Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[silentium]

Masakit nga yun.

I have two theories there.

1. Either wala talaga cyang BF at sinasabi lang nya na meron cya para lang hindi ka paasahin masyado. Ibig sabihn parang friends lng kyo talaga, no more.

2. May BF talaga cyang may sabit at hindi ka talaga na type more than a clinet thera relationship.

The good part here is she says she "loves" you, at least that "love" i think is genuine. Kasi she is honest enough to at least insinuate na ikaw ay second lamang to someone who is more important either real or make believe. Kesa naman sa pinasakay ka lang talaga nya. Meron mga ganun, hindi sinasabi na may asawa sil pero gfe na gfe, at wagas kung mag pasakay. So I think your experience could have been worst.

 

Thanks bro, I think it is the second one, I have confirmed that she has a boyfriend during that time kasi every night na mag kasama kami tumatawag yung bf nya and I can hear their conversation. Yep she is indeed honest wala naman sya sinasabi na mali kasi I have her friends number na when she say's pupunta sa barkada nya andun naman talaga. Ang di ko lang nakuha is why ndi nya maiwan yung BF na may sabit.

[kicksbyg]

Hirap nito. Lalo pag faithful kayo sa therapist na yan.

[silentium]

Ayoa sana ang thera kaso magastos.. heheh..

 

Hahaha magastos talaga pero para sa kin worth it naman eh and di ko pinag sisihin yung gastos ko sa kanya

[Batdad]

Magastos na minsan sinungaling pa kaya medyo mahirap yan mga tawls. (Note: "minsan" hindi ko nilalahat)

Edited December 4, 2017 by Batdad

[Kingkongphils]

Tama dn ung sinabi ng isang poster. If your dead serious about it, it has to be a two way street. Hindi ung ikaw lng, kasi she will just threaten you with, sasama sya kay ganito, gagawin nila ung ganyan if you dont give. Kaya nga mas okey dont try to win her over through financial superiority kasi talo ka kht anong gawin mo, lalo na pag isa sya sa top and if she has no limitations sa sarili nya. Mas okey talaga kng friends lng muna and bigay mo ung kaya mo lng, ung bigay na no regrets and dont expect too much. Kung sbhn nya sama sya kay ganito, gawin nila ganyan despite your efforts e wala ka na magawa dun, bka thats your cue to move on (to the next thera kung thera hunter ka) and dpt no hard feelings. Ganun tlga trabaho nila e, what she does is of her own choosing. Hindi mo pwede ipilit ang gusto mo just because you think swerte na nga sya dahil pinatulan mo siya. Kaya nga personally mas makasundo ko pa ang thera na outright sasabihin nya kng ano mga ginagawa nya sa clients nya, un bng hindi nag tatago or nag "mamalinis". Kasi believe you me, you would rather want too hear her say nag escort ako kay ganito and nag sex kmi rather than, wala dinner lng ako with friends pero un pla rumacket. At least that way youll know you love her really if sya pa dn ang hanap mo and it would mean shes likes you enough to put her cards and the table and let you decide if what you feel is real.

Edited December 4, 2017 by Kingkongphils

[boymasahe10]

May kaibigan akong therapist isang beses sa buhay ko minahal ko sya pero dahil mali dahil committed ako tinigil ko ito.

[rontan2014]

Hirap nito. Lalo pag faithful kayo sa therapist na yan.

 

Ang tanong, faithful ba sya sayo :lol:

[Batdad]

 

Ang tanong, faithful ba sya sayo :lol:

Since thera sya, I think it's impossible to say na maging faithful sya sayo dahil trabaho nya yun eh.

[kengko]

yes y not kung saan ka masaya go

[boymasahe10]

Wala man ako naging gf na thera pero kaibigan na thera na muntik na naging gf meron.

[King Koopa]

Basta siguro know your limitations na lang. Wag na mag go over the board minsan. Dun ata ako nagkamali hahaha.

[Kingkongphils]

Basta no regrets lang dapat and no hard feelings. Hindi dn nmn nila ginusto na magustuhan mo sila. And sometimes vice versa.

[King Koopa]

That's true kaya it's safe to say na mas ok lumayo na lang para steady.

[King Koopa]

Fair points on your post. Of course naman na you're ready to accept her past nga kasi nag fall ka na eh. Hehe.

[Guest]

napakahirap

[Kingkongphils]

Things to remember when you fall in love with our dearest thera...

 

*Try to know her deeply---understand her and inspire her to do better

 

*Avoid always doing sex with her---treat her with respect emotionally and spiritually.(iparamdam mo na hindi sex ang habol mo sa kanya)

 

*Don't treat her like a charity case---its not all about money to win her, but instead take your time to find out what she likes

 

*Inspire her to get a legit business---creat a way for her to make money legitimately.

