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hmm...both are true, i guess. but then again, maybe thug hasn't been in a situation where he has to spend an evening with gnawing stomach due to hunger and family members all looking numb and helpless...believe me for true, thug. when this happens to you, you'll end up swallowing pride, dignity, and even self respect just to put food in the table.

 

and yes, filipinos are known as hard workers and stuff, but you cannot ignore the fact that one of the..uhhh...commodities offered for tourists are sex services, that along with "medical" services (kidney, anyone?!?!) and other stuff, all to encourage tourism. BTW, the kidney stuff is not yet legal, but yeah, a bill was passed to legalize it as well as to standardize it =)

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A lot of factors need to consider in a relationship di lang puro promises and words but less action" So tell me in your part how can you show and prove to the guy if the guy like me is miles away working and saving for the future and needs a whole lot of time before he can give the girl the promises he made? Im a guy who makes good on my promises especially when i made that promise to God as my witness thats why even though im hurting and in pain i can endure because i know God is by my side giving me strength to follow through on my promise

 

Why girl gonna prove something first di ba dapat you guys mag exert ng effort to prove your love> can you pls read again what you posted. again comment why have to accept everything for those guys keep posting allowing her gf still f#&king diffrent guys hey wake up wheres your pride is this something to be proud of. if you love her change her or if she loves you shes gonna change for you. If you cannt do something to support her then why both enter relationship. I dont think i can love a guy gonna accpt everything and not man enough to take care of me protect me. :cool:

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Loving a clubgirl?

 

Ok lang yan. Just dont be too bitter when it doesn't work out after. Kaya ka nga nag mamahal di ba? No expectations. Tapos pag di mo na kaya, e di tigil ka.

 

Kung hindi, e di hindi. Kung oo, e di oo. Take it like a man.

 

very sensible, took the liberty to emphasize the last part.

 

if there is really something between the service provider and client that is worth exploring and the client is willing risk it then go for it...

 

but be man enough to face the consequences/repercussions.

 

In short, there is nothing to wrong with falling in love...

In addition, maybe not all of these type of relationships fail...

as some say, each of us may find his/her soulmate

does the past of the soulmate really matter?

 

just my two cents...

:mtc:

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HEY... TNX 4 DA COMMENT PERO FYI... ITS NOT BECAUSE WER WORKING AS AN MPA IBIG SBHN NA NUN MALUHO KME... AS I SAID MY KNYA KNYANG GOALS OR TARGET ANG BWAT ISANG GRLS NA PMAPSOK SA GNITNG TYPE NG JOB JUZ LIKE ME, I DNT WANT 2 DEPEND ON MY PARENTS JUZ 2 FINISH MY COLLEGE DEGREE, BUT INSTEAD, I FIND A WAY 2 EARN AND THATS BEING AN MPA... AT OF COURSE U CNT BLAME US THAT SUMTYMS WERE FALLING IN LOVE WID OUR GUESTS... ITS NOT IMPOSSIBLE OF COURSE ESP ON MY CASE LALO PAT PNAKITAAN K NYA NG ATTITUDE THAT UVE NEVER BENN FELT B4... OR KINDNESS AND ATTENTION... SIEMPRE GRLS ARE VERY EAY TO FALL IN LOVE DBA PO...

One question, does finishing ur studies guarantees that u will stop being in the business? there are cases where women continue in this business, even if they have a regular professional job. I am not making this up, I had an experience with a sales professional who moonlights as an escort. Give me your two cents.

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hmm...both are true, i guess. but then again, maybe thug hasn't been in a situation where he has to spend an evening with gnawing stomach due to hunger and family members all looking numb and helpless...believe me for true, thug. when this happens to you, you'll end up swallowing pride, dignity, and even self respect just to put food in the table.

 

and yes, filipinos are known as hard workers and stuff, but you cannot ignore the fact that one of the..uhhh...commodities offered for tourists are sex services, that along with "medical" services (kidney, anyone?!?!) and other stuff, all to encourage tourism. BTW, the kidney stuff is not yet legal, but yeah, a bill was passed to legalize it as well as to standardize it =)

 

iba iba naman kase.. you are referring to mpa's on low class MP's.. yun siguro talagang gutom at hirap yung mga yun kaya napasok sa ganyan..magkano lang kita ng mga low class MPA's

 

my ex-gf happens to work in a CLASS A MP.. and she's on the top of the top 10 list..kung nakapag patayo ka ng around 1.3 million na malaking bahay sa loob lamang ng 1 to 2 taon..sa tingin mo ba gutom pa din yun?

