luffy1 Posted March 1, 2018 Share Posted March 1, 2018 (edited) HOW WOULD YOU STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH? IF... ...YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED ... YOU HAVE KIDS ... AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER ... AND SHE/HE IS YOUR FRIEND'S BF/GF ... AND SHE/HE LOVES YOU SO MUCHhi lian... my boyfriend din ako. married na sya and my two kids sila. sa totoo lng mas mahal nya na ako kesa sa asawa nya pero mga bata lagi ang iniintidi nya. iniingatan nya ang family nya kse sa mga bata. masakit kse kht alam kong mahal nya ako di nya kayang iwan ang family nya pero naiintindihan ko kasepara sa mga bata. inintindi ko kse simula palang naman ng pumasok ako sa buhay nya may famliy na sya. sino ba naman ako para guluhin sla eh nakisawsaw lang naman ako. i love him so much.kailangan ko lng maging understanding and hndi demanding. alam ko kung san ako lulugar. kase mahal ko sya Edited March 1, 2018 by luffy1 Quote Link to comment
BlackHoleSun Posted March 3, 2018 Share Posted March 3, 2018 Maybe it's called falling because your trajectory is something you can't control, isn't it that one can only fall down?... And on your way down, you try to grab on to whatever you think can stop your fall. You try to save yourself from the sleepless nights, troubled thoughts and anxiety of waiting for her text. It is torture indeed. But, one that gives a little pleasure and joy when you are with her. Even if you know that you only get to have those moments with her on borrowed time. If there is an alternate reality, where we never met, I'd choose the one I am in now, Although, most days are torture, at least I have that ray of hope, that slice of pure bliss, I experience every time l get to spend a moment with her. Until then, I will count the days... Sapul naman ako dito.. I guess I might be going overboard with my feelings lately. May bf siya at may gf ako and I accepted the situation wholeheartedly. I think I need to get a hold of myself.. Quote Link to comment
suade Posted March 4, 2018 Share Posted March 4, 2018 yes im in love with this beautiful young girl na super bait who have a BF, 8 years na sila. We are co workers but we work on a different floor, sometime we see each other during break time and i feel jealous evrytime i see her talking to another man my co worker. Then i manage to tell her evrything how i feel for her thru txt this was like a week ago, now we both feel awkward evrytime we see each other on the elevator.Having a relationship at work is no good, Im losing focus i think i need to be more patient. Quote Link to comment
Geralt ⚔ Posted March 15, 2018 Share Posted March 15, 2018 Very hard for the mind, body and soul. Somehow, it just adds more pleasure and excitement when you are pursuing someone when you are occupied by other stuff. Quote Link to comment
Drazzy Posted March 15, 2018 Share Posted March 15, 2018 I cannot cause shes inlove with someone else. Quote Link to comment
R i r i Posted August 13, 2018 Share Posted August 13, 2018 Client ko lang siya at thera niya lang ako. Quote Link to comment
xince24 Posted August 15, 2018 Share Posted August 15, 2018 its very toxic. Kung di mo talaga mapigilan, make sure na may pinupursue ka rin na ibang girls at the same time Quote Link to comment
🌺 Shin 🌺 Posted August 15, 2018 Share Posted August 15, 2018 Cannot kasi he's a married man.. At syempre may bf dn ako... Mas pipiliin ko yung tao na laging anjan sa tabi ko para mahalin at pasiyahin ako... Quote Link to comment
MykG2G Posted August 15, 2018 Share Posted August 15, 2018 hahahaha kasi thera daw sya Quote Link to comment
Jr😋 Posted August 15, 2018 Share Posted August 15, 2018 In this case you need to make the right decision cause one wrong move can cause a major change.So if di talaga pwede lets just not destroy a relationship. Di masama mag hintay ang masama if u are causing trouble para sa pag mamahalan nila. Quote Link to comment
flatwall Posted August 16, 2018 Share Posted August 16, 2018 O tukso layuan m ako... Quote Link to comment
