jojo67 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 ms may i commend you in your high goals. My only comment is i have heard a lot of stories coming from theras psp that all theyre earnings goes to their families. lalo pa medyo malaki ang family say 2 parent 2 siblings etc. if this is the case sobrang mabigat dalhin lahat. Madalas pa once nagsupport na si thera/psp yung mga kapatid o parent o umalis na kapatid with anak mga pinsan mga kaibigan biglang susulpot na and lahat nganga nalang. this is typically happening to ofws as well. kawawa mga dakilang ofws pakahirap sila and padala then the kids and spouse here just throw it away o just buy things that are not necessary.Pinaka important dapat everyone in the family should contribute. magbigay ka ng pera pero wag lahat lahat saluhin mo. yung fair share lang para mapilitan ibang family members to work hard as well kumbaga dapat ma enganyo sila sa pasimula mo para pag tagal magaang ang pasan mo Quote Link to comment
royflirty Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Hindi natin liligawan ang thera, iiputan lang natin sa ulo boyfriends nila lol Quote Link to comment
JegaJega Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Hindi natin liligawan ang thera, iiputan lang natin sa ulo boyfriends nila lol Ganun ba iyon? Sino nga ba yung na-iiputan sa ulo? Sino nga ba yung natotorotot? Yung GMs or yung boyfriends ng mga Theras? Quote Link to comment
JegaJega Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 ms may i commend you in your high goals. My only comment is i have heard a lot of stories coming from theras psp that all theyre earnings goes to their families. lalo pa medyo malaki ang family say 2 parent 2 siblings etc. if this is the case sobrang mabigat dalhin lahat. Madalas pa once nagsupport na si thera/psp yung mga kapatid o parent o umalis na kapatid with anak mga pinsan mga kaibigan biglang susulpot na and lahat nganga nalang. this is typically happening to ofws as well. kawawa mga dakilang ofws pakahirap sila and padala then the kids and spouse here just throw it away o just buy things that are not necessary.Pinaka important dapat everyone in the family should contribute. magbigay ka ng pera pero wag lahat lahat saluhin mo. yung fair share lang para mapilitan ibang family members to work hard as well kumbaga dapat ma enganyo sila sa pasimula mo para pag tagal magaang ang pasan mo Almost all Theras similar yung mga kwento nila. For NONMILFs, breadwinner sila ng family nila because hindi kaya ng parents na buhayin ng maayos yung family. Kaya the Theras take the cudgels for the parents and for the family. Yung ibang Theras meron din broke family, kaya instead of their father supporting their moms and siblings, yung Theras na yung sumusuporta. Pagtinanong mo about her other siblings, sasabihin niya na meron na silang sariling pamilya and hirap din yung siblings ng Theras sa buhay. For MILFs naman, they need the funds to support their offspring, kasi walang work yung tatay ng kid nila, or worse, iniwan sila. Pagtinanong mo sila bakit hindi nila hinabol yung tatay for support, they will tell you either wala ring pera yung tatay or ayaw na nila mgapagulo pa. Kaya yung mga Theras ay mga "Bayani ng Pamilya nila". Quote Link to comment
chefcurry Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Bro wala namang problema kahit di mo ligawan ang thera mo kung parang gf naman sa loob ng cubicle . Ok na rin yun hehe.yun na nga bro eh...go with the flow na lang...di lang sa loob also outside of it...kaya talagang mafafall ka eh...hehehe 1 Quote Link to comment
AgentGibbs Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 (edited) Yes sir, I would not be good looking and "curvy" forever, thus I had to maximize what I have now to earn and save as much as I could. Yes, I could have gone the usual route, accepted the offer of the bank that hired me, get 15K monthly salary and maybe get promoted in 2 years. That would have been the more "respectable" thing to do. But everytime I go home, I would need to listen to my siblings complain about their broken shoes, having no baon for their school, my parents arguing about where to get the money to buy tomorrows groceries etc. We are not a rich family, if you guys have followed my posts, you would have known my only dream then was to treat my family to an out of town trip. Yes, it's shallow but it was something that we haven't done together until last December....Thus, I made a choice. Should I get employed in the bank but be almost