 

*Offer her your deepest love---show her your sincere love from the bottom of your heart

 

*Be ready to forgive her and accept her past---stay strong and continue to love her and accept her and she will trust you.

 

* And lastly offer her a marriage and live happily ever after---erase her past and move on

 

Our dearest thera is just like any other girl and if you encourage her to improve her life, you will end up with a loving wife of your dreams

 

Note: This is only for a guy who truly again truly(totoo) in love with our thera, because if not don't waste her time to love you...kasi lalo mo lang silang ibabaon sa kumunoy ng pighati at kalungkutan...

2 thumbs up ako sir syo... Hindi pla 4 thumbs up pala...

 

This is also how exactly I see it. Marami kasing GM akala nila porket asa ganun trabaho si thera loves e madaling pa in lovin. On the contrary mas mahirap cya, and you have to really be personnal with her and not just sex lng. From my experience, andami kyang magaganda at inspirational na kwento ang theras, na magagamit nyo dn as pep talk sa inyong employees or subordinates. Kaya wag lang puro kasi kalibugan ang tanong, wag lang puro masarap ba? Nasarapan ka b? Nilabasan ka na b? Dapat personnal, gaya ng sabi ni sir, ung mga dreams nya, ung mga frustrations nya dapat alamin mo dn. Plus kpg nakuha mo na yun believe me you will have a more positive outlook in life kht na hindi mo cya love e iintayn mo ung mga times na ikwekwento mo sa kanya ung nangyari sa araw mo, at makinig sa kung anong nangyari sa araw nya. Chill lang, wag pilitin ang mga bagay, respect and being a gentleman will have its rewards kahit na hindi sexually or sa love nya. Malay mo ung pinsan nya pla ang nakatadhana syo, e doctor ung pinsan nya. Or may dermatologist cya or OB na panalo, ma ireto ka. Or magaling pala cyang kusinera, e d pwede mo cyang business partner...

Basta always respect lang. If it falls it falls if not then at least you had a blast. No regrets in life at wag manisi mga kapatid kasi walang pumilit na gawin mo ang ginawa mo.

Edited December 8, 2017 by Kingkongphils

[PakofLayf]

Been there done that...first is unclear... the 2nd one is straight and clear...and this is really a different world to conquer...and requires extraordinary approach. It takes guts and beyond unimaginable thing mindset for someone to endure things. Hindi siya biro at hindi din siya kathang isip. Will not recall of the details kasi in the end... mahirap talagang timbangin kung naging totoo nga kayo sa isat isa o hindi.

 

But all i can say is that the 2nd one is more realistic... mas malalim... mas totoo. Yun nga lang, the sad part is that the reason of the ending with the 2nd one is the lady of the first time. Sorry kung magulo. Ang mahalaga lang... we learned from it and it makes us a better person after. They are both stilll active in the scene and the good thing is that they are okay with each other. Thats all. Enjoy life and enjoy the happiness inside the 4 corners of the cubicles. Weather weather lang yan...

[Chuck Attack]

There are two ways to get enough. One is to continue to accumulate more and more. The other is to desire less.

[rontan2014]

Pag nagseselos na. Yari.

[chefcurry]

Pag nagseselos na. Yari.

mahirap talaga yan boss...masakit sa ulo kakaisip...hehehe

[Charanko2018]

Masarap magmahal ng thera lagi tanggal stress ng katawan...

[rontan2014]

Pag nagseselos na. Yari.

mahirap talaga yan boss...masakit sa ulo kakaisip...hehehe

 

Kaya utak muna bago puso.hehehe

[Medicus]

May mga thera naman na talagang ma in- love ka. Super GF o wife material talaga. Dapat lang tanggapin mo na buo, both negative or positive points nya. Nothing wrong if may anak for me. Sabi ko nga dapat accepted mo siya ng buo for what she is. If the GM would or is willing to give up everything for her even one's friends then totoong mahal mo talaga. Kahit ano pa sabihin ng iba ..wala ka pskialam. Sabi nga nila na marami silang boys. Mahirap yun para sa isang lalaki but if kaya mong kainin ang pride mo at tanggapin yun for her then you really love her. Kaya for me, there's nothing wrong with falling for your thera. Pero mas better pa nga siguro na wag mo na sabihin sa thera mo na nag fall ka kc magkakailangan pa kayo.

Edited December 17, 2017 by Your_Vincent

[Batdad]

Pero di mo talaga maiiwasan masaktan dahil kasama na sa package yun. Kahit tanggap mo na at lahat pag di ka nasaktan edi ibig sabihin kulang pagmamahal mo diba? Kaya yun wasak.

[royflirty]

hirap ma in love sa thera, daming karibal