hindi na dapat dahil sa nangyari. Yun nga lang recently na-ttempt ako pumunta sa workplace nya or hire a decoy or something just to validate kung dun talaga sya nagwwork and doing ES. Na-trigger kasi sya one time nung banggitin ko na dumaan ako sa work nya para kausapin sya since she tried to block me one time via call and text kaya going there lang ang way ko para makausap sya.

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Buti ka pa sir at kayo pa rin. Kami recently lang wala na dahil nahuli ko siya with someone lumabas ng apartelle. Though I still try to communicate with her pa rin kahit hindi na dapat dahil sa nangyari. Yun nga lang recently na-ttempt ako pumunta sa workplace nya or hire a decoy or something just to validate kung dun talaga sya nagwwork and doing ES. Na-trigger kasi sya one time nung banggitin ko na dumaan ako sa work nya para kausapin sya since she tried to block me one time via call and text kaya going there lang ang way ko para makausap sya.

Actually wala pang "kami", nagpapaligaw pa lang siya. Open naman ako sa family niya. Ayun nga lang sana hindi nagte-take advantage. Lalo ngayong marami siyang time, madalas din siyang lumabas. Kahit na pinakilala niya ko sa family niya, hindi ko naman kilala ang mga kaibigan at barkada niya. At hindi niya ko ina-add dun sa isang FB account niya which is ayaw ko namang pwersahin siya na i-add ako. Buo ang tiwala ko sa kanya, sana lang walang lokohan kasi kahit ilang beses na siya naloko ng ibang lalaki, wag naman niyang i-lahat yon. Ako yung tipo na seryoso sa ganitong bagay.

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Actually wala pang "kami", nagpapaligaw pa lang siya. Open naman ako sa family niya. Ayun nga lang sana hindi nagte-take advantage. Lalo ngayong marami siyang time, madalas din siyang lumabas. Kahit na pinakilala niya ko sa family niya, hindi ko naman kilala ang mga kaibigan at barkada niya. At hindi niya ko ina-add dun sa isang FB account niya which is ayaw ko namang pwersahin siya na i-add ako. Buo ang tiwala ko sa kanya, sana lang walang lokohan kasi kahit ilang beses na siya naloko ng ibang lalaki, wag naman niyang i-lahat yon. Ako yung tipo na seryoso sa ganitong bagay.

Halos parehas pala tayo ng pinagdadaanan. Open din kami both sides, family and friends. Nag-iipon na nga kami for wedding maybe in a year or two kasi I want to show na seryoso talaga ako sa kanya. Even her family wants her to settle down na kasi may mga anak na rin sya at magkaibang ama pa. Kahit na ganun eh buong-buo ko silang tinanggap at pinakilala. Kaya nga ngayon eh may nga anxiety attacks pa rin ako sa office, sabayan mo pa ng stress kaya recently napapa-sick leave nlng ako para di maapektuhan ang trabaho ko. Hopefully umalis na rin sya dito sa ganitong field since college grad naman sya at kayang maghanap pa ng ibang work. I really can't blame her if she really needs some easy money just for her kids.

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Nasa ganitong sitwasyon din ako sir. Pero sa ngayon medyo nakahinga ako ng maluwag kasi temporarily wala na siya sa work niya. Ang pinoproblema ko ngayon baka pag nagigipit siya e magpa-walk siya kaya pag nangyayari yung ganun e ako na lang sumasalo ng pangangailangan niya wag niya lang gagawin yon. Hindi ko nga lang alam kung anong ginagawa niya pag hindi kami nagkikita... Pero may tiwala naman ako sa kanya. At talagang sinusubukan kong habaan ang aking pasensya. Ngayon medyo nasa-sacrifice ang lifestyle ko, financial stability, dagdagan mo pa ng stress, anxiety, etc. Ilang beses na kong naghahanap ng trabaho para sa kanya pero ang hirap maghanap dahil sa qualifications, kahit small business inaalukan ko siya pero baka hindi niya daw kaya. Kulang na lang siguro paaralin ko siya. Medyo nakakabaliw talaga pag na in-love. Ilang beses na kong sinasabihan ng pamilya ko na hindi madali yung pinapasok ko pero pinagpipilitan ko pa rin ang gusto ko. Sana magbunga itong sinasakripisyo ko ngayon.

