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+1 denim (though i seriously contemplated giving it a -1 for all the sword cutting talk) :blink: :lol:

 

ey Larry, so are you seriously falling for the OTHER girl?!?

 

you one of the men out there who prove to be the exemption to the rule that we're able to separate love from lust?

 

though luck mehn. if only polyamory was more prevalent/accepted in our world eh...

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thanks for the replies, and to goemon, I feel you bro.

 

to be brief

 

no i'm not falling for this girl. I empathize with her plight, but not in love yet.

 

one thing just occurred to me, just right now, this could all just be a play to get me to be a regular (which I already am of sorts). Maybe she thinks I'm some dumb mark (which coincidentally is my MP name) that's gonna fall for this type of thing.

 

It's possible though that she's just playing me, I hope to christ that she's just playing me.

 

Thing is, I've been played like that before and you can smell that play from a mile away.

 

i don't know...I'm gonna smoke up now and watch some porn to clear my head.

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that is what i want to ask. Had there been instances before when an MPA was actually sincere and did love someone not for the money thing?

 

 

just curious. thanks.

 

 

I can give you an honest to goodness answer. YES!!! Had personally experience such, though it did'nt end well. I ended the relationship recently. She still tries to communicate although I've made up my mind...

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I can give you an honest to goodness answer. YES!!! Had personally experience such, though it did'nt end well. I ended the relationship recently. She still tries to communicate although I've made up my mind...

 

i would plainly suppose that women are women are women. Mapa MPA man yan or yung pinakamayamang congresswoman sa batasang pambansa, pwedeng magmahal nang totoo yan or pwedeng magsamantala lang ng feelings ng lalake. walang babaeng "kakaiba" simply because of her work. ang hirap lang sa MPA, kailangan nilang magpakita ng GFE sa ibang clients. pero hindi ba ang mga girls na flirtatious ganun din? maraming artistang babae na flirtatious.

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I know what I must do, and it sucks because I know that I will destroy this girl, and I right now I don't think I can handle that kind of thing hanging over me.

 

go ahead laugh, I deserve it for being a schmuck.

 

 

i am so not laughing at you ... dude you have landed yourself into a very sticky situation.

 

im glad you know what you must do.

 

and yes it sucks that you will hurt the girl. maybe there is a way of doing it gently. i dont know.

 

i think i said this before when you were in this sitch the last time around - you have to make a choice (im sure you know that already).

 

the choices we make will not necessarily make everyone happy. but then again, making everyone happy is a physical improbability.

 

just make the choice. whatever choice it is you end up making, i hope it is the one you really, really, really want.

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we're probably watching too many ROMANTIC movies that's why we tend to give meaning to sexual encounters whether paid or not...

 

but, it just goes to prove we are all human....we tend to make mistakes even though we know that this is wrong....

 

:)

 

maybe so. but i think, in your heart and in your mind, you should be able to determine what has meaning and what is fleeting.

 

no arguments about the humanity bit. what i think though is we humans need to learn from the mistakes that we have made in the past. that should hopefully make future choices easier.

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thanks for the replies, and to goemon, I feel you bro.

 

to be brief

 

no i'm not falling for this girl. I empathize with her plight, but not in love yet.

 

one thing just occurred to me, just right now, this could all just be a play to get me to be a regular (which I already am of sorts). Maybe she thinks I'm some dumb mark (which coincidentally is my MP name) that's gonna fall for this type of thing.

 

It's possible though that she's just playing me, I hope to christ that she's just playing me.

 

Thing is, I've been played like that before and you can smell that play from a mile away.

 

i don't know...I'm gonna smoke up now and watch some porn to clear my head.

 

 

clapclap, smart boy for not falling in love... YET.

 

now because you havent fallen yet, MOVE ON already. dont be a stubborn a$$. :D

 

at this point, anything is possible. she can be totally playing you or she may not. just chalk it up to one of those things that you will never know.

 

i always say no answer is a good answer. so move. the eff. on.

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maybe so. but i think, in your heart and in your mind, you should be able to determine what has meaning and what is fleeting.

 

no arguments about the humanity bit. what i think though is we humans need to learn from the mistakes that we have made in the past. that should hopefully make future choices easier.

 

yes madam,. i do think those statements are true but when one is completely in love with the other, all reasoning are thrown out the window, you just have to hold on to the feeling until you snap out of it either by breaking up or you start to see the concrete reasons that she really is just using you (which in due time will happen i am sure....)

 

i also find myself adoring some mpa's though hanggang dun lang kasi mahirap talaga and money will always be an issue, ALWAYS!!!

 

:wacko:

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clapclap, smart boy for not falling in love... YET.

 

now because you havent fallen yet, MOVE ON already. dont be a stubborn a$$. :D

 

at this point, anything is possible. she can be totally playing you or she may not. just chalk it up to one of those things that you will never know.

 

i always say no answer is a good answer. so move. the eff. on.

 

Yeah, I'll move on...eventually like the last time, just looking for the perfect opportunity with minimal collateral damage.

 

she said something though about finally moving on, she said when that day comes that I should take my leave properly, and not just disappear. And then she sort of borrows a line from Notting Hill, and goes "until then I'm just gonna be here right in front of me living in the moment with you until it's gone"

 

IKR!?

