Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Solaryan]

Hahaha...juk lng.d naman ako mahilig mag jump around from one thera to another.Once I find a regular na click kami, i stick like a leech.

 

Gud luck sa mga GMs chasing the lady in red.sport lng, may the best man win.

 

 

Kaya ko to idol eh! Nag sstick parang leech

 

Pero swerte kasi sya, click sila ng thera nya, minsan May pag asa talaga. Lalo na kung single at mabait ang thera ng buhay mo

[Lesluthor]

Hehehehe mukhang gusto mong sumali, eh! Siguro ang haba-haba na ng buhok ni Spark girl.

May the best man wins her soul.

 

Hahaha...no sir, it was a harmless post.d ako mkkijoin sa followers ni Lady in Red/Spark girl...kaw brod, wla bang comeback plans?

 

Kaya ko to idol eh! Nag sstick parang leech

 

Pero swerte kasi sya, click sila ng thera nya, minsan May pag asa talaga. Lalo na kung single at mabait ang thera ng buhay mo

 

Hahaha...thats the way it should be.Stick to one.No need to have Plan A,B or C.All your focus should be on the one who owns your heart.

[SirMK]

Hahaha...no sir, it was a harmless post.d ako mkkijoin sa followers ni Lady in Red/Spark girl...kaw brod, wla bang comeback plans?

 

Hahaha...thats the way it should be.Stick to one.No need to have Plan A,B or C.All your focus should be on the one who owns your heart.

 

 

Ha3 idol, gusto ko ang last sentence mo.

[MonsieurLee]

i fell hard, she fell hard.. but at the end of the day.. any guy who is truly in love with his thera wouldnt be able to look pass the hickeys, the messages posted online or relies on her cellphone... even if you did love each other, shes there for a reason, if you cant secure a future for her, or at the very least sustain what shes earning (thats why shes there in the first place, regardless what all the theras say, not a single one of them enjoys what theyre doing), then we have no right to ask her to leave. Precisely because that is the venue you met at, it wasnt planned, it wasn't on purpose, surely it would be stupid going into a spa looking for love, most especially from a thera, but it happens, there a connection between the two of you thats real. but its a struggle sitting home at night waiting for her to finish with a client.. the thoughts that go thru your mind... if you can love a thera and say you can look past her work, you're just infatuated with her and not really love her.

 

i went to as far as booking her the whole damn day so she wouldnt have to do service, of course she got in trouble, and she would lose her clients, her livelihood, i cant block her off every day and i cant replace the tips she would have earned. if it was that easy then i couldve just brought her out of the industry all together.

 

its just so sayang... we ended somewhat badly, but i knew she was trying to be strong and acted like that so she can carry on... who wouldve thought going in for ES and you came out falling for each other, thats way more than a spark. i disturbed the simple life she had. woo the guest, make them believe shes their gf for an hour or 2.. then move on to the next... I was selfish because i wanted her all to myself knowing very well where we met and why she had to stay. I was selfish thinking of my own feelings instead of hers. It was my mistake to be such a "pa asa" .... its all my fault. And i hate the fact that i fell for her, and hate it even more that i disrupted her problem filled life.

 

but thats life... you never know when that spark will hit, in my opinion, a true spark happens when it hits both of you, not just the gm or at times the thera. I loved her very much and i really felt the love she had for me. this is the few times i can totally say it was real.

[Mogster]

One drawback of falling for a therapist is everything that isn't her (all other therapists you try) would fail in comparison to your one true loved therapist.

 

I know the feeling. I can tell. And I miss her so.

[Yahoo 111op]

I will end this long post with this quote.

 

If we deny love that is given to us, if we refuse to give love because we fear the pain of loss, then our lives will be empty, our loss greater.

 

I like this quote . I texted this sa Thera ko. Ang ganda raw ng meaning.

[Yahoo 111op]

For some reasons mahirap I gauge yun GM-Thera relationship. Thera's are doing GFE to gain and retain his clients.

 

Sa mga GM how will you know that there's a spark between you and thera. GFE is very different when your inside the spa, automatic na yan sa kanila.

