action_officer Posted July 5, 2003 Share Posted July 5, 2003 some who are single or alone are not at all lonely.... they are the kind of people who in as much as they enjoy being with someone or other people can also be happy being alone.... i guess it has something to do with personality... yup. i agree Quote Link to comment
$weet Baby Posted July 12, 2003 Author Share Posted July 12, 2003 some who are single or alone are not at all lonely.... they are the kind of people who in as much as they enjoy being with someone or other people can also be happy being alone.... i guess it has something to do with personality... ya that's true and at least your in control of the situation.... Quote Link to comment
xquisite_cher Posted July 13, 2003 Share Posted July 13, 2003 :cry: its so hard 2 be single sa 21ST CENTURY... nand2 na ako sa point ng life ko na i need 2 belong 2 somebody ... masarap ma-inluv but mahirap lang makahanap ng tamang lalake Quote Link to comment
Guest simply_tinA Posted July 13, 2003 Share Posted July 13, 2003 :cry: :cry: :cry: Quote Link to comment
Mr. Swabe Posted July 13, 2003 Share Posted July 13, 2003 hi, swt lurker!!! ur right... both... Quote Link to comment
sally bogna mathay Posted July 13, 2003 Share Posted July 13, 2003 it's hard when your wife is awaya person you make love 2 night and dayyou hug her pillow to smell her scentand think of something quite indecent it's hard when your wife is awaya woman who was your last swayyou run your hand on her lingeriegently as if it's a glass menagerie it's hard when your wife is awayyour look yonder to the bayhoping she comes home soonand says i don't have my undies on Quote Link to comment
irshes Posted July 13, 2003 Share Posted July 13, 2003 I try to maintain a happy demeanor, but deep inside I know I'm still not ok with not being with him. These days no matter how I seem to enjoy myself, or how hard I laugh, it just doesn't quite reach my eyes. I'm free, I go out a lot these days. As he said, we are not accountable to each other anymore. But it really doesn't equate to being happy.Thank God for friends. Hehe, nag-senti na naman ako Quote Link to comment
jeezus_krieste Posted July 13, 2003 Share Posted July 13, 2003 it's kinda hard for me kasi i'm used to having that someone around...now that she's gone...i don't know exactly what to do with freedom, i'm totally lost :cry: most of us just try to mask our sadness of not wanting to be alone by being quite the player...and take pride in giving false meaning to this so called freedom...i'm feel more free when i'm with her...but then again, i realized that a little too late...*masyado ba akong seryoso?* :boo: Quote Link to comment
jeezus_krieste Posted July 13, 2003 Share Posted July 13, 2003 That's *i feel...typo lang po Quote Link to comment
swt_lurker Posted July 14, 2003 Share Posted July 14, 2003 hi, swt lurker!!! ur right... both... hi din po, Mr. Swabe.. Quote Link to comment
Suicide_boy Posted July 14, 2003 Share Posted July 14, 2003 Hi peeps, just need your view points is being $ingle again means your gonna be Lonely or Freedom :* a little bit of both. Quote Link to comment
Guest Tease2 Posted July 21, 2003 Share Posted July 21, 2003 I've been unattached for over a year now. I broke up with my ex after a terrible argument. He drank like no man I've ever met. But he was -- and probably still is -- one of the best young writers around.  He was hard at work on what what I thought would be an incredible book. One evening, in a drunken rage, he smashed our PC into bits with a chair. He then proceeded to burn the printed manuscript I had meticulously edited for him.  To this day, I have no idea what drove him to do that. He had been in vicious brawls and scrapes all his life. He passed out drunk in front of my family and friends many times. I stayed with him. When he insisted upon drinking the day the doctor told him his liver was about to conk out, I stayed with him. But when he destroyed that book, that spectacular unborn epic in his mind, I think he killed all the good that was left in him. I packed my bags and went straight out the door. I didn't think I would survive. The first few months were awful. I would wake up at night looking for him. I cried every night. I even refused to have the sheets washed because I could still smell him there. Those were some of the worst days I've ever had to live through.  But I came out of it fine and, incredibly enough, I'm now happy again.  The sense of freedom does not come at once. But it does come, if you hang in there long enough. Quote Link to comment
Sapphire Posted July 21, 2003 Share Posted July 21, 2003 I surely agree with you Tease2. Getting over the pain is not an easy thing to do. Â I felt that same pain as you did, maybe not the same level but I was dying in pain when I broke up with my bf before I met this guy that I am with now. My world crushed, because I love him so very much, as in he's the kind of a man I ever dreamed of, but in every dream there is the awakening part. Â We parted not because we don't love each other anymore, not even we had a fight suprisingly, I let him go because I know he won't be completely happy with me because I can't really have him. He loves me but he loves somebody elses more than he loves me. Ang sakit nun! I thought, I would literally die in pain, at that time, siya na iyong akala kong masarap magmahal. Â For quite sometime I was alone, felt so empty. It was nice because I can go anywhere without being asked of a lot of questions but I really feel so alone and longing for his hugs and kisses, but I let it pass, I don't want a rebound relationship. I want to get up on my own. Â And true enough, The rain in my life has stopped. I found a guy who dearly loves me more than I love him. Who is sensitive to my needs and longings, who is always there when I need to be hugged or just to be affirmed. Afterall, there is a prize to all those tears. Quote Link to comment
