Solaryan Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 Ganito.... first leave the industry, start fresh, then if there is a chance na magkita kayo ulit then date... and see if you feel the same way and can work to start a good romantic relationship. By that time you would have been different people already. Wala ng dapat ika-insecure. Basta siguraduhin mo wala ka pang sabit nyan. Huwag naman gawin kabit yun babae. Hahaha! Parang Serendipity( yun movie) naman ata yan. I believe that we make our own fate, so bakit pa iaasa sa "pag nakita" ulit? di ba pedeng after she leaves the industry, bakuran na yan at todo ligaw na ang gawin? At bro, hypothetical lang mga usapan mo with me ah. Kasi wala man akong sabit, di rin naman ako ang trip. LOL nagtatry ako mag rhyme... Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 Thanks for sharing your opinion and that story sir! Di ko alam nasa abroad ka pala.. Hehe. I think you have a good thing going. Wala naman masama na may mga female friends ka in the industry at kudos for being a gentleman enough to apologize...and most importantly for respecting them. Lalo na yun last part LOL Sakin naman, hindi ko naman talaga pinipili ang kaibigan ko base sa kung ano trabaho nya. Maliban na lang siguro kung talagang hardened criminal o drug pusher sasabit tayo dyan lol. Ito naman sila kasi, una kapwa mo din pilipino naman yan, and dapat kasi kayo kayo ang pamilya at magkakampi. They accepted me in their circle so wala naman ako problema. Dinala ko pa nga iba sa kanila dito sa lab eh lol. As for this particular girl, yeah Im glad walang ganun na namagitan at sumumpa ako na wala talaga kahit pa me itusra talaga sya. You do not f#&k up a good friendship like that. Lalo pa at baka di na rin ako magtagal dito, gusto ko magaganda memories namin sa isat isa. I think the worst thing na nangyari si napalinis sya bigla ng apartment ko ahahahahahahaha Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 Hahaha! Parang Serendipity( yun movie) naman ata yan. I believe that we make our own fate, so bakit pa iaasa sa "pag nakita" ulit? di ba pedeng after she leaves the industry, bakuran na yan at todo ligaw na ang gawin? At bro, hypothetical lang mga usapan mo with me ah. Kasi wala man akong sabit, di rin naman ako ang trip. LOL nagtatry ako mag rhyme... Wala naman akong nakikitang masama kung sasabihan mo ng "O pag retired ka na, pwede ba kita yayain magkape man lang, o kumain sa labas?". Kung pumayag eh di take your time, tignan mo ng mabuti kung mas magugustuhan mo sya. O baka naman hindi kasi me makita kang ugali na hindi nya naipapakita nung nasa trabaho pa sya. Bottomline is take your time. Huwag magmadali. Healthy relationships take time to build. Mas kilalanin yun isat isa sa labas ng trabaho, and by that I mean as in TOTALLY DETACHED NA. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 Again, no argument here but it does not necessarily mean I have to apply it. No of course not. Bottomline lang naman dito is kung papano ka maguumpisa ng isang healthy romantic na relationship. Para sakin, napakahirap kung hindi pa detached (parehon party ha) sa dating pinagtratrabahuan 1 Quote Link to comment
Chupapi Muñañio Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 ^^ OO eh, tinawag na nga ako. Ano ba kasing kaguluhan ito? Anyway andito na din lang ako, so share ko na lang experience ko dito I have Filipina friends here who work in clubs. Bale equivalent na ng GRO satin. Pero mas dignified naman trato sa kanila dito. Of course kahit papano me mga indicent proposals pa din sa kanila, lalo pa at encouraged sila lumabas kasama guests nila para mas kumita yun club. Yun iba nakikipagrelasyon na talaga, at dun sila nagkakaproble-problema. Andyan yun pinasusundan na sila ng asawa. Andun yun me nabubuntis at hirap yun arrangement pagkatapos. O kung pakasalan man sila, idi-divorce din. Bottomline is, sa personal kong pananaw, mahirap talaga magnurture ng healthy romantic relationship sa setup na ito. Now there people I really consider them as friends. Nung lumindol sa kumamoto sama sama din kami sa evac center. And sabi ko nga pag sunday, andun ako sa bahay nila, at nagluluto pa kami. Minsan pumupunta din ako sa club nila pag me mga event event sila. Katuwa nga sila, kasi pagpasok ko dun one of them would go "O si..... asikasuhin nyo yan, galing yan lab, malamang di pa yan kumakain lol". I know one na parang female bestfriend ko dito. Kalapit lang kasi bahay namin eh. Me itsura at morena. I think one time nung nalasing ako sobra I must have IMed her about sleeping with me.... I think nagpakita naman na payag.... Pero kinaumagahan tanong ko "Uy nabastos ba kita kagabi? Pasensya ka na ha. Hindi ko talaga alam na sinasabi ko". And mabuti walang ganun samin. I would not want to f#&k up a good friendship just because I can't keep it in my pants. lolAgree ako dito since nag-work din ako sa omise sa Japan...Friendship over relatioship ang importante sa Japan...Mas masarap ang samahan pag friends lang kayo lahat...But then again ayokong magsinungaling dahil ang damin temptation sa Japan specially with your group of female friends... Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 Agree ako dito since nag-work din ako sa omise sa Japan...Friendship over relatioship ang importante sa Japan...Mas masarap ang samahan pag friends lang kayo lahat...But then again ayokong magsinungaling dahil ang damin temptation sa Japan specially with your group of female friends... Parang mga ate o nakababatang kapatid na din kasi tingin ko sa kanila. Pag pare-pareho kayong malalayo dapat kayo kayo nagtutulung tulungan, at nagkakampihan. Nakita din yun bayanihan spirit namin nung lumindol sa kumamoto. Tulungan talaga kami magdala ng kelangan sa evac center noon. Tsaka ewan ko lang, para sakin parang ang hirap kasi maging intimate sa isang babaeng kaibigan na wala ka naman plano talagang magumpisa ng romantic relationship. Lalo kung wala ka naman talagang "feelings" para dun sa tao. Ewan ko, EMO siguro ako kaya hindi sakin uubra mga FUBU setup na yan lolz. Isa pa, ako personally magseselos sa nature ng trabaho nya. Oh do not get me wrong! Like I am saying pamilya turing ko sa mga yan. Hindi ko din minamaliit trabaho nila. Actually, mas lamang nga ng ilang guhit yun mga nasa Omise dito kesa GRO dyan. Kasi satin, karamihan ng lugar pag sinabi mong pwede magtable ng babae, medyo hindi wholesome yun. Dito kasi mababaw lang naman kaligayahan ng mga hapon. Tabihan sila ng babae, pagsilbihan konti, samahan kumanta at sumayaw. Although nangyayari pa din indecent proposals syempre. So dahil dyan, mapaparanoid ako kung may mainvolve na feelings na. Di tulad ngayon na pag napapadaan ako sa omise (club) nya, minsan bibiruin ko pa ng "Uy sige na, dun ka na muna baka magselos pa guest mo sakin". lolz Quote Link to comment
drewbrees Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 Look anybody with decent reading comprehension skills and an open mind would have no problem understanding that I was of course referring to a particular group of people THAT DO EXIST.i wonder who this reply is addressed to? drop the mic edmund. you know what you're talking about Ano nanaman at dinawit nanaman ako dito? Lol. Tagal ko ng di dumadalaw dito eh. Look anybody with decent reading comprehension skills and an open mind would have no problem understanding that I was of course referring to a particular group of people THAT DO EXIST. Mga lalakeng sa bisyong ito na umiikot mundo nila at ginagamit na sukatan ng galing ng pagkalalake nila. Mga lalakeng walang ibang pinagkakaabalahan kundi ito. Me isa pa ngang kaso years back na lahat ng pinadadala ng misis nya na OFW ginagastos sa isang MP sa rizal. Meron ba akong sinabi kahit kelan na lahat ng lalakeng pumupunta sa KTV or MP ay ganito? Again I was referring to a particular group of people. Parang nung sinabi ni Donald Trump na ayaw nya sa illegal immigrants na me criminal records pa, hindi yun pareho sa ayaw nya sa immigrants in general. Hey, to each its own! lahat naman tayo me bisyo. Nasa kung papano mo na lang dalhin yun. Ang iba kasi bisyo nila nagdadala sa kanila. And I believe at that time (matagal na yun kasi) I said that out of ilan dito na akala mo kung sinong mga white knight sa mga thera dito, pero mamaya sa kabilang thread kung pagusapan sila eh parang..... huwag na nga, baka me mapikon pa lalo. Thing is, I have nothing against theras. I know one whom I really consider a friend. Here, I have friends who work in clubs too. And I spend sunday's sa bahay nila. My consistent stand lang naman sa issue na ito, is that hindi ang ganitong klaseng trabaho ang pwede magnurture ng isang healthy romantic relationship. Mas maganda, umalis sa trabaho na ito, then saka magumpisa ulit. Totoo lang, mas kawawa nga minsan babae. Like yun isang kaso dito na umabot pa sa thread eskandalo. Kung kelan nakawala na yun babae sa trabaho saka ineeskandalo sya ng misis ng nakarelasyon nya. at last. someone who gets it. the group of people who you are referring to who think the measure of their manhood is reliant upon the theras they get in spas are the ones i was referring to as well. these people are just a bunch of losers. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 ^^^ Lol huwag na natin ungkatin kung sino talaga ang mga yan. bottomline is... they do exist! Natatawa kasi ako noon sa mga taong ito na akala mo kung sinong mga white knight na nagtatagol sa mga thera dito sa thread na ito, pero pag nasa kabulang thread naman sobrang ino-objectify nila mga nasa ganitong trabaho. Spell H-Y-P-O-C-R-I-T-E 1 Quote Link to comment
