C111 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 Thanks too for the sage advice. This is absolutely useful for me. Thanks, that's my one-and-done KiSA career.She left the industry a week after we became "us" and never went back though during turbulent times she would think/say that she'll just revert. I made sure she never diid, never had to. It took a lot to make sure she finished her schooling. To her credit she did her part and graduated with honors.Word of caution, gents. You'll have to replace everything from you thera-love's career:- regular earnings not just for herslef but also for her part in her family's upkeep, not mention frequent financial emergencies of her loved ones- bad habits, manner of dress, speech, social behavior so she can feel part of society again and out of the underground -- educate her, in and oiut of school- give her proper ambition, the one that goes hand in hand with discipline and patience - you'll have to understand they're used to duty money, easy to earn and much easier to spend- give her back her soul by being her soulmate; do not give up on her until she's able to stand on her own again, not just financially, but also emotionally and psychologically- be ready for YOUR heart breaking in the end. Why? Because you'll always be part of her spa life (that's where you met her, remember?), and staying on means not giving her a real fresh start.There's no forever here, whatever the circumstances. But yes, you can save a life, a soul. It will just take a whole lot of money, and all of your heart and soul. Quote Link to comment
MarshalFox Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 +1 for this. If I may add to this: Attention - Baka part na rin of being a soulmate/buddy. She may have gotten used to being pursued and adored by numerous men. Make sure she feels the same, if not more so.Goes true for other relationships I guess, Thanks, that's my one-and-done KiSA career. She left the industry a week after we became "us" and never went back though during turbulent times she would think/say that she'll just revert. I made sure she never diid, never had to. It took a lot to make sure she finished her schooling. To her credit she did her part and graduated with honors. Word of caution, gents. You'll have to replace everything from you thera-love's career: - regular earnings not just for herslef but also for her part in her family's upkeep, not mention frequent financial emergencies of her loved ones - bad habits, manner of dress, speech, social behavior so she can feel part of society again and out of the underground -- educate her, in and oiut of school - give her proper ambition, the one that goes hand in hand with discipline and patience - you'll have to understand they're used to duty money, easy to earn and much easier to spend - give her back her soul by being her soulmate; do not give up on her until she's able to stand on her own again, not just financially, but also emotionally and psychologically - be ready for YOUR heart breaking in the end. Why? Because you'll always be part of her spa life (that's where you met her, remember?), and staying on means not giving her a real fresh start. There's no forever here, whatever the circumstances. But yes, you can save a life, a soul. It will just take a whole lot of money, and all of your heart and soul. Quote Link to comment
edotensei Posted September 19, 2017 Share Posted September 19, 2017 Thanks, that's my one-and-done KiSA career. She left the industry a week after we became "us" and never went back though during turbulent times she would think/say that she'll just revert. I made sure she never diid, never had to. It took a lot to make sure she finished her schooling. To her credit she did her part and graduated with honors. Word of caution, gents. You'll have to replace everything from you thera-love's career: - regular earnings not just for herslef but also for her part in her family's upkeep, not mention frequent financial emergencies of her loved ones - bad habits, manner of dress, speech, social behavior so she can feel part of society again and out of the underground -- educate her, in and oiut of school - give her proper ambition, the one that goes hand in hand with discipline and patience - you'll have to understand they're used to duty money, easy to earn and much easier to spend - give her back her soul by being her soulmate; do not give up on her until she's able to stand on her own again, not just financially, but also emotionally and psychologically - be ready for YOUR heart breaking in the end. Why? Because you'll always be part of her spa life (that's where you met her, remember?), and staying on means not giving her a real fresh start. There's no forever here, whatever the circumstances. But yes, you can save a life, a soul. It will just take a whole lot of money, and all of your heart and soul.BS Quote Link to comment
