xycho_g Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 Haha! Natawa ako dun. :thumbsupsmiley: Anyway, as to the topic.. I've always believed that we all have our own freewill. We get stuck in a situation because we chose to. May nakita kang iba coz you entertained the thought.. tapos ayun.. nagising ka na lang one day na nalubog ka na at hirap ka na makaahon. :hypocritesmiley: Actually, hindi ko rin maintidihan ang post ko. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> haha..nakakatawa ba?...wag kang tumawa...masakit ang maging someone else when you wanted her so much...haha..but ngyn nakakatawa nko sa pangyayaring un...so now..tawa kn din...haha... Quote Link to comment
johnny_boy Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 been in this situation more than once... i have this filling with a friend in hs but i did not pursue her until we got to college (we got separated, i studied in manila, she stayed in our province) when i have decided to court her i found out she's got a bf already (ouch) so i stopped my self from telling her about my feelings. i fall for another friend in college, courted her but did not pursue her seriously. then i suddenly heard that she have a boyfriend already. worse, her bestfriend told me that if only i pursued her seriously she would have sayed yes to me (ouch again). got involved with a number of flings but nothing serious. then after 6 years my friend in hs broke with his bf.. i immediately courted her and found out that she also liked me even before she had a bf but i didn't make any move so she taught that i didn't like her. but anyway now were together na for almost a year. but recently i heard that the friend from college has broken up with his bf and is again interested in me... hwahhhh!!! ang gulo 'no? Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 been in this situation more than once... i have this filling with a friend in hs but i did not pursue her until we got to college (we got separated, i studied in manila, she stayed in our province) when i have decided to court her i found out she's got a bf already (ouch) so i stopped my self from telling her about my feelings. i fall for another friend in college, courted her but did not pursue her seriously. then i suddenly heard that she have a boyfriend already. worse, her bestfriend told me that if only i pursued her seriously she would have sayed yes to me (ouch again). got involved with a number of flings but nothing serious. then after 6 years my friend in hs broke with his bf.. i immediately courted her and found out that she also liked me even before she had a bf but i didn't make any move so she taught that i didn't like her. but anyway now were together na for almost a year. but recently i heard that the friend from college has broken up with his bf and is again interested in me... hwahhhh!!! ang gulo 'no? That is so sad. So what will you do? "A bird in hand is worth two in the bush." Quote Link to comment
astrea Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 (edited) I've beeen in this kind of situation a hundred and so times... I always end up chosing the one to whom I belong first... the right one is not always the one I should be with.... Edited January 25, 2006 by astrea Quote Link to comment
Shizuka Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 An alternative is to have relationships with both. the present one and the right one...if u can handle it...then choose. At least u missed none. Quote Link to comment
TidusJanus Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 An alternative is to have relationships with both. the present one and the right one...if u can handle it...then choose. At least u missed none.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> isn't that unfair to the two persons you're goin out with,though? Quote Link to comment
johnny_boy Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 That is so sad. So what will you do? "A bird in hand is worth two in the bush."<{POST_SNAPBACK}> nice quote in there bro... can i use it for my sig? actually i'm contented with the current one. i'm not planning on doing anything (yet ) and i also don't intend to rock the boat that i have waited for 7 years to have... Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 nice quote in there bro... can i use it for my sig? actually i'm contented with the current one. i'm not planning on doing anything (yet ) and i also don't intend to rock the boat that i have waited for 7 years to have... Sure, feel free. Quote Link to comment
simpatiko Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Kanta ng mga Taksil tong song na to ano?? Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Kanta ng mga Taksil tong song na to ano?? Only if they actually go to the right one by betraying the someone else. Otherwise its a sad love song. Quote Link to comment
xycho_g Posted January 28, 2006 Share Posted January 28, 2006 just a question... what if the girl lets you feel that you are the right one but she has a bf already? parang nagkakalabuan sila pero mahal nya. pero nafifeel mo gusto ka nya? what will you do? aagawin mo ba o iiwas ka? or magkaibigan muna kayo at maghihintay kang mawala sila or maghihintay ka sa wala?... Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted January 28, 2006 Share Posted January 28, 2006 just a question... what if the girl lets you feel that you are the right one but she has a bf already? parang nagkakalabuan sila pero mahal nya. pero nafifeel mo gusto ka nya? what will you do? aagawin mo ba o iiwas ka? or magkaibigan muna kayo at maghihintay kang mawala sila or maghihintay ka sa wala?... 2 things: 1.) How would you feel if you were the BF? (After answering that, how would you feel if somebody stole your GF while things were just in cloudy issue stage?) 2.) How honorable are you? (Personally, I like to be clean shaven, so I need to be able to look at myself in the mirror everyday.) But that's just me. Quote Link to comment