Chupapi Muñañio Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 Parang mga ate o nakababatang kapatid na din kasi tingin ko sa kanila. Pag pare-pareho kayong malalayo dapat kayo kayo nagtutulung tulungan, at nagkakampihan. Nakita din yun bayanihan spirit namin nung lumindol sa kumamoto. Tulungan talaga kami magdala ng kelangan sa evac center noon. Tsaka ewan ko lang, para sakin parang ang hirap kasi maging intimate sa isang babaeng kaibigan na wala ka naman plano talagang magumpisa ng romantic relationship. Lalo kung wala ka naman talagang "feelings" para dun sa tao. Ewan ko, EMO siguro ako kaya hindi sakin uubra mga FUBU setup na yan lolz. Isa pa, ako personally magseselos sa nature ng trabaho nya. Oh do not get me wrong! Like I am saying pamilya turing ko sa mga yan. Hindi ko din minamaliit trabaho nila. Actually, mas lamang nga ng ilang guhit yun mga nasa Omise dito kesa GRO dyan. Kasi satin, karamihan ng lugar pag sinabi mong pwede magtable ng babae, medyo hindi wholesome yun. Dito kasi mababaw lang naman kaligayahan ng mga hapon. Tabihan sila ng babae, pagsilbihan konti, samahan kumanta at sumayaw. Although nangyayari pa din indecent proposals syempre. So dahil dyan, mapaparanoid ako kung may mainvolve na feelings na. Di tulad ngayon na pag napapadaan ako sa omise (club) nya, minsan bibiruin ko pa ng "Uy sige na, dun ka na muna baka magselos pa guest mo sakin". lolzRelate ako jan...Saka talagang as much as possible don't get into relationship if you are not sure...Kasi once na hindi nag work out yung relationship at naghiwalay kayo nagiging awkward na kayo at minsan nadadamay yung mga common friends niyo at nagkakaroon ng faction...Hirap nun diba since kayo kayo lang din ang laging nagdadamayan...At pag may occasion hindi ka minsan makapunta dahil kasi nandun yung ex mo...Mas maganda talaga tropa tropa sa Japan... Quote Link to comment
oninpoto Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 I've always wanted to share my own experience here but always held back, but here goes: I fell for a Thera once, I already found her attractive and fun from the first session, but as a GM (albeit not very experienced), I know that it was just part of the package. However, she gave me her contact details and we began chatting almost daily. On my 3rd time getting her, she admitted that she likes me and we went out for dinner and I drove her home. We even went out for drinks on a separate occasion. Mahirap magsched ng meet up dahil sa sched niya at sched ko, so mostly we communicate thru text or messenger. I was on cloud 9. I didn't get her again for quite a while as I saw her as more than just a thera, I saw the person underneath. Honestly we never slept together and I felt I didn't need that as long as I had her heart (yes, at the time I assumed that maybe I did). I eventually told her that I loved her. Sadly, I found out she was actually in-love with someone else. But everytime I would not message her she would look for me. She eventually told me that friendship is all she can give. I got her one last time on her last call, no massage nor ES, just talking and then going out after to eat and go places, and I stopped going to ESpa's after because she didn't want me to, not even as her guest. Eventually things got so strained (I got frustrated that I would sometimes get seenzoned, but on other times would get sweet messages and then I found out that she was lying to me about who she was with, etc.) that she told me to forget about her. Twice. But for some reason she would send me a text a few days after. My heart would jump at seeing those messages, but the second time she asked me to forget her, I gave her a piece of my mind and cut off all contact with her, ignoring her messages afterwards. I started going back to other spas and met a thera who I would regularly go back to and who I really value as a friend and a person. Still, after a few months, the thera I fell for and I started talking again, this time as friends. I admit, those moments with her, the messages, were possibly my best moments of last year. Yet, the pain that went along with the whole experience were the worst parts of my year (and I told her as much last New Year). Luckily my work didn't get affected and I recently got a promotion. Sometimes I wonder if it's a blessing to have her in my life, or if it would have been better to have never met her. Who knows where this goes from here, she's a significant part of my life that I don't want to lose, but she also did cause me a lot of pain. I summarized a long story spanning 3-4 months short and just wrote mostly the gist of things. I'm also not going to give details about the thera out of respect for her. I know this probably doesn't compare to most of the stories here, maybe you can even say it's pathetic compared to what some of you experienced with your respective Thera-loves, but it's a story I'd like to contribute here. Falling for a thera can be the best thing that can happen to you if it works out, as it is with love. but it can also be your undoing if it doesn't. I guess it really depends on the GM and the Thera. Happy Sunday guys.It sucks but we take risk everyday. Nag open up ka sa kanya even if its worth it or not. Whatever may the outcome be. We just have to grow from that and evolve and aspire to better than the last time. Quote Link to comment
