Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[camus]

There is no such thing as love at first sight. Meron attraction at first sight, but that isn't love. Even if it's a very strong attraction, it's just attraction. Love is a choice. You choose to love, its a process, it's not instant. And you have to know someone to love someone. You can't love someone you barely know. If you say you do, then that isn't love.

[MidKnight Train]

its funny that this blog was opened and yet some deny that they did fall for a thera or still do like a thera. to be honest i have a friend who has a thera that he always gets and sometimes 4 x week. he even extends time to spend time with her in the room even though they're done doing the deed. he is the only guy that the thera goes out with. they even went out of town,swimming and hiking. And no matter what he never gives up on helping her out especially now that she doesn't work as a thera anymore. they still keep in touch and no matter what past she had, he has this respect and care for her and so does she to him.

[JoshuaJacob]

ATW came first before love. But like any other relationship, you don't know when this would end. So better have a place in your heart on having the courage to let the person go when things are not anymore making each other happy. Sometimes you just need some space between and most of the time love will come again.

[camus]

Just remember, you are PAYING them for gfe. It's their JOB to make you feel like a king for the duration of your booking. So don't get lost in the fantasy. When time is up, it's time to go back to reality. Here's an easy test...just stop paying. If gfe parin bigay sayo then you're in luck.

[camus]

I admire people who could look beyond the profession and see the person.

I agree. As long as you aren't deluding yourself to see what you want to see.

[Piaggio]

I admire people who could look beyond the profession and see the person.

But that same profession can drive a man crazy with jealousy. If the thera leaves the profession then that would be the sign that she can be a "normal" gf.

[HITMAN21177]

 

Just remember, you are PAYING them for gfe. It's their JOB to make you feel like a king for the duration of your booking. So don't get lost in the fantasy. When time is up, it's time to go back to reality. Here's an easy test...just stop paying. If gfe parin bigay sayo then you're in luck.

 

 

strongly agree. been there done that... and it was nasty. still " no money , no honey" policy applies.

 

BELIEVE THAT

[Kingkongphils]

No money no honey talaga yan. Like one poster said LOVE is a process. Ung thera ganun dn, hindi sila agad ma inlove syo kahit gaano ka ka pogi, o ka bait. E trabaho nila yan kya their life will continue everyday. Gaya ng sabi ko its not just that they provide these kind of service na masisira ang buhay ng isang lalaki. Madaming klase ng babae ang pwedeng sumira ng buhay mo. May two timer na babae, may social climber, may gastador, may sobrang flirt. They are all women that can equally break your heart or sirain ang buhay mo. Love is your choice, you cant say sa ibang tao na dont fall for a thera/psp. You can only say that you have to be sure that what you are feeling is love, and magtira parati ng pagmamahal sa sarili just like with any other.

[Seta Sinestro]

I admire people who could look beyond the profession and see the person.

I also wonder if theras see it that way? When somebody talks to them na, maybe, just maybe, someone wants to know them as a person not because isa syang "client" but a person with a heart and mind?

 

Hahah where's my bottle of rum when I nees it...

[Sitti of TVS]

I also wonder if theras see it that way? When somebody talks to them na, maybe, just maybe, someone wants to know them as a person not because isa syang "client" but a person with a heart and mind?

 

Hahah where's my bottle of rum when I nees it...

 

hmmmm... depende sa thera.... and depende if panu initiate... if someone or a client wants to be my friend,,, it's ok.. super friendly naman ako... kaso there are times when yung ibang client sasabihin or aaminin sakin that they love me or that they are starting to fall for me.. sorry pero words are just words... nowadays people just say i love you like they are saying hello... kaya hindi ako madaling maniwala kung ibang theras nga nakakapg ailove you kung kanikanino yung client pa kaya diba...kaya ako ako i believe in actions... sabi nga action speaks louder than words...

[Seta Sinestro]

 

hmmmm... depende sa thera.... and depende if panu initiate... if someone or a client wants to be my friend,,, it's ok.. super friendly naman ako... kaso there are times when yung ibang client sasabihin or aaminin sakin that they love me or that they are starting to fall for me.. sorry pero words are just words... nowadays people just say i love you like they are saying hello... kaya hindi ako madaling maniwala kung ibang theras nga nakakapg ailove you kung kanikanino yung client pa kaya diba...kaya ako ako i believe in actions... sabi nga action speaks louder than words...

Thanks for the insight ma'am... Haha ayoko din nman ma-fall, I don't think I'll even get close to that! It's just that I feel na tingin nya siguro I'm doing this out of attachment as a gm.

 

So u mean, if i ask her "can I be your friend..?" Most likely walang bearing yon for her?

[MidKnight Train]

I never had quite a time with some theras though I learned and heard a lot of stories from my buddies who really enjoyed their time with the theras of their choice. I too tried to share sometime with a nice thera from a big spa on west ave. I did make choices from a bunch of beautyful women in a nice room. I did meet some in my 2-4 months of seeing this place and been into 3rd or 4th level to see who stands out. On my b-day, I went there late that night, I went for the 3rd level and there I met her, she is a stand out from the theras there. Lets call her, Mindy. I got her twice and on the third I went on getting to know her better, she shared somethings that are being told by other theras, I said to myself but I saw in her the truth about really finishing up school. She even told me that she broke up with her new guy who demands most of her time. I believe that theras do know who really cares and sincere with them. As of now, we still text and chat but she is still studying and she almost there. We do spend time like go out and dine, like typical time you spend with a special person in your life. Lets face it, nobody here never sinned, all of us, may it be small or big, its considered a sin, and we're given by God a chance to make up for it while we still can. What matters is that we see the good side in each and everyone of them. To all of US whose not ashamed to have cared and loved and still do this up to now, what's best is that we did good for others and if we don't get the same thing from them, it will come from other women in due time.

[Sitti of TVS]

simple lang naman kasi talaga kung iisipin eh nu..... kung di kaya panindigan dapat wag nalang simulan...

[MidKnight Train]

simple lang naman kasi talaga kung iisipin eh nu..... kung di kaya panindigan dapat wag nalang simulan...

Anong ibig sabihin ng panindigan? Financially? I guess this shouldn't be all about money. its more of like a two way thing. give and take...

[Sitti of TVS]

Anong ibig sabihin ng panindigan? Financially? I guess this shouldn't be all about money. its more of like a two way thing. give and take...

 

no sir.. what i mean po by panindigan is ... if you cant stand by her till the end... if sa simula mo lang accept if kung sino or ano sia... if puro sa simula lang... then hayaan nalang makapagtrabaho ng maayos yung thera diba... if yung love na kiniclaim eh may expiry pala sana wag nalang guluhin yung thera besides siguro may reason naman sia bakit sia andun sa place na kinalalagyan nia in the first place...

Edited May 4, 2016 by *S.I.T.T.I*