kazuki_kazama Posted July 16, 2006 Share Posted July 16, 2006 as it is...the only thing that can cancel out pure love...is hate... Quote Link to comment
imijin Posted July 17, 2006 Share Posted July 17, 2006 gather all your will not to keep in touch, not to text back, not to even look at her friendster account. Its a hard thing to do but you must.... to be free Quote Link to comment
lotus08 Posted July 18, 2006 Share Posted July 18, 2006 HOW WOULD YOU STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH? IF... ...YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED ... YOU HAVE KIDS ... AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER ... AND SHE/HE IS YOUR FRIEND'S BF/GF ... AND SHE/HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH  dont stay away , because you really cant. TIME management lang yan....... if she love you so much, she will understand ! and to add ...... WAG KA LANG PAPAHULI !!! ....hehehehehehe Quote Link to comment
_eRon_ Posted July 18, 2006 Share Posted July 18, 2006 I have a similar situation, I'm falling in love with another girl, we text each other every time, i visit her at her apartment sometimes, we're I can say somewhat close, but I have a gf & i love her very much..it just gets frustrating every time I'm with the other girl, I wish na wala akong gf ngyn kasi I can really see a stable and happy relationship with her, but at the same time, I love my gf & I don't want to hurt her, ok ang relationship namin and approved kami by both our families..any advice in resolving this problem? related siya sa tanong ng topic na 'to, kasi I try my best to stay away from the other girl but I just can't stand not texting or not being with her, parang kulang araw ko pag hindi ko siya nattext or nkkausap and ang masama dun alam ng gf ko na friends kami, frustrating no? minsan nga naloloko na ko sa kakaisip, any suggestions would be great, tnx.. Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted July 18, 2006 Share Posted July 18, 2006 I have a similar situation, I'm falling in love with another girl, we text each other every time, i visit her at her apartment sometimes, we're I can say somewhat close, but I have a gf & i love her very much..it just gets frustrating every time I'm with the other girl, I wish na wala akong gf ngyn kasi I can really see a stable and happy relationship with her, but at the same time, I love my gf & I don't want to hurt her, ok ang relationship namin and approved kami by both our families..any advice in resolving this problem? related siya sa tanong ng topic na 'to, kasi I try my best to stay away from the other girl but I just can't stand not texting or not being with her, parang kulang araw ko pag hindi ko siya nattext or nkkausap and ang masama dun alam ng gf ko na friends kami, frustrating no? minsan nga naloloko na ko sa kakaisip, any suggestions would be great, tnx..  Don't settle for the one you can live with but settle for the one you can't live without.http://www.gifszone.com/content/icon/mini_icons/mini_icon_297.gif Quote Link to comment
Shawie Posted July 18, 2006 Share Posted July 18, 2006 How bad... for her to still want you when she could have someone better than you... when she could have someone who could offer her what you can't give her truly ..... i think i know the feeling when your love can't be reciprocated... and i think what she really needs to know is that you don't have a future with her... start now. Don't give her false hopes even if she tries something stupid like killing herself. Both of you have to be strong in this situation. If you have chosen your family over her, am very very proud of you. You are a man of your words. But let her go....  know what?? i haven't exactly lost my love to my wife.... and yes you're right... i've decided to let go of her na, in favor of my family... pero getting it done is a completely different and difficult thing to do  may bf nga sya e.. mas guapo sa akin.. succesful sa career(surgeon sa 1 hospital s Oklahoma)..mabait.. at may prinsipyo... i know... kse he's my friend an'sama ko talaga 'no?Too much love will k*ll you If you can't make up your mind Torn between the lover and the love you leave behind You're headed for disaster because you never read the signs Too much love will k*ll you, every time  I'm just the shadow of the man I used to be And it seems like there's no way out of this for me I used to bring you sunshine Now all I ever do is bring you down How would it be if you were standing in my shoes Can't you see it's impossible to choose No there's no making sense of it Every way I go I have to lose  Oh too much love will k*ll you Just as sure as none at all It'll drain the power that's in you Make you plead and scream and crawl And the pain will make you crazy You're the victim of your crime Too much love will k*ll you, every time  Too much love will k*ll you It'll make your life a lie Yes too much love will k*ll you And you won't understand why You'd give your life you'd sell your soul But here it comes again Too much love will k*ll you In the end Quote Link to comment
wyette Posted July 18, 2006 Share Posted July 18, 2006 Be decisive. Be firm. Â Tame your heart. Â Â Â Â Â and i wish i could to that... Quote Link to comment
BRIGITTE Posted July 19, 2006 Share Posted July 19, 2006 The best way is to talk things out and tell him straightforward that it would be easier for you to get over him if he'd help you too by not communicating with you anymore, no his and hellos and not even a forwarding message. :thumbsdownsmiley: its definitely gonna be tough but thats the only way to get over him. but if you think that it still isn't gonna work, try this: - Get another job that would require you to travel or at least a job that's located far enough to avoid him and getting bumped at him - Get yourself a new hobby (hubby pede na rin) , at least the one that won't remind you of him - Avoid talking to your common friends, that way you won't be tempted to find out how he is - Change your mobile and residence nos. - Find someone else to love, someone you think would be more deserving of your attention and affection  - beautify yourself :cool: Quote Link to comment
Inday Posted July 19, 2006 Share Posted July 19, 2006 Kapag nahuli ka ng asawa mo na may kasamang iba, tapos nagalit, sabihin mo.. "Kita mo tong sandwich? tulad nyo iba't ibang flavor pero lahat love ko." Quote Link to comment
NIGHT GOBLIN Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 Kapag nahuli ka ng asawa mo na may kasamang iba, tapos nagalit, sabihin mo.. "Kita mo tong sandwich? tulad nyo iba't ibang flavor pero lahat love ko." Nice one. Subukan ko yan. Para di OT. Its hard to stay to someone you love so just savor while it last. Quote Link to comment
mona^kiki Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 nakakarelate me dyan, honestly npagdaanan ko n yan. what can i say?as simple as this time will come,come what may,panahon nlng po mkkpagsabi what will happen nxt, if u were meant 4 each other the better if not its ok p dn but you know what be sensitive nman, just put yourself in his/her place and i-feel mu kya pra mlaman mo ano pkramdam.and the final answer just be honest to them and to yourself.ikaw ang hari ng iyong kalooban kya dpat n ikaw lng ang mkapagppasya.ok?    ibigay mu nlng toh :flowers: :flowers: nyahhaha.. Quote Link to comment
happyfreefall19 Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 "how do you stay away from someone you love soo much?" i'm experiencing this scenario at this moment of my life... i'm not an expert on this but for me, best thing to do is to get rid of all the things that would remind you of him or her.. all the trinkets, the love letters the what-nots! if you have him or her at your friendster, myspace, ym or email, delete them.. change contact details (as per advise by BRIGITTE above). i'm not saying that you could do this overnight as i have been doing (and is still doing) this for the past 8 months... i still love her but the intensity has somewhat subsided... one more thing.. try to be happy Quote Link to comment
mz_kath Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 i just can't...i tried but i can't  (macy gary on the background)  :cry: i tried to say goodbye but i choke tried to walk away but i stumbled.... :cry: Quote Link to comment
_eRon_ Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 if only these things were so simple..timing is really everything... Quote Link to comment
silkmain21 Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 I have recently experience this kind of thing. It's really hard for me to stop cumunicating with her I just kept in mind that we are really ment for each other our paths will cross and by then we will now that what we have is the real deal and that when i know i have to take the jump for her...... Quote Link to comment
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