Too Shy Ask For His/her Number

[TNT Hsia]

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[shrike]

It's not on what you say and where you say it. You can say the most cliche line in the world and still sweep her feet off. You maybe inside the church or bar and still strike up a good conversation.

 

The most important thing is YOU. you should be confident without being air headed, look interested in her but still make her doubt.

 

The goal is not to get her number, but to get into a good conversation that she will initiate a second encounter by asking your number or giving her #. Subtle flirting is a good thing, but refrain from anything that would make her uncomfortable. The M.O. is you're interested IF she's worth your time, if you could pass this message to her w/out saying it, you're well on your way.

 

And it varies from person to person, what may work for one may not work for others. The KEY here is practice, practice what style suits you and improve on it, perfect it if possible. You may get snubbed the first times you do it, but you're learning from your mistakes. It may also help to realize that you are more than a guy w a di*k, if you can project yourself w an image of person everyone will like to be with, you're on the right track, otherwise this 'game' is not for you.

[Larry]

try touching yourself inappropriately while you talk to her

 

it works in porn so it must work IRL

[freezeburn]

try touching yourself inappropriately while you talk to her

 

it works in porn so it must work IRL

 

Larry...you'd make Cassanova and Don Juan de Marco look like toddlers. :cool:

[Larry]

Larry...you'd make Cassanova and Don Juan de Marco look like toddlers.

 

what can i say

 

i got skillz

 

seriously if you got confidence enough you can practically pull any girl you want.

 

*adjusts 10 inch member*

 

*eyeballs the ladies on the thread*

 

how you doin'?

[Boysbe]

what can i say

 

i got skillz

 

seriously if you got confidence enough you can practically pull any girl you want.

 

*adjusts 10 inch member*

 

*eyeballs the ladies on the thread*

 

how you doin'?

 

 

 

wow,could you really meet other member here?I thought it was illegal or something..

thanks.. :cool:

[rakinishu]

..*after some real good conversation and it's 'closing time'* ..."how do we continue this conversation?"

 

and this one I came up with recently, and she gave me her number without me asking for it..

 

"what? taga ***** ka? Du'n din ako before I moved to ****.. hmn.. I'm afraid *** is out of my telepathic coverage area.. can't reach you there.. lol!" -

[TX]

depende sa situation

[iwalkalone]

what can i say

 

i got skillz

 

seriously if you got confidence enough you can practically pull any girl you want.

 

*adjusts 10 inch member*

 

*eyeballs the ladies on the thread*

 

how you doin'?

 

 

do ur skillz really work here in MTC? really???

 

i always thought only girls who are

desperate...nympho...for hire...way too ugly...bakla pretending to be gurls...

cons... would go for invitations cumin from other mtc members.

[Larry]

do ur skillz really work here in MTC? really???

 

here's to totally missing the point of the post

 

kudos!

[spongebobby]

 

i always thought only girls who are

desperate...nympho...for hire...way too ugly...bakla pretending to be gurls...

cons... would go for invitations cumin from other mtc members.

 

now this is uncalled for...

 

it's unfair to call mtc girls who respond to or even initiate pm's or dates as ugly, desperate, or for hire. :thumbsdownsmiley:

 

if a girl agrees to give her number to a guy whether mtc, in a jeepney, or in a bar, it doesn't make her a cheapo.

Edited December 30, 2006 by spongebobby

[Joie]

i always thought only girls who are

desperate...nympho...for hire...way too ugly...bakla pretending to be gurls...

cons... would go for invitations cumin from other mtc members.

 

And I always thought people here were open minded mature and intelligent GROWNUPs.

 

NOT.

 

Responding to a PM, agreeing to meet someone for coffee (or more) does not make one cheap.

 

What makes a person cheap is when he or she claims to be as pure as the driven snow when he or she is obviously not.

 

Get real kid.

 

LOL.

 

and that LOL was really a way out loud LOL!!!

[Boysbe]

And I always thought people here were open minded mature and intelligent GROWNUPs.

 

NOT.

 

Responding to a PM, agreeing to meet someone for coffee (or more) does not make one cheap.

 

What makes a person cheap is when he or she claims to be as pure as the driven snow when he or she is obviously not.

 

Get real kid.

 

LOL.

 

and that LOL was really a way out loud LOL!!!

 

 

Ouch,relly.its not hard to invite to ask someone for a night out,it all depends on the attitude.

[tombone]

It depend on the situation and place to ask for a number , is just giving both party a chance to know each other , I don't think it make any one cheap on that,

[Boysbe]

Most men have difficulties in asking someone’s phone number for a date but how can you really get your date’s phone number without scaring them away? Different men have different approaches. Shyness makes it difficult for some to muster up the courage to get the phone number of the person they are interested in. Sometimes, men have the tendency to be too aggressive that it drives women away. The best way to get her phone number is by asking her casually in a way that she can still feel that your interested. Saying the right words at the right time may convince the person to give you her number. For example, when you have just met this person and you are about to say your goodbyes you can say casually: "I enjoyed talking to you and I'd love to be able to phone you sometime."

 

Some women might be uncomfortable with this scenario that they ask for your number instead. Don’t take this against you. It doesn’t mean that she is not interested in you. Maybe she has to work and thinks it’s better for her to call you so that at least you won’t be greeted by an answering machine every time you call. Wait for that call for about three days and if the call does not happen then don’t expect for her to call you. Getting someone’s phone number is quite hard, so try to keep your conversation interesting so he/she would be interested. Men would want to get there phone number right away. They usually end up empty handed. Sometimes it’s good not to ask her directly for her number. You can try saying that you had a great time and that you’d love to see her again. You can wait a little until she gives you the number, but if she doesn’t and if you feel that she had a great time also, you can go right ahead and ask her the number.

 

Women love confidence. And men have to understand that confidence isn't just about getting her number. It's how you handle the situation if she doesn't give you her number. Politely ask why she didn't in that way she would feel guilty and might just give you her magical phone number. Sometimes women would say, "Why don't you just give me your number?" This is usually there way of saying that they’re not interested. You can change that by trying to talk to her and making sure that she feels that your intentions are pure. Do not be desperate in getting her number. Women hate that. Desperate men sometimes, they lead to stalking. Try to be as casual as possible in getting her phone number. If she doesn’t give you the number, move on.

 

Another way to get her phone number is to first move up to her and start having a conversation. After 3-4 minutes, say that you have to go back to your friends and turn to leave. Then turn to her again and say, “Hey! Do you have an email?” And if she says yes give her a pen and paper and when she’s writing it down say, “Can you write your phone number too?" Getting someone’s phone number is quite hard. You just need to gather up your confidence and ask her casually. Don’t make a big deal out of it if she turns you down. Remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea.

 

-Advices from a girl i know.