powerless to help my family? Or enter a spa and give my family a good life? I chose option 2. Does that make me less of a person because I did so? Does that me unworthy to be loved by a GM? There are times I cry myself at night, thinking what have I done to myself, but remembering the smiles of my siblings as they open their toy gifts, my parents pride as I financed the repair of our home, I say to myself it was all worth it. I would make the same choice 10 out of 10 should I return in time and be faced with the same situation. Do I have an exit plan? Yes, I do. I have saved enough for me to start a small business. To GMs close to me, you have probably all heard the "eatery" I have always wanted to establish. Haha....Well, i have pampered my family quite a bit already, now its time to go to phase 2 and go into entrepreneurship. Once the flow of income is stable and I know for certain we will never again have monetary difficulties, then I shall step away and retire from being a thera....and know what, that time is not far away. I am almost at the finish line. It is not everyday that you come across with somebody who knows exactly what she wants. May, I admire your firm resolve to uplift the welfare of your family to the point of sacrificing your personal ambitions. I do hope that you accomplish your goal of saving enough to start your own business and be able to live "normally" away from the complications of this industry. I know that you are almost at the finish line, and I may not be able to meet you personally. It's definitely our loss if you decide to finally leave, but I know that deep in the hearts of your many admirers, we are all one in wishing for your success! The best of luck to you! Edited June 11, 2017 by AgentGibbs Quote Link to comment
Hugo Wilson Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 Inlove ako kaso bff lang talaga kami. Hirap mabasted . XD di pala ganun kadali mawala ang feelings . Lahat ng interest ko sa isang babae na sa kanya na kasi. Hayyyyy Quote Link to comment
callofduty003 Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 May mga theras na parang matigas na yung puso especially yung mga matatagal na sa industriya. Yan yung mga theras na nasaktan at naanakan ng mga naging bfs nila sa industriya. Kaya kung balak niyo sila ligawan at maging gf ang hirap hihi...peperahan ka lang nila tapos sabi pa nung isang nagpost iiputan ka lang ng mga gms sa ulo pag naging gf mo sila pwera na lang kung ibabahay mo hihi... Quote Link to comment
callofduty003 Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 Ganun ba iyon? Sino nga ba yung na-iiputan sa ulo? Sino nga ba yung natotorotot? Yung GMs or yung boyfriends ng mga Theras?Sino nga ba? yung bf ng mga theras siyempre hihi...kadalasan gm din naman bfs ng theras hihi...basta ako tama na yung may nakarelasyon ako na isang thera dati hihi... ayoko na maiputan sa ulo ng mga gms ahahaha...ngayon paiba iba ako ng thera ayoko magstay sa isang thera. Quote Link to comment
zhyper77 Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 Sino nga ba? yung bf ng mga theras siyempre hihi...kadalasan gm din naman bfs ng theras hihi...basta ako tama na yung may nakarelasyon ako na isang thera dati hihi... ayoko na maiputan sa ulo ng mga gms ahahaha...ngayon paiba iba ako ng thera ayoko magstay sa isang thera.tama! laro laro lang guys! pero, ika nga, who is to say you can't find something real in the illusions of the spa industry? so sa mga nagbabalak dyan, good luck sa inyo! Quote Link to comment
JegaJega Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 May mga theras na parang matigas na yung puso especially yung mga matatagal na sa industriya. Yan yung mga theras na nasaktan at naanakan ng mga naging bfs nila sa industriya. Kaya kung balak niyo sila ligawan at maging gf ang hirap hihi...peperahan ka lang nila tapos sabi pa nung isang nagpost iiputan ka lang ng mga gms sa ulo pag naging gf mo sila pwera na lang kung ibabahay mo hihi... Kahit ibabahay mo yung Thera Parekoy pwede ka pa rin ma-iputan, lalo na pag pamilyado ka at kung "tanders" ka na. Sabi nga nila, "yung ibon, kahit ginto yung bird-cage, at hindi yan masaya". Ma-uubus and ma-stress ka lang sa kaka-bantay or kaka-monitor sa Thera.Sino nga ba? yung bf ng mga theras siyempre hihi...kadalasan gm din naman bfs ng theras hihi...basta ako tama na yung may nakarelasyon ako na isang thera dati hihi... ayoko na maiputan sa ulo ng mga gms ahahaha...ngayon paiba iba ako ng thera ayoko magstay sa isang thera. Para ka palang paru-paru or butterfly, from one flower to another.......hehehehe.... 1 Quote Link to comment
