Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Chupapi Muñañio]

I have my fair share of having a relationship with a thera...

Unfortunately for me it didn't workout but it is always mutual break up...

Since I'm not ready for a very serious relationship...

 

And I don't agree that most GM who comes in Spa have low self esteem or a loser who can't get a intimate relationship with a girl outside the spa industry...

[Solaryan]

And I don't agree that most GM who comes in Spa have low self esteem or a loser who can't get a intimate relationship with a girl outside the spa industry...

 

 

Same here Thugsoulja6g..

 

I think it's easy to judge or box people in stereotypes. But, to delve deeper and really find out why they do what they do at why they are who they are, will take time.

 

So, carry on my wayward sons.

[Lesluthor]

Sir Lesluthor. what is your profession now? Are you by any chance an IT Director? Saw your post in Confessions thread....Hahaha...Looks like you dated a movie star before.

 

http://manilatonight.com/index.php?showtopic=50125&page=108

 

Anyway, i really don't see what the problem is. Kng c boy and girl ay parehong aware sa trabaho ng isat-isa, and they still choose to pursue a relationship, then by all means they should. Veterano na dn ako sa ganito, yes, I saw some relationships failed. But I also saw some that succeeded. In fact, 2 of my close friends are in relationships with women in this industry. One couple will probably get married this year after going strong for 5 years. So I don't agree with people who say we should look for relationships outside in the real world. Hey, this is the real world and therapists are women too that we all can easily fall in love with.

 

 

Hahaha..I did not think that confession will bite me in the ass....Am I an IT Director?Hmm...I invoke my right to self-preservation. Lol....Saying more will probably put me in a deeper hole.

 

Anyway, yes, the White Knight! That is sooo true. We often see theras/gros as damsels in distress in need of our help. I learned the hard way from previous relationships (I also had a GF before from Airforce 1, a top GRO from Darkbeat and a Top Thera in Midas) that if they leave the flesh trade business, it has to be their decision. It would only lead to more instability and cracks in the relationship if the girl was somehow "pressured" to get out of her "employment" and explore other more traditional job options. We can guide them, help them, but at the end of the day, they are their own women.

[wheeljack]

 

 

Hahaha..I did not think that confession will bite me in the ass....Am I an IT Director?Hmm...I invoke my right to self-preservation. Lol....Saying more will probably put me in a deeper hole.

 

Anyway, yes, the White Knight! That is sooo true. We often see theras/gros as damsels in distress in need of our help. I learned the hard way from previous relationships (I also had a GF before from Airforce 1, a top GRO from Darkbeat and a Top Thera in Midas) that if they leave the flesh trade business, it has to be their decision. It would only lead to more instability and cracks in the relationship if the girl was somehow "pressured" to get out of her "employment" and explore other more traditional job options. We can guide them, help them, but at the end of the day, they are their own women.

 

Totally agree. At the end of the day, they will have to decide if they want to leave the profession and pursue something else. Unfortunately, most theras are not like May. There are a lot more who never got to finish school which is why the circumstances drove them into the business in the first place. We all would like to help them but some of them don't have the confidence to pursue something else which is why they never leave until such time they are forced to leave.

[Lesluthor]

 

Totally agree. At the end of the day, they will have to decide if they want to leave the profession and pursue something else. Unfortunately, most theras are not like May. There are a lot more who never got to finish school which is why the circumstances drove them into the business in the first place. We all would like to help them but some of them don't have the confidence to pursue something else which is why they never leave until such time they are forced to leave.

 

That is true, not a lot of them has a degree like May does. Actually, I don't think I have met a thera who graduated with honors in college like May did!Ibang klase ka tlaga Ms May....I believe there are a lot of options. Apply in online casinos where face value is a premium, do small time business from capital earned are just some examples that come to mind...but the problem is, most of these options will not offer the "quick" money that being a therapist will. That is why it has to be their choice as they need to readjust their lifestyles accordingly once they do leave the industry.

Edited December 29, 2016 by Lesluthor

[wheeljack]

 

That is true, not a lot of them has a degree like May does. Actually, I don't think I have met a thera who graduated with honors in college like May did!Ibang klase ka tlaga Ms May....I believe there are a lot of options. Apply in online casinos where face value is a premium, do small time business from capital earned are just some examples that come to mind...but the problem is, most of these options will not offer the "quick" money that being a therapist will. That is why it has to be their choice as they need to readjust their lifestyles accordingly once they do leave the industry.

