Bars Para Sa Nag Iisa Lang

[fightclub]

sa CHELU bar in malate ..masaya dun

[unzipme]

Ako napapadalas n ang pag solo ko unlike dati na lagi kasama barkada, Ok din nman, may pakiramdam n independent ka, na ikaw lang nkakaintindi n masaya ka kahit mag isa hehe. May financial crisis ngaun kaya mas nkokontrol ko ung gastos ko.

[Macy]

sa CHELU bar in malate ..masaya dun

what street sya? what type ang crowd?

[bods1000]

Nakainom nako minsan mag-isa sa Exchange Bar ng Richmonde - happy hour kasi. Can't remember the exact price they had for happy hour but I do remember that food is also free. You can sit at a sofa or at a table. Ok din ganitong activity. May nakita din akong nagsosolo sa isang table so hindi ka talaga mako-conscious na solo ka lang. Also I used to drink a lot solo at the bar of Chef and Brewer in the Ortigas area back when I still selling wines. Ok din dito walang pansinan, you can watch TV while drinking although the place is quite pricey.

 

It's great to drink alone. You don't feel responsible to carry on an intelligent conversation with someone. You don't have to carry the manners of trying to listen to what the other is saying, however inane and banal. You can let your mind wander, and also your eyes, if there are any attractive members of the opposite sex around. Saka what's all the fuss? In this day and age of mobile phones, technically you're not drinking alone if you are exchanging interesting pieces of text messages with someone, right?

[Macy]

too true.... and sometimes you want to unwind and think about your daily problems without having the need to unload them on someone else... :cool:

 

i just wish there were more places for the ladies :flowers:

[Agent_mulder]

Baliktad tyo sir, the reason umiinom ako mag isa ay pra makamura sa gastos. Wala na kasi akong mayaya na preho ng status ko kaya pag ngyaya ako, automatic na ako ngbabayad. And right now , naeenjoy ko ng uminom mgisa because maganda ang ambience sa homebase ko at halos mgkakakilala na ang lahat....

 

In my case naman, pag kasama ko 'yung kaibigan kong nagwo-work sa call center (at ang misis nasa ay abroad) ang nangyayari s'ya ang sumasagot (pag sa night clubs) kahit ako dapat ang taya dahil sa ako ang nagyaya, pag nakakita na kasi ng babaeng type n'ya sa club magwi-withdraw na sa ATM then papipiliin na ako sa aquarium at i-VIP na agad namin 'yung mga babae, ang ending tuloy nagda-dagdag na lang ako hehe, laging nagiging ganoon ang set-up pag umaalis kami. A few years ago, kinapos sila noong barkada namin na sa Taguig na naka-base sa isang club sa Cubao kaya ayun iniwan ang mga cp nila then tinubos na lang nila kinabukasan hehe. Pag kasama ko naman 'yung barkada namin na na sa Taguig na naka-base ako na ang taya dahil sapat lang ang sahod n'ya sa pamilya n'ya saka may utang na loob ako doon hehe..

[pERVYsAGE]

In my case naman, pag kasama ko 'yung kaibigan kong nagwo-work sa call center (at ang misis nasa ay abroad) ang nangyayari s'ya ang sumasagot (pag sa night clubs) kahit ako dapat ang taya dahil sa ako ang nagyaya, pag nakakita na kasi ng babaeng type n'ya sa club magwi-withdraw na sa ATM then papipiliin na ako sa aquarium at i-VIP na agad namin 'yung mga babae, ang ending tuloy nagda-dagdag na lang ako hehe, laging nagiging ganoon ang set-up pag umaalis kami. A few years ago, kinapos sila noong barkada namin na sa Taguig na naka-base sa isang club sa Cubao kaya ayun iniwan ang mga cp nila then tinubos na lang nila kinabukasan hehe. Pag kasama ko naman 'yung barkada namin na na sa Taguig na naka-base ako na ang taya dahil sapat lang ang sahod n'ya sa pamilya n'ya saka may utang na loob ako doon hehe..

