honey Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 Honey, in what way did ur friend shared to you that "the thought of his wife cheating on him haunts him" After 3 years ba is he coming to his real senses and want a way out?1. He realized that he was intentionally deceived at the 1st place he can file a case to nulify their marriage on these ground. DNA tests will make the case stronger He perhaps thought that marrying her (bailing her out for that matter), will change her BUT after all the years she seem to be back at her "adventures"2. He feels it yet he needs a solid evidence to prove his gutfeelingsor3. The poor fellow hopes/pray that madamme butterly stops nectaring Pls allow me*** Most people think that by marrying someone people change for good or for better.The key is/will be/should be acceptance.Marriage has a "civilizing" efect on us humans (perhaps on the early stages of it) ..... humans fail to identify the animals inside us and of our partners that we thought we could have train or k*ll ....<{POST_SNAPBACK}> he fears that his wife will do it again. paminsan minsan nafee-feel nya yun pero mahal naman nya wife nya and his kids too (he loves the kid like his own...as in sobrang mahal nya yun). magulo kaya nga kaming mga friends nya, nde na lang namin ginagatungan pa. lagi na lang namin sya pinagkwekwento ng mga cute little things na ginagawa ng mga anak nya. we are all hoping na magkaron na sya ng peace of mind. Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted January 10, 2006 Share Posted January 10, 2006 This is always the dilema of people who are in love or think they are in love ..... or think that they do care or give no damn about ..... your friend also thinks that she could have changed or could change or she is still the usual lying bitch To your friend.... he chose, opted this girl and made her a wife whatever, whoever she was then .... He opted to swallow food that is tira-tira (if u let me call it that way)Now if he thinks he has bad stomach? He must decide once and for all ..... to let food go through his azz, as how life should be or vomit her for good. He can not control whether his wife will cheat or not....His happiness neither resides on it ..... he has to MAKE UP his MIND. he fears that his wife will do it again. paminsan minsan nafee-feel nya yun pero mahal naman nya wife nya and his kids too (he loves the kid like his own...as in sobrang mahal nya yun). magulo kaya nga kaming mga friends nya, nde na lang namin ginagatungan pa. lagi na lang namin sya pinagkwekwento ng mga cute little things na ginagawa ng mga anak nya. we are all hoping na magkaron na sya ng peace of mind. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
Romar2 Posted January 10, 2006 Share Posted January 10, 2006 hehehe a fair questionFIRST AND FOREMOST IS DITCH HER.... before doing something bad ( that may be a stupid thing to do right now) you have to clear your thoughts so don't listen first of excuses and justifications JUST GET HER OUT OF SIGHTnot because you don't love her or anything it just a way to think things through.... now, you may feel betrayed and everything but there is one thing you got to learn: YOU ARE NOT ON THE LOSING SIDE OF THIS. why? first, thank god it happened during the girlfriend stage not when you are already in the commited stage. second, imagine the boy who made him cheat you and now has this girl. wouldn't he be tossing night in and night out thinking if that girl with do that to him too once she finds someone better? third, the girl now she has the burden of raising the child (or the conscience of abortion) on herself or would rely on the pity of the other guy. think of it as a relationship. some times trials come and consider it as a trial. i just don't see why someone would get furious over this, if it was me i would even shake her hand and let her go because at least before it gotten too serious, she did it. next, she gave you a reason to find a better one and not waste your energy on a lying cow. the only thing hurt is your ego and i don't think it's worth being in jail for that... Quote Link to comment
Romar2 Posted January 10, 2006 Share Posted January 10, 2006 he fears that his wife will do it again. paminsan minsan nafee-feel nya yun pero mahal naman nya wife nya and his kids too (he loves the kid like his own...as in sobrang mahal nya yun). magulo kaya nga kaming mga friends nya, nde na lang namin ginagatungan pa. lagi na lang namin sya pinagkwekwento ng mga cute little things na ginagawa ng mga anak nya. we are all hoping na magkaron na sya ng peace of mind. <{POST_SNAPBACK}>he is brave....first, if he loves the girl too much it isn't a problem, think of her not the girl she loved but betrayed her once but think of her as someone he loves and now he still have. life is about trials and mistakes and love always is the one that helps you get it through... talk to her, let her know you still love her and let her know how you feel about that past... how it hurts - and if she loves you i think he knows your pain....second, why does it matter? you love your kids, if you still feel you may be cheated then let love for you kids be your solution and attention. think about it only when you are already in that situation -don't let ego cloud your judgement... - i do think it's not really that troublesome for him because he has the nerve to tell you... it's not that it's not that of a problem but if it's me i can't easily say it to friends because of the pain i'll always remember and it brings. Quote Link to comment
