nohankypanky Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 some say that "masochists" labour in pleasure by staying with the one they love despite the definitive, obvious reasons that the person they are into blatantly hurts them. that's where they get the thrill. they love it more. now going to the question how to stay away from the one you love...my answer is: YOU DON'T STAY AWAY. you carry on. that is, if you can tolerate ALL THE MISTAKES and just exhaust yourself of the pain while mixing the pleasure of lets say, WRONG LOVE and all that sh!t, until you wake up that the love you're feeling is GONE, therefore, you're free to say: IT'S DONE. life's short so do whatever you please. love until you can't love no more. no one's stopping you! nothing's taboo come to think of it, it's the people who set those things that are NOW TABOO. Quote Link to comment
pixel888 Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 remind ourselves we are both married to other persons and with kids. Quote Link to comment
DanLloyd Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 HOW WOULD YOU STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH? IF... ...YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED ... YOU HAVE KIDS ... AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER ... AND SHE/HE IS YOUR FRIEND'S BF/GF ... AND SHE/HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH Love is not that selfish...for her I will keep the memories we've shared in the past and accept the fact that no matter how much we love each other fate did'nt coincide with what we feel. Thats life...We gain some, we lose some. :mtc: Quote Link to comment
cHinitababe86 Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 pag sobrang nagmamahal kana pero nasasakal ka naman. :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
silentkilla Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Do something productive or mag-OT ng madalas sa work Quote Link to comment
Guest biancaanne Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Answer this question truthfully, first: Do you really want to stay away from him/her in the first place? The next steps will come naturally. "Kung gusto, may paraan. Pag ayaw, maraming dahilan." Quote Link to comment
ChickBenetto Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Turn 180 degrees and move forward. It'll take you around the world to cross paths again. Quote Link to comment
candice bergen Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 HOW WOULD YOU STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH? IF... ...YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED ... YOU HAVE KIDS ... AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER ... AND SHE/HE IS YOUR FRIEND'S BF/GF ... AND SHE/HE LOVES YOU SO MUCHbuti ka pa me pelikula hayyyy.... Quote Link to comment
candice bergen Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Love is not that selfish...for her I will keep the memories we've shared in the past and accept the fact that no matter how much we love each other fate did'nt coincide with what we feel. Thats life...We gain some, we lose some. :mtc:hayyy buti ka pa romantic... Quote Link to comment
malambingdxb1 Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 i need to be alone..ikaw na lang kaya manligaw...nakakapagod na kasi eh Quote Link to comment
mang_bibiyak Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 We started as the very best of friends, we ended friendship in a very sad way. Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted April 26, 2009 Share Posted April 26, 2009 you always can. if you want to.so no regrets, no second thoughts, no half-hearted decisions, no ifs and buts. just do what you have to do. time will pass, anyway. Quote Link to comment
amflitz Posted April 28, 2009 Share Posted April 28, 2009 How can i move on if she's texting me almost everyday? i can't ignore her text cause maybe Im waiting for something to happen.. This is the story. I have a girlfriend now for 7 years and turn to be my fiancee, because next month is our wedding.. our 7 years relationship is pretty much ok and i can say that she's the only woman i want for the rest of my life, BUT until last year sept. yung classmate ko nung highschool nakita ako sa isang Friend connecting website. almost 8 years kameng ndi nagkita, muntik nang maging kame nung highschool but nagtransfer siya ng school so ndi natuloy. tapos last year sept. may communication ulet kame. she's in canada and im in dubai that time. so madalas magkachat kame, tapos ngayon april-may andito kame sa pinas ngayon, nagsabay kame ng uwi. But before we came back here in philippines we had an agreement to see each other again. because we think it was our last chance. So the night came. nag meet kame after ng wedding ng cousin niya, and then we ended up on a hotel. and ayun may ngyari samin, ooops. ndi ko pala na mention na we both have partners, she has a boyfriend and i had a girlfriend too. we know both out situations, and ndi kame pwdeng maging kame dahil MALI. sabi nga niya "all was wrong timing". Kala ko un na ang huli naming pagkikita, then she texted me na magmeet kame sa timog, hindi ko maintindihan sarili ko na kahit anong iwas ko eh hindi ko magawa,Mahal ko sila parehas ng girlfriend ko pero mas mahal ko syempre yung magiging wife ko.. so i decided that night na sabihin na sa kanya na ikakasal na ko next month. nung nagkita na kame sa timog nagusap kame sa loob ng car, sinabi ko na talaga sa kanya yung mangyayari next month. after i said these words "ikakasal na ko next month" tears suddenly flow in her cheeks. so naiyak na rin ako kase ayokong makita siyang ganun. she's special too me.very special. and after that naghiwalay na kame. Kala ko hindi na siya magtetext or magpaparamdam kase ikakasal na ko.. but she's still texting me up to now. gusto niyang makipagmeet ulet sakin, gusto niya ulet may mangyari samin. ang kinakatakot ko lang eh baka mamya iframe up niya ko. sasabihin niyang buntis siya tapos ako ituturo niya..minsan kase sinabi niya na sakin na gusto na niya magkababy. hay.. Help naman guys.. what should i do?? Quote Link to comment
Niru Posted April 28, 2009 Share Posted April 28, 2009 (edited) hey there..... hahahaha a heed of advice friend ...... blessings can be a curse..... harharharhar! okay let me put my feet on yours ....hmm... what will i do???....what to do!!! :boo: im getting married next month...better stay with your wife-to-be, dont make any stupid decission there friend... what are you feeling right now is just new to you....get it... "NEW".... like more of a temptation... STICK TO WHAT YOU HAVE DECIDED.....whats happenning to you right now is a major turning point in your G** D*** LIFE!!!! opps ....no offense there hehehe better meet with her just to finish it.....FINETO!!! from what you said on your previous meeting you both get carried away with emotions...tell her next time...no more emotions tell her its a decission...she must understand and you dont want to hurt her feelings in the same way.....just act both matured....all will be fine. hey you owe me a MCDONALD COMBO MEAL here.... Edited April 28, 2009 by Niru Quote Link to comment
Leyna Posted April 28, 2009 Share Posted April 28, 2009 If there's a certain guy and we obviously can't be together, either because the feeling is not mutual or due to other petty reasons. One way for me to move on is to look for signs. If I see him happy either with another girl or just plain contented with his life alone. I'll let him be. I'll walk away from him not because I am not needed anymore but because I love him too much to complicate things for him. some people would accuse me of being a coward..Me? I call it sacrifice. . . Quote Link to comment
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