Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[piknip]

Kung na inlove ka sa thera at alam mong gustong gusto mo siya pero nahihirapan ka dahil sa status ng work niya advice ko tulungan mo maghanap ng ibang work na same income yet decent...

If kung ayaw niya lumipat at gusto niya mag stay sa work na to well wag mo na ituloy dahil kahit sabihin mong open minded ka at liberated ka masasaktan at masasaktan ka lang...

tama brads. hindi ko nilalahat pero in my case my thera loves adopted the lifestyle. madali ang pera dito sa industriyang ito. moral?sa kanila trabaho nlng.pikit mata nlng ang mangyayari.sooner or later magkakaroon ito ng epekto sa relasyon. singkatibay nlng ng pagmamahalan dito. but right now im wearing down.

[piknip]

I would have to agree, but we have to put into consideration baka naman hindi kaya ni sir na supportahan c thera (tingin ko lang, kasi kung kaya mo naman supportahan and willing ka, bkt mo nmn hindi aalukin na tumigil sya, hindi nga love yun) . If thats the case e wala ka talaga magawa dn... Not taking away anything pro it does not mean na GRO e hindi gagawin ung ginagawa nya sa spa, there is still that possibility. Kaya kung gusto ni girl na gumawa e hindi mo sya talaga mapipigil... Well bantayan mo ng man to man defense kung gusto mo na sureball syang honest... Kaya dun naman ako agree kay sir na trust and open lng dapat I suppose. Kasi kung hindi ka maniniwala sa kanya e walang mangyari dn.. Kung d mo tatanggapin ung circumstance wala dn mangyari, kung pababayaan mo lng na ganyan wala dn mangyari... I think it has to be two way, you want someone to save kailangan she will want to be saved dn... Just my opinion.

agree ako sir.in my case need na need ni thera ang work niya dahil para ko nrn syang pinatay kapag pinatigil ko sya sa trabaho nya breadwinner sya at may baby na.at mas malakas pa sya kumita kesa sakin.trust is very important kahit saang relasyon lalo na sa ganitong set up, nagkakilala din kami sa spa 1 year and 6 months na kami and things are getting pretty much serious. may usapan kami sa limitations nya sa trabaho but i guess it will never be enough sa simpleng usapang lang.gagawa at gagawa sila para kumita.(may mga bagay tlga tayo na di mapipigilan, ang ending e na sa atin kung tatanggapin nlng ntn o aalis na) mahirap din, sa kanila trabaho nila un they can say na i did it without the feeling of guilt na nagtaksil sila, in our case as bf if u love her u have to accept and understand. so i strongly agree na it has to be two way. give and take at maraming maraming pasensya. nasusubukan kami ng pagkakataon. u just cant make things stop right away. ang hirap. its not an overnight thing. at mukhang matagal tagal pa nyang gagawin ang pag thethera nya. and honestly im just going with the flow right now.basta ako tinutulungan ko ang sarili ko. at bahala na kung saan kami mapunta. -pasensya na sobrang gulo ng utak ko ngayon at emotion. sa mga ganitong pagkakataon kailangan mong maging matibay. strong enough to let go and strong enough to hold on. ang hirap tumimbang ng mga bagay. napakaraming kailangan i consider. hayyyyy.

[Bmwcooper]

Masarap sila magnahal ang problema kahit ano gawin dun pa din sila balik balikan na work

[shampooh]

Masarap sila magnahal ang problema kahit ano gawin dun pa din sila balik balikan na work

Depende yan sa ugali ng psp or thera; pero mahirap talaga tumigil kasi super easy money; saan ka ba kikita ng 10k a day enjoying it at the same time dba

[Kingkongphils]

Hindi lang naman yun ang way na dapat supportahan mo financially na ikaw lang mismo ang kakayod...

As I've said you have to help her find another job that is decent and pays well too...

Thats true. Pro bakit nga ba hindi ganun kadali? Baka nmn may sagot c miss shampoo at miss candice?

