Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[GreatGirl]

Been there, done that… and it spells P-R-O-B-L-E-M.

[Mang Ricky]

On 6/5/2023 at 5:57 AM, Simpler said:

x x x hay naku mapag laro talaga ang mga THERA galing nila gumalaw.

Yon pagiging mapag laro ni thera ay natutunan nya sa kapwa thera. Karaniwan ang baguhan thera ay hindi alam ang kalakaran. Tulad nun sabi ng former thera ko, na ex-Ameca, hindi nya alam kung ano ang ES. Yon thera handler nya ang nagturo ka kanya papano mag massage, dukot at ES at papano diskarte para mahulog kalooban ng guest sa kanya. Yon ibang pambobola at pagalaw ni thera, natutunan nya sa mga GM. Tulad pambobola ng mga GM sa kanya, "andami kong balak para sa iyo", "familya na kita", "naiiba ka" at ang often used, "minahal na kita" at iba pa ay na pick-up nya mula sa mga guests. 

[Midlurker2005]

On 6/10/2023 at 3:35 PM, GreatGirl said:

Been there, done that… and it spells P-R-O-B-L-E-M.

Agree. Lahat ng bagay may balanse. Extreme yung relasyon ng there at guest niya na labas sa trabaho o industriya ng therapist.
 

Sabihin na natin na totoong pagmamahalan ang naramdaman nila. Pero may kapalit yan na hindi basta pera lang. Yung guest ilalagay niya yung reputasyon niya sa pamiliya niya, kamag-anak, propesyun, relihiyon, kaibigan at kung anu-ano pa, sa isang malaking taya na lahat pwede mawala o baka hindi niya mismo makayanan dalhin. 
 

Sa thera naman, paano niya makakayang ipakilala ang sarili niya sa mundo ng guest niya? Paano kung sa reunion, yung tatlo sa kamaganak ng kasintahan, naging regular niya?

Kung ikaw ang thera, maniniwala ka bang dalhin ka niya sa dambana? Wag masyado magpapaniwala. Barya lang ang binibigay nila. Hindi nila kayang ilagay sa alanganin ang sarili nila hanap buhay. Pero tanggapin mo pa rin. Kung malaking negosyante yan, katasan mo ng malaki kasi iiwan ka rin niyan. 
 

Sa madaling salita: PROBLEMA. 
 

Kaya maglaro na lang. Pareho pa kayong maligaya kahit panandalian lang. 

[JDFortune]

Avoid. Chances are superficial lang relationship niyo kasi sobrang "in the moment" ka (as a guy) and gigil siya (kasi babae pa rin naman yan). For both of your sakes rin naman. 

Share ko lang experience ko. Nag date kami sa day-off niya and we did the deed sa condo ko. Never na siya nagparamdam after. I found out later on she got moved to a different city. Muntik na daw siya masesante kasi may nag snitch sa boss nila about sa amin.

Happy Independence Day MTC!

[Diamond of Touch]

I feel bad,

 

Mahirap for him 

 

But di ko kayang iwan Yung industry na toh sa ngayon

Hnd sa marahil eh naging comfort zone ko na hnd eh, hanggat kaya ko magwork sa industry magwowork at magwowork ako ipon dito ipon doon. Dati I tried na umalis Sabi ko pa sa sarili ko di na ko babalik hahah TAs after ilang yrs bumalik ulit ako nah haha  AYoko na Makita Yung sarili ko na babalik ulit TAs kakainin ko ulit Yung sinabi ko,😆 basta mahirap na magsalita Ng tapos  Wala lang gusto ko pag umalis ako, Yung tipong may mas maayos na reason Yung alam ko sa sarili ko na iiwan ko na yung industry.

Nagawa ko na Yun before eh AYoko na isugal ulit HAHAHAH 

[mashete]

You can. If you're really really really financially secure and able to stop her from working in the industry. 

[darwin2k4]

Its time for another Story about a GM and Thera na nagkatuluyan, para everyone here knows what to expect or have an idea what it's like...

