Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[ndn]

tanong ko lang mga GM's bakit kelangan pang ibigay sa tin pero in the end d din naman pwede, bakit ba hindi ako mauntog untog at kalimutan sya, dahil siguro mahal na mahal ko sya pero everything is getting complicated na, i dont wanna hurt her pero she's always the one hurting me, lagi na lang nya ko pinapalayo dahil daw me asawa nako, in the first place bakit pa sya na in love sakin dba, ngayon im so lost I LOVE HER SO MUCH I dont wanna let her go, we even plan to go to SG to work there eh pero pabagobago isip nya, nagseselos na sya ke esmi ngayon,pero she doesnt want me dahil me asawa nko, before ok lang sa kanya she once said nga na ok sya as my 2nd wife dahil alam nya naman na mas mahal ko sya eh dko alam please help me

 

Cguro kelangan mo din siyang intindihin bro. Ilagay mo sarili mo sa shoes niya,ayaw mo rin namang maging number 2 di b? Tsaka bro nabanggit mo na may asawa ka na,tanong ko lang,wala ka na bang pagmamahal sa asawa mo ni katiting? You have to choose carefully bro,100% sure ka ba sa pagmamahal ng gf m? Handa mo bang i-give up ang lahat for her and vice versa na rin. Bro,you have to choose only one. You simply can't have the best of both worlds.

[orionquest]

tanong ko lang mga GM's bakit kelangan pang ibigay sa tin pero in the end d din naman pwede, bakit ba hindi ako mauntog untog at kalimutan sya, dahil siguro mahal na mahal ko sya pero everything is getting complicated na, i dont wanna hurt her pero she's always the one hurting me, lagi na lang nya ko pinapalayo dahil daw me asawa nako, in the first place bakit pa sya na in love sakin dba, ngayon im so lost I LOVE HER SO MUCH I dont wanna let her go, we even plan to go to SG to work there eh pero pabagobago isip nya, nagseselos na sya ke esmi ngayon,pero she doesnt want me dahil me asawa nko, before ok lang sa kanya she once said nga na ok sya as my 2nd wife dahil alam nya naman na mas mahal ko sya eh dko alam please help me

 

 

she already said it. pinapalayo ka niya because me asawa ka na. she loves you but youre already tied. she will never have you cause youre married and with resposibilities to your family.

thats not hard to understand.

Edited August 3, 2010 by orionquest

[mcGUY]

i fell in love with a MPA..came to the point na araw-arw ako sa MP just to see her. i know then that i was falling in love and ready to lay all my cards to be with her. but this girl made a stand,she quit her job and nilayuan niya ko. told me that i deserve better. until now, still naiisip ko pa din sya, guess mahal ko pa din sya. ang hirap..

[ndn]

i fell in love with a MPA..came to the point na araw-arw ako sa MP just to see her. i know then that i was falling in love and ready to lay all my cards to be with her. but this girl made a stand,she quit her job and nilayuan niya ko. told me that i deserve better. until now, still naiisip ko pa din sya, guess mahal ko pa din sya. ang hirap..

 

Sad story bro. Hirap nga nun. But why did she quit her job para lang iwasan ka? palaisipan lang sa akin yun bro.

[quarterback01]

tanong ko lang mga GM's bakit kelangan pang ibigay sa tin pero in the end d din naman pwede, bakit ba hindi ako mauntog untog at kalimutan sya, dahil siguro mahal na mahal ko sya pero everything is getting complicated na, i dont wanna hurt her pero she's always the one hurting me, lagi na lang nya ko pinapalayo dahil daw me asawa nako, in the first place bakit pa sya na in love sakin dba, ngayon im so lost I LOVE HER SO MUCH I dont wanna let her go, we even plan to go to SG to work there eh pero pabagobago isip nya, nagseselos na sya ke esmi ngayon,pero she doesnt want me dahil me asawa nko, before ok lang sa kanya she once said nga na ok sya as my 2nd wife dahil alam nya naman na mas mahal ko sya eh dko alam please help me