3na Posted August 16, 2018 Share Posted August 16, 2018 Falling in Love with Someone When you Cannot... I have experienced this situation before and probably in the future. Yung ma meet mo yung someone na parang siya na ang "soulmate" mo. Pero due to the circumstances that both of you are not "Free" mukhang walang aasahang "Forever". Kaya just play na lang with the cards that fate has dealt us with. Iniisip na lang namin na to make the most of the "Nakaw na Sandali" and make good memories to remember by. Always living and enjoying the moment, na sa pag uwi sa respective families namin ay may ngiti sa aming mukha pag naalala ang naganap. Alam namin may mali pero, tao lang kami na nag hahanap ng ligaya na kami lang ang nagpupuno sa bawat isa. Even though we know it will not last, at least we have experienced happiness. Happiness naman ang usually hanap ng bawat isa di ba... 1 Quote Link to comment
bumblezoid Posted August 17, 2018 Share Posted August 17, 2018 try to avoid this...ikaw ang talo in the end...never forget you deserve better Quote Link to comment
boydapa974 Posted August 23, 2018 Share Posted August 23, 2018 minsan napapasubo ka kong palay na lumalapit sa manok Quote Link to comment
Kraken143 Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 Mahirap magmahal ng syota ng iba. Quote Link to comment
KonserbatibongBata Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 Falling in love with someone you cannot. Parang ang labo, let me explain. Love for me is a word that I do not use lightly. So when I say "Love kita" it goes a long way. Few questions that goes by with this is, Bakit Cannot? Kasi may anak na? may pamilya na? Kasi meron bf? kasi meron akong gf? kasi ano? Regardless of the reason, If I know Love ko di ko papakawalan basta. Borderline pagiging martyr-tanga. For me, if you love someone, i mean you truly love someone you just don't say hindi pwede, kasi if you do, you really dont love that someone para hindi mo ipaglaban. Kapit lang bes. LOL Quote Link to comment
纳塔莉 Posted September 12, 2018 Share Posted September 12, 2018 Falling inlove with someone when you cannot In my experience sa industriya ng spa di mo maiiwasan na makaencounter or makakilala ng taong makakasundo mo yung comportable ka sakanya ("kahit magututan pa kayo sa harap ng isat isa") pero siyempre hindi ka pwepwede mainlove kasi nga taken na siya di lang taken "getting married with a kids na" Oo andun kana masaya ka kapag magkasama kayong dalawa punta roon punta rito, gala doon gala dito. Pero sa loob ng kasiyahan na yun siyempre may kalungkutan parin. Yung bang mapapaisip ka nalang bigla na "why, bakit ko ginagawa ito, na alam kong bawal at masama na dahil di na siya free" pag naiisip ko yun nalulungkot ako bakit sa kinarami raming tao na mafafall ka sa taong pamilyado pa May mga times na kapag lumalabas kayo hinihiling mo na sana wala ng uwian huminto nalang yung iras o kaya bagalan nalang ang pagtakbo ng oras ng magkasama kayo kasi ayaw mo ng umuwi gusto mo magkasama lang kayo for the whole time. Pero hindi nga pala pwede, at impossibleng maging pwede Mahirap yung bang nagkikita kayo ng patago tapos pag kailangan mo siya di siya pwepwede dahil di siya agad agad makakapunta, yun bang hiram lang yung mga oras na magkasama kayo mahirap humingi ng time saknya kasi pamilyado na siyang tao Masakit na mahirap pero anong magagawa mo dun ka masaya eh sabi nga nila "kung san ka pa masaya, dun kapa nasasaktan ng malala" Iisipin mo nalang na hindi naman pang habang buhay na kayo kasi hindi ka naman yung nauna.. Hayss bakit sa dinami dami ng makikilala at ibibigay sayo un pang magiging isang balakit sa buhay mo.. Quote Link to comment
dslam Posted September 13, 2018 Share Posted September 13, 2018 Falling inlove with someone when you cannotIn my experience sa industriya ng spa di mo maiiwasan na makaencounter or makakilala ng taong makakasundo mo yung comportable ka sakanya ("kahit magututan pa kayo sa harap ng isat isa") pero siyempre hindi ka pwepwede mainlove kasi nga taken na siya di lang taken "getting married with a kids na" Oo andun kana masaya ka kapag magkasama kayong dalawa punta roon punta rito, gala doon gala dito. Pero sa loob ng kasiyahan na yun siyempre may kalungkutan parin. Yung bang mapapaisip ka nalang bigla na "why, bakit ko ginagawa ito, na alam kong bawal at masama na dahil di na siya free" pag naiisip ko yun nalulungkot ako bakit sa kinarami raming tao na mafafall ka sa taong pamilyado pa May mga times na kapag