 

oh well the point is that I'm really stoned and she just texted me and I'm avoiding answering, because being high makes me do weird stuff.

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like sbi ng mga nasa taas. move on. make urself bc. learn new things. reconnect wid old friend.

 

take it from me, time will make u forget her and if you do. you will just laugh at it and will say buti nkinig ako sa kanila at nde ako naging bulag. hehheehehe. peace bro!!

 

like sbi ng mga nasa taas. move on. make urself bc. learn new things. reconnect wid old friend.

 

take it from me, time will make u forget her and if you do. you will just laugh at it and will say buti nkinig ako sa kanila at nde ako naging bulag. hehheehehe. peace bro!!

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Thanks guys... I appreciate everything you shared here and everything that happened will be charge to experience... And now I am here in Sydney, it's time to find happiness without guilt.

 

Just be strong bro, it's her loss naman, move on.....

 

sure there will be some sad moments but suck it all in....cry if you have too....

 

siya dapat ma guilty sayo, it's the other way around..

 

 

:wacko:

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Thanks guys... I appreciate everything you shared here and everything that happened will be charge to experience... And now I am here in Sydney, it's time to find happiness without guilt.

 

nasa Sydney ka pala eh! ako nandito ako sa New South Wales, sa Hunter Area. iisa lang ang masasabi ko pare. masarap talagang mambabae. pero meron akong rules sa pambababae:

 

1) dahil nandito na din ako sa ibang bansa, mga puting babae ang masarap biktimahin.

2) dapat lagi akong win-win. kung mahulog man ang puso ko, dapat laging may plan B. parang boksing yan. matalo ka man sa round 3, hanggang round 12 pa naman eh. pwede rin mag rematch.

3) dapat imbes na ako ang nilalaruan, ako ang maglalaro

4) gusto ko ako ang susundan ng babae. kapag sabi kong "hintayin mo ako in three years", dapat mag hintay siya. kung makahanap siya ng iba, okey lang. ako rin meron na eh.

 

pero ang pinakamahalaga kong rule:

1) kung pilipina ang pag uusapan, sila ang pinakagagalangin ko. hindi ako manloloko ng pinay, kahit pa MPA siya or showbiz celebrity or stockholder ng Yahoo! or Google or Microsoft. pantay pantay kong ginagalang ang mga pinay.

 

so advice ko sa iyo, pare, dahil hindi ka nga naman laging natututo ( di ba sabi mo, "I never learn"?), eh di mga babaeng puti ang gawin mong target! maraming marami sila dito sa australia. sila ang pagbuntunan mo ng mga masasayang bawal na gusto mong gawin. :ninja: :ninja: :ninja:

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well mahirap mag move on nde yan instant especially pag ang pag uusapan eh yung LOVE and yung faundation nyo...

ako kasi pag ganyan i savor everything i mean yung pain and misery then one day dahil kahit pano naman you will manage to do ur usual routine makaka survive ka din....

 

and dont be afraid to love again yet i know mahirap to love someone how you exactly love ur ex....

 

dont worry lilipas din yan....and someday may magpapasalamat at nde kayo nagkatuluyan ni past kasi sya ang future hahahaha

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Yeah, I'll move on...eventually like the last time, just looking for the perfect opportunity with minimal collateral damage.

 

she said something though about finally moving on, she said when that day comes that I should take my leave properly, and not just disappear. And then she sort of borrows a line from Notting Hill, and goes "until then I'm just gonna be here right in front of me living in the moment with you until it's gone"

 

IKR!?

 

oh well the point is that I'm really stoned and she just texted me and I'm avoiding answering, because being high makes me do weird stuff.

 

iono ... seems to me like all the things she is telling you is geared to make you feel guilty and therefore not leave.

 

manipulative, much?

 

<devil's advocate here>

 

i also find myself adoring some mpa's though hanggang dun lang kasi mahirap talaga and money will always be an issue, ALWAYS!!!

 

:wacko:

 

really? does that mean that the mpas get into relationships with guys just so they can get money? or at least some semblance of security?

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so advice ko sa iyo, pare, dahil hindi ka nga naman laging natututo ( di ba sabi mo, "I never learn"?), eh di mga babaeng puti ang gawin mong target! maraming marami sila dito sa australia. sila ang pagbuntunan mo ng mga masasayang bawal na gusto mong gawin. :ninja: :ninja: :ninja:

 

 

thats a rather mean attitude to take.

 

whether "puti" or not - women should be treated as people. not targets in a game.

 

just remember that the rules of karma are inescapable, "puti" or not.

 

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may pogi points agad madam pag regular mo yung mpa's...

 

the name of the game (in mpa's) is usually regularization...

 

so, money will always be involved....

 

:wacko: :ninja:

tell larry that!

 

kasi he had a feeling yesterday that the girl was doing all that she was doing so that he would become her regular.

 

:D

 

ps dont call me madam. di bagay! :P

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twb,

 

got a question regarding regular MPAs .. im in the states so MPAs tend to run difft the ones that have extra service are the chinese/asian ones .. and like every 3 mos the staff changes so no chance of getting a regular there ...

 

my question is why get a regular MPA? i mean isnt the point of going to an MP to "taste" difft women w/o the hassle of the wining and dining part? if every session is paid for wouldnt u want to "meet" as many women as you can?

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