 

Bro, I think you’re very fortunate to have such a girl like her. I also had my share to this topic. We were so deeply in love by then, and I’m very sure we have genuine mutual feelings . I asked the girl that I am about to leave my wife for her but she said NO. I thought she doesn’t want to be just no. 2 but when I told her that I will file an annulment case so we could be married someday, she asked me “ Kung hindi mo ba ako nakilala, hihiwalayan mo ba sya?”. I said “maybe not”. Then she told me, “don’t do that because I don’t want someone to be hurt because of me or the reason for a marriage break-up”. Now I realized how “selfless” she is. She even gave advises to our married life indifferences and even want to meet my wife to say sorry and thank her for the time that she borrowed me from her.

 

I am so thankful that when this “catastrophic event”, as most of the stories here, stroke my life, she is the girl I had. So I can consider this as one of the sweetest and memorable part of my life that I will treasure forever.

 

Who knows bro, you will realize it as the same as I had. Good luck and wish you all the best…

[robsalvador]

tanong ko lang mga GM's bakit kelangan pang ibigay sa tin pero in the end d din naman pwede, bakit ba hindi ako mauntog untog at kalimutan sya, dahil siguro mahal na mahal ko sya pero everything is getting complicated na, i dont wanna hurt her pero she's always the one hurting me, lagi na lang nya ko pinapalayo dahil daw me asawa nako, in the first place bakit pa sya na in love sakin dba, ngayon im so lost I LOVE HER SO MUCH I dont wanna let her go, we even plan to go to SG to work there eh pero pabagobago isip nya, nagseselos na sya ke esmi ngayon,pero she doesnt want me dahil me asawa nko, before ok lang sa kanya she once said nga na ok sya as my 2nd wife dahil alam nya naman na mas mahal ko sya eh dko alam please help me

 

You are young, maybe late 20's or early 30's, right? You're young, full of emotions and swimming in all the passion you have for this girl. Get your head out of this hole for a moment and ask yourself what you really want. As I said, no matter how good it is now, all good things always comes to an end, or at the very least fades to some degree. If you get into this new relationship seriously, the time will surely come when the magic will fade, you will start to find more and more faults with your dream girl. The very girl you thought was so perfect for you is turning out to be not that perfect after all.. Now, the question is are you still going to be in love with this person when that happens???.. That's the difference between finding the right person now and finding the right person you can live with until the end of the world, no matter what!

[happidick]

tanong ko lang mga GM's bakit kelangan pang ibigay sa tin pero in the end d din naman pwede, bakit ba hindi ako mauntog untog at kalimutan sya, dahil siguro mahal na mahal ko sya pero everything is getting complicated na, i dont wanna hurt her pero she's always the one hurting me, lagi na lang nya ko pinapalayo dahil daw me asawa nako, in the first place bakit pa sya na in love sakin dba, ngayon im so lost I LOVE HER SO MUCH I dont wanna let her go, we even plan to go to SG to work there eh pero pabagobago isip nya, nagseselos na sya ke esmi ngayon,pero she doesnt want me dahil me asawa nko, before ok lang sa kanya she once said nga na ok sya as my 2nd wife dahil alam nya naman na mas mahal ko sya eh dko alam please help me

 

Let me guess bro... The relationship maybe is less than a year? During these period it is understandable that both your emotions are really that strong... Lilipas din yan! after all the hassles, the humps and bumps... ask your self is she really worth all the hassles that you are about to endure, ngayon pa nga lang magulo na di ba? good sex? Madami nyan, its different from finding somebody who will stick with you (like your wife) even through the darkest part of your life... Just enjoy it bro, don't be too emotional, sometimes if not most of the time- it blurs our judgement and it maybe too late before you know it!