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The reason why masarap magmahal ang mga club girls or kahit MPA, is because once they fall in love... lahat gagwin para sayo...

in terms of having a GF na MPA or club girl.. may mga advantages at disadvantages.. Advantage is alam mong lagi syang alaga sa sarili nya, di nya pababayaan sarili nya (kaya laging sexy at maganda). And disadvantage is minsan nandun ung doubts mo sa relationship ninyo.. but as long as she is willing to change her lifestyle in the future.. it should be ok naman.. dba? Tao parin naman sila.. its just a financial concern lang naman sa part nila kaya sila nandyan sa line of business na yan. If us guys are able to do the same as they do malamang we would jump into the band wagon narin dba...

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there is definitely nothing wrong with falling in love and having a steady relationship with an MPA, i for one had and still in the relationship, what keeps my trust is that i know why she has to do it and she's only doing it for the money, one thing i also realized that not all MPA's do it to sustain their leisures but they actually used it to give themselves a better future, at first all i see in MPA's are the sex but as soon as a fell in love with one, she had opened my eyes to a different reality and understanding, now i don't see MPA's as certain objects to be used when needed but i have all the outmost respect to them, and to my MPA i love you so much, i will love you more as each day passes by no matter what.

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Well im new here im MTC per ako din, i fell in love and is still loving an mpa pero parang different na story namain since 1 yr gap lang age niya saakin and well things just happend and both of us fell instantly in love yung una naming pagkikita, sa 22o nga i was trying to avoid it so i didn't get her no. and tried to put her aside, but i think faith played a hand in us getting to meet each other again dahil na stuck siya sa isang place and yun, nagkataon na napadaan ako. Well it started quite slow yung pag bukas namin sa isat isa, it took like 5 months ng kami naghaharutan lang dahil nga i was trying to be careful pero things just kept on getting more and more complete pag kasama ko siya, and that time she was working ( well hanggang ngayun she still is), until one time nagkaaminan na kami ng pagmamahalan namin and naging kami, it was great for about 2 weeks pero malay ko kung ano nakain ko at gusto ko siya biglang pakilala sa parents ko, and guess what i live in a prominent and kilala na chinese family ( may kaibigan sa gobyerno ng pinas...think nalang kung gaaung kalakas) na very traditional, so na mano po ako at nagkagulo, then came the background check tapus soon mga pagbabanta sa buhay niya came from txt to her cellphone, grabe i wanted to do something and guess what wala ako magawa dahil, frozen bigla account ko at car ko, almost lahat ng possesions ko nawala at walang katapusan away ang pinasukan ko against sa magulang ko, and dahil sa incident na yan, na pa quit ako ng collge skul. grabe ang dramahan and for the first time napaiyak ako dahil nahihirapan ako marinig sa GF ko na di siya tama para saakin, always banat ng magulang ko na iwanan na siya at GF k naman banat na iwanan k na siya pero di k magawa, talagang for the first time i found some one i really love and am willing to fight for. Sa huli ayun sinabi sakin ng dad k na disowned ka na pero hirit na peke and imbis na talagang pabayaan na ako ay natapon ako sa canada ( well dahil sa priest at sa pagtangka sa buhay ng GF k) ngayun sa canada nag aasa sila na maghiwalay kami ( sa 22o naman ay alam ko dahilan ng actions ng magulang ko pero sana maintindihan nila ang nararamdaman ko) sa 22o dahil nga nakilala ko GF k nagstop n ako mg GB, yoci, pustahan, inuman at party as in walang bisyo at nagtyaga na ako sa pagaaral at buhay ko pero dahil sa pressure isa isa bumabalik, sa ngayun Yoci pa lang. Nung nasa canada ako, nalagyan ako ng restraining order para di ako makauwi sa pinas for 1 yr... things move on. By this time nag quit na siya sa pagiging MP pero things happen ang money runs out, tinutulungan pa niya pamilya niya kaya na force siya bumalik.

