Chi-Chi Posted October 29, 2006 Share Posted October 29, 2006 (edited) If that happened to me, getting pregnant and all, accdg to my boyfriend he wouldn't forgive me UNLESS if I got raped or I was really drunk and couldn't do anything.. but I think he'd still forgive me even if I had the capability of choosing.. but hey, I'll never do that to him. Edited October 29, 2006 by Chi-Chi Quote Link to comment
big-poppa-pimp Posted October 29, 2006 Share Posted October 29, 2006 we would then really know how much i love her...pero its a metter of accepting the thing...easy to say...hard to do Quote Link to comment
saucybabe Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 You know i already experienced this kind of situation...at first it really hurts....reality bites...but I must go on nga....I talked to her....she said that he loves me...but i had to let go of her...besides she is already pregnant , the guy must be responsible enough to take care of her....Deep inside ....a lesson learned in my part, coz di ako nanloloko ng babae....ganun ka kabait? pa-touch nga! hahaha... i know it's not as simple as that because you're hurt. but you can try to put yourself in her shoes. for sure, her parents are angry. she would need your moral support during that time. Quote Link to comment
poorguy Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 i dont know, it depends on how i love the girl...medyo stupid talaga ako pero i dont think n magkakatuluyan kami if that will happen..syempre dami magooppose sakin pero i will still be her friend, syempre she made a mistake n nga tapos if you leave her baka tuluyan n madepress yung girl....well i still need to know her story why tapos her plan and if i know the guy about the situation =[...anyway basta bahala n basta for sure malulungkot man ako d ko agad iwan =] antayin ko sya bumangon =] Quote Link to comment
chiechel Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 ganun ka kabait? pa-touch nga! hahaha... i know it's not as simple as that because you're hurt. but you can try to put yourself in her shoes. for sure, her parents are angry. she would need your moral support during that time. Well you have a point on that, ...there are two sides of a coin kasi, dpat tinitgnan rin the side of the girl and the guy...pero di rin agad mawala ang nararamdaman....all wounds heal.....in due time it will heal... i have a question for you pla? if you allow me..... Quote Link to comment
joggernaut Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 If your Girlfriend got cheated and got pregnant it only means she doesn't value the relationship. Imagine Pre ... pagtatawanan ka ng mga taong nakakakilala sayo, it is not a good advise na gawin mo syang kaibigan right away ... if she considers you a friend she will not hurt you. Quote Link to comment
cydney_maldita Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 sabi nga sa kanta "shame oN YOU IF YOU FOOLED ME ONCE, SHAME ON ME IF YOU FOOLED ME TWICE" pero depende yan sa lalaki diba???well sabi nga nila "tao lang"...pero ako paninindigan ko pa din na dibale ng ako ang maloko basta wag ako ang manloloko.... dont get into something na di ka sure so that di ka mapasubo Quote Link to comment
wEbStAr Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 well, it depends. but knowing myself at lalo na if sobrang love ko yung girl, i would forgive and her another chance. wala na kong pakelam what others will say. mas mahirap ata yung naloko ka na tapos tuluyan kang nawalan. pero kung ayaw na nya bumalik at sasama na sya ng tuluyan. hayaan ko na lang sya. :cry: Quote Link to comment
kobeshaq Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 I'm gonna give her a choice. My love for her will still remain and I will make it clear to her. But it's up to her now. Forgive her? Why not! We're only human, though my trust has already been depleted. I will still accept her back but she need to do a lot of catching up to regain that lost trust. Whew!! I hope this will not happen to me!:cool: I'm gonna give her a choice. My love for her will still remain and I will make it clear to her. But it's up to her now. Forgive her? Why not! We're only human, though my trust has already been depleted. I will still accept her back but she need to do a lot of catching up to regain that lost trust. Whew!! I hope this will not happen to me!:cool: Quote Link to comment
saucybabe Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 well, it depends. but knowing myself at lalo na if sobrang love ko yung girl, i would forgive and her another chance. wala na kong pakelam what others will say. mas mahirap ata yung naloko ka na tapos tuluyan kang nawalan. pero kung ayaw na nya bumalik at sasama na sya ng tuluyan. hayaan ko na lang sya. :cry:wow! in love na ako sa'yo! hahaha! kudos to you! Quote Link to comment
saucybabe Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 Well you have a point on that, ...there are two sides of a coin kasi, dpat tinitgnan rin the side of the girl and the guy...pero di rin agad mawala ang nararamdaman....all wounds heal.....in due time it will heal... i have a question for you pla? if you allow me.....and what's ur question? para hindi OT: of course, it's also not that easy for the guy.. especially if you didn't cheat even once. learn to forgive. you don't have to marry her anyway. Quote Link to comment
wakanga0929 Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 (edited) i hope everyone here agrees to me na masakit sa lalaki din yun lalo kung mahal na mahal mo yung girl...but on the other side nandiyan na eh...nangyari na...what you have to do is to balance na situation...hindi mo naman kailangan mag-mukmok eh besides its her fault so let her choose...you or the other guy....i bet you guys even the girls on this kind of stage is also hurt so better not hurt her more....physically or emotionally....kapag pinili niya yung isa well it's not your loss...you've been being honest to her kaya you can look straight into her eyes....but if she chooses you well you have to do your move para hindi naman kayo guluhin ng lalaking nakabuntis sa kanya...for me personally i'm against abortion....i'd rather keep the child than abort it...you won't know baka maging successful pa siya paglaki di ba...you can't tell...dito sa mundo hindi na pwede tayong magkunwari lahat pwede mangyari...reality bites sabi nga nila.....niloko ka edi niloko ka....but remember it's her loss kapag siya ang nagloko...dahil bibihira na lang ngayon ang tapat na mga lalaki na marunong magpatawad.....let those guilts crept inside her mas masakit yun..habang buhay na niyang dala yun.... Edited October 30, 2006 by wakanga0929 Quote Link to comment