callofduty003 Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 Kahit ibabahay mo yung Thera Parekoy pwede ka pa rin ma-iputan, lalo na pag pamilyado ka at kung "tanders" ka na. Sabi nga nila, "yung ibon, kahit ginto yung bird-cage, at hindi yan masaya". Ma-uubus and ma-stress ka lang sa kaka-bantay or kaka-monitor sa TheraKahit naman binata ka tapos may gf ka na thera maiiputan kp din naman. Pag pumasok na yan sa work nia anu ba ginagawa nila ng gm pwede bang nag uusap lang sila dun hihi...baka nga nag ungol ungol pa gf mo sa sarap hihi... Naexperience ko na kc yan minsan makikipagtalo kn lang kc nga dba magseselos ka nagkukuwento about sa gm na nakilala niya na super bait dw. Iyak cya ng todo sa tabi ko ayaw ako paalisin, mag abroad ako for her future naman sabi ko, puch* nung asa abroad nko ibabahay na dw cya ng gm bibigyan daw cya ng bhay kotse, ewan ko lang kung totoong binigyan cya. Sabi ko nga pipiliin mo ba yung matanda na may asawa nasa 50's kaysa sa binata 28 pa lang ako nung time na yun na mamahalin ka ng taos puso, sabi ko bobo ka minamahal kita ng buong buhay ko gusto ko maalis ka sa work na ganyan tapos ganyan lang pala gagawin mo. Iyak ng iyak cya habang kausap ko sa cellphone, pinaiyak niya din ako nung time na yun, ginawa ko sa dubai nambabae na lang din ako sa bayarang pinay hindi nagseryoso sa babae, sa ngayon nakapag pundar na ako ng bahay kotse may negosyo na din aq purified water tapos hardware. Hinahanap ko nga cya sa ngaun i hope na ok na yung buhay niya with gm. Wala pa din ako asawa sa ngayon pero may gf hindi thera. Iniisip ko kung magtatagpo pa yung landas namin. Quote Link to comment
JegaJega Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 (edited) Kahit naman binata ka tapos may gf ka na thera maiiputan kp din naman. Pag pumasok na yan sa work nia anu ba ginagawa nila ng gm pwede bang nag uusap lang sila dun hihi...baka nga nag ungol ungol pa gf mo sa sarap hihi... Naexperience ko na kc yan minsan makikipagtalo kn lang kc nga dba magseselos ka nagkukuwento about sa gm na nakilala niya na super bait dw. Iyak cya ng todo sa tabi ko ayaw ako paalisin, mag abroad ako for her future naman sabi ko, puch* nung asa abroad nko ibabahay na dw cya ng gm bibigyan daw cya ng bhay kotse, ewan ko lang kung totoong binigyan cya. Sabi ko nga pipiliin mo ba yung matanda na may asawa nasa 50's kaysa sa binata 28 pa lang ako nung time na yun na mamahalin ka ng taos puso, sabi ko bobo ka minamahal kita ng buong buhay ko gusto ko maalis ka sa work na ganyan tapos ganyan lang pala gagawin mo. Iyak ng iyak cya habang kausap ko sa cellphone, pinaiyak niya din ako nung time na yun, ginawa ko sa dubai nambabae na lang din ako sa bayarang pinay hindi nagseryoso sa babae, sa ngayon nakapag pundar na ako ng bahay kotse may negosyo na din aq purified water tapos hardware. Hinahanap ko nga cya sa ngaun i hope na ok na yung buhay niya with gm. Wala pa din ako asawa sa ngayon pero may gf hindi thera. Iniisip ko kung magtatagpo pa yung landas namin. Dumaan din ako diyan Parekoy..........mahirap nga talaga pag na in-labs ka sa Thera or sa MPA....masasaktan at masasaktan ka talaga diyan.......dagdag mo pa iya yung iyakan........ Check out yung article ni Emily A. Mercelo sa Philippine Daily Inquirer dated 11 June 2017 under "EMILY's POST", with the title "His GF has a sugar daddy". Most likely meron din yan sa "Inquirer.net". Naganda yung last 2 paragraphs ng article, to wit: ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Spare yourself the heartache and look the truth in the eye. Man up! You may love her now, and it will hurt so bad to leave her. You will grieve, you will cry, you will curse, and might even get physically sick for a time. But trust fate to heal every wound and every hurt. One day you'll meet someone who is more your size, who will be honest and who will cherish you for being you. And surprisingly, you'll simply forget the girl who broke your heart like she never happened. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- :D Edited June 12, 2017 by JegaJega Quote Link to comment
