How Important Is The Sexual History Of Your Partner?

[happycore]

not that important to me. kasi sa tingen ko nagmahal lang sya at binigay nya lahat.

[j]

For me, how many sexual partner is irelevent, BASTA, lahat ng qualities na hanap ko sa kanya bilang partner e asa kanya. (Cyempre given na ung dapat wala syang sakit, or basta na gamot na).

Tama unh post ni sir j.. pag escort service ba sya deal breaker na para syo. I mean pano kung masaya kyo everyday, ma alaga cya. Lahat lahat ng hinahanap mo asa kanya. Nga lang naging escort service sya. Would you give up all of that?

Again sabi nga ni sir j, kung oo, e choice mo un. No judgement here. Kasi ako personnaly, like shallow hal, if I am happy, and I think she is perfect, as long as she is loyal to me e ayus na un, I dont need to know.

yun lang...

 

di ko ma-imagine kung paano ka mag shallow hal sa spa.

 

sobrang saksakan ng laki na thera na kamukha ni gwyneth?

[kira21]

There is a saying: yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the present.

[j]

tungkol ba sa history ang shallow hal? di ba about physical appearance yun?

[kira21]

TRUE LOVE, always forgives and forgets No MATTER how deep or dark her past is as long as she is a change person now and LOVES you as well...

[Kingkongphils]

Ang shallow hal if you analyze its meaning is about how you look at things, how you look at the imperfection of others. Hindi ba ang symbolism ng movie e two panget guys who are looking for the most beautiful girls.. if you put it here.. here we are guys, in a sort of immoral website, we go to spas, we go to mps, we sex EB, and here we are judging a girl or a partner who has a lot of sexual partners.. shallow hal is about looking at whats really inside a person. Not the outside or what is seen in the eye.. thus the title SHALLOW which means mababaw. Judgemental... if you dont understand that symbolism I dont think you are capable of understanding a lot of people here, specially persons who share their REAL experience..

[ChinitoSan]

Not really unless she got std from her Sexual history

[j]

Ang shallow hal if you analyze its meaning is about how you look at things, how you look at the imperfection of others. Hindi ba ang symbolism ng movie e two panget guys who are looking for the most beautiful girls.. if you put it here.. here we are guys, in a sort of immoral website, we go to spas, we go to mps, we sex EB, and here we are judging a girl or a partner who has a lot of sexual partners.. shallow hal is about looking at whats really inside a person. Not the outside or what is seen in the eye.. thus the title SHALLOW which means mababaw. Judgemental... if you dont understand that symbolism I dont think you are capable of understanding a lot of people here, specially persons who share their REAL experience..

i guess this shows why negative agad ang tingin sa question ko.

 

pagsinabi history, inisip agad dami ng partner.

 

puwede naman konti o wala.

 

siguro may connection sa sine na iyon. pero mga connection na ganun nasa nagbibigay ng interpretasyon.

 

puwede naman tungkol sa paghusga yun tanong. pero puwede rin naman tungkol sa ibang bagay. tulad ng paano gumawa ng decision ang isang tao. anu-ano ang mga bagay na tinitignan niya para umabot sa sagot niya. kung ano yun importante sa kanya.

 

mababaw ba o shallow yun gamitin ang isang aspeto para gumawa ng desisyon?

 

magandang topic siguro yan para sa ibang thread.

[Kingkongphils]

Tama ka na hindi nmn masama ang mamili, e kung sa ayaw mo ng ganun bakita nga ba nmn, e ikaw nmn ang makikisama dun. Kaya dapat mamili ka.

 

I think one thing becomes shallow when you look for things that you yourself is not. You want a pretty girl, pro kartada 2 ka naman. Gusto mo ng mayaman, e ikaw nan ayaw mong mag batak ng buto.

 

Kaya nga I placed the symbolism here. The question was how important is your partners sexual history. I mean we all here are horny people. We are not a member here because of the news, or the articles. We are a memeber here mainly because malibog tyo, and libog equates to sex. Almost all the guys here either goes to spa, mp, sex eye ball, sex chat, swingers. So for a person in this very room to be bothered by their partners sexual history weathet it be one only or hundreds, is for me shallow. Why? You stick your penis to girls you dony even know that well, and you read FRs on who does this to a client, and you want to know partners sexual history.

