Falling in Love with Someone When You Cannot...

[temari]

If you are not sure where you stand in someones life, its best to leave things behind so that if they drop you off, it will be easier to forget them. dont waste time waiting for nothing, when efforts are not recognized, its best to just give things up, youve done your part, let them do theirs...

[Diego Lo]

Hear to evil, talk no evil, see no evil! simple as that! analogy huh!

[ghost_in_you]

the answer is always clear, we just give so many justifications. how do you stay away? STAY AWAY. simple.

[callcenterexperience]

if you have kids na you should not think of yourself na.

 

you should think the future of your kids. ano na lang sasabihin ng mga kalaro nila di ba? panget naman ung marinig nila na pinaguusapan ng ibang tao na "yan ung anak nung may ibang lalake / babae ung parents eh".

[Guest Yavanna]

determination... cut all forms of communication...

 

if that is not effective...

 

find somebody else who will help you forget... not necessarily a rebound person... but someone who will take away your attention... it's not the absolute answer... but it could be a start of the process of turning away...

[lotus08]

kahit anong gawin ko ... hehehhe.. lumalabas pa rin yun emotions.. yun caring .. yun love .. kahit alam ko na may iba na sya ... and she is already happy with her new bf... hehehehhehe.. 2 months na kaming hindi nagkikita (wow )... 9 days na kaming hindi nag-uusap (wwaahhhh)... ang hirap talaga... pero little by little each time... delete ko na yun email add ko sa yahoo.... para wala na talagang communications,,,,,,, ......MOVE ON.......delete ko na lahat ng memories,pics,emails,....whaaaa... ang sakit talaga....

[HARDBODM]

How do I stay away from my feelings? I burn them in the gym, aside from bein exhausted to think of somebody else, afterwards I also look good from my workout :thumbsupsmiley:

[Leira]

u'll reach your saturation point eventually... u'd have that time when u'd say enough and that u deserve something/someone better.... just keep yourself busy and focus with the things u wana attain

[Guest jeyg]

isipin mo nalang mga ginawa niya syo.. :glare:

Edited December 23, 2007 by Seph

[barceta]

Be honest that you're leaving in order for her to move on. Be firm but loving. Of course she will cry, but be a man enough to cry also. Dont hide it. Dont pretend that man dont cry. Crying is an expression. Give her some money before you parted ways. She needs it.

Edited November 1, 2007 by barceta

[bleuxrose]

staying away? mahirap. but i guess, the real best way is to cut the communication with him...

[mwah]

staying away? mahirap. but i guess, the real best way is to cut the communication with him...

 

I have to agree with this. Cut the thread that binds you. Close the door gently and never take a peek until you're ready.

[Aquaenigma]

ignore..don't communicate

be sensitive to your conscience

 

there be a lot of times that temptation lures you to commit sin

but once you thought of the possible consequences..specially the bads ones

of karma going back at you..one way of another..

you'll have second thoughts and doubts in doing the deed

you'' feel a little ashamed of yourself

its just mind over matter

and a lot of self control

could be real hard, sad and lonely processs

but in the end, you know its worth it

coz nothing beats a having peace of mind and good sense of self-worth

(for me if you value yourself,

you wont settle to be just an option..you wont give other people reasons to mock or ruined you)

[Mobius Stripper]

Play it again, Billy ...

 

In every heart there is a room

A sanctuary safe and strong

To heal the wounds from lovers past

Until a new one comes along

 

I spoke to you in cautious tones

You answered me with no pretense

And still I feel I said too much

My silence is my self defense

 

And every time I've held a rose

It seems I only felt the thorns

And so it goes, and so it goes

And so will you soon I suppose

 

But if my silence made you leave

Then that would be my worst mistake

So I will share this room with you

And you can have this heart to break

 

And this is why my eyes are closed

It's just as well for all I've seen

And so it goes, and so it goes

And you're the only one who knows

 

So I would choose to be with you

That's if the choice were mine to make

But you can make decisions too

And you can have this heart to break

 

And so it goes, and so it goes

And you're the only one who knows.

Edited November 12, 2007 by Mobius Stripper

[yellowmoon]

hmmm.. honestly...

 

at first i dont! -- i wanted to wallow on that sad experience until i get to the point where there is nothing i wanted more... but to hate him.

After which, i cut off all the communications.