cutemetrix Posted December 17, 2006 Author Share Posted December 17, 2006 wow! in love na ako sa'yo! hahaha! kudos to you! ganun din gagawin ko.Maiinlove k dn ba sakin? Quote Link to comment
cutemetrix Posted December 17, 2006 Author Share Posted December 17, 2006 well, it depends. but knowing myself at lalo na if sobrang love ko yung girl, i would forgive and her another chance. wala na kong pakelam what others will say. mas mahirap ata yung naloko ka na tapos tuluyan kang nawalan. pero kung ayaw na nya bumalik at sasama na sya ng tuluyan. hayaan ko na lang sya. :cry: pareho tyo pare.masarap tyo magmahal Quote Link to comment
Mr.Whiteguy Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 so sad, hope it never happens to me...leave here Quote Link to comment
creeppo Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 i would leave her na because she does not love you enough to avoid looking for another guy. Quote Link to comment
Boysbe Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 i hope everyone here agrees to me na masakit sa lalaki din yun lalo kung mahal na mahal mo yung girl...but on the other side nandiyan na eh...nangyari na...what you have to do is to balance na situation...hindi mo naman kailangan mag-mukmok eh besides its her fault so let her choose...you or the other guy....i bet you guys even the girls on this kind of stage is also hurt so better not hurt her more....physically or emotionally....kapag pinili niya yung isa well it's not your loss...you've been being honest to her kaya you can look straight into her eyes....but if she chooses you well you have to do your move para hindi naman kayo guluhin ng lalaking nakabuntis sa kanya...for me personally i'm against abortion....i'd rather keep the child than abort it...you won't know baka maging successful pa siya paglaki di ba...you can't tell...dito sa mundo hindi na pwede tayong magkunwari lahat pwede mangyari...reality bites sabi nga nila.....niloko ka edi niloko ka....but remember it's her loss kapag siya ang nagloko...dahil bibihira na lang ngayon ang tapat na mga lalaki na marunong magpatawad.....let those guilts crept inside her mas masakit yun..habang buhay na niyang dala yun.... ah,love. Well its her decision to fling with other guys,well you were (If you really are) always there for her,then she does that. So got pregnant?Good for her, getting is not just a curse,but also a gift. Responsibilities are given. Quote Link to comment
Shinn Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 iwan ko na yung girl dahil yung naka buntis sa kanya siya na yung may responsibilidad sa kanya at sa dinadala nyang baby. kahit mahal na mahal mo yung gf mo..mas mahirap pa rin yung pinag-uusapan ka ng maraming tao sa likod mo . mahirap maging martyr sa panahon na ngyn.. Quote Link to comment
posmaster Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 syempre painful to lalo na kung mahal na mahal mo yung gf mo tapos yun pala e nasawsawan lang ng iba..parang maiisip mo tuloy na me kulang sa relationship nyo..since andyan na yan e ala ka na rin magagawa kundi iwan sya kasi responsibilidad na sya ng iba Quote Link to comment
d3nn1$ Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 IWAN!!! naman!!! gaga na siya sobra nun... she cheated na nga... nagpaanak pa! hindi ako bobo na sasalo sa pagkakamali niya! Quote Link to comment
d3nn1$ Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 pareho tyo pare.masarap tyo magmahal watta! martyr ka chong! Quote Link to comment
Rav4ever Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 ill leave her syempre masakit sa lalaki un atsaka di madaling kalimutan siguro yon but its ur decision you know whats best for you Quote Link to comment
Magaling Posted December 18, 2006 Share Posted December 18, 2006 Depende...marami kasing klase ng GF. May pang now, short-term or mid-term lang. Meron din pang long term. If I don't see her being with me long term anyway, I might stick around a bit more. If only to play around some more etc. Pero syempre, iba na ang tingin ko sa kanya. Nothing has to change on the outside pero in the inside, iba na. If she happens to be someone that I was considering for a long term relationship, I wouldd say bababa ang ranko nya to say the least....Wait, okay, to be honest, this is how I'd feel: T$&^%# nya! I need someone I can trust! G!@#$% pala siya eh! Magloloko lang, di pa gumamit ng precautions tas kapal pa lumapit sa kin iiyak-iyak? For as long as what she did hangs over my head, I don't think I can ever have a normal relationship with her again and pretend nothing happened. I will miss her for sure. It will be torture getting over her, maybe. Pero mas mabuti pa rin to go through that "purge" kesa naman magsama pa kami tas araw-araw naman yun ang naaalala ko. That would be even more of a torture for both of us. Let me and her start all over again with someone else without the psychological baggage. Okay, okay. I'm a chauvinistic pig. I'm this and that. Syempre meron mga hihirit dyan. To play hero and knight in shining armour chuva. Okay. But a question was asked. I only gave what I think is an honest answer. Peace! Quote Link to comment
Larry Posted December 18, 2006 Share Posted December 18, 2006 in a situation like this cuntpunt would be the best answer. realistically though, she'd just have a new ex-bf Quote Link to comment
cutemetrix Posted December 30, 2006 Author Share Posted December 30, 2006 watta! martyr ka chong! wala tyo magagawa jan Quote Link to comment
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