SausageTacos Posted May 28, 2015 Share Posted May 28, 2015 It's common for most men to be shy to ask for number of the person he likes, i think about 95% of us, but once you get some practice it's not so hard..Well before I'm also one of them but it's really not that hard. In most cases, women don't give their numbers easily but once you get that barrier they'll give it to you no matter how you ask. It is really important that women MUST be comfortable with you before they give you their number so chat with them up 1st. Find commonalities, try to ask questions what she's like, what she likes to do (cause you won't ask their number if you yourself don't like their attitude, how they think... etc... or maybe their lifestyle doesn't match yours etc. ), have them know you a bit, have a few laughs then after that it will come naturally or better yet, with a bit of luck, they will give you their number themselves so you could catch up some other time. Plus knowing if you have commonalities will help you know what to say/text to her after they gave you their number. Oh... and also don't think less of yourself, I think that's mostly the problem why you're shy in getting their numbers (At least that's my problem before). You're not that different from any of those guys that easily get numbers. If you're not comfortable with yourself, how can you expect other people be comfortable with you??? Right?? Specially women, I think they can sense that easily.. Weird sense of sense... makes sense? Quote Link to comment
Marauderwolf Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 Ask her for obvious direction like some place nearby, and ask her if you can get her number in case you got lost. Quote Link to comment
brenainn Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 "so... can I get your number now?" hahaha when I said that, they all laughed and they got my number instead LOL Quote Link to comment
Kurtsky Keigee Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 I am not good when it comes to approaching women, so I askmy friendto ask her number for me, or i ask her through facebook which most of the time doesn't work. Lol! Quote Link to comment
walkingdildo Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Nangyari na sakin to Quote Link to comment
-wasted- Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Sabhin mo di mo makita cel mo at pakimisscall number mo para tumunog... Quote Link to comment
charlie_360 Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Haha jeez asking a guys number is my second problem ... Can't even initiate a Convo with them outside the digital space. Quote Link to comment
sweeney_todd Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 hirap din ako mag start nang conversation, at lalong mas hirap makakuha nang number. Quote Link to comment
philnightlife Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 I can't even ask for her name LOL Quote Link to comment
glut_func Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 simple lang naman to eh, babaan nyo standards nyo - pag alam mong wala kang chance dun sa taong yun wag mo na balakin pa hingiin number nya Quote Link to comment
rayman33 Posted July 15, 2015 Share Posted July 15, 2015 Mahirap pag torpe talaga.. practice sa same level para tumaas ang confidence Quote Link to comment
farbehind Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 Give your number instead, but first make her interested in you first. Quote Link to comment
suade Posted July 31, 2015 Share Posted July 31, 2015 kanina dun ako lapit sa JRU nag antay ng jeep punta starmall.tapos meron lumapit na babae nag tanong kong me duma daan jeep punta starmall sabi ayan na ohh..sabay na tau..pretty siya probably 5'3 fair slim nice skin chinta mukhang chinese at me brace 19-22 y/o..tinabihan ko tapos nag tanong cia kong alam ko daw pcso sabi ko hindi alam ko nasa e rod yun..tapos tanong niya yung driver paki baba daw pcso..tapos usap ng konti tanong ko kong nanalo siya sa lotto at at mag claim ng prize tumawa cia sabi nia dun daw cia punta katabi or malapit pcso..gusto ko sana samahan kaso meet ko friend ko sa rob gale.tapos naka limutan ng driver ibaba cia sa pcso kc nakarating na sa starmall..nag babaan na mga pasahero nag sorry naman yung driver ihatid na lang daw cia pabalik..tapos antay ko lang bumaba ibang mga paseharo..tapos nag tanong ako kong pede makuha number nia..sagot niya Ayaw..toinks haha bumaba na din ako hehe..more practice pa :Din fairness masarap cia kausap yung ibang mga pasahero tumitingin lalo na mga lalaki Quote Link to comment