Nakaka praning tlga yan. Sa normal relationship nga lng, kunwari commercial model gf mo at marming kasama na lalaking model e masisiraan ka na ng ulo, pano pa kayo ung sa tulad nila na trabaho nila na sumama sa ibang lalaki.. Well yun lng tlga ang magagawa mo, ang magtiwala sa kanya. Kaya you always have to have something for you. In as much as you are ready to help anytime and everytime for her, you should always be ready to let go of her anytime para walang sakitan ng feelings. Ibigay mo lng ing gusto mong ibigay hindi ung kaya mong ibigay. And kung walang ibunga e d ayus lng, at least naging happy ka.. Well happy ka nga ba? Baka naman hindi baka naman miserable ka pa dahil sa mga iniisip mo e wag mo nlng ituloy kasi ano pa ang kailangan mo sa kanya pag ganun....

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Halos parehas pala tayo ng pinagdadaanan. Open din kami both sides, family and friends. Nag-iipon na nga kami for wedding maybe in a year or two kasi I want to show na seryoso talaga ako sa kanya. Even her family wants her to settle down na kasi may mga anak na rin sya at magkaibang ama pa. Kahit na ganun eh buong-buo ko silang tinanggap at pinakilala. Kaya nga ngayon eh may nga anxiety attacks pa rin ako sa office, sabayan mo pa ng stress kaya recently napapa-sick leave nlng ako para di maapektuhan ang trabaho ko. Hopefully umalis na rin sya dito sa ganitong field since college grad naman sya at kayang maghanap pa ng ibang work. I really can't blame her if she really needs some easy money just for her kids.

Ouch.. Tapos nahuli mo pang lumabas sa apartelle, tapos naka block ka pa.. Well... Real talk, hindi dahil ikaw ang nanunuyo e ikaw lang parati ang magbibigay, sometimes you also have to demand some things, at kung hindi nya kaya un despite na madali lng nmn para sa kanya yun, parang gesture of good will ba, e hindi two way ang relationship nyo.. Its just you loving her lang yun... Plus, marrying someone does not mean na hindi na cya magtataksil syo or gagawa ng ganyan.. Kaya you really have to resolve some things before you think about marrying her... Or anakan mo nlng dn.... Hehehehehehe... Joke lang, kawawa naman cya pag magka anak pa cya tpos tatakbuhan mo lang technical foul yun... Hehehhe

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Masarap mainlove.. Pero masakit at mahirap umasa..

Just enjoy the moment with the thera that you really like...

 

That's right..... just enjoy every moment with the therapist.... at the end of the day pera lang ang gusto nila.... nothing else....NO offense sa kanla...

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Starting to fall in love din sa isang thera nang nag bakasyon ako sa pinas kamakailan lang, bumalik na ako sa bansang pinag ttrabahuhan ko, i got her number after i visited her 2 times we have communication and sinabi ko sakanya na pag balik ko ng pinas makikipag kita ulit ako sakanya.

 

Ok nmn ang mga kilig conversations namin sabi nya hinde nmn daw nya binibigay ang number nya sa iba or ineentertain cla feeling special nmn ako,

di nya rin daw gusto mag tagal sa ganung trabaho at nag iipon lng sya para makapag abroad din.

 

Tangap ko nmn ung nature ng work nya and syempre alam nmn nating may mga ibang lalaki din sya nakikilala kaya mahirap din talaga at parang may mga bagay din syang tinatago although naging honest nmn ako. Tapos nabasa ko ang mga istoryang na napost dito sa MTC kaya medyo unti unting nagbago na ang aking mga pananaw.

