Too Shy Ask For His/her Number

[ambidextrous00]

i had this problem before!! when i was in college there was this cute girl na type na type ko. didnt know how to ask for her number. halos everyday ko sya nakakasakay, and parehas kami ng binababaan. sabi ng tropa ko, mas madali nga daw for me na makipag kilala kasi im a girl. so no malice, but of course di ko pa rin kaya. anyways, yun nga. kinukulit ako ng tropa ko,. pero i never did it.

 

ang awkward diba? like what do i talk to her about. small talk? not good at that.mahahalatang im tryin haha. i was thinkin of comin straight out and just askin if shes straight. but i didnt know if it was gonna sound offensive.

 

until now di ko pa rin alam how i should go about it.

 

may mga bi ba dito? lol. mga babae. how do i do it?

 

i never make friends kasi. so i wouldnt know how to talk to a stranger in general, much more ask for his/her n umber

[malambingdxb1]

maraming paraan para hingin ang number ng girl/guy.

kung ayaw mo ihingi verbally...ibluetooth mo sya :thumbsupsmiley: with your picture

[Kharnall]

i had a crush here in the office , we've been working together for 3 years . i never had the guts to ask for her number ( dakilang torpe ) , she left the company last november . my padmate used to tease me about this ( being my ex fubu and all ). i can never bring myself to ask a gurl her phone number. even if its given to me by a common friend . i consider it impolite and discourteous to ask for the number.

[PreventerWind]

na try ko na to dati i was on my way for class tapos may nakasabay akong chick na taga Fatima sa jeep. actually di ko sa jeep nakuha number nya sa SM na sya kasi bumaba sinundan ko tamang approach lng "miss excuse me, ok lang ba if i ask for your number?" medyo hassle pa kasi sa notebook ko pinasulat hahaha nahihiya kasi ako sa CP ko eh di ko alam san ako kumuha ng lakas ng loob nun

Edited April 28, 2009 by PimpGangster

[sajuuk]

If I really really liked her and there was no other option but to ask then I would say.

 

"Please spare me the humiliation in front of all these people and put your number in my phone"

 

and if she would be kind enough to answer when I summon the courage to call, followed by a resounding "Yes!" when I ask for a date.

 

then I'd quickly get off the jeep before she changes her mind.

 

ummm. that's it!

 

lol... you'll be lucky enough if it's her number she'll type in but this is a good move.

[enlightenme]

siguro napre-preskohan sila dun sa mga panget, o kaya eh over-confident pero la naman. hehehe mga tipong ganun...

 

better pa din yun tipong strike up a conversation at least build rapport and trust... mas magiging at ease silang magbigay ng info or number. though i don't do this, usually i ask they ask me for my no. coz i rarely ask their nos. madalas kasi ndi rin naman sila magrereply unless natandaan talaga nila ako or type nila. eh yun... so here's the line i use to ask them for their digits:

 

"Hi! Im thor nga pala, would you mind if I get your phone number.. pero kung di ka rin naman magrereply eh thanks na lang...(sabay killer smile)"

hehehe... it works!

[77i9]

ang importante e ask the girl their name first and then introduce yourself, saka itanong kung pwede makuha ang number.

[cadbury007]

ang importante e ask the girl their name first and then introduce yourself, saka itanong kung pwede makuha ang number.

 

 

hehehe tama.. +2.. "Hi Miss .. Im <state ur name> hope you wont mind, but I just want to get your no, syempre.. smile ka dapat.." Its a gamble and be ready to any reactions from her.. At least you tried.. if she did'nt.. then dont cry over it.. its part of the game. Say Thank you still in a formal way. :goatee:

[temple fugate]

i'm shy to ask for her number because my wedding ring is on the way...

 

Edited June 18, 2009 by tempusfugit23

[pdcruz]

not upfront.. always through ym, pm, forums like this..

[g_funk]

I'm quite shy when I was in college, had a crush on this girl but just couldn't summon enough guts to ask for her number. Then there came this chance when she was alone at her tambayan, i took a deep breath and sloooowly walk towards her direction. Everything was like in slow-motion. My eyes were focused, she saw me and mejo naconcious ata sya at parang di makatingin. When I was around two to three feet away from her... I paused and said, "pare, magkano ba utang ko?" I choked big time. My friend was 5 feet behind her, yun yung kinausap ko. hahaha.

Edited June 18, 2009 by g_funk

[dreynolds]

tried 4 times i think sa jeep. basta konti lang tao and be nice sa girl, smile, and with respectful voice. sa apat na try ko 2 ang nagbigay ng number. mrn din nun colege me kasabay ko sa bus, nkatabi ko, sucesful nmn ako at nakausap hangang bumaba sya.

[OnCall]

Theres this 1 girl na sister ng isang patient namin, nag rorounds ako every day.. hindi naman sya masyadong maganda pero may dating. hindi ko naman gustong mag mukhang parang im abusing relationships sa hospital... pero panu ko kaya makuya # nya na parang your not looking na parang bad? hehe

[JustInnCase]

i tried once. sa fx. i really dont have the guts. torpe

[Kroniklez]

Simple, just start a simple small conversation. Such as, "Hey is this the MRT stop to go to Shang Ri la?" "oh thanks..I'm not really familiar here, I usually just hang around MOA." "It's been a pleasure talking even though it's been short. Do you mind if I get your number?' Before you know it, you're text mates. Everyone hates to have a cell phone that nobody texts..and a phone that you don't use for calling or texting. It's as good as a digi cam, only used when actually needed. Everyone likes their phones to get messages once in a while, it makes their phone seem less lonely. and you feel less lonely as well. Men or females, I think it works both ways, someone texting you isn't so bad, and adding another to your phonebook isn't so bad also. Nakakahiya naman if you only have 5people in your phonebook.

 

It's really simple, Start a simple conversation, then end it abruptly/unexpectedly and ask for their number. The last thing you want to do is talk and talk and talk until it gets to that point where you run out of things to talk about. Then there's dead silence...then..."ummm do you mind if i get your number?" How awkward. Do it while your game is still going, then end it, then get the number. She'll keep wanting more. Her last impression of you will be..."sayang I wish we could talk more..I'm looking to that again.". Instead of..."okie..the end of that conversation went dead..I'm not looking to that again."