Falling For Somebody 15 Years Older

[cydney_maldita]

honestly how come that most people think na ok lang kahit the guy is 20 years older than his girl....but once na baligtad ang sitwasyon mas panget daw tingnan...

 

 

well for my own opinion pareho lang yan.....so what kung matanda si lalaki o si babae....i think its not about the age gap...and importante nagkakaintindihan sila...ahehehe..and ofcourse as long as they love each other

[orionquest]

ganun tlga. pero kahit na nakakastress ang younger partner, if she's the one who makes you feel happy, dba nababalewala

un?

sabi kasi ng boyfriend ko na older saken, more than 15years pa un, kasama daw sa minahal niya ung pagiging baby ko

at spoiled. hahaha i can say na spoiled brat tlga ako run e. whenever i feel na magpasaway, i do. at pag feel

ko siya kulitin i do. so most likely, sakit rin ng ulo at times. pero napagtyagaan niya un.

 

 

yes she is stressful. haba story. damn! but cool lang ako. hahaha.

[ElvisHasLeftTheBuiilding]

when you're in love, you are both blinded and deaf - to other people.

 

Blinded because of the fact that you really dont mind what other people see about your partner. You see him/her as the way you need him/her to be [no matter what others see on her]

 

Deaf because even if you hear the negative feedbacks a-million-times over.. the ears of your heart wont process it.

 

My partner is older than me too. She doesnt have that flawless silk skin anymore... but I realized it doesn't really matter. I'm experiencing the difference of true love and physical attraction.

[cHinitababe86]

yes she is stressful. haba story. damn! but cool lang ako. hahaha.

wow. share share!!!

 

when you're in love, you are both blinded and deaf - to other people.

 

Blinded because of the fact that you really dont mind what other people see about your partner. You see him/her as the way you need him/her to be [no matter what others see on her]

 

Deaf because even if you hear the negative feedbacks a-million-times over.. the ears of your heart wont process it.

 

My partner is older than me too. She doesnt have that flawless silk skin anymore... but I realized it doesn't really matter. I'm experiencing the difference of true love and physical attraction.

 

 

wow. if you're that serious with this comment. i admire you.

ang romantic kasi pakinggan hearing someone falling inlove in both aspects..

na kahit older ang partner, and doesnt have the "flawless" sexiness for others,

pero still, physcially, and emotionally sila inlove with their partners.

[Sakristan]

IMO, for a girl its ok. But for a guy to fall in love with a girl 15yrs his senior may not be well liked by other people around you. But what the hell, if you love each other, by all means go

[cHinitababe86]

oh yea. i agree with angelbyday. most of them are patient.

lalo na when im having my baby-tantrums, mood swings.

oo.. im naturally moody tlga. haha unpredictable.

 

whats best is kahit saan ko maisip pumunta, anung gusto kong

trip, sinusuportahan niya ako. minsan nakikisama pa siya..

may certain na arcade akong nilalaro, at alam kong pang "bagets"

un. kasama ko siya naglalaro kahit hindi niya un masayado alam

laruin.

 

another thing, madalas ko siya kulitin when were at home,

na alam ko na ung mga ginagawa ko for others would be irritating

na siguro.. kasi from time-to-time ko ginagawa.

well. he's patient. and he really loves me.

and lastly, im his baby girl. hihi

Edited October 18, 2010 by cHinitababe86

[robsalvador]

We have some lucky spoiled ladies in the house!

 

On topic: If I had a choice in falling for somebody 15 years older.. I would go for Betty White..

 

But seriously.. It seems majority of the ladies agree here.. Perhaps society should reward couples with 15 year age difference..

[erato]

Ah, been there! Yes, they tend to be more passionate.

 

I cannot imagine myself with a guy my age, or even within 5 years of my age. I feel we won't connect.

[subsistence]

Well.. ang s swerte ng mga to ah haha

[Inaj]

I fell inlove with someone who is 16yrs older than me and were still on even if were country apart. Were already 4yrs. She really knows what i want, very caring and loving person. And i still love her.

[_Honey_]

Once.

[robsalvador]

Once.

... And?..

 

On topic.. I heard older guys, by experience can adopt better as lovers..

 

They will have encountered in one way or another the different preferences that these lovely creatures called women have..

 

They adapt and act accordingly to make sure their partners get what they deserve in that department..

 

(ABD knows..)

[robsalvador]

what's not to love?

 

 

they make my knees weak..............literally and figuratively

You do know..

 

On topic question: Will the older partner, be it the man or the woman, automatically have more say in the relationship in terms of control and decision-making? Or will it be the younger person because of the power of youth?

[JHP]

Way up the scale when i was younger and way down the scale more recently. Only deep appreciation and wonder, no regrets.

Edited October 28, 2010 by JHP

[cHinitababe86]

You do know..

 

On topic question: Will the older partner, be it the man or the woman, automatically have more say in the relationship in terms of control and decision-making? Or will it be the younger person because of the power of youth?

 

definitely not.

hindi naman sa lahat ng pagkakataon, si older guy/woman is the know-all person eh. besides, in a relationship there is a

team, hindi pwedeng isa lang ang nagmamarunong magdesisyon. pinag uusapan niyo pareho ang bawat desisyon.

good or bad ang outcome, in the end, they both learn a new thing. as angelbyday told in her previous post,

kahit pa may edad ka, hindi tumitigil ang learning process. the young one learns, pati narin ung partner.

talking about equality dear.

if ever may short comings at alam mong hindi kaya ng isa magdecision which is bihira naman nangyayari, i guess,

kasi lahat naman ng tao, nagdedecision making almost everyday, pwede tulungan ng partner to make things better.