 

yes! and we must also remember that the windfall that the top theras get on a given day can be comparable to executives (e.g. 6 guests at 2k/guest = 12K). that amount is huge and tax free at that. And they do that 6 days a week. The income they derive in a month is no laughing matter which is why they are really able to help their families. Sadly, more often than not, a lot of them don't have a lot of savings because most of what they earn is sent to their families. And that is why a lot of them hesitate to fall in love or leave the industry

[Lesluthor]

 

yes! and we must also remember that the windfall that the top theras get on a given day can be comparable to executives (e.g. 6 guests at 2k/guest = 12K). that amount is huge and tax free at that. And they do that 6 days a week. The income they derive in a month is no laughing matter which is why they are really able to help their families. Sadly, more often than not, a lot of them don't have a lot of savings because most of what they earn is sent to their families. And that is why a lot of them hesitate to fall in love or leave the industry

 

Damn, it took me more than decade to hit that salary grade...Lol...and they do it now, some of them even do not have college degrees...I guess if they really do leave the industry for a guy, it's tantamount to true love. Imagine the lost revenue on the part of the theras.

Edited December 29, 2016 by Lesluthor

[wheeljack]

 

Damn, it took me more than decade to hit that salary grade...Lol...and they do it now, some of them even do not have college degrees...I guess if they really do leave the industry for a guy, it's tantamount to true love. Imagine the lost revenue on the part of the theras.

 

that is true. maybe one thing we can do to help them is to teach them how to save, how to invest. their window of opportunity is very small and once that closes, they may fall on hard times again

[Lesluthor]

Si therapist or DOTA?

 

Pde both?Hahaha.

[Lesluthor]

Pwede iyan >:}

 

Ano sir, mag set na ba tau nina Solaryan ng inuman session?Hahaha...next year?

[Lesluthor]

Sama na rin natin yung iba rito. Haha, sa totoo di ako umiinom pero go na rin.

 

Cge ba...hehe...let's set 1 nyt na sharing EScapades and luv stories...madami d2 mga may experience ma inluv sa thera eh.

[spirochete]

Therapist salary growth and grade is big while they are young and beautiful (topping the charts) and goes down while they age.

 

This is the reverse of a normal professional who starts small (minimum) and gets higher upon learning new skills and getting promoted. (Executive/Manager level).

 

This is sad because if they don't save the money early they are lost and their future is full uncertainty. Most don't save getting hook on drugs, vices, gambling, callboys and luxury materials.

 

Most are hoping for the rich white knight, kabit or sponsor who will marry them or support them till they age.

 

Sadly they dont learn any skills or money management abilities doing this job and most of their savings are used up also by their family or bad investments.

[dr. unknown]

Therapist salary growth and grade is big while they are young and beautiful (topping the charts) and goes down while they age.

 

This is the reverse of a normal professional who starts small (minimum) and gets higher upon learning new skills and getting promoted. (Executive/Manager level).

 

This is sad because if they don't save the money early they are lost and their future is full uncertainty. Most don't save getting hook on drugs, vices, gambling, callboys and luxury materials.

 

Most are hoping for the rich white knight, kabit or sponsor who will marry them or support them till they age.

 

Sadly they dont learn any skills or money management abilities doing this job and most of their savings are used up also by their family or bad investments.

 

 

 

 

sad but true..and the white knight / sponsor will eventually dump the thera kapag wala na yung physical asset nya...you can only be pretty and hot for a certain period.

Edited December 29, 2016 by Ed 671

[Solaryan]

 

Ano sir, mag set na ba tau nina Solaryan ng inuman session?Hahaha...next year?

 

hahaha! +1 ako dito mga bro!

[Solaryan]

 

sad but true..and the white knight / sponsor will eventually dump the thera kapag wala na yung physical asset nya...you can only be pretty and hot for a certain period.

 

 

All the more reason for our beloved theras to be smart with the way they handle their finances...

 

This is something that they are also aware of, which is why most of them have plans to also invest and start a business that they can sustain.

Edited December 29, 2016 by Solaryan

[OMEGAnun]

 

sad but true..and the white knight / sponsor will eventually dump the thera kapag wala na yung physical asset nya...you can only be pretty and hot for a certain period.

 

...or will simply stop supporting the therapist due to "donor fatigue"

[Solaryan]

 

Ayun o, sugurin na ba natin yung mga taga Mandalay? Haha.

 

 

Haha HB di tayo manunugod.. haha! get together, sharing ng kwento at inum lang kung di beer pede naman shots! haha

[Lesluthor]

 

 

Haha HB di tayo manunugod.. haha! get together, sharing ng kwento at inum lang kung di beer pede naman shots! haha

 

Uu, wholesome inuman lng and sharing..Hahaha...mayayari ako kng ppnta ako sa ibang spa.