So, may GM na may nakilalang Thera sa Spa, talagang head-over-heals, truly madly deeply in-love si GM ke Thera (and her the same) and decided na seryosohin ito to the next level at inalok ng kasal... pumayag naman si Thera at ayun nga.. wedding bells... 🥳

 

So kasal, then honeymoon, umuwi sila sa modest 2-storey house ni GM, now husband, sa hulugang low-cost housing pero pundar naman... 😎

 

So Monday, pagkauwi ni Husband sa work, nagulat sya na dinatnan nya ang kanyang wife na umiiyak.. "o bakit? 🤔" tanong ni husband, "O hun, gusto ko maging perfect na wife sau pero eto nasunog ko ang ulam at kanin, huhuhu" 🥺 , syempre si husband kinonsole nya ang kanyang wife and end up making passionate love instead... 😊

Tuesday next day, umuwi si Husband sa parehong eksena, umiiyak si wife kc sunog ulit ang ulam at sinaing 🤪, at syempre kinomfort sya ni husband at nag-love making na lang sila for the rest of the night...

at talaga naman, naulit pa ito ng Wednesday at Thursday, iyak si Thera wife kc sunog na naman ang nilutong rice at ulam... 🫣

Friday, pag-uwi ni husband, nagulat sya sa kanyang dinatnan na hindi umiiyak si wife 🧐 instead nag-iislide ito sa handrails ng hagdan, aakyat at umi-i-slide pababa... "Ano ang ginagawa mo?" tanong ni husband? "Eto, iniinit ko ang dinner mo 😍" sagot ni wife

🤣 🤣 🤣

Note: Before kinasal, may mga masugid na manliligaw si Thera na kilalang downvoter

 

Edited June 14, 2023 by darwin2k4

[Iceman7]

I no longer participate in the vicious cycle but in order to obtain higher mileage with my regulars I still do buy them food and take them out and give them small gifts.

The only problem with that is once they get comfy with your relationship I will get that text late at night asking for financial assistance.

Of course I would like to deny their request but worried that I would lost my high mileage status as well.

If any other GMs has been in this situation I would like feedback on how to deal with Theras that ask for financial assistance while still keeping your high mileage without providing any.

[MartinAvedis3]

13 hours ago, darwin2k4 said:

Its time for another Story about a GM and Thera na nagkatuluyan, para everyone here knows what to expect or have an idea what it's like...

So, may GM na may nakilalang Thera sa Spa, talagang head-over-heals, truly madly deeply in-love si GM ke Thera (and her the same) and decided na seryosohin ito to the next level at inalok ng kasal... pumayag naman si Thera at ayun nga.. wedding bells... 🥳

 

So kasal, then honeymoon, umuwi sila sa modest 2-storey house ni GM, now husband, sa hulugang low-cost housing pero pundar naman... 😎

 

So Monday, pagkauwi ni Husband sa work, nagulat sya na dinatnan nya ang kanyang wife na umiiyak.. "o bakit? 🤔" tanong ni husband, "O hun, gusto ko maging perfect na wife sau pero eto nasunog ko ang ulam at kanin, huhuhu" 🥺 , syempre si husband kinonsole nya ang kanyang wife and end up making passionate love instead... 😊

Tuesday next day, umuwi si Husband sa parehong eksena, umiiyak si wife kc sunog ulit ang ulam at sinaing 🤪, at syempre kinomfort sya ni husband at nag-love making na lang sila for the rest of the night...

at talaga naman, naulit pa ito ng Wednesday at Thursday, iyak si Thera wife kc sunog na naman ang nilutong rice at ulam... 🫣

Friday, pag-uwi ni husband, nagulat sya sa kanyang dinatnan na hindi umiiyak si wife 🧐 instead nag-iislide ito sa handrails ng hagdan, aakyat at umi-i-slide pababa... "Ano ang ginagawa mo?" tanong ni husband? "Eto, iniinit ko ang dinner mo 😍" sagot ni wife

🤣 🤣 🤣

Note: Before kinasal, may mga masugid na manliligaw si Thera na kilalang downvoter

 

That’s What happened to one of my barkada, yinaya ko siya sa WhiteHouse. Then, there He met a thera named LJ sa WH, nainlove si Lj..also my friend fell for her also. That was last year September or October if I’m not mistaken, the reason the girl left the spa for good. I think sila pa din, and nagbbusiness na yun girl. 

[darwin2k4]

4 hours ago, MartinAvedis3 said:

That’s What happened to one of my barkada, yinaya ko siya sa WhiteHouse. Then, there He met a thera named LJ sa WH, nainlove si Lj..also my friend fell for her also. That was last year September or October if I’m not mistaken, the reason the girl left the spa for good. I think sila pa din, and nagbbusiness na yun girl. 