 

Sa 22o i wanted to be the knight ang shining armor pero as i realized it, love doesn't work that way, sa una syempre away dahil naasar ako, sa 22o i was being selfish and scared since almost lahat sa angkan ko pumupunta sa ganyan, yo k siya makita ng kahit sinu sa pamilya ko, baka kung sabihin pride, but i soon realized na pagmamahal naman ng isang tao ay walang hinahanap ng kahingi kudin the same love in return at nung time na she tried to break up with me again ( na sobrang iyakan moment) dahil yaw na daw niya ako makitang nahihirapan for both pera dahil cut of nga ako sa account ko and sa puso dahil alam ko bumabalik siya (kahit na work is work), sinabi k na d2 lang ako para sakanya kahit kailan, and ngayun kahit sa canada ako i try to work underground jobs to earn a little cash so i could call home to her, and pareho din siya, so siya tumatawag saakin everyday for 1 hr at ako 30 mins- 1hr. at hanggang ngayun di pa kami naghihiwalay, alam ng magulang ko and well kahit kaunti at least na intindihan nila na feelings ko para sa Asawa ko ( hehe tingin ko sakanya asawa ko na) but syempre galit pa dahil alam nila bumabalik pa siya sa ganyan, but im happy that finally sinabi na nila saakin na pagkabalik ko, ako na pumili ng daan ko pero walang supporta galing sakanila kung di gusto nila pinili ko. So ngayun may ilang month pa ako aatayin hanggang 1 yr na at makauwi ako, pagkauwi ko, plano ko pakasalan na asawa ko.

wow! deja vu...

sinabi ko sa sarili from that day her father grabbed him while he was giving me a tight embrace of goodbye. time comes, yayaman din ako at tatabunan ko ng pera ang father nya. i know am getting there. i don't ussually keep hate in my heart, but if there's only one person i hated most for my whole life, no other than his father.

 

until now, kahit masaya na ako sa new bf ko. i am still looking forward for the day na gaganti ako. i was never humiliated in my whole life like his father did.

he filled my heart with anger and rage.

 

Pare I just came from this type of relationship from a "STAR MPA" of a famous SPA in Quezon Ave.

 

Believe me........Its not worth it

 

Sorry to say this........But G*ina*Go kalang niya........Same as what that MPA did to me........

 

More or less this GRO just wanted to "TAKE A BREAK"........Maybe she just wanted to rest for a while.......Or maybe try something NEW

 

Its so f#&kin HARD to remove these women from this kind of work.........Why?

 

SIMPLE.........Coz their minds were already "PROGRAMMED" for one thing: MAKE MONEY

 

Palusot niya lang yung "She's Tired" <_< Sino ang mapapagod kung wala ka namang gnagawa kung hindi maghintay sa pera at humingi????? :thumbsdownsmiley:

 

She's definitely MALUHO............Why? Kasi sabi mo good provider ka pero pinili niya pa rin yung dati niyang trabaho............

 

Ganyan din ako noon pare.........101% ang binigay ko sa MPA na'yon..........As in LAHAT-LAHAT binigay ko pare.........Same as you did........But she only returned around 15% of the effort and love that I gave to her.........

 

Anyway to make things short.........

 

Give your LOVE to a woman who is more DESERVING than this "USER"..........

 

I Know........Not all of GROs/MPAs are USERS and BITCHES.........Pero MAJORITY of them are.........Siguro mga 20% lang ang matitino........Halos lahat yan mangagamit lang.........Usually kung hindi maluho, may mga bisyo pa yan.......The most common that I've encountered are SHABU users(Including my recent nightmare with that star MPA).......Malas mo nalang lapag MALUHO na........ADIK pa :thumbsdownsmiley:

 

Just like the MPA that I encountered............Nung una palaging sinasabi niya na dahil sa magulang at mga kapatid niya kaya siya pumasok sa ganung job.......Hindi raw kasya yung kinikita niya sa mga previous jobs niya........A lot of common sad stories etc.

 

At first talagang tatablan ka eh.........Pero after a lot of investigations........I found out that 90% of what she said were CRAP

 

It turned out that she was working as an MPA because she was MALUHO.......She needed MONEY for her lavish spending and unnecessary MATERIAL NEEDS..........

 

Ok na sana yun eh.........Kaso eto ang mahirap..........ADDICT pala siya.........She was a DRUG ADDICT..........Gumagamit siya ng Shabu........

 

Some people would ask........WHATS WRONG WITH THAT? As long as wala siyang pinapatay di ba? Right?

 

WRONG

 

She was almost 3 years in this kind of work.......Palagi niya pa pinagyayabang na P25,000-P34,000 ang basic niya na kita sa isang buwan........So assuming that she was telling the truth.........I told myself..........Wow dapat marami na siyang pera ngayon!

 

Guess what.......WALA.........As in ZERO ang naiipon niya..........

 

From studying her monthly expenses before I entered her life.........Wala naman siya dapat pinagkakagastusan na malaki eh.........So saan napunta yung pera niya?

