Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[- The Godfather -]

On lying..."let him who is without sin cast the first stone"

 

On Falling for a Therapist..."Love is just a word until somebody comes along and gives it a meaning. Love is spelled T-I-M-E...if you cannot invest time in a relationship, forget it!"

[lone23]

Babae, wag kang mainlove kay lalake dahil sa salapi.

 

Lalake, wag kang mainlove kay babae dahil sa libog.

 

Magmahal ka dahil sa mahal mo.

[curvermay]

 

Call it what you want May. A lie is a lie. Selective truth is also called omitting the truth. Partial Truth is not wholly honest. What if i'm to tell you lying on a job application is a federal offense? Probably depends on the job you are applying for but there's a question on a job app that asks about solicitation for sexual activity.

 

I only mentioned that because you are cited submitting a "padded resume" just so you can make your background look good.

 

But going back to your "selective truth". Its not me that's going to judge you. God will. you don't need me or anyone to tell you if you're telling a lie or not. Like i said you made your bed, you sleep on it. But remember, the man above is watching all the time...

 

 

 

Hi PPK,

 

 

Good morning.

 

I am not certain how young/old you are but I was wondering what you would say when you arrive at your house after a spa session, a female loved one like your wife/daughter/sister asks, "Saan ka galing?" Do you answer, "Sa Midas, nagpa blowjob kay May." or would you select your words carefully and answer along the lines of "Sa Antipolo, may pinuntahan lang"?

 

Both are technically true. But one statement would serve your purpose better. The fact that we are in this forum means that we, one way or another patronize this industry. As such, most of us also know what this environment entails. For GMs, it means conjuring excuses to wives/GFs, sparing money for this vice which otherwise would have better uses. For theras, it means we manage the perception of our parents/relatives to make sure they are kept in the dark about the real nature of the job, wishing everyday that no family member or a close acquaintance walks into the spa or reads the forums and sees our provocative pictures. We do not need any reminder of these things as we all walked into this situation with open minds. Having said that, I do not think any of us are in the moral high ground to lecture anyone about truth, honesty and God.

 

Let us all enjoy the business in its intended purpose. We are here to provide GMs a quick and uncomplicated release and theras earn a quick buck. If in the process, something else like love develops, then so be it. Both parties know exactly know that they are getting into. Whether they succeed in that endeavor, that is the question both must face knowing full well where and how they met in the first place.

 

Good discussion sir. Enjoyed reading this thread very much. :D

Edited January 5, 2017 by curvermay

[Chupapi Muñañio]

Bakit love mo si thera?

Para tigas lagi titi @_@

Bakit love mo si GM?

Laki kasi titi *_*

Haha, serious naman kasi nung iba. Ano ba naman iyan.

Pero kadalasan talaga

 

Bakit love mo si GM.?

Kasi dami pera.

 

 

[curvermay]

Pero kadalasan talaga

 

Bakit love mo si GM.?

Kasi dami pera.

 

 

Same from the other side.Bakit love mo c thera?

Kasi masarap sa kama.

[blue+george]

 

 

Hi PPK,

 

 

Good morning.

 

I am not certain how young/old you are but I was wondering what you would say when you arrive at your house after a spa session, a female loved one like your wife/daughter/sister asks, "Saan ka galing?" Do you answer, "Sa Midas, nagpa blowjob kay May." or would you select your words carefully and answer along the lines of "Sa Antipolo, may pinuntahan lang"?

 

Both are technically true. But one statement would serve your purpose better. The fact that we are in this forum means that we, one way or another patronize this industry. As such, most of us also know what this environment entails. For GMs, it means conjuring excuses to wives/GFs, sparing money for this vice which otherwise would have better uses. For theras, it means we manage the perception of our parents/relatives to make sure they are kept in the dark about the real nature of the job, wishing everyday that no family member or a close acquaintance walks into the spa or reads the forums and sees our provocative pictures. We do not need any reminder of these things as we all walked into this situation with open minds. Having said that, I do not think any of us are in the moral high ground to lecture anyone about truth, honesty and God.