 

para sakanya ang kantang ito "Torete"

 

Sandali na lang
Maari bang pagbigyan
Aalis na nga
Maaari bang hawakan ang iyong mga kamay
Sana ay maabot ng langit ang iyong mga ngiti
Sana ay masilip

Wag kang mag-alala
Di ko ipipilit sa 'yo
Kahit na lilipad ang isip ko'y torete sa 'yo

Ilang gabi pa nga lang
Nang tayo'y pinagtagpo
Na parang may tumulak
Nanlalamig, nanginginig na ako

Akala ko nung una
May bukas ang ganito
Mabuti pang umiwas
Pero salamat na rin at nagtagpo

Torete, torete, torete ako
Torete, torete, torete sa 'yo

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Paano kung during the session sabay kayo nagcum tapos napabulong sayo si thera o psp na "i love you" hihihihi

 

 

That's right..... just enjoy every moment with the therapist.... at the end of the day pera lang ang gusto nila.... nothing else....NO offense sa kanla...

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Paano kung during the session sabay kayo nagcum tapos napabulong sayo si thera o psp na "i love you" hihihihi

 

 

 

Isipin ko na lang roleplay yun... I mean I think marami na rin nagsasabi niyang I love you na yan.... minsan nga nga hindi walk ang tawag eh ahahahaha... Minsan nakakatanggap ako ng text sa mga regular ko "Kailan tayo make love?" Hehehehe

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Yung pagpasok ng thera sabay lock ng door; then lock lips agad sayo na nagmamadali ka hubadan tapos nung mag make love na kayo na pakuha ka na ng CD sabay bulong sayo "wag na safe ako today" sawa na ako sa CD araw araw sa labas mo lang iputok babe

 

 

 

Isipin ko na lang roleplay yun... I mean I think marami na rin nagsasabi niyang I love you na yan.... minsan nga nga hindi walk ang tawag eh ahahahaha... Minsan nakakatanggap ako ng text sa mga regular ko "Kailan tayo make love?" Hehehehe

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Yung pagpasok ng thera sabay lock ng door; then lock lips agad sayo na nagmamadali ka hubadan tapos nung mag make love na kayo na pakuha ka na ng CD sabay bulong sayo "wag na safe ako today" sawa na ako sa CD araw araw sa labas mo lang iputok babe

 

 

 

Bakit sa labas? Sabi na nga na safe eh... Ahahahahaha!

 

Seriously, minsan kasi people mistake physical intimacy for love, except that intimacy can be given much more freely than love. A person who kisses you on the lips all the time does not mean that they love you. Or not using condoms, or cumming inside, or sex everyday.

 

It's the non-physical intimacy that matters the most. Like simply talking, or bringing food for each other. It's the things we do for other people that we do not require for it to be reciprocated.

 

Also are you ready to let the other be seen in your social media? Yung walang nakatakip na smiley or sticker. Or di lang kayo parati nasa cubicle ng SPA or Motel room?

 

Do you prefer her clothed or naked?

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I'm in love with a thera, but there are circumstances that forbids us to be together.. :( Tanggap ko siya at mahal ko siya... i told her that she is very special to me... sent her gifts, flowers, went to the her spa to do nothing but talk to her and just gaze at her (promise wala kaming ginagawa natunaw lang ako sa titig nya but I give her money still every time I visit her.. )... but i never told her yet that I Iove her dahil alam ko namang hindi pwede.... I have never been to any other spa or mp.. I am also not a regular spa goer... i visit this site mainly to check her.. first and most likely last thera ko na siya.... it breaks my heart to read FRs about her, parang dinudurog yung puso ko pagnababasa ko ung mga FR... :( sa ngayon, i stopped communicating with her... 15 days na kami hindi naguusap sa FB... nakakalungkot lang kasi hindi niya ko kinakamusta.. it made me feel like she was just being nice to me because its her job.... saklap... i am well educated.. i came from a prestigious school and took a career which only a few can ever afford... i am financially stable.. lahat ng naging GFs ko were her opposite.. lahat ng GFs ko were aggressive and sophisticated as our profession requires... but there is something about this thera which made me fall head over heels... I feel like she's my damsel in distress and I'm her knight in shining armor... kaso mukang high paying client in a nice car lang ang tingin niya sakin.... :( i'm not ugly, pero hindi din naman ako artistahin.. i've had 5 GFs.. hindi din naman ako DOM, I'm only 30yrs old... saklap... :(