 

Are you going out for a date with your thera? If yes sweet pa rin ba siya outside the spa?

[oninpoto]

Nagka ka gf na kong mp,thera, and psp. Its a hit and miss talaga my last relationship with one lasted for 15 months and still she cant get over it. its not really about her profession di naman ako seloso by nature and I do love her but we are in a situation that we are not both financially able. Im the understanding type. ish she have kids to feed I help financially pag may pera. We were both happy kahit na ganung situation kami. mahigpit sya sakin ewan ko kung bakit napaka selosa pero malambing at maalaga. The thing is bantay sarado ako lagi and by the end of the day pag bibintangan ako nambabae parin. she knows my fb password and my dummy accounts and other account lahat. pero di naging sapat sa kanya yun. nagiging problema na hanggang sa work ko and family ko mga actions nya para lang makasigurado syang di ako nambabae. I find it unfair naman na awayin ako ng walang basihan and pagbibintangan akong nam babae tapos hihingan akong ebidensya kung wala. hanggang sa napuno na ko sabi ko na lang mag bigay ka ng ebidensya na nambabae ako. after so many arguments i decided na tapusin na because its so toxic and stressful to handle for both of us.

[mrblu3]

Mahirap yung ganito. I've entertained the idea the first time I experienced this. Naging suki din kasi. Pero mahirap malaman kung part of the game or realtalk na pala haha!

[walkingdildo]

Mlungkot aq dhil akla ko pg uwi ko ng pinassngle pa cya. I heard she's alredy married.

[Yahoo 111op]

Galing ako sa Midas the other day. There's a GM who drop by just to give flower to Mavic. Sino kaya yun sa inyo.

 

Masyado GFE yun mga thera sa Midas hindi mo maiwasan mag-fall.

[Yahoo 111op]

Mahirap yung ganito. I've entertained the idea the first time I experienced this. Naging suki din kasi. Pero mahirap malaman kung part of the game or realtalk na pala haha!

 

Nasa ganitong scenario din ako. I invited the thera to eat outside GFE pa rin kami sa labas. Pero hindi mo pa rin maiwasan maisip na she's doing this dahil regulat client ka.

 

May be kung wala na siya sa Spa industry and you're still going for a date and sweet pa rin kayo. Then you can assess na sersoyo na to...

[Duel of Fate]

uulit ulitin ko: walang batas na kinikilala ang pag-ibig. tao lang both gm and thera. karapatan nila magmahalan. karapatan din nila lumaya.

 

but... ang akin lng e... why profess ur love HERE? eh andito lahat ng kliyente? ewan ko kung ako lang ha pero i just find if off or weird when magpopost si girl ng status na "I MISS YOU BABE" sabay post ng rates. or si GM tutula sabay gagawa ng FR ng iba.

i PRESSUME kung talagang nagkakamabutihan na, they have each other's fb accts db? i PRESSUME ang mahal mo isnt the userid/nick/handle's persona, but ung tao mismo. so... bakit dito?

sorry di ko lang nagets siguro. again, magmahalan kayo. suportahan ko pa.

[smooth_dawg]

Perhaps, its a way of marking territory.To show everyone you are after a certain girl and maybe discourage other aspiring suitors.I know of a certain GM,lets call him GM A, he wanted ligawan ang isang top thera but he backed off when nabasa nya sa forums nililigawan na ng another GM, lets call him GM B, c girl.GM B happend to have impeccable rep, mayaman,mabait, single...so it scared of GM A kaht d pa nya personally namimit c GM B.hehr

Edited February 3, 2017 by smooth_dawg

[Solaryan]

 

Hahaha...thats the way it should be.Stick to one.No need to have Plan A,B or C.All your focus should be on the one who owns your heart.

 

LOL. Di ko pala nasagot to'.

 

Idol, easy for you to say, because you're a Mayde man. She is single and so are you. For now, she is single so you can devote yourself into making her "own your heart" or take the heart you are offering her.