honeylette Posted July 22, 2003 Share Posted July 22, 2003 Hi peeps, just need your view points is being $ingle again means your gonna be Lonely or Freedom :* being single isfreedom.........coz you dont have to consider anybodyin everything that you will dolonely..........hindi ... coz u stil have ur frends, family, hu loves you more. You can be happy even without a boyfrend,without depending to other people for your happiness.its just a matter of acceptance and yung priority Quote Link to comment
KAPRE33 Posted July 23, 2003 Share Posted July 23, 2003 (edited) I guess I'm always single, I don't know maybe it's some quirk of fate but I almost always find myself single 'again'. But being single is not bad, having experienced pain is not bad at all.... anyways here's a poem for all you guys who are suddenly single again... How does one forget....the sweet smell of her breath,the soft touch of her fingers,the dark pools of her eyes,the sweet smile she haswhen we wake up in the morning.... How does one forget....the memories of her scentthe long talks in the eveningsthe feel of her hand on mine,the long walks, the long wait whenshe's shopping... How does one forget...the sweet kissesthe passionate hugsthe rapture of joiningthe bliss of being.... One can not, nay one dares notBut life goes on, it does, it willand memories are in the pastto teach to learn fromone learns, and one will try againbut the memories will stayin one's past, aye, a soon distant past..... Edited July 23, 2003 by KAPRE33 Quote Link to comment
hiyashi Posted July 23, 2003 Share Posted July 23, 2003 I feel lonely even I'm free, pero ok pag single ka, there's no pressure, trabaho lang ang problema mo Quote Link to comment
$weet Baby Posted August 1, 2003 Author Share Posted August 1, 2003 I try to maintain a happy demeanor, but deep inside I know I'm still not ok with not being with him. These days no matter how I seem to enjoy myself, or how hard I laugh, it just doesn't quite reach my eyes. I'm free, I go out a lot these days. As he said, we are not accountable to each other anymore. But it really doesn't equate to being happy.Thank God for friends. Hehe, nag-senti na naman ako well we share same sentiments sis, i feel that also.... Quote Link to comment
$weet Baby Posted August 1, 2003 Author Share Posted August 1, 2003 some who are single or alone are not at all lonely.... they are the kind of people who in as much as they enjoy being with someone or other people can also be happy being alone.... i guess it has something to do with personality... yes your right about that it depends on the personality of the person, some people tends to enjoy singlehood because they are free from anything. Quote Link to comment
$weet Baby Posted July 2, 2004 Author Share Posted July 2, 2004 I've been unattached for over a year now. I broke up with my ex after a terrible argument. He drank like no man I've ever met. But he was -- and probably still is -- one of the best young writers around.  He was hard at work on what what I thought would be an incredible book. One evening, in a drunken rage, he smashed our PC into bits with a chair. He then proceeded to burn the printed manuscript I had meticulously edited for him.  To this day, I have no idea what drove him to do that. He had been in vicious brawls and scrapes all his life. He passed out drunk in front of my family and friends many times. I stayed with him. When he insisted upon drinking the day the doctor told him his liver was about to conk out, I stayed with him. But when he destroyed that book, that spectacular unborn epic in his mind, I think he killed all the good that was left in him. I packed my bags and went straight out the door. I didn't think I would survive. The first few months were awful. I would wake up at night looking for him. I cried every night. I even refused to have the sheets washed because I could still smell him there. Those were some of the worst days I've ever had to live through.  But I came out of it fine and, incredibly enough, I'm now happy again.  The sense of freedom does not come at once. But it does come, if you hang in there long enough. im glad that you we're able to surpass the dilema that happen, that's the fighting spirit. Quote Link to comment
$weet Baby Posted July 2, 2004 Author Share Posted July 2, 2004 being single isfreedom.........coz you dont have to consider anybodyin everything that you will dolonely..........hindi ... coz u stil have ur frends, family, hu loves you more. You can be happy even without a boyfrend,without depending to other people for your happiness.its just a matter of acceptance and yung priority i agree with you girl, you have a good point there!!! Quote Link to comment
chukchuck44 Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 at bakit ka naman nakakarelate??? Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â ... :upside: Quote Link to comment
$weet Baby Posted July 2, 2004 Author Share Posted July 2, 2004 at bakit ka naman nakakarelate??? Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â ... :upside: well i understand their feelings, been there to that kind of situation... Quote Link to comment
Guest cool_k@reem Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 after a relationship talagang pagdadaanan mo pagiging lonely minsan....but you still have your friends para makalimutan mo yun diba? being free siguro means free to reflect on yourself...tanong mo sa sarile mo kung ready kana ba for another relationship...  Quote Link to comment
**sweet_malditha** Posted July 3, 2004 Share Posted July 3, 2004 free again na lang... im not yet ready 4 another commitment...huhuhuhu! Quote Link to comment
CATCHO Posted July 3, 2004 Share Posted July 3, 2004 definitely for me its FREEDOM Quote Link to comment
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