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BALIKBAYANS - Filipinos or Fil-Foreigners who have established residency abroad (and/or acquired foreign citizenships) and are RETURNING to the Philippines either on a short temporary visit or holiday or to re-establish residency or citizenship in the country or to retire.

 

If I'm not mistaken (correct me if I'm wrong), this is the essence of the description given by the Department of Tourism to this specific group of travelers to the country. In fact, there is a separate and dedicated marketing campaign just for the BALIKBAYAN market which is dominated largely by U.S.-based Filipinos.

 

Overseas Filipino Workers belong to a totally separate classification (they are based abroad because of their work or profession) even if technically they travel or "return" back to the Philippines after their work contracts expire.

 

Maybe this thread should have been more specific as to what particular characteristics or behavior of BALIKBAYANS (as opposed to OFWs) that locally-based Filipinos view.

 

Several decades ago, many locally-based Filipinos viewed Balikbayans (especially those coming from the U.S.) as more "advanced," sophisticated, educated, relatively more affluent, open/liberal-minded or "modern," stylish, and ahead with global news and trends. They were also viewed at times to be arrogant, "mayabang" with that "walang ganyan sa States" attitude.

 

It's a totally different scene today in this borderless, globalized world. With real-time online digital communication, the Philippines is as up-to-trends with any other country in the world. A local can be as hip-hop or better than his L.A. cousin. We get the same (although cheaper) GAP, POLO, FUBU, U2, NIKE, LACOSTE, etc. that you can get anywhere in the world. The main difference I guess is that here, we are experiencing some kind of resurgence of Filipino pride and patriotic spirit (what with Manny Paquiao, Efren Reyes, Josie Biyo, Mon David and other internationally-acclaimed Pinoys are doing) while abroad, many of our kababayans are struggling with cultural identity issues, racial discrimination and even persecution.

 

And if we don't watch it in this borderless age, we are becoming as vulnerable as BALIKBAYANS and OFWs in losing our unique ethno-cultural traits, traditions and values to the foreign cultures that many have assimilated themselves into.

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I'm viewed as Joy and Happiness in their life for the short time I do visit.

 

I'm viewed as the emergency plan in thier life when they really need money.

 

I'm viewed as the bad person in their life when I say no, I'm not letting you borrow money for that reason.

 

I'm viewed as the VERY BAD PERSON in their life when I mention the fact that I do work for my money and I don't just pick it up off the streets, so stop asking.

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Hmm...I wonder if there are any balikbayans who experience getting treats from their friends. In my case, I'm always "taya." Even if some of them are the ones inviting me to eat out, they never reach for their wallets when the bill comes. They never offer to shoulder the fare for a taxi cab. But I don't mind. It's their company that counts.

 

In my sister's case, she gets the royal treatment by her friends when she returns to the Philippines. She never spends any money on her friends. They're the ones spending money on her.

 

I think the reason for this is the difference in our barkadas. Her friends and ex-classmates are very rich and mine belong to the masses. Ahihihi. :D

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balikbayans? from my own personal experiences its been a mix of positive and negative. some people seem friendly about it while others seem to harbor some animosity if a person is a balikbayan. how do you view balikbayans.

 

by the way ...im 27, born in the PI but moved to the US when i was 6.

 

i hate to say this, but a lot of pinoys look at balikbayans as if balikbayans are made of money.....

 

typical things said by locals to balikbayans: manlibre ka naman, lakas-lakas mo kumita eh.....pabili naman.....pahingi naman ng ganito.....konting tulong naman etc. etc. etc.

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Yung iba kala mu kung sino na after makabalik. inglish ng inglish e kasusap nila alam naman nilang hindi magaling mag inglish..

hmm ganyan din ang tingin ko noon sa mnga balikbayan but pag ikaw ay naka abroad ng matagal maiintindihan mo na din sila lalo yung matagal nag nagsta outside sa pinas and ang medium of communication ay english talagang lagi silang mag english dahil masasanay sila

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I do the same for my cousins whenever they visit us here

 

ika nga "Its the TOT that KANT's"

 

Hmm...I wonder if there are any balikbayans who experience getting treats from their friends. In my case, I'm always "taya." Even if some of them are the ones inviting me to eat out, they never reach for their wallets when the bill comes. They never offer to shoulder the fare for a taxi cab. But I don't mind. It's their company that counts.

 

In my sister's case, she gets the royal treatment by her friends when she returns to the Philippines. She never spends any money on her friends. They're the ones spending money on her.

 

I think the reason for this is the difference in our barkadas. Her friends and ex-classmates are very rich and mine belong to the masses. Ahihihi. :D

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How do I see Balik-bayans?

 

1. With a tinge of jealousy. Not because of their money but because they go out of this country and found better opportunities for themselves.

 

2. Some balik-bayans think they are know-it-alls. Commenting on how bad it is here in the Phils. or telling how we should run our lives but never having the balls to stick their necks in this poor and awfully managed country.

3. A lot do have a genuine heart for their countrymen, wishing they could do more for their country if not only due to the shortage of opportunities and hope that they find themselves risking life and limb abroad.

 

I have travelled quite a few times myself due to work assignments and I have met a lot of OFWs. One common thing that I never fail to hear is "kawawa naman ang Pilipinas". Whether it's a sincere gesture or a back-handed let down of our countrymen, it's obvious that Hope continues to fade.

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