Does LJ warms dinner just like in d story by sliding down in d handrails of the stairs? 😊

[markjoycehailey]

18 hours ago, darwin2k4 said:

Its time for another Story about a GM and Thera na nagkatuluyan, para everyone here knows what to expect or have an idea what it's like...

So, may GM na may nakilalang Thera sa Spa, talagang head-over-heals, truly madly deeply in-love si GM ke Thera (and her the same) and decided na seryosohin ito to the next level at inalok ng kasal... pumayag naman si Thera at ayun nga.. wedding bells... 🥳

 

So kasal, then honeymoon, umuwi sila sa modest 2-storey house ni GM, now husband, sa hulugang low-cost housing pero pundar naman... 😎

 

So Monday, pagkauwi ni Husband sa work, nagulat sya na dinatnan nya ang kanyang wife na umiiyak.. "o bakit? 🤔" tanong ni husband, "O hun, gusto ko maging perfect na wife sau pero eto nasunog ko ang ulam at kanin, huhuhu" 🥺 , syempre si husband kinonsole nya ang kanyang wife and end up making passionate love instead... 😊

Tuesday next day, umuwi si Husband sa parehong eksena, umiiyak si wife kc sunog ulit ang ulam at sinaing 🤪, at syempre kinomfort sya ni husband at nag-love making na lang sila for the rest of the night...

at talaga naman, naulit pa ito ng Wednesday at Thursday, iyak si Thera wife kc sunog na naman ang nilutong rice at ulam... 🫣

Friday, pag-uwi ni husband, nagulat sya sa kanyang dinatnan na hindi umiiyak si wife 🧐 instead nag-iislide ito sa handrails ng hagdan, aakyat at umi-i-slide pababa... "Ano ang ginagawa mo?" tanong ni husband? "Eto, iniinit ko ang dinner mo 😍" sagot ni wife

🤣 🤣 🤣

Note: Before kinasal, may mga masugid na manliligaw si Thera na kilalang downvoter

 

Kawawa naman si husband, kung hindi sunog, lapnos ang dinner.

[handsomebob]

18 hours ago, Iceman7 said:

I no longer participate in the vicious cycle but in order to obtain higher mileage with my regulars I still do buy them food and take them out and give them small gifts.

The only problem with that is once they get comfy with your relationship I will get that text late at night asking for financial assistance.

Of course I would like to deny their request but worried that I would lost my high mileage status as well.

If any other GMs has been in this situation I would like feedback on how to deal with Theras that ask for financial assistance while still keeping your high mileage without providing any.

I do think you have to keep your distance to her bro and when you are going on a self improvement journey, hindi mo na kailangan to spend an extra more just to get your high mileage if you become desirable enough to the opposite sex (ex: geting fit, putting on nice clothes, smelling good etc..) you will get the mileage that you want IN MOST CASES kasi hindi naman lahat ng thera nadadaan sa ganyan but mostly in my experience mga 8/10....

mahirap kasi sa situation mo, clearly there will be some time na ma compromise ka but my best advice is MAKE KNOWN YOUR ABSENCE!!

 

[courtesanhunter]

23 hours ago, Iceman7 said:

I no longer participate in the vicious cycle but in order to obtain higher mileage with my regulars I still do buy them food and take them out and give them small gifts.

The only problem with that is once they get comfy with your relationship I will get that text late at night asking for financial assistance.

Of course I would like to deny their request but worried that I would lost my high mileage status as well.

If any other GMs has been in this situation I would like feedback on how to deal with Theras that ask for financial assistance while still keeping your high mileage without providing any.

i have been in almost the same kind of situation before. in my case i never asked for the service since the lady already retired. but after continuously borrowing money from me she then offered me her service and told me she was back in the business. but the brutal reality is that a lot of women are good in pretending. they will tell what you wish to hear so that they can get what they want from you. i was even threatened about sextortion despite her being the one who offered me her services.

so my suggestion is just look for service providers who are not asking for extras. and don't spoil them by voluntarily giving them such. there are ladies who already go with the complete package of services. but if you are referring to raw intercourse? then better not practice that inside the industry because that won't be good for the entire community.

 

[Simpler]

On 6/14/2023 at 11:56 AM, Iceman7 said:

I no longer participate in the vicious cycle but in order to obtain higher mileage with my regulars I still do buy them food and take them out and give them small gifts.

The only problem with that is once they get comfy with your relationship I will get that text late at night asking for financial assistance.