lumalabas kayo hinihiling mo na sana wala ng uwian huminto nalang yung iras o kaya bagalan nalang ang pagtakbo ng oras ng magkasama kayo kasi ayaw mo ng umuwi gusto mo magkasama lang kayo for the whole time. Pero hindi nga pala pwede, at impossibleng maging pwede Mahirap yung bang nagkikita kayo ng patago tapos pag kailangan mo siya di siya pwepwede dahil di siya agad agad makakapunta, yun bang hiram lang yung mga oras na magkasama kayo mahirap humingi ng time saknya kasi pamilyado na siyang tao Masakit na mahirap pero anong magagawa mo dun ka masaya eh sabi nga nila "kung san ka pa masaya, dun kapa nasasaktan ng malala" Iisipin mo nalang na hindi naman pang habang buhay na kayo kasi hindi ka naman yung nauna.. Hayss bakit sa dinami dami ng makikilala at ibibigay sayo un pang magiging isang balakit sa buhay mo..hello madam, mahirap nga yan kasi may asawa, may anak ibig sabihin may masisira ka na pamilya kaya ang tanging solusyon na lang dyan e humanap ng iba kasi hindi na talaga pwede. Minsan talaga masasabi mo na life is unfair pero ganun talaga we have to move on. Madami pa naman dyan. Basta hanapin mo lang yung lalaking tapat, di ka iiwan, tanggap ka kung anong trabaho mo at iyong nakaraan at mahal na mahal ka. Once you found that man wag mo na pakawalan once in a lifetime lang yan. Quote Link to comment
3mpathicMan Posted September 13, 2018 Share Posted September 13, 2018 (edited) hello madam, mahirap nga yan kasi may asawa, may anak ibig sabihin may masisira ka na pamilya kaya ang tanging solusyon na lang dyan e humanap ng iba kasi hindi na talaga pwede. Minsan talaga masasabi mo na life is unfair pero ganun talaga we have to move on. Madami pa naman dyan. Basta hanapin mo lang yung lalaking tapat, di ka iiwan, tanggap ka kung anong trabaho mo at iyong nakaraan at mahal na mahal ka. Once you found that man wag mo na pakawalan once in a lifetime lang yan.Hayy. Kahirap tlga buhay minsan. Edited September 13, 2018 by 3mpathicMan Quote Link to comment
10speed Posted September 14, 2018 Share Posted September 14, 2018 hello madam, mahirap nga yan kasi may asawa, may anak ibig sabihin may masisira ka na pamilya kaya ang tanging solusyon na lang dyan e humanap ng iba kasi hindi na talaga pwede. Minsan talaga masasabi mo na life is unfair pero ganun talaga we have to move on. Madami pa naman dyan. Basta hanapin mo lang yung lalaking tapat, di ka iiwan, tanggap ka kung anong trabaho mo at iyong nakaraan at mahal na mahal ka. Once you found that man wag mo na pakawalan once in a lifetime lang yan. Ako na yan eh... Kaso dalawa pala kami halos pareho lang. Pero ako hiwalay sa asawa at walang anak, yung isa e hiwalay sa asawa pero may mga anak na. Malas ko lang kasi hindi ako ang pinili ni thera medyo malabo lang kasi pinapa-stay pa rin niya ako. Kaya ang gulo... Quote Link to comment
Ragingbull3000 Posted October 25, 2018 Share Posted October 25, 2018 Its sad to belong to sum1 else when the ryt one comes along...... Quote Link to comment
maam019 Posted October 25, 2018 Share Posted October 25, 2018 Pag toxic na ba, kelangan bumitaw na? Quote Link to comment
BeMis Posted October 25, 2018 Share Posted October 25, 2018 minsan gusto lang natin subukan, minsan akala kayang dalhin ang sitwasyun. pero napaka hirap sa loob.. case to case din, merong marunong magdala..merong halatang apektado. mas ok sana kung indi complicated, kaso meron talagang sadyang pinagtatagpo, nagkakilala, at ngayun confused nah. Quote Link to comment
slyG28 Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 Pag toxic na ba, kelangan bumitaw na?well, preferably or should i say with common sense you should let go. however this is just my opinion. whatever floats your boat...or if it still makes you happy despite the toxicity, it's up to you on how long you should keep holding on. just know your limits. Quote Link to comment
maam019 Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 well, preferably or should i say with common sense you should let go. however this is just my opinion. whatever floats your boat...or if it still makes you happy despite the toxicity, it's up to you on how long you should keep holding on. just know your limits.Well said, I have the same opinion. Quote Link to comment
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