2WarningPoints Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 I fell in love with a thera once.. ok twice... ok multiple times.. but i was lucky enough to escape. How? I wont tell unless you ask me, coz im sure no one interested LOL... Lets face the facts most of them are gorgeous, you can even find someone with intellect and you cant avoid telling your self damn lucky is the guys who bang this girls. Tip 1. Dont fall for a Thera.Tip 2. If you do fall, make you have enough budget and take her out of there (regardless if she feels the same way). Quote Link to comment
Baby China Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 (edited) Kasi naman bro Johnny Blaze nakakabasag talaga ng ego ang katotohanan....All of the thing you post are true... Kasi naman bro Johnny Blaze nakakabasag talaga ng ego ang katotohanan....All of the thing you post are true... Nope. His posts are not true. I actually agree with smooth_dawg, why are you here Johny Blaze? You say nde ka interesado. Apparently you disapprove of this kind of setup. If wala ka interest and you frown on a thera-client relationship, why join a forum for people who want to share their experiences? I am a living example of a thera with a successful relationship. Mas complicated yes, but it can succeed. And from what I see, a lot of GMs and some theras here are hoping for the same success story. Why discourage them? Why judge them? Let them have their own experiences. It's their path to take. its their truth to validate. If you can't contribute something meaningful, then I agree, better leave the thread to those who can. Edited February 7, 2017 by gandamegumi 1 Quote Link to comment
Chupapi Muñañio Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 Well the thing is kailangan din malaman ng ibang GM na bago lang sa gantong situation ang Pros and Cons with having a relationship with a thera..Kasi the reality is 10% lang ang nagiging success sa gantong setup while the 90% are not... Quote Link to comment
Chupapi Muñañio Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 (edited) Well actually 3 beses akong nagka GF ng thera... The 1 is from Ameca spa and the 2 ay nakilala ko via common friend... And yes having a long lasting relationship with a thera or GRO are possible but the reality is most of it will not last...My advice is if your going or are into a relationship with a Thera now you have to be smart and accept the reality of this industry...Nagwork ako sa omise sa Japan and I know how the girls work their game with their customers... Edited February 7, 2017 by Thugsoulja6g Quote Link to comment
Chupapi Muñañio Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 And if you read all my past comments here....It's mostly advise who are having a relationship with a Thera... Quote Link to comment
FleurDeLune Posted February 8, 2017 Share Posted February 8, 2017 Reminder: To have fun is good. And we certainly like it. So please keep it positive and polite. We may take action against any posts and / or topics that could cause unrest in the community beyond a civil and polite disagreement. Please respect members at all times. You may not make personal attacks and there will be no posts meant to offend or hurt any other member, in a manner which is offensive or inflammatory. P.S. 4 members have been suspended so this thread can keep going. Quote Link to comment
Solaryan Posted February 8, 2017 Share Posted February 8, 2017 (edited) Reminder: To have fun is good. And we certainly like it. So please keep it positive and polite. We may take action against any posts and / or topics that could cause unrest in the community beyond a civil and polite disagreement. Please respect members at all times. You may not make personal attacks and there will be no posts meant to offend or hurt any other member, in a manner which is offensive or inflammatory. P.S. 4 members have been suspended so this thread can keep going. This is noted ma'am. We understand and respect the rules of this online community. We like to be here and we love to share our thoughts/ideas about this topic. So for you to lift the "lock" status means a lot to us. Back to regular programming... Guys, I find my past few weeks of posting and just focusing on other things (and to be honest, other theras) cathartic. I think I am now ready to face my crush therapist and not be googly eyes and daydream about having a life with her. Thanks MTC! Hahah! More importantly, thanks to the other hot and pretty theras! Edited February 8, 2017 by Solaryan Quote Link to comment