 

BISYO

 

It turned out that she was sooooo addicted to SHABU that I found out that she lied to me several times in order to go to her "PIGEON BOX" back in her place somewhere in caloocan just to use it

TRUST ME DUDE............Dumaan na ako diyan.........MARAMI AKONG NATUTUNAN.......

 

The most important thing? NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH THESE KIND OF WOMEN........Friends maybe........But Girlfriends? :thumbsdownsmiley:

 

Sa una lang talaga mabait yan at maasikaso.........Pagkatapos niya makuha WEAKNESS mo........GAME OVER

 

Maybe there have been some people who have been able to survive and end up with a "HAPPY ENDING" in this kind of relationship.......But based from my experience and some of my friend's experience.........Majority of this relationships DON'T WORK OUT.............Mas madalas na "SAD ENDING" ang nangyayari.......Its either the GRO/MPA takes advantage of the guy or vice versa......Pero masmadalas talagang yung GRO/MPA ang nanggagatas eh.......Sanay sila sa ganun eh

 

 

TRUE... even here at MTC 90% out of 100% lahat puro luho at adik. am not naming names but you can easily determine naman eh.

 

Nakikita ko na eh, parang mga psp ngayon will be the same PSP i would be browsing next next year. yung iba kinakarma na lang kasi nanggagamit lang. I have been in that work pero lahat pinagsumikapan ko. Walang nag-ahon sakin dahil kung meron man magtatangka mag-ahon sayo sa putikan mabibitawan ka pa rin kasi take it as a logic madulas ang putik.

 

Marami na akong pinangaralan na escort, 50% succeeded 50% ayaw makinig at saksakan ng tigas ng ulo. in the end ikaw na rin sumuko kakapangaral.

 

Kaya guys advice lang, don't ever try to play knight in shining armor, let them learn to survive.Kasi yun naman reason nilawhy they entered that job. Hindi masama kung bago pa lang. Pero kung hustler na, kasing hirap ng paghahanap ng karayom sa damihan [/font]

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Hmmm good site. Interesting ang very informative ang topic kasi ako medyo na lilinya dito :)

Presently have a fling with an MPA..my first time, but I know I can handle it. Tama lahat ng ideas ninyo on how

to deal with such relationships. Una ko ngang na pansin sa GF ko, napaka defensive niya when it comes to the heart. Siguro

ayaw nya ring masaktan just in case it doesn't work out ( it normally doesn't). We get along well pero pati ako, I keep doubting this relationship kasi mabuti na yung ganon..pareho kaming ready. It's nice to see happy endings but if it does not work, at least I have enjoyed the other "happy ending". :)

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One question, does finishing ur studies guarantees that u will stop being in the business? there are cases where women continue in this business, even if they have a regular professional job. I am not making this up, I had an experience with a sales professional who moonlights as an escort. Give me your two cents.

 

sila po yung mga hindi marunong makuntento...

kulang lagi...may mga ganun eh...mataas mga pangarap...

madaming gusto...

masama nga ba yun? :unsure: ewan , di ko rin alam...

pero atleast they're driven...i guess :unsure:

at yun lang means...nila

mabilis kase magkapera sa ganyang profession...

kaya di nila basta maiwan...kahit pwede naman na.

yung comfortable living...yung convenience of having

money all the time everytime you need it... nakaka hook yun..

nakakatakot talikuran pag bago mo palang sya

na eenjoy...lalo na if one came from a poor family

at lalong lalo narin pag sanay na sanay na sya...at sanay

narin yung mga sinusupport nya na mga kapamilya.

 

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Talking from a male viewpoint, it is easy to fall in love with a MPA. because as a man, we have the innate desire to be wanted, desired by the members of the opposite sex. MPAs GROs cater to those desires, when you are with them, they can make you feel good, not just sexually, but emotionally, and psychologically as well, having a young, attractive woman showering you with affection does really boost ones ego, particularly if one doesn't get with their significant other. With regards to MPAs or GROs leaving their job, is a decision that they can only make. We, guys, should be aware of the risks of having romantic relationship with women with their kind of work. I agree w/ most of you guys that women like them could be scam artists, with very good stories fit for movies, but it is hard to ignore there are some girls that you can feel have some potentials to improve their lives only if given the chance. :hypocritesmiley:

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Hmmm good site. Interesting ang very informative ang topic kasi ako medyo na lilinya dito :)

Presently have a fling with an MPA..my first time, but I know I can handle it. Tama lahat ng ideas ninyo on how

to deal with such relationships. Una ko ngang na pansin sa GF ko, napaka defensive niya when it comes to the heart. Siguro

ayaw nya ring masaktan just in case it doesn't work out ( it normally doesn't). We get along well pero pati ako, I keep doubting this relationship kasi mabuti na yung ganon..pareho kaming ready. It's nice to see happy endings but if it does not work, at least I have enjoyed the other "happy ending". :)

 

Here in Belgium we have the same, beatifull lady's with a maganda day time job, married or boyfriend. Just buy a hauz...and for the extra money, at evening they are highly priced escorts.....to pay the loan of the hauz...