[happidick]

Meron ba dito o kakilala nyo who has a very successful relationship with an MPA, GRO and the likes? I mean they got married, got children, live a normal life after the girl's pasts or anything that ends on a positive note ... Just want to know kasi most of the posts here (if not all) always ends as a traumatic experience if not tragic... Maybe you can change my perspective mga Igan or at least give some hope to those who are planning to dive into this "wonderful affairs"

[Itto Ogami]

a fellow MTC'er shared me his story via PM.

taga-Barcelona yung MPA (Sta. Cruz, not Spain).

i guess he valued his privacy kaya di sya nag-post dito.

he helped the girl find a job outside and they're living

together na.

haven't heard from him since, but i do hope they're

still going strong.

Edited August 5, 2010 by Itto Ogami

[JLC]

guys, question lang, how come after sincerely loving a gro, and after the break up, bakit parang ayaw mo ng mag-mahal ng iba when deep inside gusto mo pa talaga..hope you guys get what i really mean, TIA

[ndn]

guys, question lang, how come after sincerely loving a gro, and after the break up, bakit parang ayaw mo ng mag-mahal ng iba when deep inside gusto mo pa talaga..hope you guys get what i really mean, TIA

 

Cguro kasi binigay natin ang lahat2x. Binigay natin ang LOVE and RESPECT sa kanila kahit na ganun ang trabaho nila. Lalo na kapag niloko ka or pinaglaruan lang pala,ang sakit nun bro. So after that mawawalan ka na ng TRUST,hindi lang sa ibang tao kundi mismo sa sarili mo. Mahirap talagang mag-move on pero naniniwala naman ako na gaano man kalalim ang sugat,gagaling at gagaling din yan. Merong scar na maiiwan for sure yan,everytime na makikita mo ang scar magiging reminder yun sayo na mas maging maingat ka sa bawat hakbang mo. We all know naman na bihira mag-workout ang ganitong relationship pero kung masaya ka then no one has the right to stop you. Enjoy it nalang while it lasts,treasure all the memories. As long na nagmahal ka ng buong puso,then it's all worth it.

[tempest21]

i think this is what you call UNCERTAINTY, you wanna love her but your scared to give everything, your scared of getting hurt for the same reason, its not right to love them pero sabe nga nila, alam mo ng male pero ginagawa padin natin, because we enjoy the feeling but its a risk that everyone should take

 

IMHO

[revi]

Cguro kasi binigay natin ang lahat2x. Binigay natin ang LOVE and RESPECT sa kanila kahit na ganun ang trabaho nila. Lalo na kapag niloko ka or pinaglaruan lang pala,ang sakit nun bro. So after that mawawalan ka na ng TRUST,hindi lang sa ibang tao kundi mismo sa sarili mo. Mahirap talagang mag-move on pero naniniwala naman ako na gaano man kalalim ang sugat,gagaling at gagaling din yan. Merong scar na maiiwan for sure yan,everytime na makikita mo ang scar magiging reminder yun sayo na mas maging maingat ka sa bawat hakbang mo. We all know naman na bihira mag-workout ang ganitong relationship pero kung masaya ka then no one has the right to stop you. Enjoy it nalang while it lasts,treasure all the memories. As long na nagmahal ka ng buong puso,then it's all worth it.

 

This does not only apply with GROs, MPAs or escorts. It applies to people who were fooled or deceived by their loved ones. As long as you loved a person truthfully and with all your heart, being fooled would get hurt and trust issues would come in the process. Healing would take time. Some move on. Some don't. Some even would love but not give it their all.

 

Nagkataon lang siguro na mas madalas na yung mga na-iin-love sa mga ganito na nasasaktan. Its our own fault na din eh. We get blinded by their beauty, by their charm. Most of these girls are only after our money. That is reality. They talk to us, they make us fall for them, because that is part of the ins and outs of their trade. But there are times, that they also fall truthfully even though they try not to.

