Falling For Somebody 15 Years Older

[Seishi]

I used to think that older men are better.... at something, if not everything. :evil: (Parang vintage wine lang daw)

 

... that they'd be more mature, loving and understanding.

 

But I just find some of them sensitive, that they easily get offended. Or sometimes, pretentious --- trying to appear unaffected.

 

[blow_gobi]

I would be a challenge if the girl is less than 25 years old and you are 40+++ years old. Malaki ang age gap at ang differences sa outlook in life.

 

But the differences narrow down if the woman is 25++ years old and the man is 15++ years older.

[deepdiverboy]

Paano kung yung guy eh old enough to be your dad, tapus mukha namang indi gold digger yung girl, and yung guy naman isn't merely looking for a trophy wife? How would you explain the attraction? Perfect example nito is yung 29-yo councillor from Valenzuela, si Shalani Soledad, whose bf now is the 51-yr old Noynoy Aquino. YES, THAT NOYNOY AQUINO na kapatid ni Kris.

 

My own experience with older women: nung elementary school ako, I used to send roses to a favorite guidance counsellor. Head over heels talaga ako nun sa kanya. Everyone in my batch knew it, and I was unashamed! Haha! Makes me laugh upon recollection. It didn't go further than that, though, dahil torpe pa ako nun at may bf si ma'am.

 

Regarding me with younger women: I was once introduced to this 17-yr-old girl whose mom had "pre-approved" me dating her after she turned 18 dahil yung isang auntie ko guaranteed I was a good boy (hihi). Feeling ko sobrang layo ng age gap namin nun; I was 30 then, and parang indi siya maka-jive pag seryosong topic na pinaguusapan (ex., politics, economy, world events), pero we blended well pag mababaw lang pinag-uusapan (ex, showbiz, health and fitness, grooming). On several levels, parang ayaw talaga mag-advance nung relationship kahit papanong tulak, so I opted to remain just friends with her. She texts me once in a while to say hello and I do likewise, but we never went out after the two weekends we spent together.

 

So Noynoy's situation makes me really curious: "NOY, ano bang meron mo at parang tugma kayo ng isang 29-yo girl?" LOL

[sweeethoney]

hindi pa naman..pero kung meron magkakagusto sa akin na 15 yrs older than me..well at mahal na mahal ako..naku hindi ko na sya pakakawalan! hehehe :thumbsupsmiley:

[grayle]

Paano kung yung guy eh old enough to be your dad, tapus mukha namang indi gold digger yung girl, and yung guy naman isn't merely looking for a trophy wife? How would you explain the attraction? Perfect example nito is yung 29-yo councillor from Valenzuela, si Shalani Soledad, whose bf now is the 51-yr old Noynoy Aquino. YES, THAT NOYNOY AQUINO na kapatid ni Kris.

 

My own experience with older women: nung elementary school ako, I used to send roses to a favorite guidance counsellor. Head over heels talaga ako nun sa kanya. Everyone in my batch knew it, and I was unashamed! Haha! Makes me laugh upon recollection. It didn't go further than that, though, dahil torpe pa ako nun at may bf si ma'am.

 

Regarding me with younger women: I was once introduced to this 17-yr-old girl whose mom had "pre-approved" me dating her after she turned 18 dahil yung isang auntie ko guaranteed I was a good boy (hihi). Feeling ko sobrang layo ng age gap namin nun; I was 30 then, and parang indi siya maka-jive pag seryosong topic na pinaguusapan (ex., politics, economy, world events), pero we blended well pag mababaw lang pinag-uusapan (ex, showbiz, health and fitness, grooming). On several levels, parang ayaw talaga mag-advance nung relationship kahit papanong tulak, so I opted to remain just friends with her. She texts me once in a while to say hello and I do likewise, but we never went out after the two weekends we spent together.

 

So Noynoy's situation makes me really curious: "NOY, ano bang meron mo at parang tugma kayo ng isang 29-yo girl?" LOL

 

Well, not everyone's gonna be the future president of the Philippines...

 

Come to think of it, every male president of the Philippines in recent years has something distinctly scandalous that they are "good at". You really think Bill Clinton's little soiree with the intern would cause so much hype in this country? The guys in this country would probably be cheering him on like they do with Paquiao and Krista.

[Guest Serenity12]

why not? someone in this thread said age is just a number anyway. you're only as old as you feel.

[ladycourtesan]

I did.. more than 15 years age gap namin. pero hindi din nagwork kasi babaero cya.

 

i like older guys. i don't entertain 30 y/o below.

 

maybe because i'm looking for a father figure boyfriend.

[silentkilla]

in the philippines, most people will think of it as a negative since it gives the idea the young ones are taking advantage on the older partner and vice-versa. but if it is true love and the age gap will not be an issue then go ahead and let your love flourish.

[ambidextrous00]

yeah why the hell not?

 

i love older men in general.

 

i guess the age diff will matter if... lets say one is in his/her teen tapos yung isa would be in his/ her 30's. kasi a teenager is a teenager, no matter how matured, there are things that a teenager has no way of knowing or understanding. once you turn 20 or 21, youre basically an adult. you begin learning the how to's of life. age then becomes nothin but a number.

 

i draw the line at... huhm. maybe 20 years? i dont know. i guess as long as the person wouldnt be mistaken as my dad id be cool with it. i pretty much get along with people who are older. so yeah.

 

to date, ive been with a woman 17 years older than me and a man 18 years older.

[dokitty]

oh yeah!!! Well if only i can choose, who wants to be inlove to a guy 15 yrs your senior right?... like what the saying goes,. "love comes in an unexpected way"...

[wick3d]

as the old saying goes "age doesnt matter"

[maniaclara]

i haven't tried it. the oldest age gap i've ever gone for was 6 years.

but, yes, age is just a number. more importantly, age is an attitude.

if everything else feels right, age shouldn't be a huge factor.

[nhagel]

nainlove na din ako sa mga ganyang may age kaso wala naman nangyayari e masyadong matampuhin gusto lagi kaming magkasama basta parang bata pa talaga ( bata naman talaga e ) pero ewan ko lang di ko nalang tinutuloy ung ganyan mahirap na baka makasuhan pa hehehe

[butchick]

15 years younger than me. ang nakakatuwa, sya pa ang mas mature sa relationship. simply put... boys will be boys..

[astrea]

Yes, more than once