What R U Going To Do Kung May Nanliligaw Sa Gf Mo?

[jampark72]

Kahit anong taray ng GF mo, kung open pa rin sya to other suitors wala ka magagawa. In my opinion, konti lang magagawa ng bf dito. Its all up to the gf kung papatulan nya ang nanliligaw sa kanya. Kung pinatulan pa niya, then hindi talaga siya loyal sa yo. What more kung mag asawa na kayo?

 

tama ka. kahit anong gawin mo kung gusto nya ba wala kang magagawa.

[bher2]

ok lang naman na magpaligaw sya sa iba eh, sya rin naman ang mahihirapan pag pumasok sya sa alanganin..

[Simikiel]

since lahat ng naging gf ko eh magaganda, natural lang na marami pang manliligaw sa kanya, parang nakakapag isip pa nga kung wala ng nanliligaw eh. so what am i gonna do about it? aba, i have to be careful, dami kalaban eh. no problem kung nagpapaligaw lang, wag lang sasamang makipagdate sa nanliligaw sa kanya, away na yun.

[arbs]

dapat galingan nya para matalo nya ako

[BallBreaker]

putol yuyuy daw... tsaka papatira sa mga momoys nya.

 

had this suitor who came back from the States not knowing that I am committed already until I told him. When he found out, that didn't stop him from trying to compete for something he thought was "rightfully his" (which includes trying to brainwash our entire household and the pabongga effects). When my diplomatic attempts to leave me alone didn't work, BF took the next step. One text message from BF to suitor and we never heard from him again. There are other stories too like one that was blown out of proportion when the guy told everybody I know that BF had beaten him up for 3 straight hours and involved threats and stuff... He can do that if he wants to, I know, but we know too when to pick our battles. The issue was so catastrophic we're still laughing about it to this day.

 

He also knows I can't lie to him and I can't hide anything from him vice versa. I am more friendly with the guys so at times it can become a problem when some would get the notion that I am open to courtship when I really am not. Our deal when such thing happens is that we talk bout it to make sure that there's no attraction on my part, then, I make the first attempt to make them stop (which is, most of the time, humane and gentle). If that doesn't work, he takes the reins. He does it funny... diplomatic with a twist. Besides, seeing him alone is enough to make them shy away.

 

but if it's another girl who gets flirty with me, ibang usapan at ibang modus operandi na 'yun!

Edited October 18, 2008 by BallBreaker

[Justin Nicholas]

well, this happens a lot of time to my GF..

ummmm..para sakin naman e since we're just in a BF/GF relationship, wlang problema kung may mga manligaw sa kanya. e kung s habulin b naman tlga xa ng guys dahil s maganda xa at mabait. it'll be her choice kung ano gagwin niya dun s manliligaw. kasi i think it's a man's nature na manligaw diba? kya kahit anong pagpigil natin s mga kapwa nating lalake sa pagligaw s GF natin, e ung si GF lng makakapigil dun s motive nung guy. kaya kung mahal ka tlga ng GF mo, siya ang ggwa ng paraan para tumigil n ung suitor niya...

 

This is absolutely right. That's why she told me to go away, and never come back. :cry:

[jampark72]

This is absolutely right. That's why she told me to go away, and never come back. :cry:

 

I also agree. this is the right thing to do.

[hardheadeddick]

ok lan na my mgkgusto sa gf ko, pero wag nmng mnliligaw pg kame pa.nkakalalaki kasi ang dating nun sa akin e.

pg mahal k nmn ng gf mo sya na mismo iiwas, at kung makulit pa rin yung guy pagsasabihan ko at kung di p rin tumigil

hahamunin ko na lng ng ubusan ng lahi.... :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley: :evil: :evil: :angry: :D

[Eddy Syet]

First things first, my GF knows that I'm not very comfortable with the fact that she's got 1 or more avid suitors. So right off the start of the relationship, she knows that having a suitor per se is not an issue for me but going out with them is. So, I normally let my GF deal with her suitors. That's how trusting I am. I only step in when my GF asks for my help in getting rid of a particularly stubborn suitor. Don't get me wrong, this does not mean that I don't care or that it's plainly OK with me. It's just that I believe that the best person to tell my GF's suitors to get lost would be herself.

[kamote042988]

kung mahal ka talaga nang gf mo. kahit sandamakmak pa magkandarapa sa kanya. hindi ka iiwan nun, KUNG pinapakita mong mahal mo talaga sya.

[peterparker]

kung mahal ka talaga nang gf mo. kahit sandamakmak pa magkandarapa sa kanya. hindi ka iiwan nun, KUNG pinapakita mong mahal mo talaga sya.

 

 

you hit the nail right on the head bro..

 

if a guy and a gal are in a solid and loving relationship, i think kahit sino o kahit ilan pa manligaw sa girl, d niya iiwanan yung guy..

 

 

 

 

:mtc:

[don_miguel_arkanghel]

you hit the nail right on the head bro..

 

if a guy and a gal are in a solid and loving relationship, i think kahit sino o kahit ilan pa manligaw sa girl, d niya iiwanan yung guy..

 

 

 

 

:mtc:

 

at least marami pa rin pala tayong ganun magtiwala sa gf ntin. :cool:

[einnad]

the best things in life is when someone you choose is also being desired

by other people. It means that you are on the right track. GF/BF relationship

is a thing that needs to be shaken, challenge, and approved. when someone

challenge the relationship and you prove to be more closer and intimate

with one another, then i can say that indeed you are for each other.

 

but if someone shakes your relationship and the foundation collupses, then

maybe, you need to check if indeed you are meant for each other. who

knows, there might be another person better in the other side of the fence.

just asking.

[shrike]

INSECURITY again kicks in ... :thumbsdownsmiley:

 

so you think you hit the jackpot and anytime soon when something better comes along you will lose your GF ?

having lots of suitors is a good sign and as long as the said suitors gives proper respect to you and your girl, why not?

may the best man win. :thumbsupsmiley:

 

mahirap yung walang basisang pagpili sa yo, dahil lang sa ikaw ang unang nakabola, bakod heneral na.

 

respect is the key.

[malambingdxb1]

ako magpapaligaw na talaga ako

pag hindi pa nya natupad na

he'll marry me.