 

 

thanks for everyone's insights. really appreciate this site. Kingkongphils, yes, tama ka "maliban cguro sa ibang cases na sila lang ang inaasahan ng family nila." kasi si thera ko, siya talaga ang inaasahan.. Actually, gusto nya na umalis, parati siya nag aapply kung saan saan na mall as sales lady kaso hindi siya matanggap tanggap... minsan nabiro nya ko, sabi nya i-hire ko nalang siya sa isa sa mga store ko.. sabi ko kung pwede lang, kaso joint namen un ng wife ko ung mga businesses namen, hangga't hindi kami annulled I can't just take you in... tumawa lang siya saba'y kabig, joke lang ito naman... pero i felt her strong desire to leave the spa.. ayaw nya din yung ginagawa nya, minsan naiiyak siya saken... breaks my heart... :( feeling ko minsan kaya ayaw nya din i-entertain ako mashado dahil gusto niyang magkabalikan kami ng wife ko kasi sabi nya sayang kasal na kami.. mashado siyang mabait.. kaya ganun nalang ung pagkahinayang ko sa kanya.. she's too kind.. too loving.. too wonderful to deserve that kind of life.... napaka buti niyang tao.. halos ibigay na niya lahat ng income nya sa pamilya nya.. but there were times na nagmemessage siya asking me to come over.. minsan nasabi nya pa sakin, punta daw ako dun wag na ko magbayad kahit sa lobby lang kami magusap.. whenever I visit her kasi I still pay at the front desk for a regular massage and still give her cash though we don't really do anything, we just talk.. i feel guilty taking her time at work and not give her money.. minsan pa i visited her, she didnt accept the money i gave.. kaya i dont know why suddenly she stopped communicating with me.. :(

 

Pero yung ibang thera talagang alam mo na luho lang and just plain lack of effort.. ayaw nalang maghanap ng ibang trabaho.. dahilan nila un nalang ang nakasanayan nila na trabaho... i dont judge them nor their decision.. i just feel sorry for them.. when they hit 30, what will they do if no one avails them anymore? put a low ball price tag on their dignity?

 

UPDATE:

 

My wife and I started talking again and discussed about getting back together. Meanwhile, my love-thera messaged me and told me na pagod na siya sa work niya and that she wanted to leave the industry already but does not know how to start a new life. We had several exchanges. A day after that, she bid me goodbye and told me she has finally decided to leave the industry. She promised me that she will never look back. She told me how thankful she is for meeting me, that I am the reason why she is leaving her work because I made her realize her self-worth and that not all hope is lost.

 

My love-thera and I had a happy ending. But I guess a happy ending does not necessarily mean "they lived happily ever after". Yes, we do love each other and we're destined to meet each other. Not to be together but to serve a purpose to each other. I was going through rough times when I met her, somehow she helped me keep my sanity intact by making me smile all the time. I, in turn, helped her get out of that godforsaken place and help her get back up.

 

Masaya kami parehong nagpaalam sa isa't isa. Oo, malungkot.. Nagkaiyakan,. Alam kasi namen na mahal namen ang isa't isa.. Pero sa isang banda, masaya kami dahil naitama namen ang mga pagkakamali namen sa buhay... She gave me a kiss when we parted ways... That was the sweetest and most sincere kiss I've ever had... she gave me a kiss while holding my face and crying... Salamat sayo... May isang bagay na kahit kelan hindi ko nagawang sabihin sayo dahil bawal.. pero hindi ko na kailangang sabihin dahil alam naman naten and nararamdaman ng isa't isa.. pero sasabihin ko ngayon, MAHAL NA MAHAL KITA...