Of course I would like to deny their request but worried that I would lost my high mileage status as well.

If any other GMs has been in this situation I would like feedback on how to deal with Theras that ask for financial assistance while still keeping your high mileage without providing any.

Gawain Ko yan dati giving gifts,asking them food that they want me to bring when I visit them,Pero now I think mas makakatipid ako pag nag tip ako extra 500,naririnig Ko pa yung Iba pag sumisilip ako sasabihin nila”good yan galante yan smile kayo swerte makukuha “then kahit 1st time ko Thera makukuha Ko na high mileage dahil thera din nag sasabi na galante tau.

Edited June 15, 2023 by Simpler

[Iceman7]

1 hour ago, courtesanhunter said:

i have been in almost the same kind of situation before. in my case i never asked for the service since the lady already retired. but after continuously borrowing money from me she then offered me her service and told me she was back in the business. but the brutal reality is that a lot of women are good in pretending. they will tell what you wish to hear so that they can get what they want from you. i was even threatened about sextortion despite her being the one who offered me her services.

so my suggestion is just look for service providers who are not asking for extras. and don't spoil them by voluntarily giving them such. there are ladies who already go with the complete package of services. but if you are referring to raw intercourse? then better not practice that inside the industry because that won't be good for the entire community.

 

I been seeing her for about a year and this is the first time she has ask me for money. I do have PTSD from the past theras when if comes to finances and I will always remember the incident with the Thera and GM who gave her money because she said her mom was sick and she ended up using that money to take her baby daddy to Boracay instead. So I am quite hesitant. 

But I look at it this way if she does not pay me back she will end up losing money in the long run and I already have my eye on a different thera at her location so I will see what she decides to do.

[SDMNXIX]

I also give small gifts and sometimes bring food for the special ones. It doesn't always bring additional benefits but thats not the main reason nmn why I give them. Talagang appreciation ko yun sa kanila kse I was really happy with the time I spent with them.

Luckily, I have never encountered getting asked for money by any of them. Mejo turn off na yun if that happened and I would think twice getting that thera again in the future.

Idk how much she asked from you but if it was a significant amount, I dont think youre gonna get it back. I hope I'm wrong tho and it works out well for you.

[Iceman7]

6 hours ago, handsomebob said:

I do think you have to keep your distance to her bro and when you are going on a self improvement journey, hindi mo na kailangan to spend an extra more just to get your high mileage if you become desirable enough to the opposite sex (ex: geting fit, putting on nice clothes, smelling good etc..) you will get the mileage that you want IN MOST CASES kasi hindi naman lahat ng thera nadadaan sa ganyan but mostly in my experience mga 8/10....

mahirap kasi sa situation mo, clearly there will be some time na ma compromise ka but my best advice is MAKE KNOWN YOUR ABSENCE!!

 

Thanks for the advice bro, she actually contacts me to come visit her and gets jealous when the other theras try to flirt with me. But you are right. I do go to the gym and even though I don't have a Brad Pitt body its better then being obese 

Edited June 15, 2023 by Iceman7

[MartinAvedis3]

On 6/14/2023 at 11:56 AM, Iceman7 said:

I no longer participate in the vicious cycle but in order to obtain higher mileage with my regulars I still do buy them food and take them out and give them small gifts.

The only problem with that is once they get comfy with your relationship I will get that text late at night asking for financial assistance.

Of course I would like to deny their request but worried that I would lost my high mileage status as well.

If any other GMs has been in this situation I would like feedback on how to deal with Theras that ask for financial assistance while still keeping your high mileage without providing any.

Depende sa Girl and situation. We all knew most escort girls/Theras..they’re just doing it to sustain their families or some of them breadwinners. Prostituion is an easy money for them, May kilala ako dati sa bank nagwwork, accounting  graduate, pinasok na din ang pag escort. x4-x5 nakukua niya pera monthly compare being a bank teller. Most escort girls also looking for “love” and serious relationships. So if pag ang GM and escort girl nagkagustuhan..make sure not just by loving them..also part of it to sustain their financial needs if you pull them out from their work. Advantage pag ang GM may pera talaga, katulad sa dalwa ko kaibigan, parehas sila nagkagusto sa dating escort girls, successful naman relationship, binigyan ng business (instead of giving them to fish..teach them how to fish) And yun isa still sustaining monthly.

Note: 2 of my friends are earning 6-7 digits a month sa mga trabaho nila, and sometime 8 digits. So the reason they could sustain. 

