reignman Posted April 26, 2006 Share Posted April 26, 2006 the guy is indeed insecure. what if pa kaya if you were a guy..since then hindi ka na tinext o tinawagan ng good friend mo?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> yeah.. i had a friend like that.. she had a bf who's so insecure.. she set aside years of friendship for this nut of a guy.. they stayed together for just a year.. when they broke up.. she runs to my side for strength, advise.. whatever.. and yeah.. am still there for her.. now she learned from her mistakes.. her current bf is a fun dude, not insecure, confident.. no issues.. my friend is now working for me.. as my assistant na. Quote Link to comment
Queen Darkeinjel Posted April 26, 2006 Share Posted April 26, 2006 i guess you both have to respect each other's privacy, i mean wag naman siguro na sa tuwing tutunog na lang cell ng partner mo eh nauuna ka pa makibasa sa kanya... that's where the privacy comes in. but again it has been said, if there's nothing to hide why not allow the partner to read messages... i can say this cause i have a husband and not all the time eh binabasa niya messages ko and vice versa, sometimes lang tanong kung sino nagtext... if we can forward jokes and what nots to friends and other people, why not let the significant other get a glimpse of the message??? case to case, pwede... question of trust, pwede din... privacy, pwede lalo.... i guess it's just a matter of how you set the rules of your relationship... advise na lang siguro, don't give your partner the reason to doubt you para hindi sa lahat ng oras eh gusto na lang niya basahin yung cell mo... Quote Link to comment
tsunade Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 well yeah dati I let the bf read my texts as in pagkaraceive pa... sya naman din noong una. When we started arguing na, ala na. Thing is, kung asawa mo na siguro, pwede but with consent but not out of guilt... kaso hindi kase ako pakelamera ng gamit ng me gamit... it's not the lack of nosiness... it's the respect and trust part. Quote Link to comment
bluegreen717 Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 No, respect for privacy's a big thing for me. Pero dun ko sya nahuli...haha. Quote Link to comment
badgurl2006 Posted May 5, 2006 Share Posted May 5, 2006 hmmm as much as possible i dont want him to read my messages for there are friends, or people who know my number and still text (as if i can stop them from texting me) about mushy stuff -- love messages, feelings and emotions, heartwarming and kilig things--, and some are kinky stuff - about sex, lust, maliscious graphics and etc... which i can take as a joke or just as simply as text messages nothing more.... but if he reads my text messages he may react differently which will lead into an argument..... so, if he still wants to read my text message he should be openminded about this kind of things.... but am glad my honey dont read my text messages =) he respects my privacy -- love u hon.. mwah! Quote Link to comment
dakila7 Posted May 5, 2006 Share Posted May 5, 2006 do i let my partner read text messages on my phone... oo, para walang gulo. pero as much as possible, sana hindi, it actually annoys me... for me it's a sign of distrust. Quote Link to comment
lecher4u Posted May 5, 2006 Share Posted May 5, 2006 Yes at no problem kasi dalawa sim ko ! hehehehe Quote Link to comment
wynd247 Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 yes... i have nothing to hide from my partner... Quote Link to comment
devil_lance Posted May 18, 2006 Author Share Posted May 18, 2006 Have you guys read about the story of Joe D. Mango of Love Notes? About his wife, got entangled with her elementary suitor? Nahuli sa text message ni Joe... Quote Link to comment
tsunade Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 Sure he can read all he wants naman e.. am not keepin anything from him hehehe Quote Link to comment
yogart30 Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 i've read a mail about joe d mango's wife na nahuli sa text... so general rule is respect the right to access one's mobile fone.... right yan ng every partner... but shempre, alalay lang para di maging source ng away.... but it won't be a big deal unless you're hiding something, diba? Quote Link to comment
hoowat Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 im letting him ...so i can read his... Quote Link to comment
crazykalbo Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 i let her read my text messages and she lets me read hers din... the thing is i dont care who else would text her so i dont bother reading kahit na pinapakita nya naman. LOL... if she wants to hide something its ok, i dont care... gusto nya magpakababoy eh bahala sya! hahaha! im wicked! Quote Link to comment
TNT Hsia Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 Only when we're in another country. Quote Link to comment
kewlchuzz Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 yup... saka palitan din ng phone :goatee: Quote Link to comment
knights-dex Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 yes all the time...in return ako din nagbabasa sa mga txt messages nya....pati mga unsent and sent items...wehehehehehe...nde pa nya alam pano off un...ahihihihi :boo: Quote Link to comment
Guest blackmamba24 Posted May 20, 2006 Share Posted May 20, 2006 yeah.. ok lng naman un.. Quote Link to comment
jaguar_18 Posted May 20, 2006 Share Posted May 20, 2006 yup coz i've got nothing to hide. if in case there's something that he'll get jealous of, i inform him first hand. it's better for him to know it from me than from someone else. it's just a matter of sustaining trust Quote Link to comment
Seishi Posted May 30, 2006 Share Posted May 30, 2006 for me, there's nothing wrong if i let my partner read my text messages... it only becomes a big deal if i'm hiding something... i would think the same way, especially if she constantly refuses to let me read one of her text messages... Quote Link to comment
pink_margarita Posted May 31, 2006 Share Posted May 31, 2006 yes, wala naman akong tinatago sa kanya. siguro kung may secrets ako..hindi ko papabasa. Quote Link to comment
simple_denise Posted May 31, 2006 Share Posted May 31, 2006 yup, no problem if he will read my text messages but the problem is he, dont save messages in his phone, para daw ibidensya at walang pag-awayan hehehe Quote Link to comment
agamulach_experience2000 Posted May 31, 2006 Share Posted May 31, 2006 I dont let my special someone read my text messages because its a personal thing, I mean those messages are meant for me and not for anyone else so Id rather keep it to myself than let my partner read it and make an issue out of it. I guess it also boils down to trust, you know if you trust the person your with then theres no room for paranoia. Quote Link to comment
Constan†ine Posted May 31, 2006 Share Posted May 31, 2006 i don't mind anyone will read my txt messages, wholesome nmn kasi lahat messages sakin e Quote Link to comment
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