_Pabling Posted July 16, 2005 Share Posted July 16, 2005 in my humble opinion, yes you can. but it will be unfair for either one cos you can't give them the same amount of attention. laging hati' tsk tsk tsk. Quote Link to comment
Pink_Popsicle Posted July 16, 2005 Share Posted July 16, 2005 Yes, its entirely possible but never in equal measure. One will always be loved more than the other. Quote Link to comment
meg Posted July 16, 2005 Share Posted July 16, 2005 ofcourse not!!! di ka puedeng mamangka sa dalawang ilog baka ang ending niyan eh, matuyo ang ilog... mas mahirap yun... Quote Link to comment
perriwinkle Posted July 16, 2005 Share Posted July 16, 2005 we can love 2 or more persons at a time as long as kaya natin ang load....pero we can only commit to one person. Quote Link to comment
ultegra Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 gud am. to the question if it is possible to love two people at the same time. my response is: IT IS! even three or four or more... what is difficult is to distinguish between love and simply liking... and beyond just difficult is the danger of equating love with sex. you can love without sex and have sex without love. the time we accept this is the time we free ourselves of all our hang ups about love and sex. the problem however is it is difficult for men to get free sex without declaring whole and undying love (or at least strong liking) for the girl. that is why men say they love a girl even if they actually just want to get laid. on the other hand, girls say they are in love that's why they have sex... but this may not be the truth. fear of being branded cheap and easy makes some girls say that they are in love that's why they have sex. a girl can have sex because she wanted to have sex, period! as an earlier post mentioned, let's not romanticize all sexual acts and at the same time let's not sexualize all loving acts. they are two different things and can be experienced wonderfully apart from each other. AND OF COURSE, THE EXPERIENCE OF HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE YOU REALLY LOVE IS PROBABLY EVEN MORE WONDERFUL THAN SEX ALONE OR LOVE ALONE! have a wonderful day people! Quote Link to comment
batitsman Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 gud am. to the question if it is possible to love two people at the same time. my response is: IT IS! even three or four or more... what is difficult is to distinguish between love and simply liking... and beyond just difficult is the danger of equating love with sex. you can love without sex and have sex without love. the time we accept this is the time we free ourselves of all our hang ups about love and sex. the problem however is it is difficult for men to get free sex without declaring whole and undying love (or at least strong liking) for the girl. that is why men say they love a girl even if they actually just want to get laid. on the other hand, girls say they are in love that's why they have sex... but this may not be the truth. fear of being branded cheap and easy makes some girls say that they are in love that's why they have sex. a girl can have sex because she wanted to have sex, period! as an earlier post mentioned, let's not romanticize all sexual acts and at the same time let's not sexualize all loving acts. they are two different things and can be experienced wonderfully apart from each other. AND OF COURSE, THE EXPERIENCE OF HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE YOU REALLY LOVE IS PROBABLY EVEN MORE WONDERFUL THAN SEX ALONE OR LOVE ALONE! have a wonderful day people!<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Well said. Sir Ultegra. Sometimes we just have to call a spade a spade. Quote Link to comment
sha79 Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 yup..thats possible.. you can really love two person at the same time,yet you should commit to only one person.. therefore; you hav to choose tlga.. Quote Link to comment
imijin Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 panu pala kung isa ka dun sa dalawang "mahal" niya? knowing that one is loved deeper than the other.... baka ikaw yung loved more? o baka kaw yung loved less? ouch!!!! Quote Link to comment
homesek Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 u can love two person at the same time but not at the same level.. there still priority Quote Link to comment
black cat Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 CAN SOMEONE LOVE TWO PERSON at the SAME TIME? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yup.. I think it's actually a curse. Many times I've thought about it.. those times I'd run in panic and further convince myself that it's not really possible. :hypocritesmiley: Definitely, a perfect relationship is non-existent.. trouble is when one partner tries to find the answer on how to perfect it.. then eventually fool him or herself that he/she is in love with two people. Blame it on the rain.. hehehe Quote Link to comment
jumpman23 Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 I think this is totally possible. Quote Link to comment
slayersburns Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 naku inde...sa relasyon 1+1 = 0 subok na yan stick 2 1 lng dpt...(nax gud boi) wahihihi Quote Link to comment
havoc_023 Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 Yes u can and it is possible.....but!!!!U SHOULD NOT. We are not limited to love one person instead we should love more. It is just a matter of putting urself in a proper situation that no one will be hurt or should i say that sharing ur love in different levels. Quote Link to comment
russ Posted October 24, 2005 Share Posted October 24, 2005 if i have two hearts, ill give... one for MA... and one for may girlfriend... we can love two person at the same time... its a matter of understanding... you have to understant that ur in a very conplicated situation... Quote Link to comment
MA Posted October 24, 2005 Share Posted October 24, 2005 (edited) if i have two hearts, ill give... one for MA... and one for may girlfriend...we can love two person at the same time... its a matter of understanding... you have to understant that ur in a very conplicated situation...<{POST_SNAPBACK}> pssst Ikaw ha! But hey, your girlfriend is cute. And you look good together. *** As for the Q raised by mala_chinita, I think it's possible to love two or more people at the same time. But i'm not too sure about the equal distribution of said love. It can be that you love one more than the other - but it still doesn't undermine the fact that you love both. Pero yun nga, time will come when you have to choose - for not only is loving two or more physically, emotionally and psychologically draining/exhausting, it also has the potential of costing you more money than you're prepared to spare. Edited October 24, 2005 by MA Quote Link to comment
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