 

Let us all enjoy the business in its intended purpose. We are here to provide GMs a quick and uncomplicated release and theras earn a quick buck. If in the process, something else like love develops, then so be it. Both parties know exactly know that they are getting into. Whether they succeed in that endeavor, that is the question both must face knowing full well where and how they met in the first place.

 

Good discussion sir. Enjoyed reading this thread very much. :D

ampf..... nicely put. subtle, yet full of substance totally agree. I love girls with brains. sexy maganda may utak and magaling sa kama. keeper! kudos curvermay. love to have conversations with you in the near future

[Tolonges]

very informative thread...LIKE it...thanks pips'...

[Chupapi Muñañio]

Same from the other side.Bakit love mo c thera?

Kasi masarap sa kama.

Naman...

[drewbrees]

 

 

Hi PPK,

 

 

Good morning.

 

I am not certain how young/old you are but I was wondering what you would say when you arrive at your house after a spa session, a female loved one like your wife/daughter/sister asks, "Saan ka galing?" Do you answer, "Sa Midas, nagpa blowjob kay May." or would you select your words carefully and answer along the lines of "Sa Antipolo, may pinuntahan lang"?

 

Both are technically true. But one statement would serve your purpose better. The fact that we are in this forum means that we, one way or another patronize this industry. As such, most of us also know what this environment entails. For GMs, it means conjuring excuses to wives/GFs, sparing money for this vice which otherwise would have better uses. For theras, it means we manage the perception of our parents/relatives to make sure they are kept in the dark about the real nature of the job, wishing everyday that no family member or a close acquaintance walks into the spa or reads the forums and sees our provocative pictures. We do not need any reminder of these things as we all walked into this situation with open minds. Having said that, I do not think any of us are in the moral high ground to lecture anyone about truth, honesty and God.

 

Let us all enjoy the business in its intended purpose. We are here to provide GMs a quick and uncomplicated release and theras earn a quick buck. If in the process, something else like love develops, then so be it. Both parties know exactly know that they are getting into. Whether they succeed in that endeavor, that is the question both must face knowing full well where and how they met in the first place.

 

Good discussion sir. Enjoyed reading this thread very much. :D

 

I don't need to lie to her. I'm open with her. She knows what these places are. She understands what these spas represent. She would have an issue with it if it had an emotional aspect to it. She appreciates my honesty and loves me more because of it. She told me that she would have resented me if she found out i was hiding it and lying instead of being honest from the start.

 

My situation doesn't apply to people who try to omit their "truths" to their loved ones. Doing that only serves your own purposes and justifies the reason for lying, it doesn't serve the purposes of your relationship with the loved one. To me, that's being selfish and only thinking about yourself.

[- The Godfather -]

 

 

Hi PPK,

 

 

Good morning.

 

I am not certain how young/old you are but I was wondering what you would say when you arrive at your house after a spa session, a female loved one like your wife/daughter/sister asks, "Saan ka galing?" Do you answer, "Sa Midas, nagpa blowjob kay May." or would you select your words carefully and answer along the lines of "Sa Antipolo, may pinuntahan lang"?

 

Both are technically true. But one statement would serve your purpose better. The fact that we are in this forum means that we, one way or another patronize this industry. As such, most of us also know what this environment entails. For GMs, it means conjuring excuses to wives/GFs, sparing money for this vice which otherwise would have better uses. For theras, it means we manage the perception of our parents/relatives to make sure they are kept in the dark about the real nature of the job, wishing everyday that no family member or a close acquaintance walks into the spa or reads the forums and sees our provocative pictures. We do not need any reminder of these things as we all walked into this situation with open minds. Having said that, I do not think any of us are in the moral high ground to lecture anyone about truth, honesty and God.

 

Let us all enjoy the business in its intended purpose. We are here to provide GMs a quick and uncomplicated release and theras earn a quick buck. If in the process, something else like love develops, then so be it. Both parties know exactly know that they are getting into. Whether they succeed in that endeavor, that is the question both must face knowing full well where and how they met in the first place.