 

Take an example, one guy, here, nalibugan, sees an FR for a spa or mp, goes there have sex go home. Her girlfriend feels libog calls a friend kasi wala c bf, have sex goes home. What is the difference?

 

Siguro kung hindi ka memeber dito at member ka ng Singles for Christ o Couples for Christ or you havent set foot to any spas or mps, or havent had sex outside marriage siguro you are not shallow kasi you only want your partner to be as pure as you.

[ryokan21]

Not really a deal breaker, since it will only add up to what you know about him/her, but if you love your partner it shouldn't be a problem...

The only problem is if you couldn't accept their past, simply means you do not LOVE them for real... True Love will not shy away to any impurities or imperfection, for such are what makes the one you love "PERFECT" in your eye's...

This is where the phrase: "Beauty lies on the beholder..." may also come into play, if you love someone everything else is just icing on the cake (whether it tastes good or bad...)

Just my 2 cents...

[t3sla]

Not really a deal breaker, since it will only add up to what you know about him/her, but if you love your partner it shouldn't be a problem...

 

The only problem is if you couldn't accept their past, simply means you do not LOVE them for real... True Love will not shy away to any impurities or imperfection, for such are what makes the one you love "PERFECT" in your eye's...

 

This is where the phrase: "Beauty lies on the beholder..." may also come into play, if you love someone everything else is just icing on the cake (whether it tastes good or bad...)

 

Just my 2 cents...

 

Good insight.

[miaka21]

for the peace of mind..

[j]

for the peace of mind..

maganda talaga yun straight to the point...

pero are you saying it's important or not important?

kasi kung disclosed, may peace of mind

pero pag ignored, may peace of mind din di ba?

[jgc813]

If you love someone, the past does not matter... Easier said.

 

Ano ba itong love na ito? It seems like it is something so easy. Romance? Kilig? Sa sine lang mga yan.

 

I think we all agree that love entails a decision. It may start with feelings, but it will always end up with rationality, and a decision. No one can decide without knowing. Kaya, how important is knowing the past of your partner? The knowing is important, because you cannot accept anything you do not know. You cannot decide on anything without prior knowledge of the good or bad, the advantages and disadvantages, the projected scenarios, your options, etc., etc.

 

In short: you cannot love what you do not know.

 

Is knowing the sexual history of your partner important? It's part of the knowing. You cannot just know the name, age, birthday, likes and dislikes of your partner-to-be. You have to know him/her to the full, as much as possible. Only then can you make a decision to accept or not to accept. That's the only time you can say, "despite one's past, I chose to love/accept him/her."

 

Di ba?

[Kingkongphils]

I think a lot of the people here are given on the knowing part. Kaya nga some say okey lng basta wala syang sakit. I think its the importance part nagkakatalo. Gaya nga ng sabi pwedeng isa lang ang naging partner pro sino un ang what bothered you, or dahil madami b kya ka na bother. Kya nga tinanong ni master j, kung mababaw b kung gagamitin mong sukatan ang isang bagay sa pag pili. In this case e ang sexual history. Kaya naitanong nga dn kung deal breaker ba kpg dating escort service?

 

Siguro ang magandang tanong para sa akin, dahil I have established na para sa akin okey lang kahit sino at kahit gaano karami ang naging sexual partner mo. (Basta walang std o nagkaroon man pero nagamot at minor lang) e okey lang sa akin. Basta masya ako sa kanya at nasakanya lahat ng hinahanap ko.

 

Ang tanong siguro ay what is it in your partners sexual history that will be a deal breaker? Kung ano ung malaman mo? Kung dati cyang escort service? Wala break na. Kung hindi sya escort service madami lang naging bf kaya umabot ng 20 ang naging partner? Kung malibog lang talaga at makati kya kung sino sino timitira dati? Isa lang naging sex partner pero tatay mo pla, or kapatid mo or best friend mo. Or ni rape cya ng tatay nya.

 

Sa akin kasi malibog tyo dito and I had sex with girls I barely know, so I dont think for me to demand that my partner did not have sex, or dapat isa lang or 2 lang e unfair naman. Plus if we are together, I dont think I can promise I wont sleep with anyone else. Although I can promise I have protected sex all the time. Pro cyempre, iba dn ang infidelity issue.