[Mr.Bing]

It was fun and i did love her while it lasted.... Well... Ganun talaga dba?.....

[Mr.Bing]

Be sure its not just lust. Baka kasi ita just because she has skillz

Tama ka boss. It was fun while it lasted..... and its, GONE...........

[piknip]

Depende yan sa ugali ng psp or thera; pero mahirap talaga tumigil kasi super easy money; saan ka ba kikita ng 10k a day enjoying it at the same time dba

true! well i can say nmn na may pinupuntahan ang kita ni gf ko sa ganyan. its just that ang dami nya inako na responsibilidad. ewan ko if she is taking advantage of the opportunity.pero minsan napapatanong nlng ako kailan kaya matatapos? e di nmn natatapos ang responsibilidad. hayyyy.ganyan nmn kayo kamahal but we have to constantly check our balls.

[Kingkongphils]

Alam ko din sagot diyan...

They tasted the money that can be earned from this industry...

Malaki kita and easy money...

Mahirap talikuran talaga..

At hindi pa nila alam o hindi pa sila nakakakita ng work na kasing laki ng kinikita nila dito lalo na kung top thera siya ng spa establishment nila...

Well for my thera it all change the perception nung nagimpisa siya sa present work niya...

She earns 80k and up per cut off...

By the way she's a top thera ng spa na pinagtrabahuhan niya dati...

Ouch 80k, hahaha.. Well I think it goes back to if they want to be saved... E talagang kht san mo tgnan mas malaki tlga ang kita dun pero at the cost of what cyempre... Unless siguro maging artista cla or model or mag abroad, I dont think maka kita sila ng pays as well.. Pero really 80k per cut off no hanky panky? Wow.... Tumatangap ba sila ng lalaki dyn? Hehehehehe....

[shampooh]

Thats true. Pro bakit nga ba hindi ganun kadali? Baka nmn may sagot c miss shampoo at miss candice?

Lets do the math for psp normally 1 to 2 clients in a day lets say 4500 per client so less pamasahe at pagkain you can earn 8k a day

 

For thera pag max ba magkano 3k ba o 2500 sabihin natin 4 guests in a day easily 10k a day kita; kung bata ka pa at tamang L why not take advantage of it dba; tapos lilipat ka sa job na daily is 500 lang

[Kingkongphils]

Depende yan sa ugali ng psp or thera; pero mahirap talaga tumigil kasi super easy money; saan ka ba kikita ng 10k a day enjoying it at the same time dba

Well cguro ang keyword dyn is enjoying at the same time... Kung nag eenjoy well thats the perfect job... Iilan lang ang mga tao na ginagawa ang gusto nila at binabayaran ng malaki... Even mga negosyante hindi lahat na eenjoy ang negosyo nila..

I guess kung nag eenjoy c thera loves or psp loves sa work nya e talo ka na agad dun whatever you do... thats just my take...

[Kingkongphils]

Lets do the math for psp normally 1 to 2 clients in a day lets say 4500 per client so less pamasahe at pagkain you can earn 8k a day

 

For thera pag max ba magkano 3k ba o 2500 sabihin natin 4 guests in a day easily 10k a day kita; kung bata ka pa at tamang L why not take advantage of it dba; tapos lilipat ka sa job na daily is 500 lang

Hahah.. Well if you look at it that way talagang konti nga kita... Heheheheh... If that is the case e d pnta tyo sa point of view no sir babyiloveyourway.. Just let her enjoy... Hehehehe... Ano nga naman gagawin mo? Kinda reminds mo sa tropa kong pusher ng ecstacy.. Nung una away bati sila ng gf nya dahil nga illegal ung trabho, but it pays the bill the nice car, the nice condo... Meets a lot of interesting people.. Party all the time.. Eventually he enjoyed himself so much na pinabayaan nlng cya ng gf nya kahit super can afford gf nya... Well point is pag enjoy ka, kht na sino pa man ang magsabi syo na tumigil ka, they can offer you a million pesos evert cut off, youd still go back to where you enjoy the work... I know people who gives up their job to pursue what the enjoy so there you go.. Its really a two way street...