callofduty003 Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 Para ka palang paru-paru or butterfly, from one flower to another.......hehehehe.... Oo hihi ganito diskarte ko ask ko muna yung thera if may bf cya, pag meron offeran ko agad highest mileage $@* pag ayaw sa nxt nman es d#t@, kadalasan payag dyan hihi...uungol ang thera pg ginanyan hihi...at least makaka ipot din ako sa bf nila hihi...ginawa sa akin gagawin ko din sa iba parekoy hehe...pero respect pa din sa thera kung karespect respect naman, iba iba kc yung ugali ng ibang thera, meron gusto binabastos sila pse eto yung mga parang tingin ko nasaktan iniwan ng bf o naanakan parang matitigas na puso nila na kahit lambingin mo gusto banatan agad hehe... Quote Link to comment
callofduty003 Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 Dumaan din ako diyan Parekoy..........mahirap nga talaga pag na in-labs ka sa Thera or sa MPA....masasaktan at masasaktan ka talaga diyan.......dagdag mo pa iya yung iyakan........ Check out yung article ni Emily A. Mercelo sa Philippine Daily Inquirer dated 11 June 2017 under "EMILY's POST", with the title "His GF has a sugar daddy". Most likely meron din yan sa "Inquirer.net". Naganda yung last 2 paragraphs ng article, to wit: ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Spare yourself the heartache and look the truth in the eye. Man up! You may love her now, and it will hurt so bad to leave her. You will grieve, you will cry, you will curse, and might even get physically sick for a time. But trust fate to heal every wound and every hurt. One day you'll meet someone who is more your size, who will be honest and who will cherish you for being you. And surprisingly, you'll simply forget the girl who broke your heart like she never happened. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- :D Totoo yan parekoy yung puso ko parang dinudurog nung time na yun, mahal na mahal ko kasi sobra, ang dami namin memorable experience lalo na sa mga out of towns pamamasyal, sabi ko "yung plano natin sa buhay mawawala lahat ng dahil lang sa gm na yan", galit na galit ako sa kanya nun, iyak cya ng iyak para daw sa pamilya niya. Galit na galit ako pero may awa din ako nararamdaman para sa kanya. Dinaan ko na lang sa inom for 1week until makakuha ng pinay na mkakasama until makarecover hihi...pag nakita ko si thera sa ngayon yayakapin ko cya ng mahigpit na mahigpit pag nagkita kmi. She's 28 na sa ngayon kc im 35 na 7yrs gap nmin. Quote Link to comment
JegaJega Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 Oo hihi ganito diskarte ko ask ko muna yung thera if may bf cya, pag meron offeran ko agad highest mileage $@* pag ayaw sa nxt nman es d#t@, kadalasan payag dyan hihi...uungol ang thera pg ginanyan hihi...at least makaka ipot din ako sa bf nila hihi...ginawa sa akin gagawin ko din sa iba parekoy hehe...pero respect pa din sa thera kung karespect respect naman, iba iba kc yung ugali ng ibang thera, meron gusto binabastos sila pse eto yung mga parang tingin ko nasaktan iniwan ng bf o naanakan parang matitigas na puso nila na kahit lambingin mo gusto banatan agad hehe... Curous lang ako Parekoy. Ibig mong sabihin may dala ka nang cd pag pumupunta ka sa spa? May I know din (kahit e-pm mo na lang) how much yung ino-offer mo para mapa-ungol? Will 2K be enough? TIA Quote Link to comment
OMEGAnun Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 "...to earn and to save for tomorrow." Sadly, a lot of therapist has yet to develop the habit of saving. Parati kong sinasabihan mga nakikila kong theras na ang labanan pag dating sa pera ay hindi paramihan ng kita (income)...ang sukatan ng pera at paramihan ng natira sa kita (yung net or yung savings). Pag ang isang tao hindi marunong mag-ipon or save ng income, parating kakapusin yan kahit gaano pa kalaki ang kikitain or income niya. Parati siyang kulang sa budget, kahit gaano pa kalaki ang ibibigay or gaano pa karami ang kangyang sponsor GMs...kasi nga walang ipon. So if the GM would like to seriously help the therapist, he must also teach financial literacy to her. I might be mistaken, but for me, this can be the GM's best legacy to the therapist...much better than just giving her outright money. If the thera can really develop this habit of savings, she can be out of the industry sooner that later. This habit of savings takes a lot of self discipline (self control) as it is easier to spend than to save. Kudos to Ms. May, who makes it a point "...to earn and TO SAVE." Quote Link to comment