Guest Cleone Posted January 29, 2006 Share Posted January 29, 2006 just a question... what if the girl lets you feel that you are the right one but she has a bf already? parang nagkakalabuan sila pero mahal nya. pero nafifeel mo gusto ka nya? what will you do? aagawin mo ba o iiwas ka? or magkaibigan muna kayo at maghihintay kang mawala sila or maghihintay ka sa wala?...<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hmmm... I think if she is that kind of girl... there is a possibility na gawin din nya sayo yung ginawa nya sa bf nya...so pag nagkakalabuan na kayo if there is someone who'll come along na feeling nya Mr. Right iiwanan ka ring nya... I think finding Mr. Right is different from finding someone because you feel some sort of depression... Quote Link to comment
PakofLayf Posted January 31, 2006 Share Posted January 31, 2006 songs are really reflections of reality, this one applies on me... Quote Link to comment
spongebobby Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 just a question... what if the girl lets you feel that you are the right one but she has a bf already? parang nagkakalabuan sila pero mahal nya. pero nafifeel mo gusto ka nya? what will you do? aagawin mo ba o iiwas ka? or magkaibigan muna kayo at maghihintay kang mawala sila or maghihintay ka sa wala?...<{POST_SNAPBACK}> it is possible that the girl is treating you as her "spare tire." ayaw lang niyang mabakante. Quote Link to comment
xycho_g Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 2 things: 1.) How would you feel if you were the BF? (After answering that, how would you feel if somebody stole your GF while things were just in cloudy issue stage?) 2.) How honorable are you? (Personally, I like to be clean shaven, so I need to be able to look at myself in the mirror everyday.) But that's just me.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> im not really trying to get her back (shes thesame girl i was talking about the other thread..crossing roads..) ...she just wants to spend time with me..thats all...and when im with her, im happy...i dunno why...but syempre parang mas gusto ko ngyn lumagay sa tama...is dating her considered cheating? Hmmm... I think if she is that kind of girl... there is a possibility na gawin din nya sayo yung ginawa nya sa bf nya...so pag nagkakalabuan na kayo if there is someone who'll come along na feeling nya Mr. Right iiwanan ka ring nya... I think finding Mr. Right is different from finding someone because you feel some sort of depression...<{POST_SNAPBACK}> it is possible that the girl is treating you as her "spare tire." ayaw lang niyang mabakante.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> shet yan tlga ang kinakatakot ko...so ngyn tlgang pinagiispan kong maigi...havent really talked to her seriously bout this..hopefully we will... Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 im not really trying to get her back (shes thesame girl i was talking about the other thread..crossing roads..) ...she just wants to spend time with me..thats all...and when im with her, im happy...i dunno why...but syempre parang mas gusto ko ngyn lumagay sa tama...is dating her considered cheating? Spending time with friends is okay, but if its a one-on-one date, AND she has a boyfriend, just ask yourself, if you were in the other guy's shoes, how would YOU feel? We can only suggest and give advice, the decision will, of course, have to be yours. Enjoy xycho_g Quote Link to comment
jai fuge Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 the only thing that i can say is that...it sucks to be in this kind of situation...it makes your world turn upside down...it makes you think like crazy...and after that you still need to decide....what's even harder is that, it ends up that you don't know the right decision..... Quote Link to comment
xycho_g Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 Spending time with friends is okay, but if its a one-on-one date, AND she has a boyfriend, just ask yourself, if you were in the other guy's shoes, how would YOU feel? We can only suggest and give advice, the decision will, of course, have to be yours. Enjoy xycho_g<{POST_SNAPBACK}> yes i know..pero ewan ko ba...gusto ko tlgang lumagay sa tama pero pagnagaaya sya, dko matangihan lalo na kapag wala akong lakad...e usually swerte sya, free ako kpg nagaaya sya...shet tlga..kainis.. Quote Link to comment
freakish Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 it's all about choice...you can stay or you can leave then don't look back, stand up for what you did (or for the person you chose) Quote Link to comment
spongebobby Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 it's all about choice...you can stay or you can leave then don't look back, stand up for what you did (or for the person you chose)<{POST_SNAPBACK}> we all seek what we do not have:it is human nature. but belonging to someone is a choice. it doen't matter whether you're bound by the laws of marriage or a just a mere pinky-winky promise, or a relationship sealed by a torrid kiss. the thing is we choose to belong to someone. there will always be girls prettier, sexier, and smarter, and more enchanting than your gf. in the same way that your girl will meet better looking guys than you. the point is, we can never be sure how happier we'll be if we leave our current beau. sure, some relationships are not worth keeping. some girls are plain boring or lousy in bed. or probably your gf talks and talks and don't know how to listen. or whatever reason you think makes you less happy. as freakish wisely pointed out: it is always about choice. it's always been that way. Quote Link to comment
BlueEyes Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 I'm mystified about this topic. How does anyone 'belong' to another? You are certainly free to keep looking for the next Mr. or Ms. Right. Even married folks move on when the magic isn't there. Life is too short to settle for less than your heart needs and your body desires. It may be true that we covet what we don't have, but that doesn't mean that we shouldn't go about making ourselves happy. Love is not lust, but saying that you belong to someone is not love either. Quote Link to comment
paul (",0) Posted February 4, 2006 Share Posted February 4, 2006 YEAH...may mahal ka na tapos may may nagpatibok muli ng puso mo...ASTIG....sakit sa ulo............ Quote Link to comment
nathalia Posted February 4, 2006 Share Posted February 4, 2006 much beeter po sa mga panahon ngaun be faithfulkc hirap ng buhay, dadagdagan u pa ng mga nkkdepress na pag iisipkaya aq pois rather be singlepara d complicated Quote Link to comment
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