greenX Posted September 19, 2017 Share Posted September 19, 2017 kung di nyo kayang pigilan sarili nyo mag spa/MP/walk.. PLEASE!! pigilan ang sarili nyo ma-inlove sa kanila.. Quote Link to comment
c@rl0 Posted September 20, 2017 Share Posted September 20, 2017 Can't help but fall to this pretty and sweet girl. Just remember it's only about the money money money. Yup its complicated to fall. Enjoy Lang!!! Quote Link to comment
rontan2014 Posted September 20, 2017 Share Posted September 20, 2017 Been there, done that. 5m, two trips abroad, a car, 2 culinary degrees and 1.5 years later, iniwan din ako. Tho minahal naman (daw) nya ko during our time together. Well, at least yun ang sabi nya. Hahahaha. Anyway, no regrets. Di naman sya na bumalik sa spa ever after she left (tho madaming times nagsabi na babalik na lang sya tinakot ko lang para di na bumalik), maayos na sya now, and happy. All's well that ends well.Thanks, that's my one-and-done KiSA career. She left the industry a week after we became "us" and never went back though during turbulent times she would think/say that she'll just revert. I made sure she never diid, never had to. It took a lot to make sure she finished her schooling. To her credit she did her part and graduated with honors. Word of caution, gents. You'll have to replace everything from you thera-love's career: - regular earnings not just for herslef but also for her part in her family's upkeep, not mention frequent financial emergencies of her loved ones - bad habits, manner of dress, speech, social behavior so she can feel part of society again and out of the underground -- educate her, in and oiut of school - give her proper ambition, the one that goes hand in hand with discipline and patience - you'll have to understand they're used to duty money, easy to earn and much easier to spend - give her back her soul by being her soulmate; do not give up on her until she's able to stand on her own again, not just financially, but also emotionally and psychologically - be ready for YOUR heart breaking in the end. Why? Because you'll always be part of her spa life (that's where you met her, remember?), and staying on means not giving her a real fresh start. There's no forever here, whatever the circumstances. But yes, you can save a life, a soul. It will just take a whole lot of money, and all of your heart and soul. Relationship doomed to fail from the very start. But at least you funded her new beginning for greener pastures. Magastos nga lang... Quote Link to comment
❤STACEY❤ Posted September 20, 2017 Share Posted September 20, 2017 Hindi naman lahat ng my pera jojowain agad, DBA pwedeng nagmahal langdin Quote Link to comment
nytcr4wl3r Posted September 20, 2017 Share Posted September 20, 2017 Relationship doomed to fail from the very start. But at least you funded her new beginning for greener pastures. Magastos nga lang... Yes, and yes. SOBRANG gastos. Quote Link to comment
Ryoji Posted September 20, 2017 Share Posted September 20, 2017 Falling for a thera is a no no.. GM to Thera is like a business relationship.. Walang personalan, trabaho lang. Quote Link to comment
GMT Posted September 20, 2017 Share Posted September 20, 2017 Been there, done that. 5m, two trips abroad, a car, 2 culinary degrees and 1.5 years later, iniwan din ako. Tho minahal naman (daw) nya ko during our time together. Well, at least yun ang sabi nya. Hahahaha. Anyway, no regrets. Di naman sya na bumalik sa spa ever after she left (tho madaming times nagsabi na babalik na lang sya tinakot ko lang para di na bumalik), maayos na sya now, and happy. All's well that ends well. Ha! Similar experience. I paid for her culinary school. But in the end I'm the one who broke it off. We were from two different worlds...actually two different universes. Our backgrounds, education, social circles, and thinking were never synched. The gap was too wide to be crossed. Hell, I'm not even based in the Philippines so add overseas long distance to the mix. Lesson learned. Quote Link to comment
- The Godfather - Posted September 21, 2017 Share Posted September 21, 2017 (edited) Here's my two cents... just go with the flow and let your conscience be your guide in doing what is right or wrong actions, feelings or emotions. At the end of the day, you can always say what GM Rebel_Yell have said... "no regrets." WE CANNOT PLEASE EVERYBODY. As long as you're doing it right (based on your conscience), you don't have to worry. Edited September 21, 2017 by Mister Yozo Quote Link to comment