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I do believe meeting someone has always a reason behind it. thanks for sharing..

 

 

 

 

UPDATE:

 

My wife and I started talking again and discussed about getting back together. Meanwhile, my love-thera messaged me and told me na pagod na siya sa work niya and that she wanted to leave the industry already but does not know how to start a new life. We had several exchanges. A day after that, she bid me goodbye and told me she has finally decided to leave the industry. She promised me that she will never look back. She told me how thankful she is for meeting me, that I am the reason why she is leaving her work because I made her realize her self-worth and that not all hope is lost.

 

My love-thera and I had a happy ending. But I guess a happy ending does not necessarily mean "they lived happily ever after". Yes, we do love each other and we're destined to meet each other. Not to be together but to serve a purpose to each other. I was going through rough times when I met her, somehow she helped me keep my sanity intact by making me smile all the time. I, in turn, helped her get out of that godforsaken place and help her get back up.

 

Masaya kami parehong nagpaalam sa isa't isa. Oo, malungkot.. Nagkaiyakan,. Alam kasi namen na mahal namen ang isa't isa.. Pero sa isang banda, masaya kami dahil naitama namen ang mga pagkakamali namen sa buhay... She gave me a kiss when we parted ways... That was the sweetest and most sincere kiss I've ever had... she gave me a kiss while holding my face and crying... Salamat sayo... May isang bagay na kahit kelan hindi ko nagawang sabihin sayo dahil bawal.. pero hindi ko na kailangang sabihin dahil alam naman naten and nararamdaman ng isa't isa.. pero sasabihin ko ngayon, MAHAL NA MAHAL KITA...

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UPDATE:

 

My wife and I started talking again and discussed about getting back together. Meanwhile, my love-thera messaged me and told me na pagod na siya sa work niya and that she wanted to leave the industry already but does not know how to start a new life. We had several exchanges. A day after that, she bid me goodbye and told me she has finally decided to leave the industry. She promised me that she will never look back. She told me how thankful she is for meeting me, that I am the reason why she is leaving her work because I made her realize her self-worth and that not all hope is lost.

 

My love-thera and I had a happy ending. But I guess a happy ending does not necessarily mean "they lived happily ever after". Yes, we do love each other and we're destined to meet each other. Not to be together but to serve a purpose to each other. I was going through rough times when I met her, somehow she helped me keep my sanity intact by making me smile all the time. I, in turn, helped her get out of that godforsaken place and help her get back up.

 

Masaya kami parehong nagpaalam sa isa't isa. Oo, malungkot.. Nagkaiyakan,. Alam kasi namen na mahal namen ang isa't isa.. Pero sa isang banda, masaya kami dahil naitama namen ang mga pagkakamali namen sa buhay... She gave me a kiss when we parted ways... That was the sweetest and most sincere kiss I've ever had... she gave me a kiss while holding my face and crying... Salamat sayo... May isang bagay na kahit kelan hindi ko nagawang sabihin sayo dahil bawal.. pero hindi ko na kailangang sabihin dahil alam naman naten and nararamdaman ng isa't isa.. pero sasabihin ko ngayon, MAHAL NA MAHAL KITA...

Nice... May dahilan tlga ang lahat ng bagay, tulad ng usapan dun sa isang thread about soulmates. Kaya nga for me, wag ka dpt matakot umibig. It makes you stronger, it inspires you it helps you live and realize the good in life. Kaya nga it works in mysterious ways, kaya sometimes you cant control it. It is what makes you human.... Hope everything turns out okey between you and your wife.

