SinestraIgnis Posted May 26, 2018 Share Posted May 26, 2018 Magseselos ka Lang sa mga FR. Hahaha Kaya wag mo na balakin. Wag makipag communicate outside spa. Dapat usap Lang kayo dito. Wlabg ibang communication. Dun ma minimize pagkafall. Pag may communication mas mataas chance. Goodluck. Kung di mo Kaya ilabas sa spa, wag mo na balakin pa. mahirap ma fall ikaw lang din masasaktan haha kaya lets keep it professional When I go to places like spa's, clubs and mp's, I see to it that I leave my "heart" first somewhere else. Ang mindset ko kasi lagi, "Kelangan pag nandito sa mga ganitong lugar kelangan ko ma-relax at mag-enjoy" other than that, wala na. Pag nandun na ako, I always practice decorum. Like, being courteous, polite, cordial and understanding or in other words, being civil. Enjoy lang kung anong meron at i-acknowledge mo yung service na ginawa sayo para atleast masaya ka at masaya din si provider, kumbaga, nakinabang kayong dalawa. At some point, magkakapalagayan kayo ng loob and I'd stop there and nothing further. Once na "nakialam" ka kasi maguumpisa na mahulog loob mo. But, this is just me. Quote Link to comment
lakatan Posted May 26, 2018 Share Posted May 26, 2018 When I go to places like spa's, clubs and mp's, I see to it that I leave my "heart" first somewhere else. Ang mindset ko kasi lagi, "Kelangan pag nandito sa mga ganitong lugar kelangan ko ma-relax at mag-enjoy" other than that, wala na. Pag nandun na ako, I always practice decorum. Like, being courteous, polite, cordial and understanding or in other words, being civil. Enjoy lang kung anong meron at i-acknowledge mo yung service na ginawa sayo para atleast masaya ka at masaya din si provider, kumbaga, nakinabang kayong dalawa. At some point, magkakapalagayan kayo ng loob and I'd stop there and nothing further. Once na "nakialam" ka kasi maguumpisa na mahulog loob mo. But, this is just me. Tama !!.... enjoy lang !!... good advice!! Quote Link to comment
glyr Posted May 26, 2018 Share Posted May 26, 2018 UPDATE: My wife and I started talking again and discussed about getting back together. Meanwhile, my love-thera messaged me and told me na pagod na siya sa work niya and that she wanted to leave the industry already but does not know how to start a new life. We had several exchanges. A day after that, she bid me goodbye and told me she has finally decided to leave the industry. She promised me that she will never look back. She told me how thankful she is for meeting me, that I am the reason why she is leaving her work because I made her realize her self-worth and that not all hope is lost. My love-thera and I had a happy ending. But I guess a happy ending does not necessarily mean "they lived happily ever after". Yes, we do love each other and we're destined to meet each other. Not to be together but to serve a purpose to each other. I was going through rough times when I met her, somehow she helped me keep my sanity intact by making me smile all the time. I, in turn, helped her get out of that godforsaken place and help her get back up. Masaya kami parehong nagpaalam sa isa't isa. Oo, malungkot.. Nagkaiyakan,. Alam kasi namen na mahal namen ang isa't isa.. Pero sa isang banda, masaya kami dahil naitama namen ang mga pagkakamali namen sa buhay... She gave me a kiss when we parted ways... That was the sweetest and most sincere kiss I've ever had... she gave me a kiss while holding my face and crying... Salamat sayo... May isang bagay na kahit kelan hindi ko nagawang sabihin sayo dahil bawal.. pero hindi ko na kailangang sabihin dahil alam naman naten and nararamdaman ng isa't isa.. pero sasabihin ko ngayon, MAHAL NA MAHAL KITA...This is very nice. It made me smile. Laging may pag-asa. Quote Link to comment