[piknip]

Hahah.. Well if you look at it that way talagang konti nga kita... Heheheheh... If that is the case e d pnta tyo sa point of view no sir babyiloveyourway.. Just let her enjoy... Hehehehe... Ano nga naman gagawin mo? Kinda reminds mo sa tropa kong pusher ng ecstacy.. Nung una away bati sila ng gf nya dahil nga illegal ung trabho, but it pays the bill the nice car, the nice condo... Meets a lot of interesting people.. Party all the time.. Eventually he enjoyed himself so much na pinabayaan nlng cya ng gf nya kahit super can afford gf nya... Well point is pag enjoy ka, kht na sino pa man ang magsabi syo na tumigil ka, they can offer you a million pesos evert cut off, youd still go back to where you enjoy the work... I know people who gives up their job to pursue what the enjoy so there you go.. Its really a two way street...

hehe clarify ko lng sir kingkongphils, pagpasensyahan nyo na ko at magulo pa ang mga thoughts ko bout this thread for i am also one seeking answers for the unknown..all i can say is i will never understand why people do things.napakaraming pwede i katwiran sa mga bagay.in this case mostly poverty. we all know why thera loves do this kind of job. and yes maybe for some they do it out of the thrill and liking of the job. as for my situation. as i have said ang hirap magtimbang ng mga bagay bagay. we are exclusive but she have to make a living..and i choose to be selfless. di ko ipagdadamot ang exclusivity ng relasyon nmn physically. its her job, SHE HAVE TO MAKE A LIVING,for some napakadaling sabihin na maghanap ng matino na trabaho.and we all know its not that easy. but what can i do napamahal na ko sa kanya. then my fears, the moment na pati ung emotional intimacy nmn ay maapektuhan (na hindi malayong mangyari due to the nature of the job) pwedeng makahanap sya ng iba.we all know its not like the usual exclusive reltsp. ofcourse sasabihin nya skn na she dont enjoy her job. pero IMO darating din sya dun sa point na nageenjoy na sya and at the same time with good pay dba.

 

PS : nasa gitna parin ako ng aking paglalakbay sa relasyon na to. so im not saying na falling for a thera doesnt work. i mean tao parin sila and naniniwala ako na they can have an honest and genuine relationship someday. right now all i have in my arsenal is just pure love and understanding for her.but if i will be fed with constant lies and infidelity baka di na gumana sakin ung "bie trabaho lang" someday under the right circumstances we will have to love ourselves more than we love others.

[Kingkongphils]

hehe clarify ko lng sir kingkongphils, pagpasensyahan nyo na ko at magulo pa ang mga thoughts ko bout this thread for i am also one seeking answers for the unknown..all i can say is i will never understand why people do things.napakaraming pwede i katwiran sa mga bagay.in this case mostly poverty. we all know why thera loves do this kind of job. and yes maybe for some they do it out of the thrill and liking of the job. as for my situation. as i have said ang hirap magtimbang ng mga bagay bagay. we are exclusive but she have to make a living..and i choose to be selfless. di ko ipagdadamot ang exclusivity ng relasyon nmn physically. its her job, SHE HAVE TO MAKE A LIVING,for some napakadaling sabihin na maghanap ng matino na trabaho.and we all know its not that easy. but what can i do napamahal na ko sa kanya. then my fears, the moment na pati ung emotional intimacy nmn ay maapektuhan (na hindi malayong mangyari due to the nature of the job) pwedeng makahanap sya ng iba.we all know its not like the usual exclusive reltsp. ofcourse sasabihin nya skn na she dont enjoy her job. pero IMO darating din sya dun sa point na nageenjoy na sya and at the same time with good pay dba.

 

PS : nasa gitna parin ako ng aking paglalakbay sa relasyon na to. so im not saying na falling for a thera doesnt work. i mean tao parin sila and naniniwala ako na they can have an honest and genuine relationship someday. right now all i have in my arsenal is just pure love and understanding for her.but if i will be fed with constant lies and infidelity baka di na gumana sakin ung "bie trabaho lang" someday under the right circumstances we will have to love ourselves more than we love others.

