rdy Posted October 24, 2005 Share Posted October 24, 2005 dehins!!! better to look for another girl. Quote Link to comment
Calhoun Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 I entered this conondrum recently, albeit in a less dramatic manner. I wasn't head over heels in love, crush lang. Overall I think it's a case to case basis. When I learned she had a bf I asked how they met, how she knows he's the one (they're engaged). From what I gathered she's not blindly in love with him or just clinging, in other words they have a mature relationship. Not the ones where their need for each other is more than their love. So I decided not to make a move anymore. She was happy when I met her so I believe the her guy knows how to make her happy. If I court her I'll probably just ruin a good relationship. But if it were a different story and I see an opening, I might just try my luck. Quote Link to comment
Blueangel21 Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 It's quite hard to jump into that kind of situation, but i admit, at this very moment, im into it. mahirap coz, u dont like to see der rel ruin or suffer with..but i like this guy.. Quote Link to comment
b_junzo Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 depends kasi if shes worth it why not pero kung may bf siya at iniwan niya for you wont it bother you baka may gumawa din sayo? Quote Link to comment
heavygatin_but_cutie Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 why not..if I love the person and I see that he is not happy with his current relationship...i would. Quote Link to comment
russ Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 is shes worht it... y not... Quote Link to comment
Guest BDC0425 Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 nope! never!!! :hypocritesmiley: :hypocritesmiley: :hypocritesmiley: looking it the other way around, gusto nyo ba na may sisingit sa karelasyon nyo??? if no then hindi kaya double standard na iyon??? just asking here. :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: Quote Link to comment
purple*wink Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 And so I'd say: If you knew that the guy has a gf and you caused that break up, chances are it can happen to you as well. So stop fooling yourself and hope that he will change for you. Remember this: "ang relasyon na nag umpisa sa mali, mali talaga." Quote Link to comment
kilawin Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 And so I'd say: If you knew that the guy has a gf and you caused that break up, chances are it can happen to you as well. So stop fooling yourself and hope that he will change for you. Remember this: "ang relasyon na nag umpisa sa mali, mali talaga."<{POST_SNAPBACK}> But if you really like that person, what would you do? Just supress whatever your feeling and hopes it goes away? Can you live with that? For me, LIFE is all about taking chances. Quote Link to comment
sexy_xandrea Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 Karma comes fast. I don't want the same thing to happen to me Quote Link to comment
Gecko½ Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 nope never going to do that.. not unless extinct na ang tao mundo at konti nalang tayo natitira... dami pa naman dyan you just have to wait for the right one for you and not steals someone whos already owned it wrong.. karma is just around the corner waiting for you... Quote Link to comment
King`Of`Klubbs Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 Ask yourself, "do I really love this person?"How can you say that what you feel is love? Baka naman libog lang yan.How do we define love? Is it this good feeling inside us whenever we're with that person? Or even if we're not, pero madalas natin syang naiisip? karamihan sa atin, feelings lang yung nadarama. The problem is, love is not merely a feeling. It's an attitude. Feelings are fleeting. Love should last. So what am I saying? I'm saying that it is wrong to step into a relationship between lovers. That is being selfish. You are only thinking about yourself and your own enjoyment or maybe fulfillment. Sorry if I'm going to sound preachy, pero sabi nga "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking... Love does not delight in evil... It always protects..." Love is unselfish. Kahit na sabihin pang mas madaling hulihin ang manok na nakatali, hindi ko pa rin gagawin. Btw, I don't believe that all is fair in love and war. One should always have the upperhand. That is also according to the art of war. Quote Link to comment
theCorporal Posted November 4, 2005 Share Posted November 4, 2005 no chance!.... im not doing anything that I know what the conclusion or consequence will be Quote Link to comment
Guest Camerie Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 If the guy has a girl and something is building up between you and the guy... He has to choose first between you and the girl before you answer him... Remember if the guy was able to fool around with you during his gf prior to you, he can do it as well to you pag kayo na... :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
bill lomita Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 If the guy has a girl and something is building up between you and the guy... He has to choose first between you and the girl before you answer him... Remember if the guy was able to fool around with you during his gf prior to you, he can do it as well to you pag kayo na... :thumbsupsmiley: <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Nag-uumpisa lang naman lahat yan sa libog. . . sexual attraction that will lead to intimacy. . . that will lead to emotional attachment. . . that will lead to commitment. maybe, some never reach the commitment stage or emotional attachment stage kaya they are so promiscuous. . . Quote Link to comment
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