JegaJega Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 (edited) If the thera can really develop this habit of savings, she can be out of the industry sooner that later. This habit of savings takes a lot of self discipline (self control) as it is easier to spend than to save. Kudos to Ms. May, who makes it a point "...to earn and TO SAVE." Dapat, as part of its CSR, MTC should set up a Foundation to help Theras and MPAs........ :D Miss May can be one of the incorporators and the first President of the suggested foundation kasi magaling siya sumulat at meron diskarte sa buhay, pwedeng pwede siya maging guide ng mga Theras and MPAs. Edited June 12, 2017 by JegaJega Quote Link to comment
Sir Galahad® Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 There was a facebook group that former MTC members setup. It's a closed group and I don't think it is active anymore. https://www.facebook.com/groups/250795791633080/ "Tell your MPA friends about this FB group so they will not go hungry when the MPs permanently close." This was way back 2011. When MPs started to decline. Quote Link to comment
JegaJega Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 Totoo yan parekoy yung puso ko parang dinudurog nung time na yun, mahal na mahal ko kasi sobra, ang dami namin memorable experience lalo na sa mga out of towns pamamasyal, sabi ko "yung plano natin sa buhay mawawala lahat ng dahil lang sa gm na yan", galit na galit ako sa kanya nun, iyak cya ng iyak para daw sa pamilya niya. Galit na galit ako pero may awa din ako nararamdaman para sa kanya. Dinaan ko na lang sa inom for 1week until makakuha ng pinay na mkakasama until makarecover hihi...pag nakita ko si thera sa ngayon yayakapin ko cya ng mahigpit na mahigpit pag nagkita kmi. She's 28 na sa ngayon kc im 35 na 7yrs gap nmin. na-ngi-ngi-nig ka rin ba sa inis at galit noon when that heartbreak happened?........na experience ko kasi yung na-ngi-nig-nig ka na sa sobrang galit at inis....dahil while galit at inis ka, feeling helpless ka rin............... Quote Link to comment
callofduty003 Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 na-ngi-ngi-nig ka rin ba sa inis at galit noon when that heartbreak happened?........na experience ko kasi yung na-ngi-nig-nig ka na sa sobrang galit at inis....dahil while galit at inis ka, feeling helpless ka rin............... Hindi e naiinis na nagagalit lang tapos naaawa pa ako sa kanya naiyak e, nahagulgol e, kung personal kami nun baka niyakap ko lang siya, she knows naman na tahimik akong tao na sweet never ko pinagbuhatan ng kamay kahit na may pinagtatalunan kami minsan, tahimik na lang cya luluha sa tabi pag nasigawan mo, uuwi na yan sa province wala kami kibuan then 1day di magtetext nagmukmok sa province nila, tapos magtetext nxt day sweet na. Di pa kc matured pag iicip kaya nabola ng matandang gm. na-ngi-ngi-nig ka rin ba sa inis at galit noon when that heartbreak happened?........na experience ko kasi yung na-ngi-nig-nig ka na sa sobrang galit at inis....dahil while galit at inis ka, feeling helpless ka rin............... Hindi e naiinis na nagagalit lang tapos naaawa pa ako sa kanya naiyak e, nahagulgol e, kung personal kami nun baka niyakap ko lang siya, she knows naman na tahimik akong tao na sweet never ko pinagbuhatan ng kamay kahit na may pinagtatalunan kami minsan, tahimik na lang cya luluha sa tabi pag nasigawan mo, uuwi na yan sa province wala kami kibuan then 1day di magtetext nagmukmok sa province nila, tapos magtetext nxt day sweet na. Di pa kc matured pag iicip kaya nabola ng matandang gm. Quote Link to comment
bratzky1101 Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 Bro wala namang problema kahit di mo ligawan ang thera mo kung parang gf naman sa loob ng cubicle . Ok na rin yun hehe.Parang asawa Din Boss Harding pag nasa cubicle hehe...no need na ligawan bubuka na nga lang for you wahahaha Quote Link to comment
JegaJega Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 Parang asawa Din Boss Harding pag nasa cubicle hehe...no need na ligawan bubuka na nga lang for you wahahaha Ganun ba? Bubukaka na lang? Akala ko kasi most Theras are only up to "standard ES", which is HJ....mmmmmmm... Quote Link to comment
bratzky1101 Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 Ganun ba? Bubukaka na lang? Akala ko kasi most Theras are only up to "standard ES", which is HJ....mmmmmmm... Dapat MaLaki TiTip mo para bumuka Sa panahon ngayon sa SPA konti Na lang pabebe:D yung feeling Mariang Clara ang Palad haha Quote Link to comment
JegaJega Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 Dapat MaLaki TiTip mo para bumuka Sa panahon ngayon sa SPA konti Na lang pabebe:D yung feeling Mariang Clara ang Palad haha So pag nagtanong si Thera what es do you like, anu yung correct answer ni GM? Quote Link to comment
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