[lone23]

May gusto akong ligawan na Thera.

[curvermay]

 

sad but true..and the white knight / sponsor will eventually dump the thera kapag wala na yung physical asset nya...you can only be pretty and hot for a certain period.

 

Exactly sir. Thus I do not desire a white knight. I am not closing my door to a GM-turned-lover, but the man has to understand that I desire a real long term relationship that is not based on his financial capability and second, his affections go beyond my pretty face. I want something lasting, it is cliché and too idealistic, but I want someone to grow old with someday. Someone who will love me wrinkles and all. I know this is strange coming from a thera, but on the contrary, I am in the perfect situation to assess men, given the fact that I am intimate with most of you due to my job.

 

Also, someone pointed out that a theras income is indirectly proportional to our age and looks. That is very true and I wholeheartedly agree. That is the main reason why I turned down a banking job. If I will be a thera, the best time is now while I am single, N-MILF and still desirable for males, our target market. My degree is not going anywhere. I will be carrying that proudly for the rest of my life. I can always apply and be a corporate person in 2 or 3 years time. I would only be 23 then, still at the peak of my youth with more than enough time to climb the ranks and earn promotions.

 

For now, I just need to sacrifice a little, get that capital I need for my business venture, then leave the industry for good. Hope to meet most of you before I call it quits. These exchanges are very enjoyable.

Edited December 29, 2016 by curvermay

[wheeljack]

Unfortunately ms may, you are an exception to the rule. More theras belong to the category of not having a degree to fall back on. Thus they really have no fall back options in the horizon.

[mr robot]

Unfortunately ms may, you are an exception to the rule. More theras belong to the category of not having a degree to fall back on. Thus they really have no fall back options in the horizon.

very well said

 

Unless there is an ORG that will help them to do business and buying stocks/investment.

[juL1us]

very well said

 

Unless there is an ORG that will help them to do business and buying stocks/investment.

I doubt kung merong thera na magiging interesado dyan. Tamad yung mga yun...

[lone23]

I have this young thera sa isang MP na may thread din sa MTC. Close kami, then humingi sya ng payo na may nanliligaw daw na GM sa kanya. Kinikilig si Thera actually. Pansin ko rin na blooming sya. Sabi ko sa kanya mahirap yun. She also ask kung may naging relationship na rin ako sa thera. I open my self to her and tell my side. Di pa nya sinasagot yung guy. I told her na masaya talaga sa una yun, then papasok na yung selos at trust issues dun na magkakaproblem. Di pa rin kasi ako ready nun sabi ko sa kanya. May kaya daw yung lalaki na nag-aaral pa. Gusto daw sya ipakilala sa family at barkada nung guy. In our conversation I also advice her to think more than twice. Magka-iba kasi kami nung guy. Akoay work na nung nagGF ako ng Thera, yung manliligaw nya Student pa. Soon may makkakilala sayo sa barkada nya or kung magkatrabaho na sya may office mate yun na makikilala rin sayo, sabi ko sa kanya. Dapat iready mo sarili mo. Madaling pasukin yan, complicated nga lang. Ang weird nun time na yun, nagpakaKuya ako sa kanya. Giving love advice to my Therapist. Ang Ganda talaga ng babae pag-inlove.

Edited December 29, 2016 by lone23

[moan]

I have this young thera sa isang MP na may thread din sa MTC. Close kami, then humingi sya ng payo na may nanliligaw daw na GM sa kanya. Kinikilig si Thera actually. Pansin ko rin na blooming sya. Sabi ko sa kanya mahirap yun. She also ask kung may naging relationship na rin ako sa thera. I open my self to her and tell my side. Di pa nya sinasagot yung guy. I told her na masaya talaga sa una yun, then papasok na yung selos at trust issues dun na magkakaproblem. Di pa rin kasi ako ready nun sabi ko sa kanya. May kaya daw yung lalaki na nag-aaral pa. Gusto daw sya ipakilala sa family at barkada nung guy. In our conversation I also advice her to think more than twice. Magka-iba kasi kami nung guy. Akoay work na nung nagGF ako ng Thera, yung manliligaw nya Student pa. Soon may makkakilala sayo sa barkada nya or kung magkatrabaho na sya may office mate yun na makikilala rin sayo, sabi ko sa kanya. Dapat iready mo sarili mo. Madaling pasukin yan, complicated nga lang. Ang weird nun time na yun, nagpakaKuya ako sa kanya. Giving love advice to my Therapist. Ang Ganda talaga ng babae pag-inlove.

 

 

That was sweet of you fellowGM. Dapat siguraduhin nya na yung Guest nya na yun hindi lang Freesex ang habol