Hmmmm... Interesting... Mapapagod nga naman ang puso... Thats one way of looking at it.... Live for the moment...

[Kingkongphils]

Last cut off niya 110k ang income niya...

Yung 80k yan yung pinakamababa na nakuha niya...

Meron din hosto bar dun dalawa King of Nights ang name at tuwing labasan ng mga omise dun pumupunta...

Napapaligiran pa naman ng more than 20 omise establishment yung hosto bar na yun...

Kailangan dancer ka nga lang yun ang requirements at syempre pogi..

Puro girls ang customer konti lang gay...

Haha.. May proof of purchase pa.. Hehehhe... Well thats nice, good for you and your love...

[piknip]

Hmmmm... Interesting... Mapapagod nga naman ang puso... Thats one way of looking at it.... Live for the moment...

tama boss. live for the moment. maybe someday kapag ready nako suportahan sya i can ask myself again. is it still worth it? can i forgive and forget? can we start it all over again? pero sa ngayon i have to be brave enough to let go but hold on.hahayaan ko muna sya sa gusto nya mangyari and let her do her thing.maybe someday...someday..

[shampooh]

the only think i can offer my bf GM before is that I make sure I only have the O with him; so pag may client ako; sorry kung may makabasa na previous client ko; I was faking it para mapabilis;

also for some reason din I can only have the O with him kung penetration; maybe kasi gawa ng CD pag client; nag O lang ako pag live; so most of the time pag sinusundo nya ako pag from client; super horny ako sa kanya;

most of the time we end up doing it in the car kasi bitin ako sa client; it was fun while it lasted

[piknip]

the only think i can offer my bf GM before is that I make sure I only have the O with him; so pag may client ako; sorry kung may makabasa na previous client ko; I was faking it para mapabilis;

also for some reason din I can only have the O with him kung penetration; maybe kasi gawa ng CD pag client; nag O lang ako pag live; so most of the time pag sinusundo nya ako pag from client; super horny ako sa kanya;

most of the time we end up doing it in the car kasi bitin ako sa client; it was fun while it lasted

sayang nmn at di nag last. but its true all the deeds and momol is fun. lalo na kung intimate tlga at with love. my gf did confirm that to me. pag sa aming dalawa iba talaga. in that aspect di ako magrereklamo. pero minsan im having this feeling na parang iwas ako sa kanya lalo na after ng duty nya. i can see in her na disappointed sya sa reaction ko. but really i dont mean to offend her. issue ko na un sa sarili ko lalo na when jealousy and doubts takes a toll on me, or minsan tlga nakikita ko na pagod na pagod sya and all we wanna do is cuddle and have a good night rest..

 

sana ma share nmn ni ms shampooh thoughts nya bout dito. nakakaoffend nmn tlga na parang nandidiri sau ang partner mo but we dont have anyone to blame. just imagine how it destroys our relationship little at a time.

[shampooh]

sayang nmn at di nag last. but its true all the deeds and momol is fun. lalo na kung intimate tlga at with love. my gf did confirm that to me. pag sa aming dalawa iba talaga. in that aspect di ako magrereklamo. pero minsan im having this feeling na parang iwas ako sa kanya lalo na after ng duty nya. i can see in her na disappointed sya sa reaction ko. but really i dont mean to offend her. issue ko na un sa sarili ko lalo na when jealousy and doubts takes a toll on me, or minsan tlga nakikita ko na pagod na pagod sya and all we wanna do is cuddle and have a good night rest..

 

sana ma share nmn ni ms shampooh thoughts nya bout dito. nakakaoffend nmn tlga na parang nandidiri sau ang partner mo but we dont have anyone to blame. just imagine how it destroys our relationship little at a time.

