Why do guys hurt women physically?

[kingfsx]

Only in role-play.

 

totally agree!

[fafa "O"]

no reason is reason enough

[Saint Nemesis]

coz they can't control their anger and emotion...

[sonnyt111]

coz they can't control their anger and emotion...

If they can't control their anger and emotion, they should just punch a wall instead. Better that guys hurt their own hand than hurting the women they love.

[Fusarium_jimini]

I realized that my bf doesn't love me at all when we fought yesterday, and he hurt me physically. Still suffering now from body pain. Much more, emotionally.

 

you should have filed a complaint at the women's desk

[lion-heart]

no reason to...really

[dibdba]

it may be because he saw his dad do it to his mom and has accepted it as a norm.

 

it may be to control the girl.

 

it may be to hide his insecurities.

 

a lot of reasons why, but not one of them is good enough.

[_iceman_]

no control...we might have the urge to hurt someone if we're angry at someone whether it be a man or a woman but we must always have control over those urges...

[layman37]

hurting women physically can and will never have true justification. that simple.

[gamehunter]

It is not what real men do.

[phoebe.maia]

Sometimes its actually the girl who hits the guy first tapos kapag di na nakayanan ng guy that would be the time that he would hit the girl. I've seen these scenarios to my friends. Wackos

[gamehunter]

Sometimes its actually the girl who hits the guy first tapos kapag di na nakayanan ng guy that would be the time that he would hit the girl. I've seen these scenarios to my friends. Wackos

 

True story. The guy might unintentionally hurt the girl during a scuffle, while defending himself. Though I believe that the guy mustn't lose his cool and mustn't use excessive force when subduing the girl.

[GT888]

I realized that my bf doesn't love me at all when we fought yesterday, and he hurt me physically. Still suffering now from body pain. Much more, emotionally.

 

I am sorry to hear that..

 

Any man who physically assaults a woman should be dealt by a different beating....

 

My sister was beaten up by her ex BF - he was dealt a different beating after my Dad and all of his unholy resources where done with him.

 

No man has any right to physically or verbally abuse a woman....or a child

[sonnyt111]

I am sorry to hear that..

 

Any man who physically assaults a woman should be dealt by a different beating....

 

My sister was beaten up by her ex BF - he was dealt a different beating after my Dad and all of his unholy resources where done with him.

 

No man has any right to physically or verbally abuse a woman....or a child

 

Yeah serves the bf of your sister right!!

[kimB3RLy]

There are a lot of reasons why men would hurt their women... Out of anger, under influence of alcohol or drugs, habit? But a real man should not hurt the woman he had claimed he loves no matter what. No one has the right to lay a finger on you.

I was once a battered gf. It started with pushing until the last blow when he hurt me in public in front of my friends. It will always be the battered one's call to stay and endure the abuse. But i hope this doesn't happen to anyone. If a guys had his hand on you for any other reason than pleasure, he isn't worth it. Let go before you totally get consumed.

[shampooh]

The more na sinasaktan ka the mure na pinapakita niya na love ka niya

[Baraka]

Guys who hit or hurt women personally have personal issues, maybe an unresolved personal problem or something. Low EQ is the answer to that.

[ladycard]

this is the reason why i fall out of love na sa asawa ko.. na hindi nya alam na hanggang ngayon, di ko yun makakalimutan at di na siguro malilimutan.. hindi din nya alam na ganito na nararamdaman ko na ayoko na pala.. bakit nga ba may ganito, kahit ano pang reason, hindi dapat manakit.

[darkangelus]

It's never right to physically hurt your partner whether your a woman or a man... and no reason will be able to justify physically hurting the person you love.

[Edmund Dantes]

Hmmmm merong ganitong kaso,

 

Yung lalaki mabait naman at wala namang history ng violence. Masipag din at di pinababayaan pamilya. Pero yung asawa napakabungangera, at di man lang ginagalang ang pagiging lalake ng mister nya. Pagod na nga na umuuwi sa trabaho, imbes tanungin man lang kung kumain na, panay pa pagbubunganga. Ilang taong tiniis ang pagiging salbahe ni misis hangang isang araw talagang di na nakapatimpi at pinagtataga na lang ni mister si misis.

 

Syempre mali talaga ang manakit ng kapwa babae man o lalake. Pero tao ka pa din at pwede kang mapuno hangang makalimutan mong tao ka at basta na lang magasal hayop.

 

Sa mga lalake, kapag umiinit na ang away, dapat distansya na. Kung ikaw ang lalake, mas mabuting magwalk ka na lang, tapos insitinctively masapak mo na lang GF o asawa mo. Tapos pagsusuntukin mo na lang yung pader hangang mabali kamao mo. Di nga, mas ok na yan at least nailalabas mo yung urge, kesa isang araw bumalik na lang yan pag kasama mo na GF mo.

 

Sa mga babae naman, maging sensitive na lang siguro pag sobrang stressed yung lalake. Huwag masyadong maging bungangera kasi sobrang nakakaasar yun sa lalake. Pero kung talagang bayolente lang talaga BF mo, abay hiwalayan mo na dapat.