Lion G. Rero Posted September 21, 2017 Share Posted September 21, 2017 User friendly sila Quote Link to comment
cloud999 Posted September 21, 2017 Share Posted September 21, 2017 Agree on most of the posts here. Just go with the flow and know your priorities through your conscience and at the same time respeto na lang din sa thera. Easier saud than done maybe but it is what it should be. Peace! Quote Link to comment
rontan2014 Posted September 21, 2017 Share Posted September 21, 2017 If you have a thing with your thera, just do some nice 2-4 day road trip lang, with lots of overnight banging.With both of you enjoying. Beyond that, don't expect much. Quote Link to comment
krista baby!! Posted September 21, 2017 Share Posted September 21, 2017 grabe naman ang perspective ng mga gms sa aming mga thera,,, nakakasad.... #justsaYing! Quote Link to comment
Chuk123 Posted September 21, 2017 Share Posted September 21, 2017 (edited) Sa mga affected Jan. Ready sing!Why cant it beWhy cant it be the two of usWhy cant we be lovers, only friendsYou came alongAt the wrong place, at the wrong timeOr was it me... 😂😂😂 Edited September 21, 2017 by .:: Chuck ::. Quote Link to comment
walldave Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 grabe naman ang perspective ng mga gms sa aming mga thera,,, nakakasad.... #justsaYing!Madami kasi base sa experience lang din kasi. Basta sa lahat ng relasyon imposible ang pantay. Talagang may malulugi, anyway kung alam naman ng tao ang pinasok nila hayaan mo na. Meron at meron na mahuhulog, malalaglag at mag uumpog ng ulo sa bato maging GM or thera. Quote Link to comment
green viper Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 grabe naman ang perspective ng mga gms sa aming mga thera,,, nakakasad.... #justsaYing!Pwedeng mali ako, pero may mga thera rin na grabe ang perspective sa aming mga GMs... yun iba nga dyan garapalan pa kung humingi (humuthot)... nakakasad... tit for tat... what is good for the goose is good for the gander... Quote Link to comment
whateverfool! Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 Dear GM's and Thera's -Hindi naman masama ma in love sa isat isa.At kung magkatuluyan man kayo, e di go! Happy kami sa inyo. Pero susubukan kayo ng tadhana- WALANG FOREVER DITO! Pustahan tayo, di kayo magtatagal kasi ang daming kasinungalingan at temptation na mangyayari hanggang nasa industriyang ito si thera. Quote Link to comment
Louissa Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 Possible ba talagang may guest na ma fall sa thera? Quote Link to comment
mtfakers03 Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 Possible ba talagang may guest na ma fall sa thera?absolutely YES. Quote Link to comment
shogun16 Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 I fell also one time on my regular thera. So I distance my self cause I'm not that good looking guy Weeks passed she didn't even bother to message or text me and that was the sign I took to move on. Pare-parehas tayong may mga puso at damdamin na binibigyan ng pansin. Walang masama ma fall in love ang Gm at thera pero I think it really takes a lot of patience, respect and true love for a true and lifetime happy ending to happen. Quote Link to comment
xMac Donald Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 I fell also one time on my regular thera. So I distance my self cause I'm not that good looking guy Weeks passed she didn't even bother to message or text me and that was the sign I took to move on. Pare-parehas tayong may mga puso at damdamin na binibigyan ng pansin. Walang masama ma fall in love ang Gm at thera pero I think it really takes a lot of patience, respect and true love for a true and lifetime happy ending to happen.Indeed a sure way to k*ll a relationship, any kind of relationship for that matter, is to stop all kinds of communication. Quote Link to comment
royflirty Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 I fell also one time on my regular thera. So I distance my self cause I'm not that good looking guy Weeks passed she didn't even bother to message or text me and that was the sign I took to move on. Pare-parehas tayong may mga puso at damdamin na binibigyan ng pansin. Walang masama ma fall in love ang Gm at thera pero I think it really takes a lot of patience, respect and true love for a true and lifetime happy ending to happen.malamang magiging same situation tayo, im also not good looking :-( Quote Link to comment
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