suade Posted July 31, 2015 Share Posted July 31, 2015 (edited) eto naman kahapon sa megamall nandun ako dahil me sale sa mega trade hall.tapos nung nkabili nko dun me sa taxi line between bldng a &b mahaba pila yung babae sa dulo maganda matangkas sakin 1 inch 5'6 ako super sexy at maputi probably early 20s..mukha siyang flight stewardes me bitbit na take out joliibee or mcdo tapos tanong ako sa kanya kong eto yung pila sa taxi sabi nia oo daw daw tapos tanong ko kong pede mag yosi..ok lang daw tapos ask ko name nia maria daw at sinabi ko name ko sabi niya uwi daw siya sa manda ask ko kong single pa sabi niya yes single pa.sabi same here hehe ewan ko lang kong naniwala hehe tapos ask ko kong me bf na..sabi niya Yes..yun na discourage na ako kunin cp number niya.type ko pa naman..gf material.more practice pa Edited July 31, 2015 by suadee Quote Link to comment
akash5 Posted July 31, 2015 Share Posted July 31, 2015 Just be honest with him/her."i'd like us to be together sometime, get to know each other more. May I call you?"The worst that can happen is she"ll say No but you can leave her your cell phone number just in case. () Quote Link to comment
suade Posted July 31, 2015 Share Posted July 31, 2015 Just be honest with him/her."i'd like us to be together sometime, get to know each other more. May I call you?"The worst that can happen is she"ll say No but you can leave her your cell phone number just in case. ( )wala ako calling card bro Quote Link to comment
Walang4ever Posted August 24, 2015 Share Posted August 24, 2015 Well if your to shy to ask her number personaly kunin mo nlng sa frend nia ung number nia...yun eh kung ibibigay ng frend nia.... Quote Link to comment
Eddy Syet Posted August 25, 2015 Share Posted August 25, 2015 Ang takot lang naman eh yung takot ma-reject. My advise? Syet, eh di just ask. Be honest. Kung ayaw eh di... NEXT! Madaming magagandang dilag sa mundo. Makaka-timing ka din ng hindi suplada. Quote Link to comment
rey.etder Posted August 25, 2015 Share Posted August 25, 2015 just ask. rejection??? nahhhh okay lang yan. Quote Link to comment
global4 Posted September 8, 2015 Share Posted September 8, 2015 Commision somebody to do the giving of your say calling card to the girl if you are too shy to do it. Samahan mo na ng bulaklak. Quote Link to comment
cloud99 Posted September 9, 2015 Share Posted September 9, 2015 Just go for it! Quote Link to comment
Cool Fool Posted September 9, 2015 Share Posted September 9, 2015 When I don't want to get a girls number I ask the girl to take mine instead, but this requires solid game. Quote Link to comment
PhantomBlack Posted September 9, 2015 Share Posted September 9, 2015 After exchanging some chit chats with the girl...Never ask her " Can I have your number?"She will problably say "no".Instead, try the direct and agrresive approach.Tell her that you would like to stay in touch with her. Don't hesitate, give her your number and immediatley ask her "what's yours???" Then text her immediately to tell her that it was so great meeting her acquaintance.This will make communicating with her a natural occurence. Quote Link to comment
MasterShifu Posted September 11, 2015 Share Posted September 11, 2015 I read somewhere: "Go for women out of your league. You may end up surprised." Dated a cute shoe sales lady from shangrila before. Tagged along with a guy friend shopping for shoes one day. Noticed he was trying to flirt with the sales girl assisting him but he was stumbling all over the place. His passes are either too obvious or awkward (imho).So being the good friend/wingman, i stepped in to salvage the situation.She gave me her # when i told her we needed someone to call in case we have more questions about the shoe my friend was trying to buy. (Not even sure why that worked) To cut the story short, i ended up dating her. My friend was sport about it tho =)Later that night, we got another girl's # after playing poker. I dated her too, but thats a story for another post i guess. Hehe Quote Link to comment
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