dondell1 Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 yup! nothing to hide... Quote Link to comment
berthow Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 for me d dapat....para may konting privacy pa rin tyo.....minsan ang txt msg ay pwedeng pagsimulan ng gulo lalo na kung mali ang intindi nang nagbabasa Quote Link to comment
Guest jason_kidd Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 yeah.. its ok... Quote Link to comment
zencalix Posted July 6, 2005 Share Posted July 6, 2005 kung walang tinatago i guess okay lang... pero usually merong tinatago e... Â naku, marami nang nabasyo dyan!!! pahamak yang text text na yan! hehehe Quote Link to comment
nomad77 Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 I would rather not have my partner read my SMS messages...though I would let her if she wants to, though I clean everything up before she even sees my phone. Quote Link to comment
pawnedchuggi Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 Know what.. why does it automatically mean na "may tinatago" if you just want your privacy? I don't agree that if you're in a relationship, you completely own each other as in you have the right to invade each other's privacy. Que may tinatago o wala.. respect each other's privacy dapat. If you're too paranoid on what your partner is up to.. it's not true that you love your partner so better breakup with him/her. Pero ha.. I've noticed that guys love to pry.. sa tutuo lang.. dahil ba gawain nyo kse yun?  <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Only a cheater would reason out this way! If you got nothing to hide, the heck with your privacy! Quote Link to comment
pawnedchuggi Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 I have nothing against sharing text messages but it is just proper to respect the privacy of anybody. . . I consider text messages as personal informations only intended to the receiver and only for the receiver. . . it doesn't matter what kind of information that is, as long it is transmitted solely for my pleasure, then it is only proper that I should be the only one to read it and no one else. . . if the text messages are meant to be read by all, then maybe they should have transmitted them through the big billboards so that everybody can read them. . . the intention of the inventors of text messages are for them to be kept as private messages, solely for the pleasure of the receiver. . .<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Here's another one who can't be trusted by their partners! Quote Link to comment
BOOM! Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 There should be a part of me that is left for myself alone. Though transparency is a nice gesture of trust, you still have to leave something for yourself. Quote Link to comment
pawnedchuggi Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 There should be a part of me that is left for myself alone. Though transparency is a nice gesture of trust, you still have to leave something for yourself.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>It's only a freaking text message for crying out loud! You got nothing to lose unless you are a cheat! Quote Link to comment
zencalix Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 It's only a freaking text message for crying out loud! You got nothing to lose unless you are a cheat!<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Â pare, mukhang this is a sensitive topic for you... cool okay?!... just respect the opinions of others... Quote Link to comment
pawnedchuggi Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 pare, mukhang this is a sensitive topic for you... cool okay?!... just respect the opinions of others... <{POST_SNAPBACK}>I didn't mean to sound disrespectful of other's opinion, I just don't get it when people say their privacy is being violated just like those pro athletes who do not want to submit to mandatory drug testing claiming it as an invasion of privacy. But anyway this is indeed a sensitive matter to me coz this is how I found out that my ex wife is seeing her old bf behind my back. Quote Link to comment
mala_chinita Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 Just my take: It is still your call devil lance. Privacy is subjective. If you are willing though and at the same time as such will help your relationship, then so be it. BUT only when needed. I dont think that it is healthy that a gf or wife checks my sms, everytime. Set your limits. Quote Link to comment
zencalix Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 I didn't mean to sound disrespectful of other's opinion, I just don't get it when people say their privacy is being violated just like those pro athletes who do not want to submit to mandatory drug testing claiming it as an invasion of privacy. But anyway this is indeed a sensitive matter to me coz this is how I found out that my ex wife is seeing her old bf behind my back.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>  okay pare... same here, sa text message ko rin nahuli misis ko communicating with her ex BF... this eventually led to the end of our 9 yr "happy" marriage... pareho pala tayo ng case... pero i have friends na talagang walang tinatago na sensitive pa rin about this... ayaw nila pahawak cel nila kahit na wala naman sila tinatago... Quote Link to comment
xrm726 Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 "don't do unto others what you don't want to do to you", based on experience, i've read and saw my ex's fon although before she found out i already knew she was dating someone.... damn s**t.... i realized that what you don't know , won't hurt you.... pero mas masakit pala pag nalaman mong matagal na niyang ginagawa sa'yo yon..... anyways, if your partner insisted to leave her fon to herself, then respect it. But be sure she's faithful to you.... Quote Link to comment
pawnedchuggi Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 okay pare... same here, sa text message ko rin nahuli misis ko communicating with her ex BF... this eventually led to the end of our 9 yr "happy" marriage... pareho pala tayo ng case...  <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Life goes on pare! Quote Link to comment
zencalix Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 Life goes on pare!<{POST_SNAPBACK}>  thats true pare!!! and it can still be a very good life! live to the fullest!!! goodluck pare! :cool: Quote Link to comment
Wyld Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 i dont mind as i dont have anything to hide anyway... Â and if i did... i wont be dumb enough to leave incriminating messages saved on my in/out box or folders... Â :evil:Â Quote Link to comment
meltrob Posted July 8, 2005 Share Posted July 8, 2005 ok lang basahin ni commander, di naman ako nag pa text, normally mis call lang ang SOP. Quote Link to comment
perriwinkle Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 sometimes i let him read my msgs...kaso minsan mahirap,lalo na pag na mimiss interpret nya mga words ng mga guy friends ko....lagi na tuloy sya nagdududa sa akin,kaya much better ng itago ko cel sa bulsa ko,non-vibrate at mute...para iwas gulo.i just understand na lang the feeling his got,minsan ganun din ako e. Quote Link to comment
cool_fire Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 simple lang..wag nyo basahin,magkaroon ng tiwala sa kasama.At Oo na lang para walang gulo.. Quote Link to comment
nataraki's_gurl Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 personally, i occasionally browse my bf's messages. browsing is different as checking. checking is when you wanna make sure the inbox is "clean", but when you browse, u just read the messages but not to the point of being too paranoid naman. respect and trust goes hand in hand. privacy is still important even if you have a "right" over his/her things. Quote Link to comment
al_simmons Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 uhmmm..my girl always checks my cell the minute she comes in the house..she simply gets my cellphone when i am not looking and begins to read it in our room...she actually did it moments ago again...but i'v got nothing to hide so i'm cool with it. Quote Link to comment
boy popoy Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 " ONE WHO HAS NOTHING TO HIDE, HIDES NOTHING "Â i think a healthy relationship is an open-relationship with no secrets. yes some privacy should be given sometimes, but ONLY SOMETIMES. if your partner is too secretive then theres something wrong there. Quote Link to comment
Lingerie_girL Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 ako,i would let my partner read my messages with my permission...but if he read it without asking to me, ibang usapan na yun....i will get mad at him talaga.......... Quote Link to comment
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