The Stifmiester Posted May 27, 2018 Share Posted May 27, 2018 (edited) Hi miss Candice. Nabusukan mo na ba may nanligaw sayo na hindi na alam na sa Espa ka nagwowork. Paano hinahandle yung mga guys na ganun or mas preferred ng mga theras ngayon ang GMs pag pumasok ng relationship. Edited May 27, 2018 by boogie67 Quote Link to comment
SinestraIgnis Posted May 27, 2018 Share Posted May 27, 2018 Yes my thera na ganyan, pero ny client din po na ganyan ung iba di koko mlaman kng gsto ng free service eh or pure friendship. Actually, ikaw lang din makakasagot nyan eh. Nagdedepende na lang yun kung ano yung "stand" ni GM sa relationship na meron kayo. exactly, pero merong times na si thera mismo ang gusto at nagaaya na maki-pagmeet outside spa Yeah, may mga ganito talaga. Hindi na mawawala yun. Dito kasi sa society natin ang odd lang na yung babae yung unang gumagawa ng "advances" na ganun and it only meant that there's "something" else. But in my case, hindi ako masyadong "assuming" kahit na sobrang obvious na game si girl. I just play it cool and enjoy na lang kung anong meron. Quote Link to comment
lakatan Posted May 28, 2018 Share Posted May 28, 2018 Actually, ikaw lang din makakasagot nyan eh. Nagdedepende na lang yun kung ano yung "stand" ni GM sa relationship na meron kayo. Yeah, may mga ganito talaga. Hindi na mawawala yun. Dito kasi sa society natin ang odd lang na yung babae yung unang gumagawa ng "advances" na ganun and it only meant that there's "something" else. But in my case, hindi ako masyadong "assuming" kahit na sobrang obvious na game si girl. I just play it cool and enjoy na lang kung anong meron.tama huwag lang seryosohin...... Quote Link to comment
Pickupgirl Posted June 6, 2018 Share Posted June 6, 2018 True tama ka sis; pero eto advise ng isang retired psp sa mga gm; wag kayo mag repeat walk sa same psp or in this case thera; malaki talaga chance na isa o pareho kayo ay mahulog sa isat isa; like sabi ni candice dapat handa kayo masaktan kung iibig kayoMas masarap kasi kung may familiarity at konting gaanan ng loob. Yun lang papunta sa pag fall yan pag tumagal. Quote Link to comment
Pickupgirl Posted June 6, 2018 Share Posted June 6, 2018 Magseselos ka Lang sa mga FR. Hahaha Kaya wag mo na balakin. Wag makipag communicate outside spa. Dapat usap Lang kayo dito. Wlabg ibang communication. Dun ma minimize pagkafall. Pag may communication mas mataas chance. Goodluck. Kung di mo Kaya ilabas sa spa, wag mo na balakin pa.Magseselos ka Lang sa mga FR. Hahaha Kaya wag mo na balakin. Wag makipag communicate outside spa. Dapat usap Lang kayo dito. Wlabg ibang communication. Dun ma minimize pagkafall. Pag may communication mas mataas chance. Goodluck. Kung di mo Kaya ilabas sa spa, wag mo na balakin pa.mahirap ma fall ikaw lang din masasaktan haha kaya lets keep it professional Oo nga. Sino ba namang lalaking di masaktan pag nababasang minamanyak ng GM o Mabasang pinapaligaya ng GF nya ang isang GM? For a thera to expect her BF to accept that an ignore the FRs, that is not being realistic. The only reason na puedeng maging walang pakinyung guy is kung di nya totoong mahl yung thera. Libog lang din sa kanya Quote Link to comment
Pickupgirl Posted June 6, 2018 Share Posted June 6, 2018 Wala naman sigurong GM na pumupunta sa soa or MP para maghanap ng mamahalin. Or thera na nagtrabaho para ma meet knight in shining armor. But it happens kahit di sinasadya. So hindi naman sa kaya laging iwasan yun. May mga pusong mamon lang talaga. Hehe 1 Quote Link to comment
NinjaMovesss Posted June 6, 2018 Share Posted June 6, 2018 mahirap ma fall kasi most of them pa-fall lang tlaga para balikbalikan mo 😊 Quote Link to comment
