jons11 Posted December 30, 2006 Share Posted December 30, 2006 I could understand if she got pregnant before we went into the relationship, but during???? Hell no. You got yourself into this mess you, can get yourself out. I can forgive her but I won't spend another second being her boyfriend. A martyr dies for a cause he believes in. Your still alive, so what do you call yourself? Love? Love is a two way street, and since she obviously took a left turn somewhere, you're travelling on a road to nowhere by yourself. Think about that. You might think I'm cruel, but I expect you to do the same if I ever do that to you. Quote Link to comment
marc73 Posted December 31, 2006 Share Posted December 31, 2006 I will definitely leave her. And I think if she has some dignity left in her, sya na mismo ang lalayo. Quote Link to comment
cutemetrix Posted January 2, 2007 Author Share Posted January 2, 2007 I could understand if she got pregnant before we went into the relationship, but during???? Hell no. You got yourself into this mess you, can get yourself out. I can forgive her but I won't spend another second being her boyfriend. A martyr dies for a cause he believes in. Your still alive, so what do you call yourself? Love? Love is a two way street, and since she obviously took a left turn somewhere, you're travelling on a road to nowhere by yourself. Think about that. You might think I'm cruel, but I expect you to do the same if I ever do that to you. we call ourselves VICTIMS OF LOVE Quote Link to comment
legend_ako Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 we call ourselves VICTIMS OF LOVE its best to help her out since its not good to leave during her most traumatic times...but in case she decides to be with the guy.. let it be. Quote Link to comment
spongebobby Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 unless immaculate conception iyon, iiwanan ko siya. she gets pregnant before the relationship, puwede pa. during the relationship, no way. Quote Link to comment
jons11 Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 we call ourselves VICTIMS OF LOVE If you're a victim, why stay with the suspect? Quote Link to comment
rey172004 Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 are you cheating on her before? napakasimpleng i drawing ang babae mga tol, baka naman nasa iyo ang dahilan kaya nya nagawa yon. incase n mangyari yon sa akin mag usap muna kami para malinaw ang lahat....ang gusto ng mga babae yung financial security.....e kung i package sya ng isang bigtime bahay, lupa, sasakyan etc......san kapa. Quote Link to comment
Expedia33 Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 bye...if she tries to explain...*terminator 3 voice* "talk to the hand" I'll be damned if she tasted another man during the relationship... Quote Link to comment
jhun29 Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Tell her how muched youd loved her and say Good bye...so long.....see you later alligator.... yup almost forgot....see you around b*tch Quote Link to comment
Boysbe Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Ahahahaha, goodluck nalang sa kanya!!! Really,i would really thank the guy,what if she cheats on you when you're already married?At least you will know that your gf is a lying dispicable excuse for a gf. Fact of the matter is, if she cheats, she gets pregnant,she losses more than what she bargains for. Quote Link to comment
J_DuB Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 This is a nice quesion.......... Quote Link to comment
cutemetrix Posted January 6, 2007 Author Share Posted January 6, 2007 If you're a victim, why stay with the suspect? FYI Im not staying with the suspect.Im just symphatizing with them :cool: :cool: :cool: :cool: Quote Link to comment
cutemetrix Posted January 6, 2007 Author Share Posted January 6, 2007 its best to help her out since its not good to leave during her most traumatic times...but in case she decides to be with the guy.. let it be. Ill do the same thing:mtc: Quote Link to comment
saltek_2 Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 I'm going to end the relationship but if she comes to me for help i will surely help her out :cool: rock on Quote Link to comment
hardcoredaddy Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 Ibibigay ko na sya dun sa Guy tapos sasabihan ko ng good luck! Malamang gawin din nya to sayo. wahehehehe! See yah in the crossroad, beyotch! Quote Link to comment
Wang-BU Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 pag nangyari un, that's the beginning of our END...... ...........ayus Quote Link to comment