 

But, for the likes of me (ordinary folks), the thera I like, already has someones' heart and she doesn't need mine. So, I do hope you can forgive me if I partake and enjoy the company of thera A to Z.

 

That's one way for those who have fallen and had no one to catch them, to at least enjoy their way down...

Edited February 3, 2017 by Solaryan

[Solaryan]

Perhaps, its a way of marking territory.To show everyone you are after a certain girl and maybe discourage other aspiring suitors.I know of a certain GM,lets call him GM A, he wanted ligawan ang isang top thera but he backed off when nabasa nya sa forums nililigawan na ng another GM, lets call him GM B, c girl.GM B happend to have impeccable rep, mayaman,mabait, single...so it scared of GM A kaht d pa nya personally namimit c GM B.hehr

 

Agree ako sa post na to. Maaring isang dahilan nga eh yun para maparating sa iba na may intensyon sila. Pero sakin lang ah, opinyon ko lang, kung hindi pa naman sila nun thera, e di tuloy mo pa rin, sumabay ka na lang.. Pagalingan na lang ng ligawan di ba..Malay mo, ikaw pala piliin.. Di mo malalaman kundi mo susubukan. Basta, pasukin mo at suunngin mo na alam mo pinapasok mo at walang sisihan sa bandang huli kasi pinili mong sumugal...

 

Kapal ng fez ko kasi ako nga maski may bf na nagtatry dati na maging sweet sa kanya, hanggang sa may isang kapwa GM natin ang nagsabi sakin ng masaklap na katotohanan of what she thought of my efforts ... :'(

 

#minsanlovehurtsperomoveondinpagmaytime

[Drew13Nash]

Ang hirap mafall kahit may takot ka, pero you can't help it.

[Lesluthor]

Ang problem sa falling for a therapist is since nasanay na si thera na kasama ay iba-ibang lalake, mahihirapan na rin siyang magstick to one gaya ng gms na hirap ding magstick to one kaya bound to fail ang relationship kung meron man talaga.

Have to agree sir.Aside from a thera, from the red light business, through the years i also had a dalliances with GROs from Airforce One and Darkbeat(Now Fluxx) and a member of StagMommas(an escort group) and the main issue has always been loyalty. ;(

[Lesluthor]

 

LOL. Di ko pala nasagot to'.

 

Idol, easy for you to say, because you're a Mayde man. She is single and so are you. For now, she is single so you can devote yourself into making her "own your heart" or take the heart you are offering her.

 

But, for the likes of me (ordinary folks), the thera I like, already has someones' heart and she doesn't need mine. So, I do hope you can forgive me if I partake and enjoy the company of thera A to Z.

 

That's one way for those who have fallen and had no one to catch them, to at least enjoy their way down...

Yeah, agree.its way simpler if both thera and GM are single.I looked at the pics of the thera that captured your heart Solaryan, and I cant blame you for feeling the way you do.She is top thera for a reason and man, she is pretty.

 

I think you are doing the right thing.Maintain contact and proximity with her while exploring and enjoying what other establishments have to offer.And if ever she becomes available, you are in position to focus your energies in winning her heart.If she keeps her relationship with her current partner, you still dont lose out because you have met and enjoyed the company of a lot of other therapists.

[Piaggio]

Galing ako sa Midas the other day. There's a GM who drop by just to give flower to Mavic. Sino kaya yun sa inyo.

 

Masyado GFE yun mga thera sa Midas hindi mo maiwasan mag-fall.

 

Delikado yang GFE na yan. That's why I start avoiding theras whom I can possibly fall for. Encountered two already.

[Lesluthor]

Johny has a good point.I think the question for other GMs here is what has your thera love done to make you think the GFE is real?

[pepejoe]

Iyan ang tamang katanungan. Ano kaya ang gustong sagot ni johnny? Ikaw Les? Ako nung single pa ako ay panay regalo sa akin ni thera kasi student pa ako nun. Nagdedate kami at nanonood ng movies. Nililibre nya ako kasi malakas syang kumita as therapist.