Abuchikek Posted June 7, 2018 Share Posted June 7, 2018 Inside the spa... 1) What you SEE, what you HEAR, what you FEEL... when you LEAVE... LEAVE IT HERE. 2) ENJOY IT WHILE IT LASTS. (Bumalik na lang kung mabitin) 3) Huwag pairalin ang KNIGHT-IN-SHINING-ARMOR ATTITUDE. Masarap ma-inlove... pero... keep it within the spa na lang... unless you can go AGAINST-ALL-ODDS. Ang sabi nga natin... YMMV. Quote Link to comment
gilghost Posted June 7, 2018 Share Posted June 7, 2018 Madami makakarelate dito...Watch lang po....https://youtu.be/gUOR-N4sHrY 1 Quote Link to comment
Faramis Posted June 7, 2018 Share Posted June 7, 2018 Hahah friends lang ok na un.pero kung destiny talaga kau e di ok .. Quote Link to comment
shampooh Posted June 7, 2018 Share Posted June 7, 2018 Madami makakarelate dito...Watch lang po....https://youtu.be/gUOR-N4sHrY so nag level up ka na sa mga thera; nagsawa ka ba sa mga psp ha Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted June 7, 2018 Share Posted June 7, 2018 H. Pwede kumalma? Hahahamasyado kang seryoso eh. At inaano ka ng profile ka? So what kung feeling ko cute ako? May masama doon? Pinakealaman ko ba profile mo? Hahahaha ilagay mo ksi ung sitwasyon mo doon sa sitwasyon nung babae. Bago ka mag salita, K? Hahaha. Chillax. Puso mo ehE bat mo nmn pinalitan? Ang cute mo kaya.. Sayang nmn.. Quote Link to comment
piknip Posted June 7, 2018 Share Posted June 7, 2018 i really miss her so much,alam kung mali ito pero hndi ko mapigilan..sobrang mahal ko sya. Quote Link to comment
Rex- Posted June 7, 2018 Share Posted June 7, 2018 i really miss her so much,alam kung mali ito pero hndi ko mapigilan..sobrang mahal ko sya. Kung mahal mo, ipaglaban mo. Hehehe Quote Link to comment
Smokersfree Posted June 9, 2018 Share Posted June 9, 2018 i really miss her so much,alam kung mali ito pero hndi ko mapigilan..sobrang mahal ko sya.Kwento... Quote Link to comment
georgemarts Posted June 9, 2018 Share Posted June 9, 2018 I can't get her off my mind, i wanna visit her but it's wrong, how, what, why...... Be sure its not just lust. Baka kasi ita just because she has skillz Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted June 10, 2018 Share Posted June 10, 2018 (edited) Hahah.. D ko tuloy alam kung galing sa puso o commercial... Heheheh.. I like it very showbiz hahahahha.... Baka ma warningan ka lng boss... Edited June 10, 2018 by Kingkongphils Quote Link to comment
SinestraIgnis Posted June 10, 2018 Share Posted June 10, 2018 Kung na inlove ka sa thera at alam mong gustong gusto mo siya pero nahihirapan ka dahil sa status ng work niya advice ko tulungan mo maghanap ng ibang work na same income yet decent...If kung ayaw niya lumipat at gusto niya mag stay sa work na to well wag mo na ituloy dahil kahit sabihin mong open minded ka at liberated ka masasaktan at masasaktan ka lang... I'm sorry, but I beg to disagree. Kung may isang guy na sinasabi nyang open-minded sya pero meron pa din syang inhibitions then he's a hypocrite. Nagkaroon ako ng GF dati, galing syang Club, which is fine since open naman ako sa sitwasyon. Alam ko sa sarili ko kung ano itong pinasok ko and the risk involved with it and obvious naman na "DAPAT" ko 'to tanggapin since pumasok ako sa mundo nya dahil mahal ko sya. Hindi ako yung tipong naghihigpit or whatsoever. Kung ano trip nyang gawin pinaguusapan namin since gusto kong ipadama sa kanya na concerned ako at susuportahan ko sya no matter what. Ang sa akin lang, dapat open kami sa isa't-isa yung tipong walang tinatago para alam namin kung ano yung gagawin to address the situation at mag-benefit kaming dalawa sa outcome. Everyday lagi kami nagkukumustahan on how her