Rovy_R Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 It's a question of trust.... as a matter of practice, I don't open my partner's cellphone and wallet... that's why I expect the same... though if she would ask permission I would always say yes... It's not that I've something to hide... it's more of a personal thing that I should enjoy... think of it this way... you can even sue your parents if they open your mail... Quote Link to comment
GORGEOUS99 Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 no way!! it doesnt mean that i am commited to him means that he owns me.. i still want my privacy... Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 i agree...i still believe that we should keep a little privacy. this isnt giving your partner a license to fool around...but an opportunity to express trust. kung sa akin lang, i'd like my partner to keep her own set of friends while i keep mine....sa tingin ko kasi when there comes a problem with you two, at least each one has safe friends to run to...i dunno... it's just me. Quote Link to comment
3some Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 simple, iwan mo cellphone / sim mo sa office... hehehe.... Quote Link to comment
Wacky Dreamer Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 Yes, and No.Sa simula hangang sa magsawa siya at hangat wala pa akong katxtm8 n iba - sige lang basa.Kapag me dapat itago, magagalit na ko pag binabasa niya txt msgs ko.(LABO) Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 24, 2005 Share Posted November 24, 2005 I have a friend once who told me that his style was like this....when there's nothing to hide in the cell phone, like you're not expecting any secret text messages, let your partner play around with the gadget. Let her read all the messages and browse through everything. If she doesnt want to, make kuwento and read about some messages you received that day. That way, she'll not have any inkling whatsoever. Then, just hide the phone when it's obviously needed to be put away. Quote Link to comment
miss_b Posted November 24, 2005 Share Posted November 24, 2005 issue dati samin ang celfones. dumating pa sa point na ibinato namin ang celfone sa dingding (wasak cel namin. ) kung asawa mo na, may right sya na tingnan ang mga mesages mo, not on the purpose of panghuhuli. unless may dapat hulihin. generally speaking, kung wala ka namang tinatago talaga, walang issue pagdating sa basahan ng texts di ba? yung mga may tinatago jan, they uses "privacy" as a defense and sometimes dey tend to reverse the situation and make the other guilty of invading deyr privacy samantalang sila tong may ginagawang kalokohan! bitter lang ang lola mo! Quote Link to comment
bullseye2x Posted November 24, 2005 Share Posted November 24, 2005 di puede...kasi privacy ko to.. maski may tinatago ako or wala...i still want my privacy.. Quote Link to comment
tekya_me Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 Minsan dyan kami nag aaway.... the guy would not let me read his messages, i don't know why? He would even keep his cell in a place i can't see w/ a password! He is so mad if i asked for his cell. He's got history (textmate) na kse before that's why i always ask for his cell. Sometimes i get tired of it na rin and would just let him do what he wants. Pero come to thnk of it...why would a guy forbid his girl to read his cell if he is not doing anything wrong naman di ba. We fight a lot about it. And we fought big time one time, now he's not hiding his cell anymore if he's at home, but still i don't know what's going on outside of the house kse di ko naman sya nakikita di ba. One thing i know though....i don't trust him anymre bec of what happenned. Quote Link to comment
sherry Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 sa akin ok lang wala namang problema dun basta babasahin ko din mga text msg nya.. hehehe... Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 what if she asked you to switch sim with her? hmmm...mas matindi ata. ayoko! Quote Link to comment
Guest Camerie Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 :* Ikaw sim lang, before one of my bfs requested me to swap celfone for a day (of course including the sim...) :* Quote Link to comment
otab Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 ok lng basahin nya kc d ko nmn inuuwi ung isang fone ko nsa locker lng ng ofis ko, hehehe. Quote Link to comment
LB Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 ok lang naman basahin... kase wala naman kayong magagawa... kung magloloko talaga sha... mahuhuli at mahuhuli din (kahit i-deny pa) kahit di thru text message... di ako galit nyan Quote Link to comment
Guest "serendipity" Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 My BF does, no problem with me, wala naman ako tinatago nweis... Â Quote Link to comment
Hudson Posted November 30, 2005 Share Posted November 30, 2005 It's ok with me if she reads my texts messages just as long as she asks permission first. It all boils down to trust and respect. Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 If we're really, really, THAT close, although I have to admit I haven't permitted any of my partners to read my text messages or browse my phone. I'm a privacy freak. The same rule applies to my other personal stuff. Touch my handbag and i'll ruin your night. Touch my journal and I'll have you salvaged. Touch me and i'll....well, it depends, hehehehe... :evil:<{POST_SNAPBACK}>  I'm also a very private person. I dont want anyone browsing through my personal stuffs.... ...that includes my cellphone. Quote Link to comment
russ Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 I'm also a very private person... even if shes my girlfriend i would not allow her to view my messages on my phone...wala naman akong tinatago but theres such a thing as privacy... if she ask my permission.. ill think about it... Quote Link to comment
bakedzitiguy Posted December 11, 2005 Share Posted December 11, 2005 if you have nothing to hide, and you have to be sure of that, then there's nothing wrong. but if youre the type who strays, its up to you if you let your partner read your text messages. take extra precautions na lang. erase incriminating messages or use another phone for your other "friends" Quote Link to comment
slurpme Posted December 11, 2005 Share Posted December 11, 2005 :mtc: elow poh...............................  for me, i dont allow my partner to read my txt messages noh, e di nabuking akoh, hehehehehe........ Quote Link to comment
revi Posted December 11, 2005 Share Posted December 11, 2005 I don't like it when my wife browses the messages on my phone.. I don't look at her phone as well.. Â Once, a girl - a badminton buddy texted me, my wife knows her.. but she always gets jealous coz she (sabi niya).. thinks this girl fancy me kahit alam niya na may asawa ako.. the text was just asking if we are playing tonight.. nakow.. away!!! Bakit daw ako tinetext at hindi siya.. aba'y sabi ko ewan.. Â From that point on - naka-silent phone ko whenever my wife's within my reach.. Para less tendency to look.. Â Sabi ko sa asawa ko: I won't look at your phone but please don't look at my phone too..hehehe!!! :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
JUPITER Posted December 11, 2005 Share Posted December 11, 2005 Yep, no problem with me. Of course, it doesn't mean i let other people do too. Sya lang siempre. Quote Link to comment
ThyGer Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 Ayoko siempre pabasa yung text messages ko. Pero nasisimplehan pa rin talaga ako :goatee: Quote Link to comment
hoodsy2004 Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 :* Ikaw sim lang, before one of my bfs requested me to swap celfone for a day (of course including the sim...) :* <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Â hahaha! i can relate to this one.... pati emails, friendster acct... Quote Link to comment
sad_angel Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 for me, ok lang naman yan. i got nothing to hide naman eh Quote Link to comment
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