 

Noon, sa mga KTV's, merong girl dun na ayaw magpabayad talaga sa akin. Gusto niya pumunta ako sa apartment niya at doon kami mag-stay. Wag na daw sa club. It did not last coz her kid in the province drowned and she never came back to Manila. She called me a few years ago and wanted to meet up. She said that she works as a DH in Singapore and was on a vacation. I did not go, coz I did not want more complications on my married life. Should have gone, coz right now, I have just recently separted with my ex-wife. What friggin' irony!!!

 

Today, I have this MPA who I've recently gone out on dates with. Someone to k*ll time with. I like her a lot. But she is almost half my age. And that is the drawback. I try to avoid the complications by giving her a tip when we do it, but she does not want to accept the payment. We hug. We kiss. We hold hands. In public ha? As of now, I just go with the flow and see where does this lead. Hope it continues coz she does take my mind off from the problems and the hurtful memories that my ex gave me.

 

Yknow, what the problem is, brother. Its that I don't know if I can love as truthful as I did with my wife, then. That is the worst drawback. That is why I don't know what I feel when I am with this girl. I am happy. But at the end of the day, my mind wanders off and I wonder if I could love again. I am not expecting anything. And I certainly am not in the position to demand anything from her. She says she misses me, but I know din naman na ganyan sila sa mga guests nila. That is why even though I could feel her truthfulness, I hold back. This is where the trust issues come in.

 

Atsaka mahirap din kasi minsan di mo maalis sa isip mo na mamaya may ma-meet na bago yan at pagpalit ka. Some would not accept your offer na alisin sila diyan for fear na mawawalan ka ng respeto sa kanila. Or mas gusto nila na sila mismo ang kumita ng pera nila and not from you. If you have watched the film, "Pretty Woman," you would know this. Its when, Julia Roberts said that taking her off the streets is just geography and she wanted the whole package from Richard Gere. Again, right now, I really just go with it. If she leaves, I would get buggered but not to the extent of getting hurt.

 

Sa akin lang, loving these types of girls always impose a risk. You should always try to use your head first before your heart. At sa tutoo lang, loving anyone should always be mindful rather than heartful. Loving yourself is not something to take for granted, people. And loving too much is a no-no. Tandaan niyo, anything that is too much is not good. The Golden Mean, anyone?

Edited August 6, 2010 by revi

[orionquest]

This does not only apply with GROs, MPAs or escorts. It applies to people who were fooled or deceived by their loved ones. As long as you loved a person truthfully and with all your heart, being fooled would get hurt and trust issues would come in the process. Healing would take time. Some move on. Some don't. Some even would love but not give it their all.

 

Nagkataon lang siguro na mas madalas na yung mga na-iin-love sa mga ganito na nasasaktan. Its our own fault na din eh. We get blinded by their beauty, by their charm. Most of these girls are only after our money. That is reality. They talk to us, they make us fall for them, because that is part of the ins and outs of their trade. But there are times, that they also fall truthfully even though they try not to.

 

Noon, sa mga KTV's, merong girl dun na ayaw magpabayad talaga sa akin. Gusto niya pumunta ako sa apartment niya at doon kami mag-stay. Wag na daw sa club. It did not last coz her kid in the province drowned and she never came back to Manila. She called me a few years ago and wanted to meet up. She said that she works as a DH in Singapore and was on a vacation. I did not go, coz I did not want more complications on my married life. Should have gone, coz right now, I have just recently separted with my ex-wife. What friggin' irony!!!

 

Today, I have this MPA who I've recently gone out on dates with. Someone to k*ll time with. I like her a lot. But she is almost half my age. And that is the drawback. I try to avoid the complications by giving her a tip when we do it, but she does not want to accept the payment. We hug. We kiss. We hold hands. In public ha? As of now, I just go with the flow and see where does this lead. Hope it continues coz she does take my mind off from the problems and the hurtful memories that my ex gave me.

