Boysbe Posted July 6, 2007 Share Posted July 6, 2007 You just have to turn away and find other ways to keep you busy, love is an addiction, so deal with it as an addiction. If your too much hooked, its hard to break that habit. All you need to do is "Have a little faith.", its all for the better. Quote Link to comment
eternal070 Posted July 29, 2007 Share Posted July 29, 2007 ....if i really do have to stay awa for one reason or another...for starters, physical distancing is a good way to start. erase the cellphone number. refuse calls...those things. as they say, out of sight, out of mind. then the hard part is in your heart and in your mind. it takes time, be patient, move on...by either dating other people or focusing on other things like work, family and friends. time is all we need...... Quote Link to comment
Guest saintwitch Posted July 29, 2007 Share Posted July 29, 2007 how do you stay away from someone you love so much if..... he's your friend and he didn't want to stay away from you Quote Link to comment
temari Posted July 31, 2007 Share Posted July 31, 2007 sometimes...there would come a time when we have to stop loving someone, why?not because we start hating the person or they stated hating us...but because we run out of reasons to fight for what we feel..:cry: Quote Link to comment
Nighty_Knight Posted July 31, 2007 Share Posted July 31, 2007 napakahirap naman ng ganito. ako siguro di ko alam kung pano gagawin ko. pero kung pamilyado kang tao at mas mahal mo pa rin ang pamilya mo, dapat ay lumayo na lang kayo. kung magpakamatay man sya, this is no longer your fault. wag mong sisisihin ang sarili mo. this is her choice. Quote Link to comment
astig_supah_ganda Posted August 1, 2007 Share Posted August 1, 2007 if i need to.. like wala na kaming time para makapag explore pa..and we need to go in different ways.. Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted August 1, 2007 Share Posted August 1, 2007 sometimes...there would come a time when we have to stop loving someone, why?not because we start hating the person or they stated hating us...but because we run out of reasons to fight for what we feel..:cry:Â liked this. so true. Quote Link to comment
xxTROYxx Posted August 1, 2007 Share Posted August 1, 2007 never been easy but there's no reason why you should not... Quote Link to comment
RandallPrime Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 sometimes...there would come a time when we have to stop loving someone, why?not because we start hating the person or they stated hating us...but because we run out of reasons to fight for what we feel..:cry: OUCH! so true though... ...and such a sad realization. Quote Link to comment
saleisha Posted August 11, 2007 Share Posted August 11, 2007 di ko alam!!! di ko rin magawa e! Quote Link to comment
skibeth Posted August 11, 2007 Share Posted August 11, 2007 how to stay away from the person you love?... if he became your friend and you don't want anything more than that because you don't lose your closeness as friends... it's too valuable to lose right? and if both of you has no reason to stay together anymore.... Quote Link to comment
temari Posted August 11, 2007 Share Posted August 11, 2007 even we did our best and still they dont recognize us...:cry: Quote Link to comment
kHaY3g4Rci4 Posted August 11, 2007 Share Posted August 11, 2007 kapag hindi mo na kaya pa ang sakit!! kapag kahit pa ano ang gawin niyong dalawa, you just both know na wala ng patutunguhan pa ang relationship niyo... kapag tipong kahit na masaya kau, pero alam mo sa loob mo na parang multong bumabalik sa puso at isipan mo ang mga nakaraang nangyari sa inyong dalawa... tipong nasasakal ka na kahit alam mong mahal mo pa siya, kailangan mo ring malamang... may sarili ka rin buhay and u also deserve to be happy and be loved FAIR enough! Quote Link to comment
temari Posted August 12, 2007 Share Posted August 12, 2007 coz i dont know what else i need to do.... :cry: Quote Link to comment
temari Posted August 17, 2007 Share Posted August 17, 2007 hay...if he cant tell you anything about him and if you have some hints na married na sya...:cry: Quote Link to comment
temari Posted August 19, 2007 Share Posted August 19, 2007 If you are not sure where you stand in someones life, its best to leave things behind so that if they drop you off, it will be easier to forget them. dont waste time waiting for nothing, when efforts are not recognized, its best to just give things up, youve done your part, let them do theirs... Quote Link to comment
Diego Lo Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 Hear to evil, talk no evil, see no evil! simple as that! analogy huh! Quote Link to comment
ghost_in_you Posted October 26, 2007 Share Posted October 26, 2007 the answer is always clear, we just give so many justifications. how do you stay away? STAY AWAY. simple. Quote Link to comment
callcenterexperience Posted October 26, 2007 Share Posted October 26, 2007 if you have kids na you should not think of yourself na. you should think the future of your kids. ano na lang sasabihin ng mga kalaro nila di ba? panget naman ung marinig nila na pinaguusapan ng ibang tao na "yan ung anak nung may ibang lalake / babae ung parents eh". Quote Link to comment
Guest Yavanna Posted October 31, 2007 Share Posted October 31, 2007 determination... cut all forms of communication... if that is not effective... find somebody else who will help you forget... not necessarily a rebound person... but someone who will take away your attention... it's not the absolute answer... but it could be a start of the process of turning away... Quote Link to comment
lotus08 Posted November 1, 2007 Share Posted November 1, 2007 kahit anong gawin ko ... hehehhe.. lumalabas pa rin yun emotions.. yun caring .. yun love .. kahit alam ko na may iba na sya ... and she is already happy with her new bf... hehehehhehe.. 2 months na kaming hindi nagkikita (wow )... 9 days na kaming hindi nag-uusap (wwaahhhh)... ang hirap talaga... pero little by little each time... delete ko na yun email add ko sa yahoo.... para wala na talagang communications,,,,,,, ......MOVE ON.......delete ko na lahat ng memories,pics,emails,....whaaaa... ang sakit talaga.... Quote Link to comment
HARDBODM Posted November 1, 2007 Share Posted November 1, 2007 How do I stay away from my feelings? I burn them in the gym, aside from bein exhausted to think of somebody else, afterwards I also look good from my workout :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
Leira Posted November 1, 2007 Share Posted November 1, 2007 u'll reach your saturation point eventually... u'd have that time when u'd say enough and that u deserve something/someone better.... just keep yourself busy and focus with the things u wana attain Quote Link to comment
Guest jeyg Posted November 1, 2007 Share Posted November 1, 2007 (edited) isipin mo nalang mga ginawa niya syo.. :glare: Edited December 23, 2007 by Seph Quote Link to comment
barceta Posted November 1, 2007 Share Posted November 1, 2007 (edited) Be honest that you're leaving in order for her to move on. Be firm but loving. Of course she will cry, but be a man enough to cry also. Dont hide it. Dont pretend that man dont cry. Crying is an expression. Give her some money before you parted ways. She needs it. Edited November 1, 2007 by barceta Quote Link to comment
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