[Knight7]

Hmmmm merong ganitong kaso,

 

Yung lalaki mabait naman at wala namang history ng violence. Masipag din at di pinababayaan pamilya. Pero yung asawa napakabungangera, at di man lang ginagalang ang pagiging lalake ng mister nya. Pagod na nga na umuuwi sa trabaho, imbes tanungin man lang kung kumain na, panay pa pagbubunganga. Ilang taong tiniis ang pagiging salbahe ni misis hangang isang araw talagang di na nakapatimpi at pinagtataga na lang ni mister si misis.

 

Syempre mali talaga ang manakit ng kapwa babae man o lalake. Pero tao ka pa din at pwede kang mapuno hangang makalimutan mong tao ka at basta na lang magasal hayop.

 

Sa mga lalake, kapag umiinit na ang away, dapat distansya na. Kung ikaw ang lalake, mas mabuting magwalk ka na lang, tapos insitinctively masapak mo na lang GF o asawa mo. Tapos pagsusuntukin mo na lang yung pader hangang mabali kamao mo. Di nga, mas ok na yan at least nailalabas mo yung urge, kesa isang araw bumalik na lang yan pag kasama mo na GF mo.

 

Sa mga babae naman, maging sensitive na lang siguro pag sobrang stressed yung lalake. Huwag masyadong maging bungangera kasi sobrang nakakaasar yun sa lalake. Pero kung talagang bayolente lang talaga BF mo, abay hiwalayan mo na dapat.

 

Medyo close to sa wife ko,I never hurt her physicaly but because of it I chose to left her after 14 years and that's hurt her the most kasi nagsisisi siya but of all the emotions given the love wasn't there anymore so I gave it up.

[DorkVader]

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The more na sinasaktan ka the mure na pinapakita niya na love ka niya

Seriously dude? You really believe this?

 

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this is the reason why i fall out of love na sa asawa ko.. na hindi nya alam na hanggang ngayon, di ko yun makakalimutan at di na siguro malilimutan.. hindi din nya alam na ganito na nararamdaman ko na ayoko na pala.. bakit nga ba may ganito, kahit ano pang reason, hindi dapat manakit.

No one really knows why some people would easily resort to physical violence when upset. When the civilized thing to do is to argue a point, some would prefer to use the prehistoric way of settling things. Maybe it's more physiological than we think, like that part of a person's brain hasn't really developed or something.

 

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It's never right to physically hurt your partner whether your a woman or a man... and no reason will be able to justify physically hurting the person you love.

So true. Not only physical violence but all kinds of abuse should be taken out of the equation in any relationship. Sometimes emotional and psychological abuse can be a lot more cruel.

[Edmund Dantes]

 

So true. Not only physical violence but all kinds of abuse should be taken out of the equation in any relationship. Sometimes emotional and psychological abuse can be a lot more cruel.

 

Mas masakit at mas malupit ang emotional at psychological abuse. Sa bagay na yan, mas magaling minsan ang babae dyan (well personal opinion ko lang naman ito). Sakin, sampalin mo na ako, batuhin mo na ako ng plato, hampasin ng walis, o kahit hiwain mo pa laman ko ng kutsilyo. Pero huwag na huwag mo lang talaga ako i-verbally abuse. Ang sakit sa laman mabilis yan nawawala, pero pag ininsulto mo buong pagkatao ko hangang sa maski ako di ko na magawang respetuhin sarili ko, talagang hindi na yan maalis. Lalo pa kung gagawin mo sa harap ng ibang tao.

 

Kaya nga, yung ibang kaso ng pananakit, dyan naguumpisa. Sa emotional abuse na kinikimkim mo ng napakatagal hangang sa talagang hindi mo na kinaya at sumabog ka na lang. Ganun pa man, yan ang disadvantage talaga nating mga lalake. Pag nanakit tayo ng babae, kahit pa gaano kasama yung babae, tayo ang laging talo. Sa mata ng batas at ng tao, laging mali para sa lalake manakit ng babae. Hindi ka talaga makakagawa ng excuse dyan.

 

Kaya dapat, layuan ang mga babaeng abusive emotionally at baka mapatay mo pa sila isang araw.

[Edmund Dantes]

Medyo close to sa wife ko,I never hurt her physicaly but because of it I chose to left her after 14 years and that's hurt her the most kasi nagsisisi siya but of all the emotions given the love wasn't there anymore so I gave it up.

 

Hmmmmm alam mo kung may isang natutunan ako sa relasyon, healthy din talaga yung regular space. Kahit sa mag-asawa. Kasi pag sobra yung passion nyo sa isat isa, sobra din kayo kung magaaway. Kaya dapat you let it mellow from time to time. Pag nagkakainitan na, dapat labas muna isa sa inyo para magpalamig. Actually kahit hindi naman kayo nagaaway, magandang idea din kung payagan isa sa inyo na regularly umuwi sa bahay ng magulang, o mag good time kasama ng mga kaibigan para mellow lang kayo lagi

[girlspankee]

Temper, has a history of getting abused as a child or seeing his dad hurting a female figure in his life, has a certain hatred towards women due to an unpleasant and could be traumatic event in his life, or is simply a sociopath and sadistic bastard who gets off on physically hurting women. Also, the girl may have done a pretty darn good job of provoking him to get physical with her.