 

Good discussion sir. Enjoyed reading this thread very much. :D

 

I admire the way that curvermay crafted her posts...with finesse!

[DonJuancho]

WTF ano kinalaman ng federal offense dito? The Accountant pa more hahaha (that's a line from the movie, also we are in the Philippines ffs).

 

Kidding aside, incomplete truths are indeed not lies. However, to hide the truth or parts of it is insincerity. And you don't need to be sincere to everyone around you (like the parents of your loved one). Pero kung insincere ka pati sa taong sinasabi mong mahal mo, eh iba na yun hahaha.

 

 

Call it what you want May. A lie is a lie. Selective truth is also called omitting the truth. Partial Truth is not wholly honest. What if i'm to tell you lying on a job application is a federal offense? Probably depends on the job you are applying for but there's a question on a job app that asks about solicitation for sexual activity.

 

I only mentioned that because you are cited submitting a "padded resume" just so you can make your background look good.

 

But going back to your "selective truth". Its not me that's going to judge you. God will. you don't need me or anyone to tell you if you're telling a lie or not. Like i said you made your bed, you sleep on it. But remember, the man above is watching all the time...

 

 

 

 

A logic full of flaws. Comparing Nascar drivers to F1 drivers and drag racers. You're talking about the same thing. They are all drivers. You're saying that because Nascar and F1 are popular that means they're different from each other? If it's Because of popularity or "high profile" that makes them different, then you totally missed the point.

 

a F1 or Nascar Driver can just as well become a drag racer or vice versa. They're not different because they are All drivers and they can drive those cars. Only difference is, they are driving different cars.

 

Until you can cite a True comparison to me then you just dug yourself a hole with your argument. Give me an example other than a porn star who sucks dicks for a living that would be comparable to a spakol therapist or massage parlor attendant. You can probably cite psp's, hookers, and escorts. but that only proves my comparison to be right.

[Solaryan]

Therapists are indoctrinated to provide GFE to increase their marketability. Sometimes, that GFE is innate in a therapist. If the guest falls in love with a therapist, it is his fault and his fault alone. A therapist can't control his emotions. The same goes for therapists who fall in love with a guest.

 

Totally and completely agree with what he said. Especially about the part where it is the GM's fault if they fall/ start to like their therapist.

 

For me personally, it's not the usual gfe that I like about her. It's the aura that she exudes or her attitude towards me. Wherein she makes me feel that she's good at her job by taking care of me, but at the same time, she also makes me feel that she doesn't really care if I become her loyal patron or not. She will still be who she is and do what she wants to do. So, it's up to me if I want to avail of her services or not.

 

She's not the first thera I had, nor is she the one with the most mileage I have experienced, she is among the prettiest for sure, but it's not just her beauty. I can't determine what it is about her that makes me addicted to her. And I guess, that is one of the reasons I keep wanting more time with her. I want to know what I like about her. Haha! Damn, I am like a teenager infatuated or something. LOL, the perks of going to a Spa, it keeps us young, but I didn't know that also makes us young at heart and mind.

 

It's hard for me to explain this succinctly, but all I can say is, I'm trying to lessen this "confusion" that I have for her.

 

I know that it's simpler to avail of a thera's service, enjoy the moment and once it's done, move on. (It's up to us, if from time to time, we want to reminisce the esperience and re-visit).

 

I went to a spa just to have fun, but I am now experiencing more than what I came in for. Sometimes, life does that and I'll just enjoy it for as long as I can.

 

A fellow GM once told me in this thread, that she can be my inspiration or muse to better myself. And I agree with what he said too. It's like having another reason to want to look good or be the best version of myself.

 

I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Anyway, I am happy today so I wanted to share this.

Edited January 6, 2017 by Solaryan

[drewbrees]

WTF ano kinalaman ng federal offense dito? The Accountant pa more hahaha (that's a line from the movie, also we are in the Philippines ffs).

 

Kidding aside, incomplete truths are indeed not lies. However, to hide the truth or parts of it is insincerity. And you don't need to be sincere to everyone around you (like the parents of your loved one). Pero kung insincere ka pati sa taong sinasabi mong mahal mo, eh iba na yun hahaha.