 

 

Swerte ka pa rin Sir kasi my nakakasama ka na nalilibre ka khit dag dag lang. Dati kasi my mga ksama akong share talaga kmi sa laht tpos kanya kanyang byad kun my itatable, kasi ang dahilan nmin e parepareho lng kming ngttrabho at mgkakalevel kmi. But noe, all of them nsa abroad na, kasma nila ko dun pro mas pinile ko pilipinas kya umuwi ako. So now, ang mkakasama ko e mga totoy na, di na kmi pantay kc nga mas malaki n sweldo ko at boss n nila ko... kaya talagang natutunan kong magisa lalo na krisis ngayon. :goatee:

[Agent_mulder]

Swerte ka pa rin Sir kasi my nakakasama ka na nalilibre ka khit dag dag lang. Dati kasi my mga ksama akong share talaga kmi sa laht tpos kanya kanyang byad kun my itatable, kasi ang dahilan nmin e parepareho lng kming ngttrabho at mgkakalevel kmi. But noe, all of them nsa abroad na, kasma nila ko dun pro mas pinile ko pilipinas kya umuwi ako. So now, ang mkakasama ko e mga totoy na, di na kmi pantay kc nga mas malaki n sweldo ko at boss n nila ko... kaya talagang natutunan kong magisa lalo na krisis ngayon. :goatee:

 

In a way siguro. pero sabi nga noong friend ko na taga-call center na ako naman daw ang taya sa susunod na lakad namin hehe, ako naman talaga ang taya kaso sabi ko naman sa kanya inom lang but it ends up to some other things na mapapalaki ang expenses n'ya. In our case, pareho lang naman sahod namin kaso ayaw n'ya sumama sa akin sa iba kong pinupuntahan hence talagang magso-solo ako, I also go to those beer joints na open na during the afternoon at takot s'ya doon dahil daw sa lugar at sa crowd, but like i said sa isang thread, pag nasa isang lugar ka where they served liquors 'wag ka o kayong masyadong boastful or rowdy in order not to attract the attention (and maybe even the ire of other customer/s) na umiinom din, 'yung iba kasi pag naka-inom tumatapang kaya kailangan low-profile at aware ka din to whats happening kahit umiinom ka. Isa lang naman ang purpose natin (ke solo o me kasama ka) in going to such places and that is to unwind and to enjoy/have fun....

Edited March 1, 2009 by Agent_mulder

[b1gbeauty89]

Just wondering if there are bars na pang ladies na hindi naman kami mapagkakamalang " in the trade" ...usuallly kasi ganun yung impression eh lalo na dun sa mga places frequented by men....we just want to unwind and be alone that's all

Edited March 1, 2009 by CaveDweller

[Maesternam]

problem with bars when you go and drinl by yourself, people tend to stare.

[bods1000]

too true.... and sometimes you want to unwind and think about your daily problems without having the need to unload them on someone else... :cool:

 

i just wish there were more places for the ladies :flowers:

 

mahirap pag ladies eh. Society always attaches the wrong impression on ladies drinking alone or unwinding alone in a bar and that is very unfortunate. I wish it were not so because I believe that a lot of women really would want to be alone with their thoughts sometimes - not at home where there are distractions, or with friends whose talk can interfere with their musings, but alone and anonymous in a bar which if you think of it is supposed to be some neutral ground.

[pERVYsAGE]

problem with bars when you go and drinl by yourself, people tend to stare.

 

 

Yup. I agree with you. Its like you have a big problem thats why youre alone or youre such a loser to have no friends to drink with. How unfortunate. I wish we are like in other countries that you can go to a bar after work even alone where almost everone knows everybody but still they will leave you alone when you want to.

[Macy]

mahirap pag ladies eh. Society always attaches the wrong impression on ladies drinking alone or unwinding alone in a bar and that is very unfortunate. I wish it were not so because I believe that a lot of women really would want to be alone with their thoughts sometimes - not at home where there are distractions, or with friends whose talk can interfere with their musings, but alone and anonymous in a bar which if you think of it is supposed to be some neutral ground.

just like me... i live alone in my room and although i can drink there, i want a change of surroundings too... and somehow the lighting and the music background helps

[artilles]

I have always wanted to try this but in the end, tinatamad ako and I end up sleeping na lang or whatever it is that I can do to wherever I am at that time.

 

Mga ka-tropa ko puro libre or utang na lang lagi eh. Paktay tayo sa ganung set up. Yeah, I agree with what I have read so far. But you know what, sometimes I could care less of what others would think at hindi naman sila ang nagpapakain sa akin. The hell with them.

 

But sometimes, it just gets to you....

 

Yeah, being alone does not require you to have an intelligent conversation with somebody or being judged by hypocrites or self righteous people.

 

Saan nga ba sa qc ang place na pwede mag unwind without being judged or mabugbog ng mga matatapang na grupo?

[tipotipo]

i like doing this sometimes, usually i sit by the bar. nakikinig sa live band or sometimes watch t.v. kung meron. minsan i strike a conversation with the bar tender. if i'm alone i prefer bars na kabisado ko na or i'm familiar with.