day and my day went. Lagi nyang kwento yung mga iba't-ibang clients nya. Siempre kinukwento din nya yung mga guest nya na ginigimik sya and in full detail pa which is fine by me since part yun ng work nya as a GRO. Ang lagi ko lang sinasabi sa kanya is practice safe sex and be very vigilant. In the end, hindi rin kami yung nagkatuluyan. Masyado daw akong mabait at natatakot daw sya. Anyway, I'm thankful to her for that experience since madami akong natutunan sa relationship. Learning curve to sa akin on how to handle situations na hindi normal at kung paano gagawan ng solusyon to benefit both parties. 2 Quote Link to comment
shampooh Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 Yes nasasaktan mo talaga cya lalo na pag may nagpost ng fr o nag kwento ka sa kanya ginawa ninyo ng client mo; i see it in his eyes ; kahit all smiles pa rin cya at sinasabi nya lagi "importante yung satin iba yung work mo" Nakikita ko yung pain nya; yung pag nag kwento ka then nag tight hawak sa kamay mo; or yung slight teary eyes; nakaka kuncencya; may time na hindi ako nag kuha ng client kasi natutulungan nya ako; pero mas maganda talaga maka lipat ka ng ibang work kahit maliit sweldo alam mo hindi cya magseselos at masasaktan; pero yun lang for me; iba iba sitwasyon namin; hope makatulong sa iba dyan Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 Well being open minded has its limits and if you really love a person masasaktan ka dahil kung hindi ka nasasaktan hindi love yun...And beside that if you really love and care for that person diba dapat you have to help improve her life...Hindi yung kung baga nakita mo siya sa putikan hahayaan mo nalang siya dun dahil dun mo siya nakilala...Yun ang sakin...I would have to agree, but we have to put into consideration baka naman hindi kaya ni sir na supportahan c thera (tingin ko lang, kasi kung kaya mo naman supportahan and willing ka, bkt mo nmn hindi aalukin na tumigil sya, hindi nga love yun) . If thats the case e wala ka talaga magawa dn... Not taking away anything pro it does not mean na GRO e hindi gagawin ung ginagawa nya sa spa, there is still that possibility. Kaya kung gusto ni girl na gumawa e hindi mo sya talaga mapipigil... Well bantayan mo ng man to man defense kung gusto mo na sureball syang honest... Kaya dun naman ako agree kay sir na trust and open lng dapat I suppose. Kasi kung hindi ka maniniwala sa kanya e walang mangyari dn.. Kung d mo tatanggapin ung circumstance wala dn mangyari, kung pababayaan mo lng na ganyan wala dn mangyari... I think it has to be two way, you want someone to save kailangan she will want to be saved dn... Just my opinion. Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted June 11, 2018 Share Posted June 11, 2018 Yes nasasaktan mo talaga cya lalo na pag may nagpost ng fr o nag kwento ka sa kanya ginawa ninyo ng client mo; i see it in his eyes ; kahit all smiles pa rin cya at sinasabi nya lagi "importante yung satin iba yung work mo" Nakikita ko yung pain nya; yung pag nag kwento ka then nag tight hawak sa kamay mo; or yung slight teary eyes; nakaka kuncencya; may time na hindi ako nag kuha ng client kasi natutulungan nya ako; pero mas maganda talaga maka lipat ka ng ibang work kahit maliit sweldo alam mo hindi cya magseselos at masasaktan; pero yun lang for me; iba iba sitwasyon namin; hope makatulong sa iba dyanEveryone needs someone to save them. Hindi naman dahil na syo na ang lahat e ikaw lang ang savior. Minsan may mga taong dumarating para i save ka. It may be material or it may be emotional... Basta someone will come along at mag papa realize syo ng maraming bagay... 1 Quote Link to comment
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