 

Yknow, what the problem is, brother. Its that I don't know if I can love as truthful as I did with my wife, then. That is the worst drawback. That is why I don't know what I feel when I am with this girl. I am happy. But at the end of the day, my mind wanders off and I wonder if I could love again. I am not expecting anything. And I certainly am not in the position to demand anything from her. She says she misses me, but I know din naman na ganyan sila sa mga guests nila. That is why even though I could feel her truthfulness, I hold back. This is where the trust issues come in.

 

Atsaka mahirap din kasi minsan di mo maalis sa isip mo na mamaya may ma-meet na bago yan at pagpalit ka. Some would not accept your offer na alisin sila diyan for fear na mawawalan ka ng respeto sa kanila. Or mas gusto nila na sila mismo ang kumita ng pera nila and not from you. If you have watched the film, "Pretty Woman," you would know this. Its when, Julia Roberts said that taking her off the streets is just geography and she wanted the whole package from Richard Gere. Again, right now, I really just go with it. If she leaves, I would get buggered but not to the extent of getting hurt.

 

Sa akin lang, loving these types of girls always impose a risk. You should always try to use your head first before your heart. At sa tutoo lang, loving anyone should always be mindful rather than heartful. Loving yourself is not something to take for granted, people. And loving too much is a no-no. Tandaan niyo, anything that is too much is not good. The Golden Mean, anyone?

 

 

very well said especially the last paragraph.

 

everyone here has his own story to tell. i myself has my own story. i just keep my emotions in check.

 

i think it was oscar wilde who said that "the mystery of love is greater than the mystery of death"

Edited August 7, 2010 by orionquest

[robsalvador]

Love is a very strong emotion. It doesn't adhere to any logic, if you're deep into it, you will be stuck for a long time. What matters is that you do not regret anything you did, do or will do.

[dudecrush09]

Sometimes it feels as though I've moved on but then I remember the good times we spent together. I realize then that I haven't moved on and I still miss her. I am tempted to meet up with her even for a short while but I know I will just fall for her and get hurt again

[mrbigtime]

Sometimes it feels as though I've moved on but then I remember the good times we spent together. I realize then that I haven't moved on and I still miss her. I am tempted to meet up with her even for a short while but I know I will just fall for her and get hurt again

 

What your doing now...I did countless times before.

The straw that broke the camels back was when I saw what I thought before were her excuses, I realized were her flaws pala.

The feeling is still here but now I'm using my head instead of my heart.

Hope you find your peace soon bro...

[StoicVampire]

guys, question lang, how come after sincerely loving a gro, and after the break up, bakit parang ayaw mo ng mag-mahal ng iba when deep inside gusto mo pa talaga..hope you guys get what i really mean, TIA

 

Tama si sir ndn. Binigay natin lahat. Pera, love, respect, pride, ego (meron pa ba akong nakalimutan)? Eto kasi lahat ng binigay ko eh. Hehe. Wala pa rin. It was a traumatic experience for me, na kinailangan pa ng months para makamove-on. Good thing she already deleted me in FB at least makakatulong din yun para maka-move on. One time she texted me she already got a job and she quitted being a PSP. I don't know if she's just playing just like before. She's into a relationship na raw sabi niya. Despite of what happened, I cannot get mad at her forever. I gave her advices while she was applying for a job even sa text lang. I'm still glad for her na tumigil na siya at nagkaroon na siya ng matinong trabaho. Ok na sa kin yun. Relationship with someone is applicable not only in this kind of situation but almost everywhere. Humanda kang masaktan at makasakit. Dun ka lang naman magiging matatag di ba? Hindi sa ayaw mo nang magmahal kundi ayaw mo nang masaktan. Lahat ng relasyon dumadaan sa pagsubok.

[StoicVampire]

Relationship with someone is a give and take process. Magtira ka rin para sa sarili mo. Dahil pag binigay mo lahat, at nawala ang taong iyan sa iyo, ano pa ang matitira sa iyo? I should be listening to myself. Geez!