Sir Galahad® Posted January 10, 2006 Share Posted January 10, 2006 One Answer: Ditch her.... she cheated and paid for it eh Quote Link to comment
EFF-EXS Posted January 11, 2006 Share Posted January 11, 2006 Ask her if I can take my leave. If she'd said yes, I'm not going back to her. If she asks if will I come back, then I'd stay with her. But not to the extent of fathering her child of course. That's way over my head. Quote Link to comment
(',)Nirvana('u') Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 CHEATERS GO TO HELL :evil: f**ckers GO TO HEAVEN :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
(',)Nirvana('u') Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 PAYAG BA KAYO SA ABORTION? Quote Link to comment
edc Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 PAYAG BA KAYO SA ABORTION?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> maiisip pero wag na lng. hiwalay na lang. kahit hindi pa nabuntis the thought na lng nagpasibak. napasama lng kasi nabuntis. Quote Link to comment
honey Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 PAYAG BA KAYO SA ABORTION?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> it's a personal preference but i dont think this will not help solve the issue. Quote Link to comment
JUPITER Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 i know someone na naka-experience nito. when he found out that his girlfriend was pregnant, he offered to marry her and so they did. he took care of his wife and was there for her through everything. when she gave birth, the doctors did the usual test. as in timbang, blood type etc. kinausap sila ng doctor and sabi sure naman sila na nde nagkapalit ng baby pero nagtataka sila why walang kaparehong blood type sa kanila yung bata... after a few minutes, umamin yung wife nya na baka iba yung tatay. sabi nun guy, parang gumuho yung mundo nya nun pero he loves the girl very much and he raised the kid as if it was his. after 3 years, nagkaanak sila. the kids love each other and the daddy loves them both very much. pinakasalan nya din sa church yung girl pero you know what, every now and then..the thought of his wife cheating on him haunts him. wala lang...gusto ko lang ma-share. kaya sa ating lahat, be very careful with everything you do and think of the consequences.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> He must leave the girl. She did it once, she'll definitely do it again. The girl is insecure with herself. Low self-esteem is a deep psychological disorder and causes too many problems. If he's not fond of headaches, better steer clear of such defective types. I must say he is stupid for staying though. If ever I get in the same situation, it'll be my life principles or guidelines that has to prevail over me, not my heart. Emotions have very good ways of blinding people and distorting things for one to come up with a wise decision. Quote Link to comment
CommSys Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 may batchmate me sa HS, lst tym ngkareunion kmi mgbabarkada, i jus heard the news that ngSuicide... poor guy, nging pregnant yung gf niya and he isnt d father...i stil remember class clown yun...hop he's soul in peace npo... Quote Link to comment
mmmmmm Posted January 15, 2006 Share Posted January 15, 2006 if ilove the girl then it does not matter, but if love not that much then i would leave her Quote Link to comment
s_wrdfish Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 if ilove the girl then it does not matter, but if love not that much then i would leave her<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Sometimes part of loving is leaving the girl.. i dnt think any normal guy would be able to handle this 'haunting' feeling.. imagine, being haunted for the next 5 to 6 decades..trust is very essential in every relationship.. and once this is tainted, especially on a 'girlfriend' level, any prudent man who truly loves should love himself first.. Quote Link to comment
Killer_Nimda Posted January 18, 2006 Share Posted January 18, 2006 IF SHE GOT PREGNANT AFTER SHE CHEATS ME, WELL ANO BA GAGAWIN KO I'LL f**k HER TEENAGE SISTER PARA GANTI2 LANG, HEHEHEHE Quote Link to comment
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