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Ganito lang kasimple yan mga dude if ever nagmamahal kayo ng MP,pokpok, GRO, Escort girl or watever kind of work she has dat involve sex and money is very complicated talaga in my experience. Pero kung feel nyo na kaya nyo sila mahalin sa ganun type of work nila well GO! just be ready to face the consequences mas maganda nyan kung willing magbago sya para sa isang guy pero this type of situations only happens in movies at least 20 percent i think? like Pretty Woman ni Julia Roberts :rolleyes: hehehe I know some MP na may asawa at anak pero hindi alam ng asawa nya nagwowork sya as an MP ang alam na work ay callcenter lol :evil: dba tingnan mo nalang kung anu mararamdaman ng asawa nya kapag nalaman ang trabaho nya tst, tst, dba wat more kung sa mga katulad natin ng mga clients lang nila and dat girl pa naman is really pretty, wakeup mga dude there are lot of better women outder na matitino, magaganda at mababait treat them as only business wag naman parang basura ganun na nga trabaho nila treat nicely just dont be too serious on them just keep on looking :thumbsupsmiley: :cool:

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Interesting thread.

 

I haven't gotten involved with psp or mpa but have been with gro. She stopped doing that thing she does and only works for commissions on the drinks. (I confirmed this since I have sources inside the place)

 

And since she stopped, I have been trying to help support her. It ain't easy but I guess she is worth it.

 

 

Interesting thread.

 

I haven't gotten involved with psp or mpa but have been with gro. She stopped doing that thing she does and only works for commissions on the drinks. (I confirmed this since I have sources inside the place)

 

And since she stopped, I have been trying to help support her. It ain't easy but I guess she is worth it.

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Surething, it's easy to fall in love or get infatuated with MPs or GROs, but I also look at it in a different perspective. May mga PSPs na nadadala kapag ang guy eh marunong mag treat sa kanila with respect and dignity. Tao rin ang mga yan. I can say this because I've had a few that got attracted to me that way. But I don't neglect the fact that trabaho din nila ito. Anytime they could recover from it if ever na ma heartbroken sila. Kaya lang minsan nakakaawa din ano? Lalo na kung mabait yung girl deep inside. For most guys here, we have been around. Na se-sense natin kaagad yung character ng babae. I hate the one's na mukhang pera, obvious na obvious yung MO. Anyway, I'm in a fling with one right now. Just taking it one day at a time. This one's more conservative sa feelings niya, very defensive, and I really like it. Pati yata yung real name niya ayaw pa bigay sakin nong una. Happy naman siya pag kasama niya ko..hoping that this would last for some time..Challenge..challenge...

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Surething, it's easy to fall in love or get infatuated with MPs or GROs, but I also look at it in a different perspective. May mga PSPs na nadadala kapag ang guy eh marunong mag treat sa kanila with respect and dignity. Tao rin ang mga yan. I can say this because I've had a few that got attracted to me that way. But I don't neglect the fact that trabaho din nila ito. Anytime they could recover from it if ever na ma heartbroken sila. Kaya lang minsan nakakaawa din ano? Lalo na kung mabait yung girl deep inside. For most guys here, we have been around. Na se-sense natin kaagad yung character ng babae. I hate the one's na mukhang pera, obvious na obvious yung MO. Anyway, I'm in a fling with one right now. Just taking it one day at a time. This one's more conservative sa feelings niya, very defensive, and I really like it. Pati yata yung real name niya ayaw pa bigay sakin nong una. Happy naman siya pag kasama niya ko..hoping that this would last for some time..Challenge..challenge...

 

ur right dude sa experience ko mdami talagang sayang na girls dito sa pilipinas kung hindi lang corrupt itong pilipinas malamang d naging ganun sila I know mps, gro, ktvgirls dat are mabait, friendly, maganda and most important thing of all she has a goodheart may kilala nga ako panay daw ang apply nya ng callcenter di daw sya matanggap eh she needs money sa badly talaga to support her parents, kaya sa kasamaang palad ng MP nalang sya :unsure:

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