complicated8 Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 i'll help her out. i don't think i can be comitted to her though. open relationship/fubu na lang kami Quote Link to comment
virtual_manyak Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 well guys, you're too nice... for me, i would get someone closest to the guy - his wife, gf or sister - that got her pregnant and do the same. then agree to marry my gf and stood her up on our wedding day... Quote Link to comment
tombone Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 If she got pregnant then she should be with the guy who do it. Wish them happiness nalang. were only human. Quote Link to comment
cutemetrix Posted January 10, 2007 Author Share Posted January 10, 2007 well guys, you're too nice... for me, i would get someone closest to the guy - his wife, gf or sister - that got her pregnant and do the same. then agree to marry my gf and stood her up on our wedding day... THIS IS A NICE IDEA :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: MAY BE THEY SHOULD TRY THIS ONE :cool: :cool: :cool: :cool: :cool: Quote Link to comment
fir3st0rm Posted January 10, 2007 Share Posted January 10, 2007 well guys, you're too nice... for me, i would get someone closest to the guy - his wife, gf or sister - that got her pregnant and do the same. then agree to marry my gf and stood her up on our wedding day... there's too much drama in your plan man, just beat the guy up and move on -- you don't need all this garbage around you, chicks are everywhere, and as you get older, richer and wiser, you'll have all these girls chasing you (just make sure that when you do get older - you also get richer and wiser, ok? :cool: ) Quote Link to comment
happy rider Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 there's too much drama in your plan man, just beat the guy up and move on -- you don't need all this garbage around you, chicks are everywhere, and as you get older, richer and wiser, you'll have all these girls chasing you (just make sure that when you do get older - you also get richer and wiser, ok? :cool: )Tama ka bro madaming pekpek dyan kaya kung san sya masaya dyan sya! Problema lang pag tanda tumayo pa kaya yan??? lol! Quote Link to comment
dark_soul Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 This Hell of a situation happened to me way back August last year.. Its has been 4 years that we were together and i thought she's already the girl that i will be spending my time till end. She lives in the province, somewhere in north and im here in manila working ( though i always find a way to be with her every week). Things change during the 1st quarter of the month last year. For some reasons we felt that the relationship was a bit cold, we argue most of the time ( pero ganun talaga siya..selosa kasi ). She was always complaining na wala na daw akong time sa kanya. For four years na umuuwi ako ng province every week para sa kanya noon niya lang nabanggit sa akin un, however we still try to work everything out..Masaya ako sa kanya. Then duamting birthday nya which was June and i was not able to attend on the exact day..I told her na babawi na lang ako once na umuwi ako ulit ng province. Then days pass through and i felt something different to her..that was august. Feeling ko parang nilalayo niya sarili niya sa akin. Its friday night and nasa bus ako pauwi ng province again..I ask her bakit lately hindi siya nagtetext or nagrerespond sa mga messages ko?? She just told me " I have a problem and you cannot help me " which really bothers me a lot from the time i red the message. I really love her and everytime na may problema siya or nasasaktan siya ay nahihirapan ako. Sabi ko sa kanya na sabihin niya sa akin kung ano ba ang nangyari or ano yung problem niya?...ilang oras ko siya kinukulit and finally here it comes..I opened my inbox and the message said " Im 2 months pregnant and hindi ikaw ang ama" F*CK, PI at lahat ng mura na pwede ko sabihin gusto ko sabihin from the moment i got that message. I cant fully express myself nung mga oras na iyon kasi nasa bus ako..Deep inside umiiyak talaga ako and kahit anong gawing kong tago sa nararamdaman ko ay hindi ko kinaya at lumuha ako sa sobrang sakit. I texted her back and asked her " Bakit mo nagawa sa akin ito?"