 

 

I haven't seen that movie. But i do know that lying on a job application is not acceptable. I've seen questions asking "if you've been involved in a felony etc."

Those types of questions can be seen on a job app in the Philippines as well not just outside the country. Especially if its a foreign company. I was merely reacting to what May said regarding "padding resumes" and not being truthful to a job application because she is under the impression that its ok to do those things just so she can justify lying with regards to not being honest with your loved ones about your GF/thera's history and background.

 

Lying is lying even if some people try to spin it all kinds of ways in order to justify their actions. I stand by what i said. Your actions may not be judged by people. But they will be judged by God.

 

If people decide to lie, subvert or omit truths then that is their decision. May God have mercy on your soul. I respect everyone's decision here. I'm just here to remind everyone. People are capable of deciding what to do with how they live. Stand by those decisions since you made them. But also be prepared for the consequences of those actions. and in the end God will judge you.

Edited January 6, 2017 by ppk

[curvermay]

I haven't seen that movie. But i do know that lying on a job application is not acceptable. I've seen questions asking "if you've been involved in a felony etc."

Those types of questions can be seen on a job app in the Philippines as well not just outside the country. Especially if its a foreign company. I was merely reacting to what May said regarding "padding resumes" and not being truthful to a job application because she is under the impression that its ok to do those things just so she can justify lying with regards to not being honest with your loved ones about your GF/thera's history and background.

 

 

I think you missed my point with the resume analogy.I did not say we lie during job applications.I only said we highlight our best and factual qualifications without the need to disclose self

implicating details.Example, you can indicate you graduated with honors(if you really did) but there is no need to put in the same resume that you got into a fight with a college classmate in your 3rd year.Right?

Edited January 6, 2017 by curvermay

[lone23]

Hi Miss May, tanong lang po. Ano po ang tingin nyo sa mga GM na nanliligaw ng Thera. Sa experience nyo po madami na siguro nagtangka.

[Retiro]

Mahirap turuan ang puso

[Solaryan]

1. These are the types of therapists that have a steady following.

 

2.Consummate professionals who just love their job and do it with gusto.

 

1. Bro, you can say that again. Haha! Siya yung tipong pag di ka agad nakareserve wag ka na umasa na makakakuha ka ng session sa kanya

 

2. Dunno about loving the job, I think more along the lines of treating it professionally. Wherein, she's doing it same way as you or I will do our work (with pride) LOL

[curvermay]

Hi Miss May, tanong lang po. Ano po ang tingin nyo sa mga GM na nanliligaw ng Thera. Sa experience nyo po madami na siguro nagtangka.

Yes, meron dn naman po nagttangka.Pero wla pa nkkalusot so far.Haha...Like what I said previously, its difficult to trust in this environment.Why does GM like me? Is it because of my looks?Is he looking for love or just free sex?Too many questions that need to be sufficiently answered befor I open myself.I am not closing my door to a Thera-Client relationship but the GM has to bring a really big broom to sweep me off my feet.

[john clark]

I don't need to lie to her. I'm open with her. She knows what these places are. She understands what these spas represent. She would have an issue with it if it had an emotional aspect to it. She appreciates my honesty and loves me more because of it. She told me that she would have resented me if she found out i was hiding it and lying instead of being honest from the start.

 

My situation doesn't apply to people who try to omit their "truths" to their loved ones. Doing that only serves your own purposes and justifies the reason for lying, it doesn't serve the purposes of your relationship with the loved one. To me, that's being selfish and only thinking about yourself.

Mabuti pa si sir. He's above all of the losers and liars that frequent the spas (his words, not mine) and his spouse/gf/so is aware that he goes to one without consequences.

 

I salute you. If ever reincarnation is true, i hope i come back just like you.

[- The Godfather -]

Yes, meron dn naman po nagttangka.Pero wla pa nkkalusot so far.Haha...Like what I said previously, its difficult to trust in this environment.Why does GM like me? Is it because of my looks?Is he looking for love or just free sex?Too many questions that need to be sufficiently answered befor I open myself.I am not closing my door to a Thera-Client relationship but the GM has to bring a really big broom to sweep me off my feet.