[elsdfakd]

Hello fellow GRO/PSP/MPA lovers.... I have been following this thread for quiet some time now. I have posted a few but using my main handle.. this is my alternick and I don't want her to read this because she would sometimes read MTC and she has friends from other threads as well.

 

Here's my story. I have been this girl's client for about 2 months... after that I admitted to her that I'm falling for her.. and she admitted also that she feels the same ever since. And we've been on for more than 1 month already. Again, for anonymity sake, I will not say exactly what she does... but she's in the non-ATW ESpecial Services dept.. I know you'll figure it out.

 

The thing is... she is one high maintenance GF. I don't mean na maluho sya. Pero ang dami nyang needs palagi.. kesyo me sakit sa family si ganito, she needs to pay her bills, she needs to send money to her parents, etc, etc. Naniniwala naman ako sa kanya na she's not earning much.. at minsan talagang walang wala siya. kasi I know kung malakas o mahina talaga yung establishment nila. At talagang walang wala rin yung family nya at madalas sya lang inaasahan. I really want to help her as much as I can.. because I really love her. Pero minsan parang ayoko na rin sa ganitong sitwasyon e... I know and can feel that she truly loves me.. she is very sweet naman at talagang she made me feel that she's deeply in love with me whenever we're together at she never failed to text or call me everyday. Pero yung lagi syang me urgent financial needs lang talaga ang pinoproblema ko (to the point of doubting her true feelings for me)... Madalas naiisip ko, what if kung nagsasama na kami.. baka buong pamilya nya e kelangan kong buhayin. Halos maubos na nga savings ko sa kanya. BTW, I'm a single dad and she's a single mom naman. Kung sya at yung anak nya e ok lang sa kin but supporting her and her entire family is a different story.

 

What do I do mga bro? When do I say enough is enough.. My head is telling me that this relationship is not going to work and to let her go... my heart says keep on loving her as long as I can.

[orionquest]

Hello fellow GRO/PSP/MPA lovers.... I have been following this thread for quiet some time now. I have posted a few but using my main handle.. this is my alternick and I don't want her to read this because she would sometimes read MTC and she has friends from other threads as well.

 

Here's my story. I have been this girl's client for about 2 months... after that I admitted to her that I'm falling for her.. and she admitted also that she feels the same ever since. And we've been on for more than 1 month already. Again, for anonymity sake, I will not say exactly what she does... but she's in the non-ATW ESpecial Services dept.. I know you'll figure it out.

 

The thing is... she is one high maintenance GF. I don't mean na maluho sya. Pero ang dami nyang needs palagi.. kesyo me sakit sa family si ganito, she needs to pay her bills, she needs to send money to her parents, etc, etc. Naniniwala naman ako sa kanya na she's not earning much.. at minsan talagang walang wala siya. kasi I know kung malakas o mahina talaga yung establishment nila. At talagang walang wala rin yung family nya at madalas sya lang inaasahan. I really want to help her as much as I can.. because I really love her. Pero minsan parang ayoko na rin sa ganitong sitwasyon e... I know and can feel that she truly loves me.. she is very sweet naman at talagang she made me feel that she's deeply in love with me whenever we're together at she never failed to text or call me everyday. Pero yung lagi syang me urgent financial needs lang talaga ang pinoproblema ko (to the point of doubting her true feelings for me)... Madalas naiisip ko, what if kung nagsasama na kami.. baka buong pamilya nya e kelangan kong buhayin. Halos maubos na nga savings ko sa kanya. BTW, I'm a single dad and she's a single mom naman. Kung sya at yung anak nya e ok lang sa kin but supporting her and her entire family is a different story.

 

What do I do mga bro? When do I say enough is enough.. My head is telling me that this relationship is not going to work and to let her go... my heart says keep on loving her as long as I can.

 

 

what else is there to do? bro, i think now is the right time to say thats enough and what is enough. you can have a relationship with her without supporting for her families needs. you dont need to do that and you dont have to. you mentioned that its ok with you if youll support her and her kid, that means you know up to what extent the help youre willing to give.