 

When I got married, hindi na nakikipagdate sa labas ng spa so I guess saying i love you, (libreng) make love, eating sa loob ng cubicle, shower together kahit walang ganung promo, pinapasalubungan ka nya pag umuuuwi sya sa kanila. Nag-aaway kayo at nagbabati rin. Ang sweet-sweet nyo sa lobby (pda sa lobby). Alam ng ibang therapists na kayo kahit sa ibang spa ka mapunta. Pwede na bang answer yan?

 

I encountered theras na fwb ang relationship. Not love but click kayo sa benefits kasi di nya nakukuha sa ibang clients ang kaligayahang nakukuha nya sa iyo.

[Lesluthor]

Iyan ang tamang katanungan. Ano kaya ang gustong sagot ni johnny? Ikaw Les? Ako nung single pa ako ay panay regalo sa akin ni thera kasi student pa ako nun. Nagdedate kami at nanonood ng movies. Nililibre nya ako kasi malakas syang kumita as therapist.

 

When I got married, hindi na nakikipagdate sa labas ng spa so I guess saying i love you, (libreng) make love, eating sa loob ng cubicle, shower together kahit walang ganung promo, pinapasalubungan ka nya pag umuuuwi sya sa kanila. Nag-aaway kayo at nagbabati rin. Ang sweet-sweet nyo sa lobby (pda sa lobby). Alam ng ibang therapists na kayo kahit sa ibang spa ka mapunta. Pwede na bang answer yan?

 

I encountered theras na fwb ang relationship. Not love but click kayo sa benefits kasi di nya nakukuha sa ibang clients ang kaligayahang nakukuha nya sa iyo.

 

From my last thera relationship, how did I know it was real? It started with little things then went into bigger decisions from her side.

 

-She was the first one who initiated we date outside

-She got very jealous the one time I got another thera (d pa kami nun)

-She also gets furious if I don't do my usual last call with her

-She cried when she accidentally saw another theras msg in my phone

-She cooks at her house and brings me food all the way from where she lives during her off

-She was the first one who said "i love you" and asked me to be in a relationship with her

-She introduced me to her family as her BF

-She left the spa industry in our 2nd month together

 

At first, I did not take what we had seriously because well, she was known to be a top thera who is quite generous with ES. But as we got to know each other more, she began to show signs her feelings were indeed real. And yes, the high point of it was when she left the industry for me.

Edited February 3, 2017 by Lesluthor

[Drew13Nash]

From my last thera relationship, how did I know it was real? It started with little things then went into bigger decisions from her side.

 

-She was the first one who initiated we date outside

-She got very jealous the one time I got another thera (d pa kami nun)

-She also gets furious if I don't do my usual last call with her

-She cried when she accidentally saw another theras msg in my phone

-She cooks at her house and brings me food all the way from where she lives during her off

-She was the first one who said "i love you" and asked me to be in a relationship with her

-She introduced me to her family as her BF

-She left the spa industry in our 2nd month together

 

At first, I did not take what we had seriously because well, she was known to be a top thera who is quite generous with ES. But as we got to know each other more, she began to show signs her feelings were indeed real. And yes, the high point of it was when she left the industry for me.

 

Ang saya naman ng story mo sir Les.. sana ako din ganyan kay thera ko.. i thought the feeling is mutual yun pala ako lang ata.. minsan kasi you will feel thru their actions din tlga if genuine eh.. pero maybe its too early tell pa pero sana nga mali ako ng iniisip.. pero right thats what i feel eh.. ang saya basahin ng ganyang love story eh noh.. na its not all there sa espa lng. Especially not all about money matters lang..

[Lesluthor]

Ang saya naman ng story mo sir Les.. sana ako din ganyan kay thera ko.. i thought the feeling is mutual yun pala ako lang ata.. minsan kasi you will feel thru their actions din tlga if genuine eh.. pero maybe its too early tell pa pero sana nga mali ako ng iniisip.. pero right thats what i feel eh.. ang saya basahin ng ganyang love story eh noh.. na its not all there sa espa lng. Especially not all about money matters lang..

 

Well, we broke up bro...so its not the happily ever after success story of a GM and a Thera....Lol