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UPDATE:

 

My wife and I started talking again and discussed about getting back together. Meanwhile, my love-thera messaged me and told me na pagod na siya sa work niya and that she wanted to leave the industry already but does not know how to start a new life. We had several exchanges. A day after that, she bid me goodbye and told me she has finally decided to leave the industry. She promised me that she will never look back. She told me how thankful she is for meeting me, that I am the reason why she is leaving her work because I made her realize her self-worth and that not all hope is lost.

 

My love-thera and I had a happy ending. But I guess a happy ending does not necessarily mean "they lived happily ever after". Yes, we do love each other and we're destined to meet each other. Not to be together but to serve a purpose to each other. I was going through rough times when I met her, somehow she helped me keep my sanity intact by making me smile all the time. I, in turn, helped her get out of that godforsaken place and help her get back up.

 

Masaya kami parehong nagpaalam sa isa't isa. Oo, malungkot.. Nagkaiyakan,. Alam kasi namen na mahal namen ang isa't isa.. Pero sa isang banda, masaya kami dahil naitama namen ang mga pagkakamali namen sa buhay... She gave me a kiss when we parted ways... That was the sweetest and most sincere kiss I've ever had... she gave me a kiss while holding my face and crying... Salamat sayo... May isang bagay na kahit kelan hindi ko nagawang sabihin sayo dahil bawal.. pero hindi ko na kailangang sabihin dahil alam naman naten and nararamdaman ng isa't isa.. pero sasabihin ko ngayon, MAHAL NA MAHAL KITA...

 

am happy for both of you

 

hope spring eternal for everybody who believes

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Yes, no payment involved. And no other stuff they are asking for. Did it twice.

 

First one wants to treat her differently outside, she loved more of the cuddling and not the usual ES that she does inside the cubicle. She wants the spa atmosphere to be left for awhile and experience the normal stuff.

 

The other one is almost eveytime it allows us to. Ill pick her up after work and spent the night in my place nor the nearby motel if her assignment is far from where i stay. She dont care if she will be late for work the next day and just go to the spa anytime she felt like going.

 

That was the good days then. Same as posted here, having experienced it miakes me think that they might be doing it with other guys too. But looking back and deeper, i might say... sometimes a chemistry .... can be brought out and come out with something special that the two of you alone can understand...

 

Those were the days then... i might be lucky then...

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hay nako. Goodluck sir, sana mag bunga ng maganda lhat ng sacrifices mo. I have a friend na mejo kaparehas mo ng sitwasyon. . Ang difference lang eh ung girl nsa spakol pa din, but still ayun binibigay pa din nung guy ung needs nya. Friend ko sla parehas pero mas close ko ung guy. Client sya, pero hnd sakin, as in pure friends lang hehehe. Well, I feel bad for him ksi alm ko na wlang patutunguhan ung efforts nya.

 

Salamat. Well nararamdaman kong nagpapa-walk siya dahil sobrang gipit ngayon. Parang mas gusto ko pa ngang bumalik na lang siya sa SPA kaysa mag walk... Mas nakakatakot kasi. Hindi ko naman kasi kayang tapatan yung mga pangangailangan niya. Tinutulungan ko siyang maghanap ng ibang trabaho pero dedma siya sa mga sinasabi ko. Ang hirap ng sitwasyon nakakabaliw. Sobrang sobrang pag aadjust talaga ito para sa love vs needs na yan...

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hay nako. Goodluck sir, sana mag bunga ng maganda lhat ng sacrifices mo. I have a friend na mejo kaparehas mo ng sitwasyon. . Ang difference lang eh ung girl nsa spakol pa din, but still ayun binibigay pa din nung guy ung needs nya. Friend ko sla parehas pero mas close ko ung guy. Client sya, pero hnd sakin, as in pure friends lang hehehe. Well, I feel bad for him ksi alm ko na wlang patutunguhan ung efforts nya.

 

Nakakalungkot naman yung walang patutunguhan efforts. :(

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