..then she replied back saying "sorry pls layuan mo na ako at malaki ang prblema ko ngayon and ayaw ko na makadagdag ka pa or madamay ka" I tried calling her pero hindi niya sinasagot phone ko.. I immediately text my friend para may masabihan ako ng problema dahil mahirap itago sa sarili ung nararamdaman ko.. I can sense na nahihirapan ang girlfriend ko and she is deep saddened too..Hindi ko alam kung ano ang irereply ko sa sobrang sakit ng nararamdaman ko..nag isip ako ng mabuti... Hindi ko magawang magalit sa kanya kahit na gusto ko. I love her so much that i cannot hurt her even though may nagawa siyang mali sa akin..Sabi ko sa sarili ko nandito na ito eh..kung magalit man ako wala din ako magagawa at lalo lang siya mahihirapan. She was crying on the time na pinagtapat nya sa akin yun.. So I ask her kung sino yung guy pero ayaw niya sabihin at baka lalo lang gumulo...Sad thing is ayaw siya panagutan ng guy..Call me stupid bro's pero hindi ko na inisip sarili ko noon at hindi ko inisip galit ko and i was even the once who comforted her na kaya niyang lampasan yan. ( pero as i said sobrang sakit tlaga at tinatago ko lang ) We ended the relationship on the same day and we are good as friends right now.. Nagtetext kami once in a while at nagkakamustahan( mahal ko pa rin siya until now and ganun din siya ) . Pero we know within ourselves na hindi na pwede. :goatee: Quote Link to comment
netbiz01 Posted January 12, 2007 Share Posted January 12, 2007 This Hell of a situation happened to me way back August last year.. Its has been 4 years that we were together and i thought she's already the girl that i will be spending my time till end. She lives in the province, somewhere in north and im here in manila working ( though i always find a way to be with her every week). Things change during the 1st quarter of the month last year. For some reasons we felt that the relationship was a bit cold, we argue most of the time ( pero ganun talaga siya..selosa kasi ). She was always complaining na wala na daw akong time sa kanya. For four years na umuuwi ako ng province every week para sa kanya noon niya lang nabanggit sa akin un, however we still try to work everything out..Masaya ako sa kanya. Then duamting birthday nya which was June and i was not able to attend on the exact day..I told her na babawi na lang ako once na umuwi ako ulit ng province. Then days pass through and i felt something different to her..that was august. Feeling ko parang nilalayo niya sarili niya sa akin. Its friday night and nasa bus ako pauwi ng province again..I ask her bakit lately hindi siya nagtetext or nagrerespond sa mga messages ko?? She just told me " I have a problem and you cannot help me " which really bothers me a lot from the time i red the message. I really love her and everytime na may problema siya or nasasaktan siya ay nahihirapan ako. Sabi ko sa kanya na sabihin niya sa akin kung ano ba ang nangyari or ano yung problem niya?...ilang oras ko siya kinukulit and finally here it comes..I opened my inbox and the message said " Im 2 months pregnant and hindi ikaw ang ama" F*CK, PI at lahat ng mura na pwede ko sabihin gusto ko sabihin from the moment i got that message. I cant fully express myself nung mga oras na iyon kasi nasa bus ako..Deep inside umiiyak talaga ako and kahit anong gawing kong tago sa nararamdaman ko ay hindi ko kinaya at lumuha ako sa sobrang sakit. I texted her back and asked her " Bakit mo nagawa sa akin ito?"..then she replied back saying "sorry pls layuan mo na ako at malaki ang prblema ko ngayon and ayaw ko na makadagdag ka pa or madamay ka" I tried calling her pero hindi niya sinasagot phone ko.. I immediately text my friend para may masabihan ako ng problema dahil mahirap itago sa sarili ung nararamdaman ko.. I can sense na nahihirapan ang girlfriend ko and she is deep saddened too..Hindi ko alam kung ano ang irereply ko sa sobrang sakit ng nararamdaman ko..nag isip ako ng mabuti... Hindi ko magawang magalit sa kanya kahit na gusto ko. I love her so much that i cannot hurt her even though may nagawa siyang mali sa akin..Sabi ko sa sarili ko nandito na ito eh..kung magalit man ako wala din ako magagawa at lalo lang siya mahihirapan. She was crying on the time na pinagtapat nya sa akin yun.. So I ask her kung sino yung guy pero ayaw niya sabihin at baka lalo lang gumulo...Sad thing is ayaw siya panagutan ng guy..Call me stupid bro's pero hindi ko na inisip sarili ko noon at hindi ko inisip galit ko and i was even the once who comforted her na kaya niyang lampasan yan. ( pero as i said sobrang sakit tlaga at tinatago ko lang ) We ended the relationship on the same day and we are good as friends right now.. Nagtetext kami once in a while at nagkakamustahan( mahal ko pa rin siya until now and ganun din siya ) . Pero we know within ourselves na hindi na pwede. :goatee:wow man....that is one hell of a story.... ang masasabi ko lang ay saludo ako sa iyo.....inspite of everying naging maginoo ka pa rin sa gf mo..... you earn my respect man.....this is something na hindi ko ata kayang gawinpag ginawa sa akin ito ng gf ko.... Quote Link to comment
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