badgurl2008 Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 nope, my personality is too strong to do the begging. Quote Link to comment
sentra23 Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 Yes I have recently. Would i say its worth it? I guess yes, but I didn't won her back. She's in somebody's arms already. But if ever i have a chance to get her back, i would. But not now, She's still young and full of ambitions. I'll get her back if I will have the capacity to fulfill her dreams for herself and her family. Quote Link to comment
sun_goddess Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 i just did tonight, sort of...we broke up yesterday, kinda long story on why but he felt he was being too selfish and unfair to me because he felt that i give way too much of myself to him and even though he loves me very much he felt that he's unable to reciprocate the same way, sabi niya sasaktan lang daw niya ako. there's a part of me that knows he needs space but i just miss him so much i asked earlier if can we just go back to the way we were before although i don't want him to come back to me out of pity. Sobrang ma-mimmiss ko lang talaga siya that's why I'm having breakdowns. So in the end natauhan ako and hindi ko na pinilit, but I'm still very sad. Â I guess the good thing about us is we were very good friends before we became an item, and I think we won't lose that friendship, actually nakakausap ko siya ng normal most of the time (coz we work closely in the same department). I know eventually I'll be okay, I just have to get over the sadness, sobrang love ko kase siya =( I'm hoping in the end kami pa rin or at least I'll be over him completely. First time ko kase nakipag-break na in love pa ko dun sa guy, yung mga previous kase parang nagfafade na before the break-up. Quote Link to comment
sibaker Posted January 6, 2010 Share Posted January 6, 2010 Not really beg, but asked her nicely if she would like to get back with me. Quote Link to comment
Seishi Posted February 3, 2010 Share Posted February 3, 2010 I don't really beg. Not my personality. But I put efforts somehow in letting him know that I treasured the friendship. And the rest is up to him. What's the use of begging when I could feel that he has lost interest way before I knew it.... Quote Link to comment
sleekbabe Posted February 3, 2010 Share Posted February 3, 2010 It was several years ago that I begged and I almost got insane! Because one, our relationship was 5 years old already, two, all I can think of is that I can't live without him. Now, tinatawanan ko na lang yun. Quote Link to comment
daredevil67011 Posted February 3, 2010 Share Posted February 3, 2010 Did it once. But not to the point that i looked pathetic. I just called her and asked her if she wants to give it another try. But she said no. Gimik lang with friends okay na ulit ako. hehe. Quote Link to comment
uaeboy25 Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 andaming beses. lalo na during may younger days.  :evil: :evil: medyo iba na ngaun Quote Link to comment
Guest Riveria Posted February 6, 2010 Share Posted February 6, 2010 So many times...nakakapagod...lalo na pag nde deserving talaga ang guy...like him Quote Link to comment
rockchic Posted February 8, 2010 Share Posted February 8, 2010 i've said it once before so never again. after that, i told myself i will never ever do it again. so far, it worked and it felt better turning a guy down (if he asks you). Quote Link to comment
sweetjulia Posted February 14, 2010 Share Posted February 14, 2010 yes i did. ngayon pag naiisip ko natatawa na lang ako sa katangahang ginawa ko noon Quote Link to comment
incognitocosplayer Posted February 14, 2010 Share Posted February 14, 2010 never begged for reconcilation, but i always point out to gets "the before we broke up we might as well have last our sex" and it is good.. . Quote Link to comment
whapaks00 Posted February 15, 2010 Share Posted February 15, 2010 never did i beg or ask for anything. i have a huge EGO Quote Link to comment
Danielle Posted February 15, 2010 Share Posted February 15, 2010 Yes, I've had. The sad thing was, once the guy took me back, I lost interest. Quote Link to comment
Justin Nicholas Posted February 25, 2010 Share Posted February 25, 2010 Yup, and though it yielded no good, I felt great about it.That's where I knew that even an egoistical maniac like meknows how to beg for mercy. Quote Link to comment
adikted Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 i begged.... i got her back... didnt last Quote Link to comment
prinsipe21 Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 i tell u guys.. i caught my gf last year for having an affair to her classmate for 7 months and i discovered they've got laid each other na... sa sobrang mahal ko sa girl.. i didnt beg her to be with me after what happen. i did just told her na choose between us two.. kahit na me nangyari sa inyo patatawarin kita basta bumalik ka sakin ng buong buo.. and she did.. 5 years n pla kame last jan.. but still ang doubtness nand2 pa pati ang peace of mind.. woohoooO! Quote Link to comment
lonely62699 Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 buhay pa pala itong thread ko na to???? ok ah sige keep on posting... Quote Link to comment
grayle Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 (edited) It's very easy to beg, specially when your the one on the receiving end of the breakup. Sometimes the initial shock hits you like one of Manny Pacquiao punches... no warning and unexpected. That's why people prefer to be the one doing the breakup first, it gives you some measure of power. Of course if you come crawling back after you broke the other person's heart... well, now THAT'S pathetic. I've tried to talk it out during my breakups, but in the end you realize, there's nothing you can do. You cannot force the other person to feel the same way you do. The only way things are going to go back to the way it was is if the other person realizes he or she made a mistake and comes back. More often than not if you beg them and they come back, it's out of pity or obligation and not love. No way are things gonna go back to the way it was. In fact, its destined to fail because the other person came back for the wrong reasons. Edited March 12, 2010 by grayle Quote Link to comment
actor21 Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 yes i did with my 8yr gf,but did not win her back, she belongs to someone else already, 7mos even before our break up...i'm still begging right now, its something i am not proud of, but hey what can i do, she has my heart..and it will always belong to her... Quote Link to comment
batibotster Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 yes i did with my 8yr gf,but did not win her back, she belongs to someone else already, 7mos even before our break up...i'm still begging right now, its something i am not proud of, but hey what can i do, she has my heart..and it will always belong to her...  brother!!! theres always a rainbow after the rain... your not the only one who had xp like that and ask them including me... Soon it will be Over her ... :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
maniaclara Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 once lang... he didn't reconsider, but we remain special to each other to this day... Quote Link to comment
wastedsunshine Posted March 30, 2010 Share Posted March 30, 2010 I did but he declined and walked away. Â But hey, s@%t happens. Now, im totally moved on. Â Quote Link to comment
hottlipss Posted March 30, 2010 Share Posted March 30, 2010 Oh hell no! There's no one worth losing my dignity for.If they're breaking up with you, I'm sure they've thought about it already and have made up their mind. I don't want anyone to stay with me out of pity. Quote Link to comment
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