[Iceman7]

2 minutes ago, SDMNXIX said:

I also give small gifts and sometimes bring food for the special ones. It doesn't always bring additional benefits but thats not the main reason nmn why I give them. Talagang appreciation ko yun sa kanila kse I was really happy with the time I spent with them.

Luckily, I have never encountered getting asked for money by any of them. Mejo turn off na yun if that happened and I would think twice getting that thera again in the future.

Idk how much she asked from you but if it was a significant amount, I dont think youre gonna get it back. I hope I'm wrong tho and it works out well for you.

When I mean higher mileage lets say when you met a thera for the first time and her don'ts are no bbbj or cim kissing nip suck etc. I also look at this as a challenge or obstacle to overcome. But handsome bob is correct if you are gwapo it will happen without gifts

[handsomebob]

6 hours ago, Iceman7 said:

Thanks for the advice bro, she actually contacts me to come visit her and gets jealous when the other theras try to flirt with me. But you are right. I do go to the gym and even though I don't have a Brad Pitt body its better then being obese 

ahh make her jealous bro and see how she reacts ahahaha

[Iceman7]

1 hour ago, handsomebob said:

ahh make her jealous bro and see how she reacts ahahaha

I have done that in the past haha some theras don't like sharing their regulars with their co-workers hehe

[plug]

11 hours ago, MartinAvedis3 said:

 So if pag ang GM and escort girl nagkagustuhan..make sure not just by loving them..also part of it to sustain their financial needs if you pull them out from their work. Advantage pag ang GM may pera talaga, katulad sa dalwa ko kaibigan, parehas sila nagkagusto sa dating escort girls, successful naman relationship, binigyan ng business (instead of giving them to fish..teach them how to fish) And yun isa still sustaining monthly.

 

This is true at magiging responsibilidad mo siya. Preparing her para maging financially independent would be the best solution para doon na lang siya aasa sa sex from you.

On 6/14/2023 at 11:56 AM, Iceman7 said:

I no longer participate in the vicious cycle but in order to obtain higher mileage with my regulars I still do buy them food and take them out and give them small gifts.

The only problem with that is once they get comfy with your relationship I will get that text late at night asking for financial assistance.

Of course I would like to deny their request but worried that I would lost my high mileage status as well.

If any other GMs has been in this situation I would like feedback on how to deal with Theras that ask for financial assistance while still keeping your high mileage without providing any.

Kung di ka na comfortable at di tugma sa gusto mo mas mabuti tanggihan mo at iwasan mo na siya. Tuloy lang sa bisyo para naman sa iba. Kasi kailangan firm ka rin.

Minsan tinanggihan ko ang hiling dahil sa takot ko sa covid noong kasagsagan ng pandemic. Tinapat ko siya at medyo masakit ata nasabi ko para lang hindi mangulit. Mas mahal ko ang aking sarili. 

Pero hanggang ngayon magkarelasyon pa rin kami dahil kailangan ko ang katulad niya. She also serves as pang comparison ko pag kukuha ako ng ibang babae o thera. She is a former thera and I normally call her my regular. 

[juliushandle]

Mahirap ito.

[bosorero]

On 6/13/2023 at 3:05 PM, Diamond of Touch said:

I feel bad,

 

Mahirap for him 

 

But di ko kayang iwan Yung industry na toh sa ngayon

Hnd sa marahil eh naging comfort zone ko na hnd eh, hanggat kaya ko magwork sa industry magwowork at magwowork ako ipon dito ipon doon. Dati I tried na umalis Sabi ko pa sa sarili ko di na ko babalik hahah TAs after ilang yrs bumalik ulit ako nah haha  AYoko na Makita Yung sarili ko na babalik ulit TAs kakainin ko ulit Yung sinabi ko,😆 basta mahirap na magsalita Ng tapos  Wala lang gusto ko pag umalis ako, Yung tipong may mas maayos na reason Yung alam ko sa sarili ko na iiwan ko na yung industry.

Nagawa ko na Yun before eh AYoko na isugal ulit HAHAHAH 

Ang hirap talaga hanapin sa labas yung kinikita nyo sa spa

Edited June 20, 2023 by bosorero

[bosorero]

Tanong lang sa mga GM, d nyo ba naisip na manghunting na lang ng saleslady na pwedeng igarahe kesa thera para hindi masyadong hustler at mas lower ang maintenance. Not to mention lower mileage?