curvermay Posted February 8, 2017 Share Posted February 8, 2017 Yep, this thread is about "falling for a thera", we should focus on love and not hate. Good pm gents. 1 Quote Link to comment
Der_Konig Posted February 8, 2017 Share Posted February 8, 2017 Let Love Reign 😀😁 Quote Link to comment
oninpoto Posted February 8, 2017 Share Posted February 8, 2017 its a common thing. trabaho lang yan. pag napansin ko yung thera tumataba malamang madaming manliligaw at nag reregalo ng chocolate. naalala ko si camry medyo tumaba noon bute ang laki ng boobs nya at bagay pa din Quote Link to comment
Jake Celestine Posted February 8, 2017 Share Posted February 8, 2017 (edited) You know which thera you can trust better? Yung thera that tells you what she EXACTLY does with another client. LOL And another thing. If she can tell you what EXACTLY she does with another client, she can tell you other things. Like ANOTHER GREAT THERA you can try out. LOL There's no better way to test a thera's honestly than talking about WHAT SHE DOES WITH ANOTHER CLIENT. Edited February 8, 2017 by Jake Celestine Quote Link to comment
Mogster Posted February 8, 2017 Share Posted February 8, 2017 its a common thing. trabaho lang yan. pag napansin ko yung thera tumataba malamang madaming manliligaw at nag reregalo ng chocolate. naalala ko si camry medyo tumaba noon bute ang laki ng boobs nya at bagay pa dinOne of my all-time favorite therapist too, nag-gain din ng weight. Aquila of StarGate. Quote Link to comment
Jake Celestine Posted February 8, 2017 Share Posted February 8, 2017 Matagal nang malaman si Camry. Hi-Way 88 pa lang. Lol Quote Link to comment
- The Godfather - Posted February 9, 2017 Share Posted February 9, 2017 I might be mistaken, but in this kind of relationship...i think "Chemistry" is of utmost importance. Like Chemistry in the real world, some elements will combine with others to form compounds. Hydrogen for example when combined with Oxygen in just the right amount will form water (needed for life), and that same Hydrogen when combined with Chlorine will result to Hydrochloric/Muriatic acid (needed for...cleaning the toilet). In the same way, we GMs interact with people in our lives, including our dear therapists, and each interaction produces different "chemical" combination so to speak...and sometimes, we combine with a few people to produce the legendary substance known as the "philosopher's stone" that can turn anything into gold...ahh.. that "elixir of life!" I would like to share a conversation between a thera and a GM that goes something like this... Therapist: Tinatanong nila kung mag jowa daw tayo.GM: Anong sagot mo?Therapist: Hindi ko jowa yun GM: Tama ka, alam mo naman na di tayo pwedeng mag-jowa. Hindi rin tayo pwedeng mag-asawa. Pero pwede naman tayong maging mag-masaya. OK lang ba sayo na maging mag-masaya na lang tayo?Therapist: Sige, ok lang.GM: Ayan ah, mag-"masaya" na tayo...yan na ang relasyon natin...hehehe I suppose that Therapist and that GM have good chemistry...eh? 1 Quote Link to comment
Solaryan Posted February 9, 2017 Share Posted February 9, 2017 I might be mistaken, but in this kind of relationship...i think "Chemistry" is of utmost importance. Like Chemistry in the real world, some elements will combine with others to form compounds. Hydrogen for example when combined with Oxygen in just the right amount will form water (needed for life), and that same Hydrogen when combined with Chlorine will result to Hydrochloric/Muriatic acid (needed for...cleaning the toilet). In the same way, we GMs interact with people in our lives, including our dear therapists, and each interaction produces different "chemical" combination so to speak...and sometimes, we combine with a few people to produce the legendary substance known as the "philosopher's stone" that can turn anything into gold...ahh.. that "elixir of life!" I would like to share a conversation between a thera and a GM that goes something like this... Therapist: Tinatanong nila kung mag jowa daw tayo.GM: Anong sagot mo?Therapist: Hindi ko jowa yun GM: Tama ka, alam mo naman na di tayo pwedeng mag-jowa. Hindi rin tayo pwedeng mag-asawa. Pero pwede naman tayong maging mag-masaya. OK lang ba sayo na maging mag-masaya na lang tayo?Therapist: Sige, ok lang.GM: Ayan ah, mag-"masaya" na tayo...yan na ang relasyon natin...hehehe I suppose that Therapist and that GM have good chemistry...eh? Iba talaga si Mister Yozo.. Gusto ko rin mag-masaya kami ni..... Hahaha Thursday pa lang pero I feel like its a Fri-YAY! Quote Link to comment
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