Ethel Posted July 25, 2009 Share Posted July 25, 2009 dapat walang sakitan - both ways. Quote Link to comment
malambingdxb1 Posted July 25, 2009 Share Posted July 25, 2009 siguro... 1.) mmm.. wala na kasi syang utak, kaya pinapairal nalang ang kamay ... 2.) family upbringing 3.) napikon siguro sa pagtatalak ng babae nya... 4.) baka nahuli niya nanlalake babae nya... 5.) walang pera 6.) walang trabaho... 7.) walang makakain... 8.) sobrang pagod 9.) nasisante kaya sa babae nya binuntol ang pagsisisi 10.) ayaw bigyan ng pera Quote Link to comment
eyeball29 Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 coz those men who hurt women physically are gay, you can take that to the bank Quote Link to comment
X3ME15 Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 lack of judgment.. easily persuaded by the feelings they feel and convert it to actions which is physical abuse Quote Link to comment
Ellehcar28 Posted July 30, 2009 Share Posted July 30, 2009 I don't know ha if may mag-aagree... but 7/10 guys na nananakit, usually yung mga walang bisyo... i know a lot of men na they don't smoke or drink, or whatever... SIGURO WALANG IBANG OUTLET pag galit? I don't know... But yeah, that's my logic.. hi Quote Link to comment
sakmobratko Posted July 30, 2009 Share Posted July 30, 2009 I know some guys doing this but kahit na lalake ako, I'm proud to say that i've never hurt any of girls specially my wife physically... I thank my mom for that kc pinalaki nya ako na may malaking respeto sa babae..Pag galit na galit na ako.. I rather go away and smoke for 15-30 mins, pagbalik ko kahit umuusok pa rin ung kaaway kong girl.. dedma na lang... Try nyo guys.... effective sa akin eh Quote Link to comment
argosy Posted July 30, 2009 Share Posted July 30, 2009 To conceal their insecurity and cowardice! Quote Link to comment
DangerousGurl Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 most men measure their masculinity by physically abusing others.. Quote Link to comment
pjalv80 Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 Men has ego and some men has so much ego that they are unable to handle in some situations. Pag nahurt yung ego at hindi mahandle during a quarrel with his girl, pwedeng maging violent ang lalaki lalo na pag naprovoke ng babae. Quote Link to comment
ctc Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 eh kung babae naman ang naghampas sayo? ano naman yon? Quote Link to comment
Mr_man Posted August 1, 2009 Share Posted August 1, 2009 I'm of the opinion that some men have a difficult time controlling their actions once they are angry, some get pushed just too far by the female....then of course you have the loonies who don't even know why they abuse their women. Quote Link to comment
yanzmyk Posted August 1, 2009 Share Posted August 1, 2009 I've seen this happen to a friend once. He's actually a very gentle guy, someone who the cliche "couldn't even hurt a fly" would really apply. But the thing was, he was in a very bad relationship. His job entailed that he stay up late at night to finish stuff and he got to interact with a lot of people, men and women alike. His girlfriend then was still in college and taking up nursing as a second course. But this girl was very selosa, very paranoid and very demanding. She would actually scream at my friend over petty stuff and would often ask him to come to her no matter how late at night (my friend worked in Makati, lived in Mandaluyong while this girl was living in Fairview near SM). So one time he asked me if he could ride home with me (he doesn't have his own car) because it was raining very hard. On the way home, the girl called him and started ranting about him not texting her for a "couple" of hours. They got into an argument over the phone which ended with my friend asking me I could just drop him off somewhere in Fairview, but I did him one better and told him I'd just bring him to his girlfriend's house on account of the deluge. When we got to the house and as I was backing out to go home (it was in a very small and dark alley), this was the scene that I saw: my friend standing outside the gate with his umbrella, his girlfriend opening the gate and immediately bollering at him (no I didn't hear the shouting but I could see the hand gestures and mouth movements and actually remember shaking my head at the scene) when all of a sudden he just slapped her. I actually slammed on the brakes at the shock of what I saw. The girl slapped him back and then my friend just turned away and walked towards my car. He was actually shaking and crying when he got inside. Now I'm not saying that this was the girl's fault and that getting physical can be justified. I'm just trying to illustrate that sometimes, emotional torture can get to a point wherein even people (guys and girls) who wouldn't normally be violent would just snap and be physical. What I'm trying to say is that it might be very easy for us to sit back and judge people's actions and say that "I wouldn't do that" or "they're maniacs" but those would just be empty words unless we actually experience what they've been through ourselves. Quote Link to comment
Mr_man Posted August 1, 2009 Share Posted August 1, 2009 If I may make an anecdotal contribution. My brother dated this one filipina many years ago who was very sweet when in the presence of our family. However, behind closed doors she was 'a work of art' so to speak. To say she nagged would be the understatement of the month, this lady threw everything at him without any mercy. He is a soft, kindhearted individual whose appearance would make the Pope himself say he is a lovely man. She took advantage of this trait and basically controlled him. Where we went, how long he stayed there etc.....One day at our shop she threw a tantrum in front of customers and embarrassed him.....he walked out of the office, she followed and before she could scream at him again - he clouted her really goooood. I mean I smiled because she had it coming.......from that day she new her limits and things were relatively peaceful for a few months till they parted ways. Quote Link to comment
purrtypwincess Posted August 2, 2009 Share Posted August 2, 2009 I honestly do not get this. Why would you hurt someone physically no matter what she did? No one is actually entitled to hit anyone else. Like when the Chris Brown-Rihanna hoopla came out. To think I loved Chris Brown and his music. But what the hell was he thinking, seriously? We all have our fits of rage, but it doesn't mean we should be at the receiving ends of fists at any given day. Like I said, I honestly don't get this. Quote Link to comment
Rasc Posted August 2, 2009 Share Posted August 2, 2009 given the situation being push to the end or the wall... a person has its limits, we could taking the beatings but not to the extend someone kept pushing likes there's no tomorrow. its a defense mechanism. Quote Link to comment
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