 

I suppose that "really big broom" starts with a "really small friendship."

[drewbrees]

Mabuti pa si sir. He's above all of the losers and liars that frequent the spas (his words, not mine) and his spouse/gf/so is aware that he goes to one without consequences.

 

I salute you. If ever reincarnation is true, i hope i come back just like you.

 

Reincarnation? why wait for reincarnation when you can make a decision for yourself. You can decide to be honest to your loved one, unless something is keeping you from doing that. Fear maybe? Fear because you expect that loved one to react in a disagreeable manner and you think she won't understand? you made that bed you sleep in it. Like i said before, everyone is capable of making decisions for themselves. if they choose to hide something from their loved ones its no different from lying.

 

i don't want something like that to weigh on my conscience so i don't lie to her. at least she knows im not hiding anything.

 

if you decide to lie. just know there will be repercussions for what you're doing. You can try to hide it from everyone on this earth, but you can't hide it from God. It will come back to bite you. So don't be surprised if something happens in your life down the road and you ask yourself why would this happen to you.

[smooth_dawg]

Mabuti pa si sir. He's above all of the losers and liars that frequent the spas (his words, not mine) and his spouse/gf/so is aware that he goes to one without consequences.

 

I salute you. If ever reincarnation is true, i hope i come back just like you.

 

I feel you bro. Sarap cguro ng feeling pagdating mo ng bahay, sabihan mo c Misis, "Timpla mo ako kape, napagod ako sa blowjob nung thera sa spa."....Lol

 

Its Ok mambabae, magspakol basta honest ka lng. Wag ka mag lie at baka magalit daw c God.

[smooth_dawg]

Actually May is right, this is not the proper forum to lecture about God. How hypocritical is that?You go here in these forums, admit dalliances with female therapists,then tell everyone here that you are holier than thou because you do not lie? Gimme a break. If you have such a perfect relationship, you wouldn't feel the need to go to spa and avail the services of a therapist in the first place. Your partner should already make you feel complete.

[NMD]

 

I don't need to lie to her. I'm open with her. She knows what these places are. She understands what these spas represent. She would have an issue with it if it had an emotional aspect to it. She appreciates my honesty and loves me more because of it. She told me that she would have resented me if she found out i was hiding it and lying instead of being honest from the start.

 

My situation doesn't apply to people who try to omit their "truths" to their loved ones. Doing that only serves your own purposes and justifies the reason for lying, it doesn't serve the purposes of your relationship with the loved one. To me, that's being selfish and only thinking about yourself.

This makes me wonder how your partner sees you. No offence bro. But for her to accept the fact that you are receiving sexual favours coming from other ladies (aside from your wife) in exchange of money, something must be wrong with her.

 

Should it be true, the underlying question here is: does she really know every detail of it? The very details that she did to you and you did to her while inside the cubicle. Including the real amount of tip that you gave. I may sound repetitive and I don't want to speculate things here, but when you said that you are open with her, do you mean that she knows every detail of this?

[smooth_dawg]

This makes me wonder how your partner sees you. No offence bro. But for her to accept the fact that you are receiving sexual favours coming from other ladies (aside from your wife) in exchange of money, something must be wrong with her.

 

Should it be true, the underlying question here is: does she really know every detail of it? The very details that she did to you and you did to her while inside the cubicle. Including the real amount of tip that you gave. I may sound repetitive and I don't want to speculate things here, but when you said that you are open with her, do you mean that she knows every detail of this?

 

Exactly. Imagine if the situation was reversed. How would you feel if your wife came home and said, "Hon, pakimasahe ako please. Napagod ako dinog-style nung boylet ko knina."

 

If that would not make you ballistic, ewan ko na lng. I presume the same sentiment should come from ladies who genuinely love their partners. In every proper relationship, there is exclusivity. D pde sharing resources.

Edited January 6, 2017 by smooth_dawg