blow_gobi Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 she got home 3 am this morning ...no explanations!!!.....she left 7 pm the night before wearing a very sexy outfit..i dont know what the hell shes doing to me???...i dont know if this is her way of saying i dont like u anymore!!!!..is so frustrating..its so disapointing ..more than anything..it hurts so much..u dont know what the hell is going on!!!!Hmmm, seems like she'll never change. So it's a waste of time. It sucks, and it hurts so much. But it's time to let go. Better still, start looking for someone else, which I'm quite sure you're capable of. It may be hard at first, could even take years to forget at worst, but you'll eventually get over it especially if you give your heart a chance with another girl. Cheers, and best of luck... Quote Link to comment
monsty Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 I feel you chad. I'm in love with a GRO. Minsan I can't help but think if shes after my money or not. So far hindi naman cause she's refused everything I would give her unless its worthless or there's an occasion. Like her Bday. She doesn't want to leave her job cuz she doesn't want me to support her. Shes the masungit type of gro. bawal sobrang touch etc. but sometimes it still annoys me when she goes to work. Takot din ako cuz it's their job to make you fall in love and want more. Ang pinakamasakit is that shes turning out to be a better match for me than my present gf of 4 years. Quote Link to comment
cinnamon Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 Chad, kilala m k bro, were in the same type of relationship, pero satingin k mali na sobra ang ginagawa ng babae, have you tried talking with her na, yung sobrang masinsinang usapan, kailangan ninyo magclarify na kung bat siya ganyan kumilos, sobrang mali na kasi e, maybe kapag nasa same situation ako with you, di k din siya mahihiwalay pero stay strong man, and let go if yung paguusap ninyo ay nabigo, pakita mo sakanya na what she lost is really special, and if you still love her, willing to give her a last chance, take her back... bro kaya m yan lampasan!!!! Quote Link to comment
senestroring Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 chad, while you may hear tons of advice from our fellow mtc member, it is of my opinion that you will not break or will not stay out on this relationship -or maybe if you want to- you will have a very very hard time doing it. based on your story, there are many unhealthty signs such as hiding text or phone calls, no appreciation from what you are doing, sending text message intended for another guy to you (i was wondering what are the contents of these messages), no explanation for going home late. but all the while you just hang around in this relationship even though it's hurting you. you're situation has some similarities to a humor song -though not that extreme since it's supposed to be a humor song- by weird al yankovic titled "you don't love me anymore". but on that song the guy said that he has a FUNNY FEELING that the girl don't love him anymore but on your part, you were HURT MUCH by the actions of this girl. you are asking for advice but all the while you know what is your problem, since you've mentioned 'tigas tlaga ang ulo ko e..hay naku ang pagibig talaga!!!!' all the while you have chosen not to leave this relationship. if you don't want to leave her (though fellow mtc members do advised you to leave her), then you just have to LEARN TO ACCEPT THINGS the way they are and not complain, dont expect that one day she will change, because there are more probabilites that she will not change than she will change. if you are planning to end this relationship, you better do it now, because the longer you wait, the more self respect you will lose. you have 2 choices in which both will be painful, one is to continue the relationship, then suffer the unhealthy signs mentioned above (if you accepted things, suffering will lessen at the expense of your time and self respect), or the second choice, is to muster enough power to end the relationship, maybe it will painful at first, but in time, i do believe that the pain will be gone. and you will have the chance to enter in a more healthier relationship. After all, it's your choices cause you will be the one who will suffer the consequences of your actions. the choice is yours... Quote Link to comment
sedative Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 Let GO, Chad. Difficult as it may seem, but it's not worth the hurt. Quote Link to comment
manyaque Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 Chad, tell you what... let me hook you up with someone else. Just PM me. Nothing like another girl to help you forget ;D Quote Link to comment
singkit` Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 Chad how old are you? Do we need to say what to do? Quote Link to comment
hk9889 Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 (edited) . Edited August 22, 2007 by hk9889 Quote Link to comment
vincechase Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 (edited) Chad how old are you? Do we need to say what to do? Peace bro, easy bro. While I agree with you that we need not tell Chad what to do, I believe this is a support group for some people. It is certainly for me. The issue of right or wrong is actually no longer a proposition to be argued, we all know the answer. What adds spice are the complications and peculiarities. Just like expensive watches, the relationships here are subject to many complications. While some people would be content with using a Casio watch, many of us opt to use Jaeger-LeCoutres and Lange and Sohnes (that will explode in our face when the time comes). Edited June 6, 2007 by vincechase Quote Link to comment
singkit` Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 Sorry but I don't know how to tell it softly. I think the guy is no longer a kid and I am wondering what he is waiting. What is stopping him to question the actions his girl is doing. And I can't believe another guy telling him to stay. Whoah! Quote Link to comment
tsinita Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 Sorry but I don't know how to tell it softly. I think the guy is no longer a kid and I am wondering what he is waiting. What is stopping him to question the actions his girl is doing. And I can't believe another guy telling him to stay. Whoah! out of the topic.. i think you should learn not to be so rude.. the guy needs advise, and there are things easier than done.. Quote Link to comment
tsinita Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 out of the topic.. i think you should learn not to be so rude.. the guy needs advise, and there are things easier than done.. i mean easier said than done.. Quote Link to comment
monsty Posted June 7, 2007 Share Posted June 7, 2007 Chad pare my gro gf needs to work. And thats the only time she entertains other men. Sometimes i go there and table her the entire night but I can't do that every night. It hurts sometimes pero yun ang pinasok ko eh, who else is there to blame. But when I'm with her naman she always eminds me and makes me feel that I'm special to her. The rest is just work. In your case, to be brutally honest, itinataboy ka na. Set her free or accept it. If you choose to accept it, then make sure you accept it with all your heart. The slightest amount of resentment can make the relationship unhealthy and difficult for both of you Quote Link to comment
cuatro_ojos Posted June 7, 2007 Share Posted June 7, 2007 If you love something, set it free.If it comes back to you, it's yoursIf it doesn't,IT WAS NEVER MEANT TO BE. It's time to let go, Chad. Man, get a hold of yourself. Stop acting like a whimp or a doormat. If she does come back to you, that's good...but it better be on your terms, not hers. But if she doesn't come back, then it's time for you to move on. Quote Link to comment
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