Im my case kasi pag kami magkasama kahit kakatapos ko lang with a client; i make sure i satisfy him; like bj sa car or quickie sa parking; minsan check in kami over night pag ginabi ako and i make sure satisfied cya para wala.cya masabi sakin; hindi naman cya nandidiri sakin as far as i remember i just make sure o shower and clean up befor i meet up with my bf dati

[rhonavee]

I think theres nothing wrong if ma fall ka sa isang thera, isipin nating ang dahilan kung bakit cla nasa ESpa industry, mostly they are bread winners, may mga magulang, kapatid na need suportahan, and ung iba may mga anak na din, cguro kung may iba paraan mostly they will not choose to be in this industry right, falling sa isang thera ay posible pero may mga dis advantages that needs to consider, pero kung mahal mo at alam mo naman totoo din feelings nya sau, take the risk and help her to find a decent job (excuse me for the word) and kung magkatuluyan kayo dapat walang sumbatan ng past.

[georgemarts]

Kung na inlove ka sa thera at alam mong gustong gusto mo siya pero nahihirapan ka dahil sa status ng work niya advice ko tulungan mo maghanap ng ibang work na same income yet decent...

If kung ayaw niya lumipat at gusto niya mag stay sa work na to well wag mo na ituloy dahil kahit sabihin mong open minded ka at liberated ka masasaktan at masasaktan ka lang...

Unless sobrang yaman mo, mahirap tapatan ang income nila sa work as thera or MPA. Pag nasa top 5 sila, they can easily earn 100k to 200k a month. Not many GMs can give away that amount monthly. Kung hanapan mo decent na trabaho that pays that amount, kelangan may MBA sya kasi VP and higher sa malaking kumpanya lang ang kumikita ng ganun. O lawyer or doctor or some professional. After years of experience.

[georgemarts]

the only think i can offer my bf GM before is that I make sure I only have the O with him; so pag may client ako; sorry kung may makabasa na previous client ko; I was faking it para mapabilis;

also for some reason din I can only have the O with him kung penetration; maybe kasi gawa ng CD pag client; nag O lang ako pag live; so most of the time pag sinusundo nya ako pag from client; super horny ako sa kanya;

most of the time we end up doing it in the car kasi bitin ako sa client; it was fun while it lasted

Paano kung sasabihin nyang nakakaraos din sya sa guest? Kasi tao lang sya. Sabihin nya na L lang yung sa guest pero walang love. Sakit pa rin di ba? The fact na na-L sya sa ibang guy. Isip mo agad: type nya yung guest? Baka palitan ka o maging sila pag naging regular nya yun?

[georgemarts]

Alam ko din sagot diyan...

They tasted the money that can be earned from this industry...

Malaki kita and easy money...

Mahirap talikuran talaga..

At hindi pa nila alam o hindi pa sila nakakakita ng work na kasing laki ng kinikita nila dito lalo na kung top thera siya ng spa establishment nila...

Well for my thera it all change the perception nung nagimpisa siya sa present work niya...

She earns 80k and up per cut off...

By the way she's a top thera ng spa na pinagtrabahuhan niya dati...

Korek. Plus the fact that most girls in this trade do not have the educational background to find a job that will earn even 20k a month. An amount they can earn with just two days of work as thera.

Isip ko lang, maybe they have learned to shut it out, so they no longer think may mali sa line of work nila.

[Luckyserano]

Unless sobrang yaman mo, mahirap tapatan ang income nila sa work as thera or MPA. Pag nasa top 5 sila, they can easily earn 100k to 200k a month. Not many GMs can give away that amount monthly. Kung hanapan mo decent na trabaho that pays that amount, kelangan may MBA sya kasi VP and higher sa malaking kumpanya lang ang kumikita ng ganun. O lawyer or doctor or some professional. After years of experience.

If you have 100k to 200k a month to burn, di ba model na dapat target mo? Kahit collegiala maaakit mo kung gastusan mo ng ganun kalaking pera.

[mikebustos]

If you are in love with someone and you can bear the fact na ginagawa siyang parausan ng kung sino sino para lang sa pera, then there's got to be something wrong with you... Libog lang yan.