 

bro you never mentioned if she asks for financial help but in case she does, strongly point to her that you and your kid has needs too. in case she doesnt ask for financial help but you give on your own volition then stop. talk to her, explain to her the situation she's in.

think of solutions that would be beneficial for both of you.

 

but if your mindset is that its not going to work then end it as early as possible so as not to complicate things. less emotional and financial investment. try to remain friends.

[muttley]

Yes, cookmysock, enough is enough. Its quite clear that ikaw ang lifesaver niya for financial stuff. You know very well how this whole "falling in love with mpa/gro" routine goes, so I would really suggest that you save yourself from further misery. Mukha naman na love ka lang niya dahil tumutulong ka.

[unleashedexpert]

wala namang problema sa ganyan eh, as long as you both have genuine feelings for each other it doesnt matter whatever past she may have, whats important is she does prove that she loves you by getting out of that kind of job, that way she saves herself the ridicule and being in that kind of job isn't the answer to her financial woes, as long as she makes an effort to live a new life then by all means I would do what I can to help her... after all minahal ko na siya eh.

[robsalvador]

Hello fellow GRO/PSP/MPA lovers.... I have been following this thread for quiet some time now. I have posted a few but using my main handle.. this is my alternick and I don't want her to read this because she would sometimes read MTC and she has friends from other threads as well.

 

Here's my story. I have been this girl's client for about 2 months... after that I admitted to her that I'm falling for her.. and she admitted also that she feels the same ever since. And we've been on for more than 1 month already. Again, for anonymity sake, I will not say exactly what she does... but she's in the non-ATW ESpecial Services dept.. I know you'll figure it out.

 

The thing is... she is one high maintenance GF. I don't mean na maluho sya. Pero ang dami nyang needs palagi.. kesyo me sakit sa family si ganito, she needs to pay her bills, she needs to send money to her parents, etc, etc. Naniniwala naman ako sa kanya na she's not earning much.. at minsan talagang walang wala siya. kasi I know kung malakas o mahina talaga yung establishment nila. At talagang walang wala rin yung family nya at madalas sya lang inaasahan. I really want to help her as much as I can.. because I really love her. Pero minsan parang ayoko na rin sa ganitong sitwasyon e... I know and can feel that she truly loves me.. she is very sweet naman at talagang she made me feel that she's deeply in love with me whenever we're together at she never failed to text or call me everyday. Pero yung lagi syang me urgent financial needs lang talaga ang pinoproblema ko (to the point of doubting her true feelings for me)... Madalas naiisip ko, what if kung nagsasama na kami.. baka buong pamilya nya e kelangan kong buhayin. Halos maubos na nga savings ko sa kanya. BTW, I'm a single dad and she's a single mom naman. Kung sya at yung anak nya e ok lang sa kin but supporting her and her entire family is a different story.

 

What do I do mga bro? When do I say enough is enough.. My head is telling me that this relationship is not going to work and to let her go... my heart says keep on loving her as long as I can.

 

I say (she's) its not worth it man.. Use your head, kung yung masarap nga napagsasawaan e yun pang may kasamang duda sa isip mo? Think bossing... Sayang ang panahon, I say move on to better pickings. Sorry to burst your bubble but it seems to me you're not seeing the whole picture of the situation you're in.. It's easy to fall in love, but staying in love is a whole different ball game.. Good luck man..

Edited August 10, 2010 by robsalvador

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Salamat sa mga payo nyo mga tol... I came across a phrase kanina na saktong sakto sa tin... sabi "The hardest thing to do is usually the right thing to do...."

And yes.. I think I should put an end to this.. mahirap pero I have to.. medyo kuha lang ako ng tiempo.. several times I attempted to break it up with her pero each time I'm about to at pag kaharap ko na sya... di ko magawa gawa.. hayyy... I'll update you guys whatever happen. Thanks.