westell Posted July 12, 2007 Share Posted July 12, 2007 I haven't had an "ex". My wife's my first and only. But, theoretically, I'll probably be happy for her. Besides, love is not a selfish act. I might not be the recipient of that reciprocation, but then there is the relative feeling of contentment that we tried. Letting go is difficult, but seeing her happy can be a wonderful feeling. (this is not based on experience, whatsoever---I am merely speculating, based on what I've read and seen). Quote Link to comment
hilong_talilong Posted July 13, 2007 Share Posted July 13, 2007 mixed emotions i guess one medyo suprised and magtataka "what ang bilis naman ako palitan nito" or "i'l be happy for her" or "kay pangit na lalaki ere" or something like "ayyy bumaba na pala yung standards nya" Quote Link to comment
Guest freyja Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 it depends. if the breakup was bad and he introduced me to his current as "hey, this is my ex..." i'll reply , "ay, ambitious ka!". that's right. i'm a bitch. lol. Quote Link to comment
coffee_junkie Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 nangyari lang last night. pota! Quote Link to comment
jonathansantos Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 When she's out of my life already, then forget her. Overcome her. Kung magkita man kayo, eh di parang balewala. It'd be good if you become friends. Quote Link to comment
kyubi9tails Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 id be happy for her.. un naman talaga ung gus2 ko para sa babae.. Quote Link to comment
ms_makuleet Posted July 19, 2007 Share Posted July 19, 2007 depende sa EX. kung ung ex na love ko pa din, nakuuu baka bigla akong mahimatay! Quote Link to comment
the_Mighty_Coyote Posted July 19, 2007 Share Posted July 19, 2007 It has happened to me several times. At first, it wasn't easy. It sucks to feel that you're replaceable. But after a while I realized, it isn't my heart that hurts. It's just my ego. So, for my ex, I wish her all the best! Quote Link to comment
hotchic_primrose Posted July 19, 2007 Share Posted July 19, 2007 depende kung sinong EX for me... kung ung wala lang na ex ko... pucha... ayos lang. hehe time to move on for him..pero kung sino un... ampotah! baka sabunutan ko ung babae... hehe ... =) wala me paki kung magalit pa ung ex ko sa gagawin ko...pero naku tlga... subukan lang nya. Quote Link to comment
itikbitik Posted July 19, 2007 Share Posted July 19, 2007 been there kasama nya bf nya, kasama ko officemate ko na di nya kilala. akala nya gf ko hehehe na insecure siguro kase nga naman mas maganda, sexy, at matangkad kay sa kanya aba inaway officemate ko ako kase when i leave a relationship it's really over. sagad sagaran na kasi yung effort ko to save the relationship. to think sya pa yung nakipag break. wala lang, kase wala na ako na feel for her. but right there i knew may na fefeel pa sya for me. hehehe payback time alam ng friend ko yung pinaggagawa nya sakin. kaya inasar nya lalo sabi pa iniwanan mo eh your lose my gain hehehe Quote Link to comment
mr.genteel Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 i'll be happy for her... atleast now she's happy... and that someone in these world can her smile... too bad one of EX medyo nadala na yata sa lalaki after me... she fell for a lesbiana... hehehe or maybe feeling nya bading talaga ako when are relation started...hehehe... i think she really fell in love in my feminine side not my macho personality... hehe pero everything is based on happiness so if they are happy with their life with someone else i'll be happy for them... Quote Link to comment
pixfirewall Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 if you see your EX-gf with someone new..well move on with your life...much better if your ex-gf have seen you with your new GF who's more sexy and attractive then her...i bet she'll be hurt in a way na mas pa ang pinalit mo sa kanya...merong selos on her part...hehehe...overall move on with life and learn...cheers!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment
beefeatter Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 at first of course it kind the hurt a bit ....but have to move on right...... :goatee: Quote Link to comment
ghetto_gospel Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 last sunday, i saw my ex with her new bf......they heard mass together. it shattered my heart and made me lose my will to live......... Quote Link to comment
paradox1113 Posted July 21, 2007 Share Posted July 21, 2007 it hurts a lot of course but di ko ipagpilitan ang sarili ko sa taong wala ng gusto sa akin no matter how much she meant to me. Quote Link to comment
destron Posted July 21, 2007 Share Posted July 21, 2007 That'd be a great closure. Quote Link to comment
tagpi Posted July 22, 2007 Share Posted July 22, 2007 might be a good time to get your own arm candy too :goatee: Quote Link to comment
SevenZeroFive Posted July 22, 2007 Share Posted July 22, 2007 hehe, naalala ko tuloy nung nagbabasa ako sa archives ng YM ko.. i remember the arguments me & my ex & her friends had after we broke up, and somehow nanghinayang ako.. i can still remember one of our closest friends say to me na she did like me a lot & it's a shame that we broke it off, & to some degree i agree.. we still talk, pero we never talk about what happened between us (duh), & we're still kinda good friends.. so if i see her with her new flame i'd be happy for her.. Quote Link to comment
eternal070 Posted July 24, 2007 Share Posted July 24, 2007 ..........i dont know. it depends on how the break up went i guess. if you guys are still friends then its cool. if it was a lousy awful experience.....just turn the other way =) Quote Link to comment
mark_pogi Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 i dont mind seeing her with new new beau. the question would be, is it ok for her to see me with someone new? :evil: Quote Link to comment
SexyMedChic Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 i saw his pics with her gf now..everytime na nakikita ko.. it hurts.. parang ambigat sa loob.. lagi ko na lang nasasabi.. i was in that position before.. ako ang kasama nia dati sa mga pics..but oh well.. ganun talaga.wag ko lang makakasalubong..baka maging white as paper ako..ung isang ex ko naman... hindi maiwasan na hindi kame magkita.. maliit lang ang hospital.. pero dahil wala pa naman shang bago (ewan lang) wala lang.. hi hello..ano balita.. mga ganun lang.. Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 ano ba...edi wala..ano pa ba? kaya nga ex na eh Quote Link to comment
mwah Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 felt nothing. absolutely nothing. Quote Link to comment
bleuxrose Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 well, what happened between us (me & my ex) was really that complicated... kami pa lang may iba na siya. and when i found that out, first time ko ma-experience na mapunta sa hell.. (OA!) kidding aside, it gave me the major stress and depression that i've never had before. just imagine, kami pa, may someone new na siya plus the fact that he wants to keep us both... anu ba yun?btw, no bitterness dun sa someone new nya while kame pa. coz i know na she doesn't know na may gf pala itong si ex... someday siguro, pag naka-move on na ako and i'd see him with someone else, i'd be happy for him (but i dunno if i'd be happy for the girl ). good thing malayo ako sa kanya, kung may chance man na magkita kami accidentally, that'd be in a possibility of 2 out of 10.. Quote Link to comment
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