love Do You Let Your Partner Read Your Text Messages?

[mhut23]

in my own opinion its ok, coz wala naman ako

ginagawang masama para itago sa kanya.

[-=xtian=-]

ok lang, wala naman akong itinatago eh. lahat burado na bago nya mabasa.

Edited July 21, 2006 by -=xtian=-

[kidneythief]

nope... baka mahuli ako na may chicks...

[mazinger]

yes, i let her read my text..kaso she's not interested coz full of crap daw mga messages ko dyan....hahahaha

[PINOY_SEXPLORER]

she can read only the msgs i want her to see heehee :evil:

kidding aside, personal space should be respected di dpat pag pilitan ang pgbbasa ng mga msg s fone. if one rly is comited 2 a relationship he/she wont b flirting around mch..even in sms

[fatso8]

eto scenario:

 

nabasa mo sa sent items (accidentally man or hindi) nya.. "i love you too".. pero di sa yo sent.

 

ano gagawin nyo?

[vemal]

This is actually something that pisses me off!

I do not read the texts of my partner, i consider it privalte and personal kse. Even if she asks me to get her mobile and just read the messsage for her, I do not do that. I simply reach her mobile and hand it over to her for her to read.

 

I have nothing to hide, I never have done anything wrong so even if she reads all my texts and listens to all my calls there is nothing there for her to be jealous about. I simply do want want the evasion of privacy. But that does not what ticks me.

 

What pissess me off is when ever she reads my texts, inbox and sent items, she will always ask or comment something about it. Like "Ano yung tinatanong sa iyo ni Rey?"; "Bakit kayo magkikita ni Amy?"; "Ano naman ang iaalok sa iyo ni Alvin?"; "Bakit tinatanong ni She yung tungkol sa kotse?";"Bakit ka kailangan ni Jun?" Di ba nakakairita? Always probing parang imbestigador, di ka talaga tatantanan!

 

Di lang iyon, minsan babasa pa siya ng call history tapos magtatanong: "Bakit mo tinawagan si kwan?"; "Ano sinabi ni ano at tumawag siya sa iyo?"; "Ano pinagusapan ninyo ni ano at mukhang ang tagal ninyo nagusap?"; "Ano, higit 1 oras kayo nagusap!?" Nakakapikon talaga!

 

Minsan meron pa... may nag text sa akin, binasa niya, di ko alam kasi tulog pa ako, di rin niya sinabi sa akin. Pag-kuha ko ng phone ko, wala ako new message so tuloy lang ang araw. Kinabukasan, tumingin lang ako sa inbox ng phone ko, tapos nagulat ako na may nagtext pala sa akin nung nakaraang araw, di lang iyon, importante pa ang mensahe. So syempre, nagalit ako dahil nagbabasa na nga ng mga mensahe na di sa kanya, di pa ipinararating sa akin! Nakakabwisit talaga.

 

So ngayon, naka-lock na ang mga phone ko para wala na siya maibasa at maitanong. Minsan makikigamit siya ng phone, ala na daw load, pero pagkatapos niya gamitin, tatanong uli iyan, ukol sa mga text at call logs ko. S**T talaga... pero at least nabawasan, at sigurado yung mga mensahe makakarating sa akin!

[Aquarian]

Ok lang kung babasahin nya yung text messages ko sa phone pero syempre paalam sya sa akin kasi private property un eh

[willy_desmond]

No.

Although there's a realationship each other's personal space should be respected.

[Ady]

For me if my GF wants to see it there will be no problem as long as you have nothing to hide

[LickMeDownThere]

yup!

 

no choice eh

 

kya most of the time well end up fighting

[abalone]

yes..

 

But I don't let her talk about the office matters that she reads in my phone. Evrything else can be discussed with me.

[oxydiesel]

depende yan... if wla kang tinatago, then no problem, pabasa mo lang... :cool:

 

pag may tinatago, bahala ka na dun! :evil:

 

ako wla akong tinatago, pati email at MTC, alam nya! :boo:

[kitzsen18]

OK LANG WALA NAMAN MASAMA DON KUNG PPABASA MO E, DEPENDE NALNG KUNG MERON KANG TINATAGO...........

[lordraven12]

depende yan sir kit, kung makitid ang utak mo iisipin mo na may tinatago sya, joke lang best... depende sa tao eh, meron talagang masyadong secretive pero walang ginagawang masama

[mael6710x]

kaya nga - me World War--- pag nagkataon

[metalhead12]

yes...wala naman problem kung basahin nya...the word here is trust

[mohao]

yeah... got nothing to hide.

Edited November 15, 2006 by wetkiss

[Wynn Dixie]

It is ok with me.

[spongebobby]

it's non-negotiable. my answer is no. i get too much confidential, work-related messages.

[Joie]

He MAY read the messages... with the caveat that I will not be accountable should he be unable to handle what he might read.

 

Not that im into sleazy exchanges of sms's but one never knows.

 

And NOPE, I will never ask to read my partner's messages. There are cues other than SMS's that will alert me should the need arise.

Edited November 15, 2006 by Joie

[<< xtc >>]

no problem on me end ...

[freezeburn]

Got nothing to hide as well. May delete button naman diba?

[Agent_mulder]

Yes kasi na-delete ko na yung hindi niya dapat mabasa...

[sir_boss_master]

only if im not around when the message came. she knows how important some of them kasi and i need to respond asap. besides, i have another phone where the "sensitive" messages go. she doesn't read them.